Well it happened today. I started corresponding with a guy on a dating site. His profile said he had no children and he didn't smoke. Found out today after a great first date he lies like a rug.
Not only did he sire 2 children (he lost his rights) he SMOKES!
Both are huge deal breakers for me and I am very forthright about it in my profile.
why lie???? it will come out at some point!!!!
Rant over.
Guys like that make it so difficult for the rest of us. Women are conditioned to think all of us are creeps.
I am optimistic until I get burned. unfortunately that has been 100% my experience dating in my 50s