A few years ago a friend signed me up on something... I am hands on... need to meet you face to face. Is a "vibes" thing on my case... I just got used to. I answered only one person... I answered because I moved away from the location to another state. We became friends and I just was not into returning back to that city. Hate to say but similar here... I am in Maryland for a little bit and then back to Vegas... I see people I like but in different states, I can travel but I just Never been into this before so I feel incompetent. I can stick around in Maryland if it works to my advantage. Also got the Florida option but I have to make up my mind or the Right Match make my mind for me. When you are retired... you are too relax to hurry things. But if the switch lights up... I am willing to travel. Not good at this as you guys can see. Must be a 20th century bug still on me. But I am having a great time despite it all. Practically Every woman in my life since College had been met in the dance floor. So I am a Virgin Here.

this website seems like a very good website it seems like the scammers have not gotten to this website. people seem to have respect for each other on this website. I hope it will continue we are a very small part of the general population and if I get involved with another person it is important that we have the same view about religion, my ex-wife was a religious person and we did not have any common interest except for our children and when our children became adults she divorced me and went back to the church. So this time I'm searching for somebody with common interests and similar beliefs that this website offers.

7 yrs ago I met a girl on the internet much younger then myself. She lives in the Philippines. We spoke on line for 8 months at which time I decided to travel to the Philippines to meet her. We lived together in the Philippines for 2 months. Everything was great.. I was planning to bring her back to the US and started the paperwork. While going through the application it came out. She was married, separated 12 yrs earlier. I asked her if she was married before I traveled to meet her. She lied. At that moment She lost all credibility in my eyes. I ended it that day.

Some people have mis-read this site's name. It isn't Assholes.com. WQhen I grow up, I'll be a hermit. Tex

All the time. I am a trans gendered woman and just about every man who talks to me is just treating me as a personal fantasy. I am always upfront and honest about this because it is simply too dangerous not to be, but being open about it only seems to attract really gross messages and never allows sincere men to get to know me as the woman I am. It is VERY frustrating.

I’ve watched every episode of Catfish the TV show, so I have never been scammed. Though, many have tried.

You may need to beter define "love scammed" to get more responses.

I get friend requests on Facebook all the time from supposedly highly attractive women. Never met these people before. No mutual Facebook friends. These profiles smack of a scam from 10,000 miles away.

Needless to say, these overtures remain ignored and go unanswered.

I met a man on a dating site, and we really hit it off. We began seeing each other regularly and all was well. I knew he was unhappy with his then current living arrangement. After a few months We begin talking about being roommates, and decided to move in together. Immediately things changed. He began picking petty fights and told me we obviously didn't have very much in common, and said that we should just be friends. Turns out that's all that he was after was a place to live. 8 months later he still lives here, but at least he's cool and does pay rent. Why does love make us so stupid?

I am usually in open relationships. My then boyfriend was on collarme.com (a dating site for people that are into BDSM). I can't count the number of women who messaged him claiming to be submissives extolling their undying devotion to him, and then ask him for money so they can move in with him. These are women who have 1) never met him and 2) never talked to him until that message.

For myself, I have had a couple of men message me telling me that they will be in town that weekend and wanted to "hook up". Mind you, all of my dating profiles say I'm not into casual sex and that I need to get to know them first. Guess that's why I'm not on any dating sites at the moment (I don't consider this a dating site).

Years ago I was chatting with a woman online and after literally four or five days of correspondences she tells me she loves me and tells me she recorded a song for me. After I said I wanted to take things slowly, sufficiently freaked out by her sudden infatuation, she told me that she had cancer and that my rejection of her led her to undergo some procedure that caused the cancer to spread. Basically, she was lying to me trying to manipulate me, and I had to break off communication entirely. Whether she was attempting to scam me or she was just mentally unstable is unclear.

Unfortunately, no one’s tried to love-scam me since my marriage. Maybe the women on the dating sites that I virtually meet sense my romantic cynicism.

Lol well when I went through a bad breakup I was playing around with some website and this woman tried hitting on me. She went so far to try to get me to like her by trying to build up my trust and asking me for my social security number. Lol ,” I told her to get lost and that I wasn’t into women.” I’m open to hear about yours, though, too.

I mostly get ignored by women on dating sites.

Not scammed but I went out with a "single" lady once and at the end of the first date she said, "I'm leaving my husband for you". I couldn't end the date fast enough, lol.