You're welcome

You're right I agree with you

I always choose optimism.... rather than "dating" put a personals ad in the DSM Register, the weekly paper, the Ankeny Shopper and Ames Tribune .... print the exact same invitation in any ad WITH a cellphone number...yours or a new number ....mention a favorite song favorite Iowa Prairie Flower and current film to see on a 1st date .... mention an age range you feel could match your culture such as 54-68 ....my dad was one day younger yet 7 years older and mom chose him at the ValAir Ballroom 1937 dancing to Benny Goodman... you are a great gentleman of admirable ethics .... SINGLETARIANs may start up again at the Atheist "church" Bell AV & Casady Drive down the hill from Fleur Drive.... go where single FREETHOUGHT liberals go and a woman will choose you Tom

The ELVIS movie might attract a Feminist Atheist romantic caller to your ad.... his song ARE YOU LONESOME TONITE or your kind of song BUT NOT hunka hunka burnin love

Come to think of it
You're in the right place
Just open your heart

@GreenAtheist I have been friends for some time with the woman who used to run the Singletarians group, before it dissolved right after my late wife died. She told me the reason it ended was because none of the single women in the church had any interest in dating anymore, at least the ones in my age group, so she said the group was almost all men and it was not worth continuing. So that church is a dead end for me on dating. The group ended five years ago. If anything has changed with the single women at the church in my age group, since the group ended, she would have told me.