I'm wondering how touchy-feel-y you are. Reserved. Germ-o-phobic.
By the way, I bathe and wear clean clothes. (That's always a factor for me when making this sort of decision).
So, I wonder, how do you greet new people?
This is in the absence of them making the first move.
It depends on the circumstances. I hug often and if I were meeting you or someone else from our group, yeah most likely there would be hugging. But sometimes I'm not feeling the hug would be accepted, so a handshake or possibly only a nod. Of course the person I'm interviewing with for a job will get a professional handshake. If I get the job maybe then they'll get that hug.
I'll just wait for cues from you. I'm not big on touching, but a handshake seems a bit formal and impersonal, so if a hug is in order it would probably be a quick (half-second) one-arm hug that is immediately deflected by awkward chitchat asking about your drive or something equally trivial.
None of the above. I wouldn't move into your space on our encounter. I would simply say (assuming the time and place was planned ahead of time), "Hello, silvereyes. Who are you -- really?"
You can't scare me, @silvereyes because I've been to Baltimore.
It was a convenient coincidence.
I am a hugger. Besides we are a family here. People I feel close to via posts and messages get big hugs
Now that I know you're a hugger, if we met I'd give you the biggest, warmest hug I have in my repertoire.
On first intro, a handshake, or side of face kiss. but after that a genuine hug.
In my opinion, unless they obviously don't want you in their space, first meetings should always be initiated with a firm handshake and maintained friendly eye contact (not glaring). Any meeting after that usually starts with one of those half shake/hugs and then goes into a full hug
Invasion Of The Body Snatchers: Donald Sutherland. I like to think I make a strong first impression.
Well, yeah. I mean, what's the point otherwise?
Are you saying that wouldn't make you feel special?...hehe
I've been told I am very special, it's true....hehe
I usually greet new people with handshake, but I'd probably give you a hug, Silvereyes, and be eixcited to meet you. I think you're a very kind, intelligent and creative person and remind me of a close friend. And yes, showers and clean clothes always help too
Well, if i meet someone from here that i have been talking to, then i half hug because weve become friends.. i would do nothing to embarrass her or my wife. If i was still working then it would be a nod of my head and a greeting smile. If she puts out a hand then i will fallow her lead on the next appropriate move.
I really thought this was a post about how we would greet each other the first time we met. A little disappointed, but I'm in the stream now so will go with the flow.
First time meeting: Probably a handshake unless they're giving off some highly receptive signals.
With that said, I've had a few uncomfortable exchanges were the other person felt the need for a hug. ()
@silvereyes I went with the one in bold print. I think you used the title just to pull people in. () It worked, but I'll be more skeptical next time.
the moment will determine next step... vibe? no vibe?
I'm a big fan of smiles, makes a person feel good all over more than anywhere else. Hugs to me are a really intimate thing, and to be shared when appropriately and mutually felt. A really good, all over feeling, that last beyond the physical act.