For the first time in my life, my father said he’d pray for me. This is in relation to an injury, so I understand and appreciate the concern, but I just want to scream at him. I don’t understand how you guys have survived this long with religious family... my parents have always been religious, but always told me ”This is what we believe” and not “This is how it is,” so although I’ve always known that they prayed for me, I’ve never had to address it. I think I’m just going to ignore that text...
It seems to me that if you have always known that they pray for you, you could simply continue doing what you always did, which is to ignore it. Have you had any serious discussions with them about your non-belief? This might be a good time for that, if and only if you want to.
For clarity, I am fine with my parents and consider myself lucky. They’ve never forced religion on me. I was just expressing my frustration at this small interaction and appreciating how much more many of you have endured. As I said above, I appreciate his concern.
Just like funerals are more for those who survive than actually for the person who died, "thoughts and prayers" are more for those who are unable to actually do anything of real consequence as a way to make them feel better, even it it does nothing for the injured or sick person.
Someone on this site, I forget who, said "Thought nd prayers are like masturbation. It makes the person doing it feel better, but does absolutely nothing for the person they are thinking about."