I feel like I'm supposed to know what wise woman said that.

I had to do just what he says many years ago. I don't miss it.

Yes! I figure I carry enough of a heavy load with my own stuff. If someone doesn't add to my life in a positive way I can't have you in it. There are people I can't get out of my life like family, so it's real important that I choose friends carefully.

A few years ago I cleaned out my FB "friends", mostly people from my school days. My thinking was, if they lived on the same street as me, would I be friends with them, no.

Excellent advice..remove toxic people..they will drain you and make you miserable..most of them don't even know or care that they are doing it...
Life is too to indulge these people..but sometimes you don't realise yourself till it's taken it's toll on you. Wise words for sure.

You mean like these Australians?

Yup, no drama momma❣
Sometimes 3 strikes & you're out or sometimes, if it's bad enough, 1 & you're done! ?