Do you have a coping mechanism that works for you? How about one that works against you?
I cope with my ADD by organization and routine-- but also I use techniques to anchor me in the present moment. Such as writing notes or doodling, when I don't need to do so. But, I also cope with certain sensitivities of mine by not getting too close to other people. You?
12-step group, taking with others who have an emotional clue, lifting, my cats, stopping and thinking before opening my mouth, daily inventory. Hell, sometimes even this site. Need to get back into meditation.
 kmdskit3
                                                
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                                                    kmdskit3
                                                
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                                        I am a beginning with 13rdteen step kind of guy.
@GypsyOfNewSpain Not sure I understand your comment?
Does alcohol count?
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                                        Dammit. Beat me to it.
I give myself an ample amount of me time, visual imagery meditation and being aware of my self talk.....oh. And sometimes masturbation...Wait that falls under my first coping skills listed. Nevermind
 Rudy1962
                                                
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                                        Sometimes?
@EricTrommater depends how one defines sometimes
You have to teach yourself not to be afraid of being happy. The easy way is to flat line your emotions. ergo the not getting to close to others. Just remember everyone has trials and tribulations, many and varied. My great grand mother (born in 1887 and raised me) gave me the best advise when I was a morose teenager "you are only as mad as you want to be!"
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                                        I’m autistic and use lots of social scripts do get through the day. Most of the time they work, but neurotypical people sometimes catch me off guard and my scripts get jammed and then I have a mute episode. Other coping methods I use is spirituality via witchcraft.
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                                        In ear headphones heavy metal blasting whenever in public
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                                        I used to do escapism and still do when I want to sleep and not sleepy. In my youth I created rock bands and salsa bands... did album covers and titled songs in their albums... Drawings of them on stage... There may had been 20 bands. I was very creative. Maybe that is how I started writing songs. If that is the case I am very grateful, I still write songs. I tell you... you give me a pencil and a notebook and there was not a better toy in my childhood.
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                                                    GipsyOfNewSpain
                                                
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                                        I cope with a lot of things by hiding behind my closed door until Monday morning when I have to go out into the world with the crazies again. Booze also helps. It removes warts and blemishes. Not from you but from other people. (That's a Jackie Gleason quote.)
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                                        I have this unexplained need to make noise paper when I'm stressed. Not sure if it's because it keeps my brain busy or what but I've done it since I was a kid.
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                                        I hate when I skip typing a word. I could edit the post but I'm not falling for it!
Anyways, as in tapping paper. The sounds paper makes is actually very soothing to me. It's a harmless habit I tell you. Everyone would do it too. Stop staring at me.
Posted by HippieChick58Regardless of what you think of Oprah, she has staying power. Not necessarily slimming power. Do you remember when she was slim?
Posted by HippieChick58Regardless of what you think of Oprah, she has staying power. Not necessarily slimming power. Do you remember when she was slim?
Posted by pmar044After weeks of exercise and healthy eating, my body got a nasty shock this Fri/Sat with a blowout of rich food, sugary drinks and beer.
Posted by pmar044After weeks of exercise and healthy eating, my body got a nasty shock this Fri/Sat with a blowout of rich food, sugary drinks and beer.
Posted by pmar044After weeks of exercise and healthy eating, my body got a nasty shock this Fri/Sat with a blowout of rich food, sugary drinks and beer.
Posted by pmar044After weeks of exercise and healthy eating, my body got a nasty shock this Fri/Sat with a blowout of rich food, sugary drinks and beer.
Posted by pmar044After weeks of exercise and healthy eating, my body got a nasty shock this Fri/Sat with a blowout of rich food, sugary drinks and beer.
Posted by pmar044After weeks of exercise and healthy eating, my body got a nasty shock this Fri/Sat with a blowout of rich food, sugary drinks and beer.
Posted by pmar044After weeks of exercise and healthy eating, my body got a nasty shock this Fri/Sat with a blowout of rich food, sugary drinks and beer.
Posted by HippieChick58This is why I try to avoid prescription medications.
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