Oh give me strength because I am about to fucking throat punch two of my aunts. They constantly bully, exclude, and talk shit on my mom and of course the petty disrespectful jabs go into full fucking effect while we are desperately trying to figure out why my grandma has suddenly started having seizures.
This drives me insane because they're completely disregarding her and calling her names and shit.
Nevermind that K owes her LIFE to my mom because like 20 years ago she tried to kill herself and would have succeeded had my mom not found her in time.
These two are just fucking awful people all the time.
My entire childhood has been in the middle of a sisters battle and constantly trying to turn me against my mom on days we don't get along well.
Fuck you you giant cow. I can complain about my mom but don't fucking talk shit on her to her fucking daughter you manipulative cunt.
I stopped loving my aunts about 10 years ago. They're terrible people.
And now my grandmas very life is held in the balance of three petty bitches. And yes that has my mom in there but it's okay because its MY MOM.
And if my grandma dies because they can't stop being utter garbage I promise you I will not be silent.
I'm disowning them both. I want nothing to do with either of them. They are just bitchy people my grandma knows from here on out.
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Feel free to reply to any comment by clicking the "Reply" button.Sorry about your Grandma. It seems that times of high stress and anxiety that goes with serious illness and other situations, bring out the worst in people, especially if they weren't the best at getting along in the first place.
If you aren't doing so already, you might consider counseling to help cope with such stuff. I came from an extremely dysfunctional family as well and wish I had done so while I was young enough for it to make a difference for me.
itsmedammit
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Jan 19, 2019
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Anyone there not being petty? I'm sorry about your Grandma. That has to be really stressful.
Maybe have them speak to a Dr with you there as well? And if need be make them focus on topic.
I sometimes wish I'd told my Mom's sisters what they were like. My Mom wasn't petty - her sister's were awful. Nice to me - but so mean to her? And she put up with it.
The year my Mom was having Chemo and had me disinvite her SIster to Christmas Eve because it would be too much for her? That's when I realized how not ok their relationship was. She thought her own sister was going to ruin her last holiday with family (turned out she had 10 more but I saw her point).
RavenCT
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Jan 18, 2019
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My mom is not petty. She wants me to keep quiet and not stir the pot. 'do you really want to stress mimi and upset her while she is going through this by making a big deal?' But the fact is my mom let's her sisters treat her like shit, turn the other cheek.
It wasn't time to talk about it when papa was sick. It wasnt time to talk about it when papa died and K took over the entire funeral and made it about herself. It wasnt time to talk about it when K told my mom she wanted nothing to do with her and that its moms fault the state sent her son to his dads when she attempted suicide, it has NEVER been the time to talk about it and I'm honestly tired of tiptoeing around Ks feelings especially now that she has aunt D as some sort of high school bully backup.
I'm SICK of biting my tongue and letting K and D treat my mom like shit.
You wanna know who is the most petty person in this family? They are gonna find out it's me. I can be a nightmare when pushed to the brink and with my terminal illness and disability and PTSD over papa and losing nearly EVERYONE in less than 3 years and now worrying about my grandma who is THE ROCK of our family they are gonna see 28 years of fucking locked up petty monster.
It is BULLSHIT. K put it in mimis head that she should go stay with mimis sister in Minnesota and go to some doctor there and we do not want that because 1) it's just because K is a terrible caregiver and we all know she just doesnt want to deal with this and 2) mimis sister is just like K. A snotty brat who guilt trips and manipulates everyone and a terrible caregiver 3) if she dies up there I'm gonna fucking lose it 4) there's THREE SPECIALISTS in our state that I keep telling them to take her to, but instead they send her to literally everyone I tell her NOT to go to and then whine about not getting answers.
This utter childish bullshit is gonna put Mimi AND me into an early grave. I'm seriously about to have an aneurysm they got my blood pressure so high.
Oh but everyone else can snap at eachother and blow up and we have to tolerate it and be understanding because they're grieving and stressed and upset
But I'm not allowed. I'm not allowed to break down and snap at anyone and scream my frustrations out on them because I have to be the better person but you know what I AM NOT A BETTER PERSON
I AM HUMAN AND I AM DYING AND IVE LOST EVERYTHING AND EVERYONE ELSE AND I MIGHT LOSE MY MIMI AND I AM GOING THROUGH ALL OF THIS IN VERY SHORT TIME I DESERVE TO SNAP AND BE HOSTILE AND SCREAM TOO
I AM NOT THE BETTER PERSON. I AM NOT THE STRONG ONE THAT EVERYONE DEMANDS I BE.
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