Make sure you do not have underlying health problem like diabeties or a heat condition or a major clogged artery some where first. If ok then do to a specialist consult on a pump. Also consider pleasing the women and not yourself using tong, fingers, special vibrators and lots of lube so its a good expeirenace for them. Pleasuring a women will give you some euphoria from being intimate and falling asleep in the arms of a highly orgasmed women. Just because it does not do a full solute, does not mean the end of your sex life.

Sorry .. I have no knowledge of this subject but there seems to be lots of good replies here

Try adding organic Maca root powder to your regimen plus the exercise and diet management. I used a teaspoon a day for two weeks and 3 teaspoons in my drink until I ran out , and then off for two weeks then started again. Health works is the brand , helped restore my hair growth and my drive increased as well.

It certainly is not easier when you get older sometimes loosing weight and doing exercise does help a lot also

Check hormone levels testosterone

I am 73 and had the very same problem. Tried several enhancements to no avail. Started using Formula4SX has helped significantly, no stud but I am able to perform. Available thru Amazon. Took a few weeks but worth it. Good luck.

I'm a 73 year old gent who's been divorced since '06...and in and out of a Long distance relationship; so I can sort of identlfy.

It's a very important question that needs to be asked to a pro - your GP at least, more appropriately, your Urologist. He won't ask you ....you have to ask him.

But having said that...

There's several things to consider;

1. Are the women who are "coming on" to you (the 200 horny old women) attractive to you?

If they're not a "turn-on" then you might be normal, but your intimate associates are just not inspiring you.

Perhaps it's time to find a younger/youthful woman who is, in turn, turned on by you?

2. You might have to accept the fact that sexual intimacy is over in your life. A wife of 65 years will leave such a deep impression on your psyche that no woman might ever satisfy you or stimulate you again.

3. Consider all the options besides intercourse. Oral sex can be fun...and stimulating to you!

4. If you have the $$ and the options to travel, consider visiting or calling a "sex therapist".

I haven't found any, but I would gladly pay for a young lady to "come in to my life" with the possibility of giving me sexual pleasure and even company. The world's oldest profession has not made many strides in legally "attending" to the many elder senior men in this world. Make your interests and availability known; starting with your GP and Urologist...then talk to friends.

The first question a urologist will ask you is: Do you still get erections during the night? If you do, then the problem is mostly likely insufficient arousal. If not, it's physiological. In the first case, use some good porn AND one of your ED pills a few hours beforehand. In the second case, learn to maximize the enjoyment of celibacy.

think oral

Well, you don't have to get it up to please the widows....