The United States is Narcissistic. Here are 12 signs of a Narcissist and I contend most describe the United States perfectly.
Grandiose sense of self
Feels superior to others and believes they deserve special treatment
Often accompanied by fantasies of unlimited success, brilliance, power, beauty, or love
Excessive need for admiration
Must be the center of attention
Feels slighted, mistreated, depleted, and enraged when ignored
Often monopolizes conversations
Superficial and exploitative relationships
Bases relationships on surface attributes and not unique qualities of others
Values people only to the extent they are beneficial to themselves
Need for control
Perfectionistic
Becomes upset when things don’t go their way
Lack of empathy
Severely limited or totally lacking the ability to care about the emotional needs or experiences of others, even loved ones
Identity disturbance
Sense of self is highly superficial, extremely rigid, often fragile, and easily threatened
Self-stability depends on maintaining the view that one is exceptional
Retreats from or denies realities that challenge this view of self
Difficulty with attachment and dependency
Relies on feedback from the environment
Relationships exist only to shore up a positive self-image
Tends to avoid intimacy; interpersonal interactions are superficial
Chronic feelings of emptiness and boredom
Feels empty, bored, depressed, or restless when attention and praise are not available
Vulnerability to life transitions
Difficulty maintaining reality-based personal and professional goals over time
Feels overwhelmed by compromises required by school, jobs, and relationships
May have “failure to launch” syndrome when young
Lack of responsibility
Blames others for their faults
Deflects responsibility onto others, often with those close to them
Lack of boundaries
Beliefs others think the same as they do
Feels shocked and insulted when told no
Fear of rejection
Afraid of being wrong or seen as bad or inadequate
Does not develop trust in the love of others
A few other characteristics...
For narcissists, everything is transactional.
This doesn't exactly fit because the US has an ugly history of going back on its word, and betraying those that put trust in the relationship.
Although hinted at by your other elements, narcissists are bullies and behave in an abusive manner to everyone in their circle. Certainly the adoration of machismo in the U.S. fits.
The counterpoint to acting macho is the default position of cowardice. Bullying the weak and disenfranchised also fits well. This dovetails with the 10. Lack of responsibility and 12. Fear of rejection. As we saw with Uvalde, cowardice is abundant among the macho crowd, and fingers get pointed everywhere else.
Also on 12's Fear of Rejection, and 11's Lack of Boundaries, we can classify the disposition towards White fragility. If things don't go their way, they throw a tantrum. The reversion to childish behavior can be quite striking. Trump's tossing the fries at the kitchen wall comes to mind...
@FvckY0u The fact that you have clearance, in and of itself doesn't mean I have to agree with your point of view and in my opinion your post (not you) is Anti-American. I'm not questioning your patriotism, I just disagree with you. When you brought up your security clearance, I brought up Bradley Manning and Edward Snowden, not to compare you to them. I just wanted to make a point that having clearance and being a G-15 or whatever you are, doesn't make your post fair to the United States. It's bad enough the foreigners on this site trash America.
32 years ago or so, my mother introduced me to a book called "The Culture of Narcissism". It fits perfectly.
I read that book when it first came out and still have it on my bookshelf. I remember former prez Jimmy Carter talked about that book when it came out during his administration and praised it for its critique of America then, and all he got for it was being blasted and then getting clobbered by Reagan in the next election. Most Americans can't handle hearing hard truths, esp. about themselves and their country, even tho they know deep down that something has been very wrong for a long time.
@FvckY0u Yes, although there are a few. I dated one once Therapy has to be rigidly adhered to, and has to be ongoing. It's on a spectrum too. The more severe it is, the more they don't admit they have a problem. Sometimes it's diagnosed during marital therapy, as this guy's was. His marriage broke up anyway, and his wife also had borderline personality disorder. What a pair!