Shawn and I broke up.
It didn't work out. We are too much alike. He's also a nymphomaniac and I cannot handle that. He wanted sex everyday. I asked him so many times, "Are you clean?" "Yes! I donate plasma. They test me." Not for STDs they don't. I now have to go to my doctor because my symptoms fit for Chlamydia. It's curable and short term. I'm never having sex again!
I ask men to wear a condom. Their answer is; "I'm too big," or "It doesn't feel the same." They make condoms to fit big men.
I was doing so well. I see my doctor on Monday. Idk if Urgent Care will see me, or if I need to go to the Women's Clinic? I'll call the Women's clinic ar 8 am.
I learned my lesson- Stay single. I don't even count that as dating. It wasn't even a week long. May 1st was 2 years of being single for me.
My appt is today at 2:30 pm. I can switch back to Ranitdine as well, since the specialist never called me. Also, I can get my ears cleaned out, or get a referral to have them suck the earwax out. It's hard to hear.
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Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.My My Sara, I am sorry to hear that your friend Shawn has turned out to be a failure. You also seem to be having a few medical problems. I suggest you get those problems sorted out, and be a little more selective of the men you choose. there are lot's of decent men out there, wait for a nice one and slow down a bit, and i am sure your wishes will be granted. My best wishes Sara.
madmac
Level 7
May 3, 2018
0
Thanks. I'm not going to date anyone anymore.
I'm sorry that didn't work out for you, but you can always purchase your own condoms.
Wildgreens
Level 8
May 2, 2018
2
Not necessary anymore.
To those guys who say "It doesn't feel the same." your answer should be "Then, do your mommy." and to those who say "I am too big." you should retaliate with "I must be myopic". 
DUCHESSA
Level 8
May 2, 2018
3
I'm upset. It's herpes.
Damn that was fast. Sorry it didn’t work out. Always use protection no mater what. Don’t fall for our lies young guys are stupid. You have to put you well-being first.
Donto101
Level 7
May 2, 2018
1
You have to take care of yourself. No condom, no sex. I told my son to wrap it up twice. Never trust someone to take care of you. People lie all the time.
Edited to add...I'm sorry it didn't work out.
PhoebeCat
Level 7
May 2, 2018
2
I have heard it said that some people will hold your hand all the way to hell.
You really have to be careful with some people when it comes to having sex. I feel for you. HUGS
PickledRick
Level 8
May 2, 2018
1
It's herpes. I'm so upset. I'll never get to have sex again.
Breaking up with Shawn was a good decision. Bravo! I What did you learn from this experience?
"I'm never having sex again!" Hope you were kidding. This is an opportunity to develop clear boundaries:
- Insist on protecting yourself from STDs;
- Not having sex unless you consent.
- Saying "No condom, no sex " to men. Get up and walk away.
Developing clear boundaries is difficult, particularly for women. Girls and women are taught to please others.
Changing our behavior takes awareness, practice, and dealing with resistance from others and within ourselves.
LiterateHiker
Level 9
May 2, 2018
3
It's worse than Chlamydia. It's herpes. I'm never allowed sex again.
Wow, the words "sex" and "hard" were removed from my comment.
I just went back and added "sex" three times, and changed "hard" to "difficult." Do I need to write "s-x" instead?
@LiterateHiker No. It's fine.
Sarahroo29, Did he tell you he had herpes? If not, shame on him!
Don't despair. You are still YOU. You can still get married and have children. Educate yourself:
"According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, about one out of six people in the United States aged 14 to 49 have genital herpes caused by the HSV-2 infection (the herpes simplex virus often responsible for genital herpes).
"The overall genital herpes statistic is probably higher, the CDC stated, since many people are also contracting genital herpes through oral sex caused by HSV-1 (the kind of herpes usually responsible for cold sores). Taking that into account, genital herpes statistics are usually quoted at closer to 25 percent for women and 10 percent for men, but most of these people don’t even know they have it."
@LiterateHiker I don't have cold sores. He went down on me.
@Sarahroo29, Many people get genital herpes (HSV-2) from oral sex with a person who has cold sores (HSV-1).
HSV = Herpes Simplex Virus.
A good book to read is "Good News About the Bad News- Herpes: Everything You Need to Know" by Terri Warren, RN, NP.
@LiterateHiker Okay. Will I get cold sores?
You may get HSV-1 on your mouth (commonly known as "cold sores," ) if he kissed your mouth while he was having an outbreak.
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