Office boy? How old was this boy? Under 18? I'll take some heat for this but when the "victim" is a young guy, it's different. Was she a MILF? Double standard. She's a cougar.

@barjoe I didn't say he was under age but nor was he her age. More importantly, he was an employee.

@rainmanjr You equate two consenting adults in a relationship some might view as inappropriate with a grown man soliciting pornographic photos from underage boys?

@barjoe I equate sexual harassment with an employee to sexual harassment, yes.

@rainmanjr But herassmeant a lot to me.

@barjoe Whatever that means I no longer care. I think it's all the same thing. If you don't then you're merely letting Feminism decide your attitude, IMO.

@rainmanjr Quite the opposite. I think men are usually in control of a sexual relationship. He was happy with the situation, if he sued later, it was a money grab and she was likely the victim.

@barjoe I think men are in control of very little, actually. Whether he was gaining an enjoyment from the activity, or not, is immaterial to whether the "relationship" was appropriate and, therefore, moral. If it was inappropriate, as modern HR rules would tend to indicate, then he is her victim.