Kindness to others is the greatest virtue. I'm an older gentleman who believes in respect, compassion and empathy. I'm divorced, have a 10-year-old daughter, and work in IT as a web specialist. I live in northern New Jersey on the shore of a large, beautiful lake. I seek a woman who loves the arts, film, theater, museums, the woods, making each other laugh, flea markets, travel, sometimes spending all day in bed, coffee, smoke if you want. Goth, hipster, punk, emo, hippie, beatnik, bohemian ladies welcome.