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AstralSmoke comments on Jun 5, 2018:
Na, na, na, na, na I'm a god and your just a lowly human to look just like me (if you are a northern caucasian). It could be worse. Imagine if he looked like the spaghetti monster.
Barnie2years replies on Jun 5, 2018:
@AmelieMatisse, unless he was married to Mary Magdalene. Or the one he saved from stoning.
AstralSmoke comments on Jun 5, 2018:
Na, na, na, na, na I'm a god and your just a lowly human to look just like me (if you are a northern caucasian). It could be worse. Imagine if he looked like the spaghetti monster.
Barnie2years replies on Jun 5, 2018:
@AmelieMatisse, unless he was married to Mary Magdalene. Or the one he saved from stoning.
For those of us that are old enough to remember when this was how romance stayed alive.
KateZilla comments on Jun 2, 2018:
Absolutely! hand written with a fountain pen on fancy stationary a little perfume a little lipstick smudge .... XOXOXO
Barnie2years replies on Jun 3, 2018:
I was just going to say, you cannot put perfume (or lipstick) on an email! ?
KateZilla comments on Jun 2, 2018:
Absolutely! hand written with a fountain pen on fancy stationary a little perfume a little lipstick smudge .... XOXOXO
Barnie2years replies on Jun 3, 2018:
I was just going to say, you cannot put perfume (or lipstick) on an email! ?
For those of us that are old enough to remember when this was how romance stayed alive.
PenLOP comments on Jun 2, 2018:
Being a GenX-er I learned analog but honestly, I’ve embraced digital. My handwriting has always been marginal, and I’m a better, quicker typist. I think when I got my first word processing software, WordPerfect (!) I thought it was the greatest thing since sliced bread. I still keep old, ...
Barnie2years replies on Jun 3, 2018:
@PenLOP, you can go back and edit your post. I do it frequently, too lazy to proofread before I tap send. ?
PenLOP comments on Jun 2, 2018:
Being a GenX-er I learned analog but honestly, I’ve embraced digital. My handwriting has always been marginal, and I’m a better, quicker typist. I think when I got my first word processing software, WordPerfect (!) I thought it was the greatest thing since sliced bread. I still keep old, ...
Barnie2years replies on Jun 3, 2018:
@PenLOP, you can go back and edit your post. I do it frequently, too lazy to proofread before I tap send. ?
Jewish or Muslim Agnostics or Atheists
Silver1wun comments on May 15, 2018:
All believers of any theology are former atheists. It is where we all begin. Family and culture interject premature answers for what our brains would ultimately cause us to question, left to develop without interference. That is, to make sense out of this reality. The task of our brain is ...
Barnie2years replies on May 16, 2018:
@AmelieMatisse, tribalism. The us versus them survival syndrome. Heard an interview with the author on NPR. https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/us-vs-them-ian-bremmer/1126895256?ean=9780525533184&st=SEM=BNB_DRS_DSA+-+Catch+All_00000000=Google_b=SEGoS210=EAIaIQobChMIs6Sgj9qK2wIVyQOGCh0tiwONEAAYASAAEgLI2fD_BwE#/
Silver1wun comments on May 15, 2018:
All believers of any theology are former atheists. It is where we all begin. Family and culture interject premature answers for what our brains would ultimately cause us to question, left to develop without interference. That is, to make sense out of this reality. The task of our brain is ...
Barnie2years replies on May 16, 2018:
@AmelieMatisse, tribalism. The us versus them survival syndrome. Heard an interview with the author on NPR. https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/us-vs-them-ian-bremmer/1126895256?ean=9780525533184&st=SEM=BNB_DRS_DSA+-+Catch+All_00000000=Google_b=SEGoS210=EAIaIQobChMIs6Sgj9qK2wIVyQOGCh0tiwONEAAYASAAEgLI2fD_BwE#/
You decide the consequences..
twshield comments on May 14, 2018:
i would create a CHI version of the murder they commit and force them to watch it over and over throughout their entire sentence.
Barnie2years replies on May 15, 2018:
@twshield, people who commit horrendous violent murder are not like average humans. They have little or no conscience or remorse for the most part. I am not talking about crimes of passion, but cold blooded murder. They would consider a replay of the event an affirmation of their power.
twshield comments on May 14, 2018:
i would create a CHI version of the murder they commit and force them to watch it over and over throughout their entire sentence.
Barnie2years replies on May 15, 2018:
@twshield, people who commit horrendous violent murder are not like average humans. They have little or no conscience or remorse for the most part. I am not talking about crimes of passion, but cold blooded murder. They would consider a replay of the event an affirmation of their power.
You decide the consequences..
steve148 comments on May 14, 2018:
I'd force them to work in the Trump cabinet.
Barnie2years replies on May 14, 2018:
They would fit right in!
steve148 comments on May 14, 2018:
I'd force them to work in the Trump cabinet.
Barnie2years replies on May 14, 2018:
They would fit right in!
You decide the consequences..
twshield comments on May 14, 2018:
i would create a CHI version of the murder they commit and force them to watch it over and over throughout their entire sentence.
Barnie2years replies on May 14, 2018:
That might turn them on!
twshield comments on May 14, 2018:
i would create a CHI version of the murder they commit and force them to watch it over and over throughout their entire sentence.
Barnie2years replies on May 14, 2018:
That might turn them on!
How do the men here feel about having a relationship with ?
bigpawbullets comments on May 12, 2018:
Well, how much older?
At 68 I'd say probably not.
At 40, maybe.
Is she really rich?
;-)
Barnie2years replies on May 13, 2018:
@FoundMyNietzsche, I think that may depend on your definition of happiness! ? There was an article in AARP magazine about stars with younger spouses. The oldest one was 30 different in age. Most were 20 or more and fairly long term. All of them had big money! And they all looked happy! ? This was one of them: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/dick-van-dyke-wife-arlene_us_56a27708e4b0404eb8f1792d
bigpawbullets comments on May 12, 2018:
Well, how much older?
At 68 I'd say probably not.
At 40, maybe.
Is she really rich?
;-)
Barnie2years replies on May 13, 2018:
@FoundMyNietzsche, I think that may depend on your definition of happiness! ? There was an article in AARP magazine about stars with younger spouses. The oldest one was 30 different in age. Most were 20 or more and fairly long term. All of them had big money! And they all looked happy! ? This was one of them: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/dick-van-dyke-wife-arlene_us_56a27708e4b0404eb8f1792d
Whats On Your 2-Do List Before You Die?
Barnie2years comments on May 12, 2018:
Mine's a two for! I want to be in love with a sexy lady and take her for one of the river cruises in Europe. Either up the Rhine from Vienna to Amsterdam, or East from Vienna to the Black Sea. Going to sleep every night after a day of exploring some exotic city with my arms wrapped around my gal,...
Barnie2years replies on May 13, 2018:
@JustKip, my parents did the Rhine and the Danube cruises years back and loved both of them. Much of European history is build on the banks of those two rivers!
Barnie2years comments on May 12, 2018:
Mine's a two for! I want to be in love with a sexy lady and take her for one of the river cruises in Europe. Either up the Rhine from Vienna to Amsterdam, or East from Vienna to the Black Sea. Going to sleep every night after a day of exploring some exotic city with my arms wrapped around my gal,...
Barnie2years replies on May 13, 2018:
@JustKip, my parents did the Rhine and the Danube cruises years back and loved both of them. Much of European history is build on the banks of those two rivers!
I've been following the story of the teenage boy in Alabama who was pronounced brain dead.
SpikeTalon comments on May 7, 2018:
First of all, most of that story from the boy's point of view was largely fabricated. I think medical technology arrived to a point where we can reasonably determine that after physical death and organs shut down there is/could still be some activity going on in the brain hours after being ...
Barnie2years replies on May 8, 2018:
I can never understand why when one person survives in some unusual manner it was god saving them and a miracle. But when someone dies, suddenly, with no obvious cause, no one calls that a miracle of god. And how for some reason god chose this one kid, while killing a million others in cruel or vile ways.
SpikeTalon comments on May 7, 2018:
First of all, most of that story from the boy's point of view was largely fabricated. I think medical technology arrived to a point where we can reasonably determine that after physical death and organs shut down there is/could still be some activity going on in the brain hours after being ...
Barnie2years replies on May 8, 2018:
I can never understand why when one person survives in some unusual manner it was god saving them and a miracle. But when someone dies, suddenly, with no obvious cause, no one calls that a miracle of god. And how for some reason god chose this one kid, while killing a million others in cruel or vile ways.
Should public nudity be legal?
CreativelyMe comments on May 3, 2018:
Wow I am having conflicting thoughts about this one. There are tribes of nude people and I have no problem with that but we do live in the natural world anymore and I don't think I would want to slide into a booth after someone else slid out of it for example. I mean it's all fine and good until ...
Barnie2years replies on May 7, 2018:
@CreativelyMe https://youtu.be/vJnJ63GFHTU
CreativelyMe comments on May 3, 2018:
Wow I am having conflicting thoughts about this one. There are tribes of nude people and I have no problem with that but we do live in the natural world anymore and I don't think I would want to slide into a booth after someone else slid out of it for example. I mean it's all fine and good until ...
Barnie2years replies on May 7, 2018:
@CreativelyMe https://youtu.be/vJnJ63GFHTU
I've been following the story of the teenage boy in Alabama who was pronounced brain dead.
icolan comments on May 7, 2018:
Can you provide a link to this story? Honestly, it sounds like a plot to a bad Christian movie.
Barnie2years replies on May 7, 2018:
It was just on ABC News tonight.
icolan comments on May 7, 2018:
Can you provide a link to this story? Honestly, it sounds like a plot to a bad Christian movie.
Barnie2years replies on May 7, 2018:
It was just on ABC News tonight.
Should public nudity be legal?
CreativelyMe comments on May 3, 2018:
Wow I am having conflicting thoughts about this one. There are tribes of nude people and I have no problem with that but we do live in the natural world anymore and I don't think I would want to slide into a booth after someone else slid out of it for example. I mean it's all fine and good until ...
Barnie2years replies on May 7, 2018:
In the nudist villages of France, most everyone walks around with a towel that is used when sitting in public places as well as lounging on the beach. If you want to learn more about the nudist life style there are many free videos available online. Most are not designed to be erotic, but rather educational of the lifestyle.
CreativelyMe comments on May 3, 2018:
Wow I am having conflicting thoughts about this one. There are tribes of nude people and I have no problem with that but we do live in the natural world anymore and I don't think I would want to slide into a booth after someone else slid out of it for example. I mean it's all fine and good until ...
Barnie2years replies on May 7, 2018:
In the nudist villages of France, most everyone walks around with a towel that is used when sitting in public places as well as lounging on the beach. If you want to learn more about the nudist life style there are many free videos available online. Most are not designed to be erotic, but rather educational of the lifestyle.
Should public nudity be legal?
TheAtheist comments on May 2, 2018:
A more interesting question would be "Would you take your six year old child to a nudist beach?"
If YES Would you let them go naked as well?
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Barnie2years replies on May 7, 2018:
I took my son to a nudist camp when he was prepubescent (can’t remember the exact age). He had a blast! My wife at the time, not so much. ? We only went twice.
TheAtheist comments on May 2, 2018:
A more interesting question would be "Would you take your six year old child to a nudist beach?"
If YES Would you let them go naked as well?
'
Barnie2years replies on May 7, 2018:
I took my son to a nudist camp when he was prepubescent (can’t remember the exact age). He had a blast! My wife at the time, not so much. ? We only went twice.
What is your primary spoken/written language?
Crimson67 comments on May 6, 2018:
Mine is American/Southern English
Barnie2years replies on May 6, 2018:
Didn’t see that on the list! ?
Crimson67 comments on May 6, 2018:
Mine is American/Southern English
Barnie2years replies on May 6, 2018:
Didn’t see that on the list! ?
What quirks do you have?
AmelieMatisse comments on May 3, 2018:
When I told towels the label must always be on the inside and not visible. I rotate plates and glasses so I don't always use the same ones. But maybe this goes beyond quirks to OCD
Barnie2years replies on May 4, 2018:
@AmelieMatisse, sound perfectly fine to me! I rotate clothing, including underwear, so that I am wearing them out in somewhat equal time. towels always go with the label inside the fold. Even have my juice glass every morning from the bottom of the stack, clean ones go on the top! Use different coats on most days, wear my jeans from left to right, clean go to the right! Now you might feel like an under achiever! LOL
AmelieMatisse comments on May 3, 2018:
When I told towels the label must always be on the inside and not visible. I rotate plates and glasses so I don't always use the same ones. But maybe this goes beyond quirks to OCD
Barnie2years replies on May 4, 2018:
@AmelieMatisse, sound perfectly fine to me! I rotate clothing, including underwear, so that I am wearing them out in somewhat equal time. towels always go with the label inside the fold. Even have my juice glass every morning from the bottom of the stack, clean ones go on the top! Use different coats on most days, wear my jeans from left to right, clean go to the right! Now you might feel like an under achiever! LOL
I just started watching The Handmaiden movie (not the series).
dede18 comments on May 3, 2018:
I don't intend to watch the movie or the series because I find even the premise too disturbing. As a very intuitive, empathetic person I've learned to honor my tolerance for watching suffering, and know that it will creep into my mind and how hard it will be to get rid of the visuals imprinted. I'm ...
Barnie2years replies on May 3, 2018:
Just ordered "It Can't Happen Here". I find books less frightening than movies sometimes.
dede18 comments on May 3, 2018:
I don't intend to watch the movie or the series because I find even the premise too disturbing. As a very intuitive, empathetic person I've learned to honor my tolerance for watching suffering, and know that it will creep into my mind and how hard it will be to get rid of the visuals imprinted. I'm ...
Barnie2years replies on May 3, 2018:
Just ordered "It Can't Happen Here". I find books less frightening than movies sometimes.
I just started watching The Handmaiden movie (not the series).
dkp93 comments on May 2, 2018:
I read the book a couple decades ago, back when something like that was unthinkable. I want to watch the series, even got Hulu primarily to watch it, but I'm scared to get started!
Barnie2years replies on May 2, 2018:
I understand completely!
dkp93 comments on May 2, 2018:
I read the book a couple decades ago, back when something like that was unthinkable. I want to watch the series, even got Hulu primarily to watch it, but I'm scared to get started!
Barnie2years replies on May 2, 2018:
I understand completely!
Is it better to legalize prostitution or keep it illegal
MarlaPaine comments on May 2, 2018:
I'm just not sure how it would affect human trafficking. If I knew legalizing prostitution wouldn't make it more prevalent I'd vote in favor.
Barnie2years replies on May 2, 2018:
Legalization would permit law enforcement to concentrate on trafficking rather than harassment of women working to make a living. Trafficking won't stop, but it can be better policed.
MarlaPaine comments on May 2, 2018:
I'm just not sure how it would affect human trafficking. If I knew legalizing prostitution wouldn't make it more prevalent I'd vote in favor.
Barnie2years replies on May 2, 2018:
Legalization would permit law enforcement to concentrate on trafficking rather than harassment of women working to make a living. Trafficking won't stop, but it can be better policed.
Anybody else see this
TheAstroChuck comments on Apr 30, 2018:
And Jesus was last observed on toast.
Barnie2years replies on Apr 30, 2018:
@AmelieMatisse, and you figure it’s a sign that you are going to be taking a trip! ?
TheAstroChuck comments on Apr 30, 2018:
And Jesus was last observed on toast.
Barnie2years replies on Apr 30, 2018:
@AmelieMatisse, and you figure it’s a sign that you are going to be taking a trip! ?
Anybody else see this
dare2dream comments on Apr 30, 2018:
We see what is already in our head or what we want to see. It's called pareidolia. Pareidolia is a psychological phenomenon involving a vague and random stimulus (often an image or sound) being perceived as significant. Common examples include ... a grilled cheese sandwich with the Virgin Mary's ...
Barnie2years replies on Apr 30, 2018:
?TMI?
dare2dream comments on Apr 30, 2018:
We see what is already in our head or what we want to see. It's called pareidolia. Pareidolia is a psychological phenomenon involving a vague and random stimulus (often an image or sound) being perceived as significant. Common examples include ... a grilled cheese sandwich with the Virgin Mary's ...
Barnie2years replies on Apr 30, 2018:
?TMI?
Easy to say, hard to do sometimes. Is this easier for women more so than men? Is so, why is that...
BucketlistBob comments on Apr 30, 2018:
Pretty...
Barnie2years replies on Apr 30, 2018:
Interesting what appears to be water color.
BucketlistBob comments on Apr 30, 2018:
Pretty...
Barnie2years replies on Apr 30, 2018:
Interesting what appears to be water color.
Has anyone ever belonged...
Barnie2years comments on Apr 28, 2018:
Freedom From Religion Foundation. Contributing member for a couple of years now.
Barnie2years replies on Apr 29, 2018:
@kozmic which is why I support them. I don’t care what legend people care to bow to, what I do care is when they feel the need to push their beliefs on every one else. With thousands, if not millions of church properties throughout the country (all tax free!), why do you have to put your 10 commandment monuments, crosses, and nativity scenes on the public property and thoroughfares that my tax dollars have to support? You can pray all day and all night at home, in your car, in your church and anywhere else you want, but why do you need to take up time and make a spectacle of it at every non religious meeting, government function or social gathering where people who don’t give a shit have to listen to it! So, I donate enough to maintain a membership to FFRF every year. They publish hate mail they get monthly on their FB page, and obviously the “Righteous” consider them an anti-Christian group.
Barnie2years comments on Apr 28, 2018:
Freedom From Religion Foundation. Contributing member for a couple of years now.
Barnie2years replies on Apr 29, 2018:
@kozmic which is why I support them. I don’t care what legend people care to bow to, what I do care is when they feel the need to push their beliefs on every one else. With thousands, if not millions of church properties throughout the country (all tax free!), why do you have to put your 10 commandment monuments, crosses, and nativity scenes on the public property and thoroughfares that my tax dollars have to support? You can pray all day and all night at home, in your car, in your church and anywhere else you want, but why do you need to take up time and make a spectacle of it at every non religious meeting, government function or social gathering where people who don’t give a shit have to listen to it! So, I donate enough to maintain a membership to FFRF every year. They publish hate mail they get monthly on their FB page, and obviously the “Righteous” consider them an anti-Christian group.
What are your thoughts on sleeping in the bed with multiple pets?
AmelieMatisse comments on Apr 27, 2018:
Ugh. My story is that I dated a man who absolutely would not allow his dog in bed. After about a year this changed and then all of a sudden the dog was sleeping on my side of the bed when I wasn't there and then soon after that the dog was demanding my place when I was there. And shortly after that ...
Barnie2years replies on Apr 28, 2018:
Just thought I should mention, I have never allowed a pet to sleep in my bed. Mine sleeps in a crate in the living room. ?
AmelieMatisse comments on Apr 27, 2018:
Ugh. My story is that I dated a man who absolutely would not allow his dog in bed. After about a year this changed and then all of a sudden the dog was sleeping on my side of the bed when I wasn't there and then soon after that the dog was demanding my place when I was there. And shortly after that ...
Barnie2years replies on Apr 28, 2018:
Just thought I should mention, I have never allowed a pet to sleep in my bed. Mine sleeps in a crate in the living room. ?
Does anyone else find it bizarre how countries like The US and the UK try and call the shots on ...
Barnie2years comments on Apr 27, 2018:
I am not sure the UK has nuclear weapons, but France exploded quite a few in the Pacific over the years (as far away from France as they could get ?).
Barnie2years replies on Apr 27, 2018:
@girlwithsmiles That was educational! If they set them all off at once, maybe we could start from scratch and cockroaches would rule the world for a long period of time?
Barnie2years comments on Apr 27, 2018:
I am not sure the UK has nuclear weapons, but France exploded quite a few in the Pacific over the years (as far away from France as they could get ?).
Barnie2years replies on Apr 27, 2018:
@girlwithsmiles That was educational! If they set them all off at once, maybe we could start from scratch and cockroaches would rule the world for a long period of time?
Does anyone else find it bizarre how countries like The US and the UK try and call the shots on ...
Barnie2years comments on Apr 27, 2018:
I am not sure the UK has nuclear weapons, but France exploded quite a few in the Pacific over the years (as far away from France as they could get ?).
Barnie2years replies on Apr 27, 2018:
@Jnei thank you..
Barnie2years comments on Apr 27, 2018:
I am not sure the UK has nuclear weapons, but France exploded quite a few in the Pacific over the years (as far away from France as they could get ?).
Barnie2years replies on Apr 27, 2018:
@Jnei thank you..
Chiropractic scientific?
AmelieMatisse comments on Apr 26, 2018:
My story is this: I had a severe neck problem with pain radiating down my arm. I went to my doctor who wanted to put me on muscle relaxers. Nothing help, he sent me to a neurologist who did lots of tests on me and he then decided that maybe he should put a brace on my wrist.In the meantime I was in ...
Barnie2years replies on Apr 27, 2018:
A few years back I had my back go out (for no particular reason). I went to a chiropractor, didn't help, had a CAT scan done, results came back, my lower back was a mess (I had already had two discectomies, so there is not a whole lot of cushion between vertebrae). I couldn't sleep, sit, walk, pretty much anything for very long periods of time. One night I went with a friend dancing (loved to dance) and I decided that I was going to dance, regardless of how much it screwed me up. The back was much better the next day. After another night of dancing and my chiropractor telling me if it helped, keep going, I have been pain free since. So with back issues, you never know what my put things back in order. If the chiropractor helped you (and I know others who have had similar results), then it is good medicine. They sometimes make promises they don't keep, but then so do medical doctors. And of course, there are bad as well as good ones.
AmelieMatisse comments on Apr 26, 2018:
My story is this: I had a severe neck problem with pain radiating down my arm. I went to my doctor who wanted to put me on muscle relaxers. Nothing help, he sent me to a neurologist who did lots of tests on me and he then decided that maybe he should put a brace on my wrist.In the meantime I was in ...
Barnie2years replies on Apr 27, 2018:
A few years back I had my back go out (for no particular reason). I went to a chiropractor, didn't help, had a CAT scan done, results came back, my lower back was a mess (I had already had two discectomies, so there is not a whole lot of cushion between vertebrae). I couldn't sleep, sit, walk, pretty much anything for very long periods of time. One night I went with a friend dancing (loved to dance) and I decided that I was going to dance, regardless of how much it screwed me up. The back was much better the next day. After another night of dancing and my chiropractor telling me if it helped, keep going, I have been pain free since. So with back issues, you never know what my put things back in order. If the chiropractor helped you (and I know others who have had similar results), then it is good medicine. They sometimes make promises they don't keep, but then so do medical doctors. And of course, there are bad as well as good ones.
Mourning a death
Angelface comments on Apr 5, 2018:
I have lost friends, relatives and my child. And not wanting to offend or be irreverent, but this song sprang to mind after reading your post. You get through it coping in your own way by going though it. I managed to be diagnosed with PTSD. I don't reccomend going that route.
Turn! Turn! Turn!...
Barnie2years replies on Apr 16, 2018:
Much better expressed than my earlier ramblings! ?
Angelface comments on Apr 5, 2018:
I have lost friends, relatives and my child. And not wanting to offend or be irreverent, but this song sprang to mind after reading your post. You get through it coping in your own way by going though it. I managed to be diagnosed with PTSD. I don't reccomend going that route.
Turn! Turn! Turn!...
Barnie2years replies on Apr 16, 2018:
Much better expressed than my earlier ramblings! ?
Fighting in the middle East will continue as long as the religions hate each other because of the ...
Barnie2years comments on Apr 14, 2018:
It will continue far beyond that. Even taking relgious beliefs out of the equation, these are decendents from nomadic tribes thousands of years old, they have been at war with each other for those thousands of years. They were ruthless killers the entire time. Then only real thing that changed is...
Barnie2years replies on Apr 15, 2018:
@RizzoJenkins, fighting has been going on since humankind came into being. I honestly don’t see it ending. Finding excuses for it and people to focus the violence on are what leaders are for.
Barnie2years comments on Apr 14, 2018:
It will continue far beyond that. Even taking relgious beliefs out of the equation, these are decendents from nomadic tribes thousands of years old, they have been at war with each other for those thousands of years. They were ruthless killers the entire time. Then only real thing that changed is...
Barnie2years replies on Apr 15, 2018:
@RizzoJenkins, fighting has been going on since humankind came into being. I honestly don’t see it ending. Finding excuses for it and people to focus the violence on are what leaders are for.
What, me worry?
jacpod comments on Apr 13, 2018:
I thought I had figured it out and then got freaked out today by the Go ahead for the war with Syria- so I'd better start reconfiguring
Barnie2years replies on Apr 13, 2018:
Why worry? You are not going to be able to change the direction Cheeto is going. We will have consequences, bad or good. Whichever, we will have to learn to live with it until at least the next election cycle. Then we can try and do something about it. The point is, worrying will not change or influence in any way what is going to happen. And given his history, there is a very good chance nothing will happen, he's just blowing wind up Putin's ass as usual.
jacpod comments on Apr 13, 2018:
I thought I had figured it out and then got freaked out today by the Go ahead for the war with Syria- so I'd better start reconfiguring
Barnie2years replies on Apr 13, 2018:
Why worry? You are not going to be able to change the direction Cheeto is going. We will have consequences, bad or good. Whichever, we will have to learn to live with it until at least the next election cycle. Then we can try and do something about it. The point is, worrying will not change or influence in any way what is going to happen. And given his history, there is a very good chance nothing will happen, he's just blowing wind up Putin's ass as usual.
Prostitution, how do you feel about it?
Mea comments on Apr 4, 2018:
Also, porn is legal. We pay people to have sex in front of a camera, I don't see why the exchange of money behind closed doors is anyone's business besides those involved.
Barnie2years replies on Apr 13, 2018:
@IamNobody, why can't they tax it? As far as I know, it is taxed in Nevada, certainly in Europe. What is the difference between this and any other contractor? If you go to a chiropractor, a massage therapist, even a physical therapist, they are all people whose work involves touching your body, getting paid, and paying taxes. The only thing that makes prostitution different is the part of the body they touch and what the touch it with. The rest is religious sin shaming and government overreach.
Mea comments on Apr 4, 2018:
Also, porn is legal. We pay people to have sex in front of a camera, I don't see why the exchange of money behind closed doors is anyone's business besides those involved.
Barnie2years replies on Apr 13, 2018:
@IamNobody, why can't they tax it? As far as I know, it is taxed in Nevada, certainly in Europe. What is the difference between this and any other contractor? If you go to a chiropractor, a massage therapist, even a physical therapist, they are all people whose work involves touching your body, getting paid, and paying taxes. The only thing that makes prostitution different is the part of the body they touch and what the touch it with. The rest is religious sin shaming and government overreach.
Does love exist? (As in, the "romantic" sort)
Ostopal comments on Apr 12, 2018:
Love is a chemical abberation of the brain best cured with alcohol and sleep.....lol
Barnie2years replies on Apr 13, 2018:
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Ostopal comments on Apr 12, 2018:
Love is a chemical abberation of the brain best cured with alcohol and sleep.....lol
Barnie2years replies on Apr 13, 2018:
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What, me worry?
memorylikeasieve comments on Apr 13, 2018:
Nice for those who can do it. There are a lot of things in this world to fear and, try as one might, those fears don't always go away just because one wants them to, no matter how hard one tries.
Barnie2years replies on Apr 13, 2018:
I don't necessarily equate worry and fear. I fear roller coasters, I don't worry about them, I just don't go on them. I don't fear dying, but I don't go out of my way to make it happen. You can fear something (a tornado, lightening) without worrying about it, hiding in your bathroom when the storm is a hundred miles away. I fear having a stroke, but I don't spend time worrying about it. I take meds for my heart and monitor my blood pressure from time to time, but I don't let it stop me from eating what I like or doing the things I like to do.
memorylikeasieve comments on Apr 13, 2018:
Nice for those who can do it. There are a lot of things in this world to fear and, try as one might, those fears don't always go away just because one wants them to, no matter how hard one tries.
Barnie2years replies on Apr 13, 2018:
I don't necessarily equate worry and fear. I fear roller coasters, I don't worry about them, I just don't go on them. I don't fear dying, but I don't go out of my way to make it happen. You can fear something (a tornado, lightening) without worrying about it, hiding in your bathroom when the storm is a hundred miles away. I fear having a stroke, but I don't spend time worrying about it. I take meds for my heart and monitor my blood pressure from time to time, but I don't let it stop me from eating what I like or doing the things I like to do.
What, me worry?
nvrnuff comments on Apr 12, 2018:
Maybe dial the worry back a bit to concern?
Barnie2years replies on Apr 12, 2018:
Concern is an inquiry to discover the issue, before attempting to deal with it. Worry is trying to figure out what could go wrong before you know the facts, then coming up with solutions for a problem that may not even exist. I had a coworker would make herself sick and lose a night's sleep worrying about a forecast of snow the next day (we were bus drivers) and then wake up to no snow or just a fury. Wasted a night of sleep for nothing. Bing concerned, she would have woke up a little early to clean off her car and got a good night sleep.
nvrnuff comments on Apr 12, 2018:
Maybe dial the worry back a bit to concern?
Barnie2years replies on Apr 12, 2018:
Concern is an inquiry to discover the issue, before attempting to deal with it. Worry is trying to figure out what could go wrong before you know the facts, then coming up with solutions for a problem that may not even exist. I had a coworker would make herself sick and lose a night's sleep worrying about a forecast of snow the next day (we were bus drivers) and then wake up to no snow or just a fury. Wasted a night of sleep for nothing. Bing concerned, she would have woke up a little early to clean off her car and got a good night sleep.
What, me worry?
JohnnyThorazine comments on Apr 12, 2018:
I think manageable worry is good for you. Anxiety at low levels is good for motivation and heightens that completion feeling. Suppressing emotion is almost always bad, and not feeling emotion is psychopathy. But I think you mean managing anxiety, right? I only have anxiety when the problems aren't ...
Barnie2years replies on Apr 12, 2018:
No, I absolutely mean worry. I was concerned that my mom lived in Floida by herself. I pushed her to come to Lanaster where she has family. She fought it for a while. I didn't worry about her, it was her decision. When she was ready, she came up. Worrying would not have gotten her here sooner.
JohnnyThorazine comments on Apr 12, 2018:
I think manageable worry is good for you. Anxiety at low levels is good for motivation and heightens that completion feeling. Suppressing emotion is almost always bad, and not feeling emotion is psychopathy. But I think you mean managing anxiety, right? I only have anxiety when the problems aren't ...
Barnie2years replies on Apr 12, 2018:
No, I absolutely mean worry. I was concerned that my mom lived in Floida by herself. I pushed her to come to Lanaster where she has family. She fought it for a while. I didn't worry about her, it was her decision. When she was ready, she came up. Worrying would not have gotten her here sooner.
What, me worry?
Charlene comments on Apr 12, 2018:
Yes indeedy..since beating cancer I'm in the same place.
Barnie2years replies on Apr 12, 2018:
Perfect example! You survived, enjoy where you are and take care of yourself, don't waste time worrying about what might or might not come next.
Charlene comments on Apr 12, 2018:
Yes indeedy..since beating cancer I'm in the same place.
Barnie2years replies on Apr 12, 2018:
Perfect example! You survived, enjoy where you are and take care of yourself, don't waste time worrying about what might or might not come next.
Teen Age Sex, the worst outcome!
jonds56 comments on Apr 5, 2018:
My sister was born in 1939 and a couple of months ago I had her count the months between our parents marriage and her birth, she was stunned that it was only 6 months and I would have thought an almost 80 year old ex teacher could have figured that out earlier. I had my daughter on birth control at...
Barnie2years replies on Apr 12, 2018:
Ha,ha! I did the math when I wanted to get married before I was out of high school and my parents were balking. My girlfriend thought she was pregnant, and we were using that as an excuse. Anyway, I started calculating and realized that I was born before 9 months of their marriage (May to January). Dad assured me that they had planned to get married before they found out., LOL! Did get married, lasted 8 years.
jonds56 comments on Apr 5, 2018:
My sister was born in 1939 and a couple of months ago I had her count the months between our parents marriage and her birth, she was stunned that it was only 6 months and I would have thought an almost 80 year old ex teacher could have figured that out earlier. I had my daughter on birth control at...
Barnie2years replies on Apr 12, 2018:
Ha,ha! I did the math when I wanted to get married before I was out of high school and my parents were balking. My girlfriend thought she was pregnant, and we were using that as an excuse. Anyway, I started calculating and realized that I was born before 9 months of their marriage (May to January). Dad assured me that they had planned to get married before they found out., LOL! Did get married, lasted 8 years.
SEXUAL DIMORPHISM: Are we biological creatures?
skado comments on Apr 9, 2018:
This post was inspired by another discussion about male aggression and whether it is due to biology or ?something else? What else is there? Culture? Where does culture come from if not biology? Are men willfully evil? Does free will exist? Inquiring minds want to know.
Barnie2years replies on Apr 11, 2018:
Biology and evolution are based on survival of the fittest. Given that and mammal mating instincts, the strong and the aggressive would have the advantage of mates and dominance over the lesser males for eons. As humans formed groups, either families or klans or villages, the aggressive males were often out hunting or warring, giving those less aggressive males opportunities to reproduce as well as make themselves useful in other ways. As human populations grew, these divergent personalities had to depend on each other in cooperative ways, creating cultures. While the aggressive male is still dominant, the culture has to a certain extent required him to be less so in order to maintain order. In societies where the dominant males still have the most control, you have situation like those found in the Middle East and much of Africa, where war and tribal fighting are ways of life. It’s late and I am not sure how much this is on topic or comprehensible, but I will throw it out there.
skado comments on Apr 9, 2018:
This post was inspired by another discussion about male aggression and whether it is due to biology or ?something else? What else is there? Culture? Where does culture come from if not biology? Are men willfully evil? Does free will exist? Inquiring minds want to know.
Barnie2years replies on Apr 11, 2018:
Biology and evolution are based on survival of the fittest. Given that and mammal mating instincts, the strong and the aggressive would have the advantage of mates and dominance over the lesser males for eons. As humans formed groups, either families or klans or villages, the aggressive males were often out hunting or warring, giving those less aggressive males opportunities to reproduce as well as make themselves useful in other ways. As human populations grew, these divergent personalities had to depend on each other in cooperative ways, creating cultures. While the aggressive male is still dominant, the culture has to a certain extent required him to be less so in order to maintain order. In societies where the dominant males still have the most control, you have situation like those found in the Middle East and much of Africa, where war and tribal fighting are ways of life. It’s late and I am not sure how much this is on topic or comprehensible, but I will throw it out there.
How serious a change have you undergone since the 2016 election cycle?
phxbillcee comments on Apr 7, 2018:
I like Bernie, a lot. That being said his secularism is not what will sink him with most voters, even if they like many of his ideas. It's his unabashed use of the term 'Socialist'. That may be even more toxic politically in some ways than even 'atheist'.
Tho I do vote now, & it took me many years ...
Barnie2years replies on Apr 8, 2018:
The recent election in Western Pennsylvania, in a highly Republican district, was won by the Democrat by less than 700 votes. Your vote does count!
phxbillcee comments on Apr 7, 2018:
I like Bernie, a lot. That being said his secularism is not what will sink him with most voters, even if they like many of his ideas. It's his unabashed use of the term 'Socialist'. That may be even more toxic politically in some ways than even 'atheist'.
Tho I do vote now, & it took me many years ...
Barnie2years replies on Apr 8, 2018:
The recent election in Western Pennsylvania, in a highly Republican district, was won by the Democrat by less than 700 votes. Your vote does count!
How serious a change have you undergone since the 2016 election cycle?
JustLynnie comments on Apr 7, 2018:
I'm pissed, and I have fire under my ass. We will #votethemout. Never underestimate the power of a pissed off liberal.
Barnie2years replies on Apr 8, 2018:
I so hope you are right! I like to think the majority in this country are decent people who care about others but are easily misled or just feel that they have no power. That needs to change bu November. If it does, we win. If the Republicans continue to nominate Nazis, mysoginst women haters and thieves, we have an even better chance.
JustLynnie comments on Apr 7, 2018:
I'm pissed, and I have fire under my ass. We will #votethemout. Never underestimate the power of a pissed off liberal.
Barnie2years replies on Apr 8, 2018:
I so hope you are right! I like to think the majority in this country are decent people who care about others but are easily misled or just feel that they have no power. That needs to change bu November. If it does, we win. If the Republicans continue to nominate Nazis, mysoginst women haters and thieves, we have an even better chance.
I just got a video call from my ex boyfriend who is working on a project for Brookings Institute in ...
Indubitably comments on Apr 7, 2018:
I have remained friends with my ex husband and all ex boyfriends, except one...he was a turd...but that was over 30 years ago.
Barnie2years replies on Apr 8, 2018:
Those “turds” are hard to deal with! ?
Indubitably comments on Apr 7, 2018:
I have remained friends with my ex husband and all ex boyfriends, except one...he was a turd...but that was over 30 years ago.
Barnie2years replies on Apr 8, 2018:
Those “turds” are hard to deal with! ?
Here's how my morning started.
HelenaBucket comments on Apr 6, 2018:
I am a nurse who is currently employed by a Christian faith based aging -in-place organization that offers hospice care. I have had many patients remark "what a good Christian woman" I am. I do not feel compelled to tell them otherwise, and keep my belief from them with an almost smug "if you only...
Barnie2years replies on Apr 6, 2018:
True. You would not judge them or refuse a request to read a romance novel or sci-fi. It is for the patient, not for you. As a medical professional, not taking care of the patients needs would put you in the same boat as Christians who refuse to treat homosexuals or transgender because of their religious beliefs. Thank you for your compassion.
HelenaBucket comments on Apr 6, 2018:
I am a nurse who is currently employed by a Christian faith based aging -in-place organization that offers hospice care. I have had many patients remark "what a good Christian woman" I am. I do not feel compelled to tell them otherwise, and keep my belief from them with an almost smug "if you only...
Barnie2years replies on Apr 6, 2018:
True. You would not judge them or refuse a request to read a romance novel or sci-fi. It is for the patient, not for you. As a medical professional, not taking care of the patients needs would put you in the same boat as Christians who refuse to treat homosexuals or transgender because of their religious beliefs. Thank you for your compassion.
Delicate Procedure; Un-Brainwash
CK4RBE comments on Apr 6, 2018:
Maybe this will help:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xt-qYDb7UcI
Barnie2years replies on Apr 6, 2018:
This was great. Just shared it on FB. See what that brings! LOL
CK4RBE comments on Apr 6, 2018:
Maybe this will help:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xt-qYDb7UcI
Barnie2years replies on Apr 6, 2018:
This was great. Just shared it on FB. See what that brings! LOL
Prostitution, how do you feel about it?
Sticks48 comments on Apr 5, 2018:
I wish it was more affordable.
Barnie2years replies on Apr 5, 2018:
@SassyLady, as I pointed out, I read your article in Mic. It is not without people who don’t agree. And like I said, the women are no more a commodity than anyone else who competes for your money. Pro sports figures risk life and limb to be the best, to increase their worth, those who are not as dedicated of talented get paid much less. If you are smart and motivated, you move up in a company and get paid accordingly. If you chose to be satisfied just doing your job, your pay will be less. This has nothing to do with women or men, it has to do with getting paid what you are worth for whatever you do. And maybe you can explain to me what these women who chose to work in the sex industry would do? At least if it is legal and regulated they have the possibility of some protection from exploitation. Nothing is perfect and there will be bad bosses in legal brothels just as there are in sewing factories. And there will be illegal prostitutes just as there is illegal drug dealers even where it is legal. But it makes it easier for the majority of people who wish to stay legal to be better taken care of.
Sticks48 comments on Apr 5, 2018:
I wish it was more affordable.
Barnie2years replies on Apr 5, 2018:
@SassyLady, as I pointed out, I read your article in Mic. It is not without people who don’t agree. And like I said, the women are no more a commodity than anyone else who competes for your money. Pro sports figures risk life and limb to be the best, to increase their worth, those who are not as dedicated of talented get paid much less. If you are smart and motivated, you move up in a company and get paid accordingly. If you chose to be satisfied just doing your job, your pay will be less. This has nothing to do with women or men, it has to do with getting paid what you are worth for whatever you do. And maybe you can explain to me what these women who chose to work in the sex industry would do? At least if it is legal and regulated they have the possibility of some protection from exploitation. Nothing is perfect and there will be bad bosses in legal brothels just as there are in sewing factories. And there will be illegal prostitutes just as there is illegal drug dealers even where it is legal. But it makes it easier for the majority of people who wish to stay legal to be better taken care of.
Prostitution, how do you feel about it?
BAMBISPICE comments on Apr 5, 2018:
No body is perfect. that is number one. if women want to sell their bodies, that is their business. but women will be abused in any situation. men must learn to respect womens bodies.
Barnie2years replies on Apr 5, 2018:
@SassyLady, I read the article and it is not cut and dried. While they have achieved some success, the total Swedish socio-economic model, as well as Norway and Denmark, is so different than the US, and even much of Europe, that a comparison of the way it might work outside that kind of environment would be difficult at best. Something to keep in mind: no matter whether it is legal, illegal or they arrest the sex worker or the client, there will always be women willing to sell the use of their bodies and men willing to pay for it. The difference, just like drugs, or alcohol during prohibition, when it’s illegal it opens itself to the worst elements and even worse abuse. Legal isn’t perfect, but with proper support and enforcement, it’s better than nothing.
BAMBISPICE comments on Apr 5, 2018:
No body is perfect. that is number one. if women want to sell their bodies, that is their business. but women will be abused in any situation. men must learn to respect womens bodies.
Barnie2years replies on Apr 5, 2018:
@SassyLady, I read the article and it is not cut and dried. While they have achieved some success, the total Swedish socio-economic model, as well as Norway and Denmark, is so different than the US, and even much of Europe, that a comparison of the way it might work outside that kind of environment would be difficult at best. Something to keep in mind: no matter whether it is legal, illegal or they arrest the sex worker or the client, there will always be women willing to sell the use of their bodies and men willing to pay for it. The difference, just like drugs, or alcohol during prohibition, when it’s illegal it opens itself to the worst elements and even worse abuse. Legal isn’t perfect, but with proper support and enforcement, it’s better than nothing.
Prostitution, how do you feel about it?
SassyLady comments on Apr 5, 2018:
IMO (taken from a Wikipedia search): "If prostitution is a free choice, why are the women with the fewest choices the ones most often found doing it?".[10][11] A large percentage of prostitutes polled in one study of 475 people involved in prostitution reported that they were in a difficult period...
Barnie2years replies on Apr 5, 2018:
As with every thing in life, there are two sides (at least) to every question. This kind of presents both sides in a pretty clear way.
https://prostitution.procon.org/view.resource.php?resourceID=000115
SassyLady comments on Apr 5, 2018:
IMO (taken from a Wikipedia search): "If prostitution is a free choice, why are the women with the fewest choices the ones most often found doing it?".[10][11] A large percentage of prostitutes polled in one study of 475 people involved in prostitution reported that they were in a difficult period...
Barnie2years replies on Apr 5, 2018:
As with every thing in life, there are two sides (at least) to every question. This kind of presents both sides in a pretty clear way.
https://prostitution.procon.org/view.resource.php?resourceID=000115
Prostitution, how do you feel about it?
SassyLady comments on Apr 5, 2018:
IMO (taken from a Wikipedia search): "If prostitution is a free choice, why are the women with the fewest choices the ones most often found doing it?".[10][11] A large percentage of prostitutes polled in one study of 475 people involved in prostitution reported that they were in a difficult period...
Barnie2years replies on Apr 5, 2018:
My ex wife goes to work every day in a factory. She hates her work, doesn’t like the people she works with or for. Talks constantly about quitting an how much she wants to do something else. But the money is good, The work is sought after and the company is a large and dependable. Does that make her a prostitute? Or more to the point, should working in a factory be illegal because people work there even though they are not happy about it?
SassyLady comments on Apr 5, 2018:
IMO (taken from a Wikipedia search): "If prostitution is a free choice, why are the women with the fewest choices the ones most often found doing it?".[10][11] A large percentage of prostitutes polled in one study of 475 people involved in prostitution reported that they were in a difficult period...
Barnie2years replies on Apr 5, 2018:
My ex wife goes to work every day in a factory. She hates her work, doesn’t like the people she works with or for. Talks constantly about quitting an how much she wants to do something else. But the money is good, The work is sought after and the company is a large and dependable. Does that make her a prostitute? Or more to the point, should working in a factory be illegal because people work there even though they are not happy about it?
Prostitution, how do you feel about it?
Brunostic comments on Apr 5, 2018:
I'd be interested in a woman of this type. https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/1974/12/16/the-whore-of-mensa
Barnie2years replies on Apr 5, 2018:
Wow, this is great! Literary prostitution! LOL! Thanks for sharing.
Brunostic comments on Apr 5, 2018:
I'd be interested in a woman of this type. https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/1974/12/16/the-whore-of-mensa
Barnie2years replies on Apr 5, 2018:
Wow, this is great! Literary prostitution! LOL! Thanks for sharing.
Prostitution, how do you feel about it?
BAMBISPICE comments on Apr 5, 2018:
No body is perfect. that is number one. if women want to sell their bodies, that is their business. but women will be abused in any situation. men must learn to respect womens bodies.
Barnie2years replies on Apr 5, 2018:
@crazycurlz, sex worker encompasses a variety of jobs in the sexual domain, some of which are already legal (at least in many states) and those that are not (prostitution at this time is only legal in Nevada). Strippers, porn actors, even nude models are all considered sex workers. Obviously, with the Stormy Daniels event going on, it has brought sex work out of the proverbial closet. Hopefully it opens the door to more discussion and better representation in the women’s movement and in general to these people.
BAMBISPICE comments on Apr 5, 2018:
No body is perfect. that is number one. if women want to sell their bodies, that is their business. but women will be abused in any situation. men must learn to respect womens bodies.
Barnie2years replies on Apr 5, 2018:
@crazycurlz, sex worker encompasses a variety of jobs in the sexual domain, some of which are already legal (at least in many states) and those that are not (prostitution at this time is only legal in Nevada). Strippers, porn actors, even nude models are all considered sex workers. Obviously, with the Stormy Daniels event going on, it has brought sex work out of the proverbial closet. Hopefully it opens the door to more discussion and better representation in the women’s movement and in general to these people.
Prostitution, how do you feel about it?
Sticks48 comments on Apr 5, 2018:
I wish it was more affordable.
Barnie2years replies on Apr 5, 2018:
It would be if it was legal everywhere and more competitive. But then, like any other business, you would get what you pay for. Just ask any sport franchise owner.
Sticks48 comments on Apr 5, 2018:
I wish it was more affordable.
Barnie2years replies on Apr 5, 2018:
It would be if it was legal everywhere and more competitive. But then, like any other business, you would get what you pay for. Just ask any sport franchise owner.
Atheists and politics
britters comments on Apr 5, 2018:
I just read an article about how an increasing number of atheist men are gravitating toward anti-feminist and white supremacist spaces. I would think, however, that atheists would be more likely to be progressive. Socially progressive, at least. None of that biblical morality messing things up.
Barnie2years replies on Apr 5, 2018:
The link in the post takes you to an article dealing with that question. The vote on here is running 100% on the progressive side as of last check. Or maybe neo-Nazis and far Rights just don’t hang out on sites like this one where open discussions without name calling trolls are asked to leave.
britters comments on Apr 5, 2018:
I just read an article about how an increasing number of atheist men are gravitating toward anti-feminist and white supremacist spaces. I would think, however, that atheists would be more likely to be progressive. Socially progressive, at least. None of that biblical morality messing things up.
Barnie2years replies on Apr 5, 2018:
The link in the post takes you to an article dealing with that question. The vote on here is running 100% on the progressive side as of last check. Or maybe neo-Nazis and far Rights just don’t hang out on sites like this one where open discussions without name calling trolls are asked to leave.
Delicate Procedure; Un-Brainwash
William_Mary comments on Apr 4, 2018:
Hypocracy. I'd sit down for a while and make a list of all those you can think of until you have a few to work with. Judgement comes right to mind. How does it work when they tell you not to judge others, that will be gods work in the end. Then as they preach they go through all the life choices one...
Barnie2years replies on Apr 4, 2018:
That may be a little deep for a 12 year old. There have to be some interesting books out there on non-belief directed at that age group I would think. Depending on where the child is getting thumped on the head by the bible and how much pressure they are putting on her to feel bad for you, she is already in a quandary. Pushing back too hard could have negative effects for her right now.
William_Mary comments on Apr 4, 2018:
Hypocracy. I'd sit down for a while and make a list of all those you can think of until you have a few to work with. Judgement comes right to mind. How does it work when they tell you not to judge others, that will be gods work in the end. Then as they preach they go through all the life choices one...
Barnie2years replies on Apr 4, 2018:
That may be a little deep for a 12 year old. There have to be some interesting books out there on non-belief directed at that age group I would think. Depending on where the child is getting thumped on the head by the bible and how much pressure they are putting on her to feel bad for you, she is already in a quandary. Pushing back too hard could have negative effects for her right now.
Atheists and politics
PickledRick comments on Apr 4, 2018:
I dated a woman a few times who was a staunch Republican, a few dates in she told me she got hate messages on a dating site for being an Atheist so changed it to Other. Would that be an oxymoron?
Barnie2years replies on Apr 4, 2018:
No, just sad!
PickledRick comments on Apr 4, 2018:
I dated a woman a few times who was a staunch Republican, a few dates in she told me she got hate messages on a dating site for being an Atheist so changed it to Other. Would that be an oxymoron?
Barnie2years replies on Apr 4, 2018:
No, just sad!
Delicate Procedure; Un-Brainwash
Gnarloc comments on Apr 4, 2018:
Don't push, or tug. That's what the religious guys do, and by doing so, you are falling into their playbook. Just give her things to think about, things that interlock with good logic and let them percolate.
One question to ask and let her ponder (no answer necessary) is what is wrong such that...
Barnie2years replies on Apr 4, 2018:
@Donotbelieve I have always been at best Agnostic, until I answered some of my own questions on life and came down on the Atheist side. My son was only exposed to religion when he was with his grandparents (mostly grandmothers) and occasionally his mom, though she was never really committed to it. But he became interested enough in it to get baptised, but never really went all in until he met his wife who was much more into religion then him. They had a cheating issue after their second son was born (interestingly enough, he met the gal at a church function he was attending) that threatened to tear the family apart. The only way she would take him back was a total commitment of the church and hours of counseling. They got back together and seem to be doing very well almost six years in. So who am I to rain on what works for them. They don't push their religion on me in person and I don't mock their beliefs in person. On Facebook, I am quite open about my feelings toward religion, they are open about theirs. But when we are together, there is peace. And it's much better since we don't start every meal with my grandsons waving their hands in the air yelling "Thank you Jesus, thank you Jesus!" That was apparently just a phase. LOL! Anyway, to sum it up, your daughter will find her own way and as her mother you will hopefully always love each other, regardless of bumps along the road.
Gnarloc comments on Apr 4, 2018:
Don't push, or tug. That's what the religious guys do, and by doing so, you are falling into their playbook. Just give her things to think about, things that interlock with good logic and let them percolate.
One question to ask and let her ponder (no answer necessary) is what is wrong such that...
Barnie2years replies on Apr 4, 2018:
@Donotbelieve I have always been at best Agnostic, until I answered some of my own questions on life and came down on the Atheist side. My son was only exposed to religion when he was with his grandparents (mostly grandmothers) and occasionally his mom, though she was never really committed to it. But he became interested enough in it to get baptised, but never really went all in until he met his wife who was much more into religion then him. They had a cheating issue after their second son was born (interestingly enough, he met the gal at a church function he was attending) that threatened to tear the family apart. The only way she would take him back was a total commitment of the church and hours of counseling. They got back together and seem to be doing very well almost six years in. So who am I to rain on what works for them. They don't push their religion on me in person and I don't mock their beliefs in person. On Facebook, I am quite open about my feelings toward religion, they are open about theirs. But when we are together, there is peace. And it's much better since we don't start every meal with my grandsons waving their hands in the air yelling "Thank you Jesus, thank you Jesus!" That was apparently just a phase. LOL! Anyway, to sum it up, your daughter will find her own way and as her mother you will hopefully always love each other, regardless of bumps along the road.
Atheists and politics
jonds56 comments on Apr 4, 2018:
Republican policies help make me a Progressive. My parents were born in 1918 and suffered through the Depression, they disliked Republicans as much as I do.
Barnie2years replies on Apr 4, 2018:
My father, who also grew up in the Depression, was a conservative Republican after he became successful. His father was a die hard Democrat. But in truth, the parties have done such a complete switch in their philosophies over the past century, I am not sure most people even know what exactly they are voting for. They have just been programed to go in the voting booth and pull the R or the D lever (or the equivalent, since voting machines are pretty much gone).
jonds56 comments on Apr 4, 2018:
Republican policies help make me a Progressive. My parents were born in 1918 and suffered through the Depression, they disliked Republicans as much as I do.
Barnie2years replies on Apr 4, 2018:
My father, who also grew up in the Depression, was a conservative Republican after he became successful. His father was a die hard Democrat. But in truth, the parties have done such a complete switch in their philosophies over the past century, I am not sure most people even know what exactly they are voting for. They have just been programed to go in the voting booth and pull the R or the D lever (or the equivalent, since voting machines are pretty much gone).
Atheists and politics
jacpod comments on Apr 4, 2018:
I am English so we dont have the same labels and i dont understand what they would mean to you or me. I vote socialist always.
Barnie2years replies on Apr 4, 2018:
As a socialist, you would definitely be on the Progressive side. In Britain, the Alt-Right would be perhaps the Tories or a neo-nazi group, if they are even allowed.
jacpod comments on Apr 4, 2018:
I am English so we dont have the same labels and i dont understand what they would mean to you or me. I vote socialist always.
Barnie2years replies on Apr 4, 2018:
As a socialist, you would definitely be on the Progressive side. In Britain, the Alt-Right would be perhaps the Tories or a neo-nazi group, if they are even allowed.
Atheists and politics
sassygirl3869 comments on Apr 4, 2018:
We have different political views on this very site. I would venture to say Wouldn't you?
Barnie2years replies on Apr 4, 2018:
@sassygirl3869 Within a certain range I would say. I haven't been on that long, but I have not seen a lot of Trump support. Or maybe I just avoid those type posts. There certainly is a lot of issues to choose from, and I did see there is a Conservative Atheist group.
sassygirl3869 comments on Apr 4, 2018:
We have different political views on this very site. I would venture to say Wouldn't you?
Barnie2years replies on Apr 4, 2018:
@sassygirl3869 Within a certain range I would say. I haven't been on that long, but I have not seen a lot of Trump support. Or maybe I just avoid those type posts. There certainly is a lot of issues to choose from, and I did see there is a Conservative Atheist group.
You died, I lived, god is good!
busterboy comments on Apr 2, 2018:
Right on kido, did you ever see a jack nickelson movie called " the witches of Eastwick" jack had a great quote in the movie just about what you said,lol He said it in the church scene if you saw it you would laugh!
Barnie2years replies on Apr 2, 2018:
Saw the movie, but it was a long time ago, couldn’t tell you much about it.
busterboy comments on Apr 2, 2018:
Right on kido, did you ever see a jack nickelson movie called " the witches of Eastwick" jack had a great quote in the movie just about what you said,lol He said it in the church scene if you saw it you would laugh!
Barnie2years replies on Apr 2, 2018:
Saw the movie, but it was a long time ago, couldn’t tell you much about it.
Death from an Agnostic/Atheist perspective
Petter comments on Mar 30, 2018:
To anyone reading this. If you like it, please feel free to copy it, including my name.
THE END OF SENTIENCE.
The day I die, my sentience stops.
Please keep in mind, though sighing,
The act of life, of birth and being,
Includes the act of dying.
To me there is no after-life:
All ...
Barnie2years replies on Mar 30, 2018:
@Petter thanks. I never worry too much about what’s on my FB, most of my posts go public those it offends are free to take me off their newsfeed or unfriendly me. Your poem was very much within my feelings toward death. Enjoy your time here and the people who love you. At some point, them and you are going to follow the cycle of life. There is no redo.
Petter comments on Mar 30, 2018:
To anyone reading this. If you like it, please feel free to copy it, including my name.
THE END OF SENTIENCE.
The day I die, my sentience stops.
Please keep in mind, though sighing,
The act of life, of birth and being,
Includes the act of dying.
To me there is no after-life:
All ...
Barnie2years replies on Mar 30, 2018:
@Petter thanks. I never worry too much about what’s on my FB, most of my posts go public those it offends are free to take me off their newsfeed or unfriendly me. Your poem was very much within my feelings toward death. Enjoy your time here and the people who love you. At some point, them and you are going to follow the cycle of life. There is no redo.
Death from an Agnostic/Atheist perspective
Petter comments on Mar 30, 2018:
To anyone reading this. If you like it, please feel free to copy it, including my name.
THE END OF SENTIENCE.
The day I die, my sentience stops.
Please keep in mind, though sighing,
The act of life, of birth and being,
Includes the act of dying.
To me there is no after-life:
All ...
Barnie2years replies on Mar 30, 2018:
Mind if I borrow it and post in on Facebook? Can I include your name or just put initials? Tolls can find you if you are on FB.
Petter comments on Mar 30, 2018:
To anyone reading this. If you like it, please feel free to copy it, including my name.
THE END OF SENTIENCE.
The day I die, my sentience stops.
Please keep in mind, though sighing,
The act of life, of birth and being,
Includes the act of dying.
To me there is no after-life:
All ...
Barnie2years replies on Mar 30, 2018:
Mind if I borrow it and post in on Facebook? Can I include your name or just put initials? Tolls can find you if you are on FB.
My ex has started taking my 7 year old son to a baptist church.
BarbR comments on Mar 30, 2018:
Are there any children’s books about evolution?
Barnie2years replies on Mar 30, 2018:
https://www.amazon.com/There-Are-Monsters-Under-Your/dp/163177106X/
BarbR comments on Mar 30, 2018:
Are there any children’s books about evolution?
Barnie2years replies on Mar 30, 2018:
https://www.amazon.com/There-Are-Monsters-Under-Your/dp/163177106X/
Death from an Agnostic/Atheist perspective
AtheistLJ comments on Mar 30, 2018:
Found this..
Barnie2years replies on Mar 30, 2018:
I like that and have often said that the only form of immortality we have is the DNA we leave behind in our children. But since the death of my father a few years ago, I have expanded that thought. For those with no children, for whatever reason, who might feel left out of the continuation spectrum; your spirit continues on in the people whom you interacted with in your lifetime. My father was a business man. He left behind not only my sister and myself, but hundreds of people who’s lives he influenced over his 90 years of life. By giving them employment, by mentoring, by befriending them, he had influence on both their lives and the lives of people around them. I am sure your grandma in her lifetime also had influence on lives of people around her beyond her family. I celebrate and honor my Dad’s life, not mourn his death. He lived a good life, in my mind, that’s all we can ask for.
AtheistLJ comments on Mar 30, 2018:
Found this..
Barnie2years replies on Mar 30, 2018:
I like that and have often said that the only form of immortality we have is the DNA we leave behind in our children. But since the death of my father a few years ago, I have expanded that thought. For those with no children, for whatever reason, who might feel left out of the continuation spectrum; your spirit continues on in the people whom you interacted with in your lifetime. My father was a business man. He left behind not only my sister and myself, but hundreds of people who’s lives he influenced over his 90 years of life. By giving them employment, by mentoring, by befriending them, he had influence on both their lives and the lives of people around them. I am sure your grandma in her lifetime also had influence on lives of people around her beyond her family. I celebrate and honor my Dad’s life, not mourn his death. He lived a good life, in my mind, that’s all we can ask for.
You died, I lived, god is good!
AtheistLJ comments on Mar 30, 2018:
It's all about luck.
Barnie2years replies on Mar 30, 2018:
Great meme! I always tell people “Pray, flip a coin, same result!”
AtheistLJ comments on Mar 30, 2018:
It's all about luck.
Barnie2years replies on Mar 30, 2018:
Great meme! I always tell people “Pray, flip a coin, same result!”
You died, I lived, god is good!
Deb57 comments on Mar 30, 2018:
This annoys me, too.
Barnie2years replies on Mar 30, 2018:
I love Betty!
Deb57 comments on Mar 30, 2018:
This annoys me, too.
Barnie2years replies on Mar 30, 2018:
I love Betty!
You died, I lived, god is good!
DenoPenno comments on Mar 30, 2018:
I see your headline as something that we all say to god. That is, if you believe in a god. "You died so I could live, god is good." This is the "great love" that god has for you even if he doesn't heal those sick children of cancer. To believe it makes you special.
Barnie2years replies on Mar 30, 2018:
Not even close! No god, no god killing himself so that bad things he created could be forgiven. I think you got lot on your way to the fairytale website.
DenoPenno comments on Mar 30, 2018:
I see your headline as something that we all say to god. That is, if you believe in a god. "You died so I could live, god is good." This is the "great love" that god has for you even if he doesn't heal those sick children of cancer. To believe it makes you special.
Barnie2years replies on Mar 30, 2018:
Not even close! No god, no god killing himself so that bad things he created could be forgiven. I think you got lot on your way to the fairytale website.
It seems all totalitarian/authoritarian states are officially atheist. Coincidence?
Barnie2years comments on Mar 27, 2018:
Totalitarian states are hardly Atheist. Turkey, Egypt, Russia are not Atheist states by any stretch. The first two are Muslim, the last Christian Orthodox. Most dictators are smart enough to get the dominant relgion of their country on their side and most regligions are smart enough to support ...
Barnie2years replies on Mar 27, 2018:
@markdevenish Libya, Syria and Iraq are all Muslim countries. Cuba and Venezuela are both Catholic countries. Don't quite understand what any of that has to do with America attacking, not to mention that we have not attacked Venezuela that I know of.
Barnie2years comments on Mar 27, 2018:
Totalitarian states are hardly Atheist. Turkey, Egypt, Russia are not Atheist states by any stretch. The first two are Muslim, the last Christian Orthodox. Most dictators are smart enough to get the dominant relgion of their country on their side and most regligions are smart enough to support ...
Barnie2years replies on Mar 27, 2018:
@markdevenish Libya, Syria and Iraq are all Muslim countries. Cuba and Venezuela are both Catholic countries. Don't quite understand what any of that has to do with America attacking, not to mention that we have not attacked Venezuela that I know of.
It seems all totalitarian/authoritarian states are officially atheist. Coincidence?
davyjones comments on Mar 27, 2018:
Isn't Trump our supreme entity? :P
Barnie2years replies on Mar 27, 2018:
Given the Evangelical worship of Trump and his sudden embracing of all things Christian (except of course fidelity, kindness, adultery, sympathy and most other so called Christian values) for the purpose of political expediency, he is the perfect dictator and example of what I stated earlier in this thread. With religion on his side, it makes it much easier to baffle the unquestioning masses. Con men and women love the true believers, they are so easily led!
davyjones comments on Mar 27, 2018:
Isn't Trump our supreme entity? :P
Barnie2years replies on Mar 27, 2018:
Given the Evangelical worship of Trump and his sudden embracing of all things Christian (except of course fidelity, kindness, adultery, sympathy and most other so called Christian values) for the purpose of political expediency, he is the perfect dictator and example of what I stated earlier in this thread. With religion on his side, it makes it much easier to baffle the unquestioning masses. Con men and women love the true believers, they are so easily led!
How comfortable are you with the word "Atheist" ?
AtheistInNC comments on Nov 6, 2017:
I am comfortable with Atheist, but maybe we should call ourselves "non-delusional" versus the "delusionals".
Barnie2years replies on Mar 26, 2018:
@SACatWalker @Paul628 I have referred to myself as a "Realist" on many occasions as well. The setting and area of discussion determines what I may call myself, be it "non-believer", atheist, Realist, Secularist, Humanist, or "denier of the legend!" LOL
AtheistInNC comments on Nov 6, 2017:
I am comfortable with Atheist, but maybe we should call ourselves "non-delusional" versus the "delusionals".
Barnie2years replies on Mar 26, 2018:
@SACatWalker @Paul628 I have referred to myself as a "Realist" on many occasions as well. The setting and area of discussion determines what I may call myself, be it "non-believer", atheist, Realist, Secularist, Humanist, or "denier of the legend!" LOL
How old were you when you got married for the first time?
Sciencemama comments on Mar 25, 2018:
I was 27 when I married the first time. My ex was 25. We had 3 daughters and lasted 18 years. The thing was, I still loved him when we divorced. There just was no way we could be together without hurting each other. There was so much stuff that had calcified between us and it took the divorce -...
Barnie2years replies on Mar 25, 2018:
I was married two more times myself. After some time to let the bitterness lose its bite, I became friends with both. My second wife and I had a son and we were married 22 years, We decided to bury the hatchet when our son's wife became pregnant with our first grandchild and remained friends until she died of cancer about a year ago. My third wife was from Slovakia (not a bought bride! ?) and had a one year old son that I fell in love with as much as I did with her. I knew we had issues, but thought we could work them out to keep the boy growing up here in the US. It didn't work, but we stuck it out long enough for them to get their permanent Green Cards. She left me and we didn't communicate much for about five years, until she mentioned in an email that the guy she left me for was ignoring her son. So, I said I would be glad to help out with him in anyway I could. I was really the only father he had known, we were together the first 5 years of his life. She eventually got rid of the boyfriend and we spend time together (with no sexual benefits) since neither of us have anyone else in our lives. And it's looking like that will be the story for the rest of my life, since I can't seem to even get a date for dinner nowadays.
Sciencemama comments on Mar 25, 2018:
I was 27 when I married the first time. My ex was 25. We had 3 daughters and lasted 18 years. The thing was, I still loved him when we divorced. There just was no way we could be together without hurting each other. There was so much stuff that had calcified between us and it took the divorce -...
Barnie2years replies on Mar 25, 2018:
I was married two more times myself. After some time to let the bitterness lose its bite, I became friends with both. My second wife and I had a son and we were married 22 years, We decided to bury the hatchet when our son's wife became pregnant with our first grandchild and remained friends until she died of cancer about a year ago. My third wife was from Slovakia (not a bought bride! ?) and had a one year old son that I fell in love with as much as I did with her. I knew we had issues, but thought we could work them out to keep the boy growing up here in the US. It didn't work, but we stuck it out long enough for them to get their permanent Green Cards. She left me and we didn't communicate much for about five years, until she mentioned in an email that the guy she left me for was ignoring her son. So, I said I would be glad to help out with him in anyway I could. I was really the only father he had known, we were together the first 5 years of his life. She eventually got rid of the boyfriend and we spend time together (with no sexual benefits) since neither of us have anyone else in our lives. And it's looking like that will be the story for the rest of my life, since I can't seem to even get a date for dinner nowadays.
Board Games
Crimson67 comments on Mar 23, 2018:
Clue, Sorry and Life are the ones that get played the most here.
We do game night once a month but everyone prefers Yatzee or Uno.
Barnie2years replies on Mar 24, 2018:
I still have Yatzee too. I used to have my stepson and my friends stepdaughter over for game nights. We would play Uno, Ono99 and Rummykub. Then they got older and stopped having time.
Crimson67 comments on Mar 23, 2018:
Clue, Sorry and Life are the ones that get played the most here.
We do game night once a month but everyone prefers Yatzee or Uno.
Barnie2years replies on Mar 24, 2018:
I still have Yatzee too. I used to have my stepson and my friends stepdaughter over for game nights. We would play Uno, Ono99 and Rummykub. Then they got older and stopped having time.
Board Games
AnneWimsey comments on Mar 23, 2018:
Rummikub! No down time, makes your brain actually feel fatigue after about 2 hours.
Barnie2years replies on Mar 24, 2018:
@Donotbelieve played that often as well.
AnneWimsey comments on Mar 23, 2018:
Rummikub! No down time, makes your brain actually feel fatigue after about 2 hours.
Barnie2years replies on Mar 24, 2018:
@Donotbelieve played that often as well.
Board Games
MarvelAnn comments on Mar 23, 2018:
We will play anything. Favorites are Payday, Sorry, Mastermind, Bananagrams, Yahtzee, and all sorts of card games such as Slamwich, Match Stix, Spot it!.... The baskets are all small games.
Barnie2years replies on Mar 24, 2018:
@Funnygir175 Uno and Ono 99 for card games.
MarvelAnn comments on Mar 23, 2018:
We will play anything. Favorites are Payday, Sorry, Mastermind, Bananagrams, Yahtzee, and all sorts of card games such as Slamwich, Match Stix, Spot it!.... The baskets are all small games.
Barnie2years replies on Mar 24, 2018:
@Funnygir175 Uno and Ono 99 for card games.
First day on this site and I am curious.
Barnie2years comments on Mar 21, 2018:
Not sure about the generalisation of non-thiest as being less happy. I know some really, realy unhappy christians. And much of the happiness thing is just a self delusion that they are the chosen ones, the delusion that even when bad things happen some outside forceis going to take care of you. If ...
Barnie2years replies on Mar 22, 2018:
@lawnchaircrew I live in an Amish area as well. They are simple folk with a simple outlook on life. They also are taught to hide negative feelings. I lived in their area, and I know that things are not always as happy as they may appear. But community support, as long as you stay faithful, is always there. Stray and you get shunned, and lose all your community contact. Great way to keep them in the fold.
Barnie2years comments on Mar 21, 2018:
Not sure about the generalisation of non-thiest as being less happy. I know some really, realy unhappy christians. And much of the happiness thing is just a self delusion that they are the chosen ones, the delusion that even when bad things happen some outside forceis going to take care of you. If ...
Barnie2years replies on Mar 22, 2018:
@lawnchaircrew I live in an Amish area as well. They are simple folk with a simple outlook on life. They also are taught to hide negative feelings. I lived in their area, and I know that things are not always as happy as they may appear. But community support, as long as you stay faithful, is always there. Stray and you get shunned, and lose all your community contact. Great way to keep them in the fold.
Should athiest really be saying 'rest in peace'
scurry comments on Mar 17, 2018:
I have no problem saying "Rest in Peace". I won't say that 'I'll send prayers', but I will say 'your in my thoughts'. I'll offer my condolences and respect.
I also say gesundheit or bless you (though I do feel silly) when someone sneezes. And I wish people a happy St. Patrick's Day and Merry ...
Barnie2years replies on Mar 21, 2018:
@scurry I and my family have always said “gesundheit”, Pennsylvania Dutch sneeze protocol. Means health.
scurry comments on Mar 17, 2018:
I have no problem saying "Rest in Peace". I won't say that 'I'll send prayers', but I will say 'your in my thoughts'. I'll offer my condolences and respect.
I also say gesundheit or bless you (though I do feel silly) when someone sneezes. And I wish people a happy St. Patrick's Day and Merry ...
Barnie2years replies on Mar 21, 2018:
@scurry I and my family have always said “gesundheit”, Pennsylvania Dutch sneeze protocol. Means health.
I have a serious question here: By posting stuff on here and so on you earn points, which increases ...
GoldenDoll comments on Mar 17, 2018:
When do I get perks? I haven't had any perks! I need perks!
Barnie2years replies on Mar 21, 2018:
You’re a level 7, you’ve got perks to burn!
GoldenDoll comments on Mar 17, 2018:
When do I get perks? I haven't had any perks! I need perks!
Barnie2years replies on Mar 21, 2018:
You’re a level 7, you’ve got perks to burn!
Does anyone else find that as a non-believer in an all powerful beings, it's very difficult for me ...
mordant comments on Mar 19, 2018:
I see no reason to have to put *anything* on a pedestal. That is projection and a sure recipe for disappointment. In my days as a fundamentalist I was often taught that "everyone worships something, even if it's only themselves". But that is false. There are individuals who inspire us to be better ...
Barnie2years replies on Mar 19, 2018:
I had to chuckle when I read “everyone worships something!” That is kind of what my Dad told me one time we were having a discussion on belief. He was, I honestly think, at least an Agnostic, though he would never admit to it. Mom was the believer in the family, and he went along to keep her happy. The nice thing was, if he didn’t go to church on Sunday, my sister and I could usually beg off as well. And he didn’t go fairly regularly. But he told me one time that you have to believe in something, be it god or a person or yourself. And I really never quite accepted that premise. About the only thing I believe is that if I wake up in the morning I’m alive, some day I will die, and life will go on without me.
mordant comments on Mar 19, 2018:
I see no reason to have to put *anything* on a pedestal. That is projection and a sure recipe for disappointment. In my days as a fundamentalist I was often taught that "everyone worships something, even if it's only themselves". But that is false. There are individuals who inspire us to be better ...
Barnie2years replies on Mar 19, 2018:
I had to chuckle when I read “everyone worships something!” That is kind of what my Dad told me one time we were having a discussion on belief. He was, I honestly think, at least an Agnostic, though he would never admit to it. Mom was the believer in the family, and he went along to keep her happy. The nice thing was, if he didn’t go to church on Sunday, my sister and I could usually beg off as well. And he didn’t go fairly regularly. But he told me one time that you have to believe in something, be it god or a person or yourself. And I really never quite accepted that premise. About the only thing I believe is that if I wake up in the morning I’m alive, some day I will die, and life will go on without me.
Wondering about the full body mud bath?
TerriCity comments on Mar 17, 2018:
I have done the mud bath in Calistoga CA twice as part of a spa pckage that includes a bath & back scrub first, then laying in soft ashy and peaty sulphuric lava mud with natural geothermally heated spring water, then a shower, blanket wrap and massage. Feels absolutely marvelous and it's kind of ...
Barnie2years replies on Mar 17, 2018:
I did that a few years back on a trip through California. Loved it! The hot spring bath after was great too!
TerriCity comments on Mar 17, 2018:
I have done the mud bath in Calistoga CA twice as part of a spa pckage that includes a bath & back scrub first, then laying in soft ashy and peaty sulphuric lava mud with natural geothermally heated spring water, then a shower, blanket wrap and massage. Feels absolutely marvelous and it's kind of ...
Barnie2years replies on Mar 17, 2018:
I did that a few years back on a trip through California. Loved it! The hot spring bath after was great too!
Does anyone else like cooking for their own pleasure?
mordant comments on Mar 17, 2018:
Yeah "and I will be eating it for the next few days" pretty much sums up my personal malfunction with cooking, even for two people. It's hard to cook for just a meal or two, and hard to eat the same thing for a week.
My stepson loves to cook, and now and then, when he's home with us as he'll be ...
Barnie2years replies on Mar 17, 2018:
That’s what freezers are for! I still have pork and sauerkraut from New Years to heat up from time to time. Turkey soup too. I have a cabbage vegetable soup I have been eating for a few days that I will ptobably freeze for another time. So I seldom eat out and rarely eat readymade food.
mordant comments on Mar 17, 2018:
Yeah "and I will be eating it for the next few days" pretty much sums up my personal malfunction with cooking, even for two people. It's hard to cook for just a meal or two, and hard to eat the same thing for a week.
My stepson loves to cook, and now and then, when he's home with us as he'll be ...
Barnie2years replies on Mar 17, 2018:
That’s what freezers are for! I still have pork and sauerkraut from New Years to heat up from time to time. Turkey soup too. I have a cabbage vegetable soup I have been eating for a few days that I will ptobably freeze for another time. So I seldom eat out and rarely eat readymade food.
Tough question here! Why are so many people absolutely certain the bible has NO truth in it if they ...
SweetHarp comments on Mar 8, 2018:
I have read it. My question. Why do you believe the bible is true?. Religion came first, then they wrote the book to back themselves up.
Barnie2years replies on Mar 17, 2018:
Is there truth in Lancelot and the knights of the Round table? The fact that some biblical stories intersect with regional historical events does nothing to prove the bible is a truthful document anymore than the average novel peppered with actual historic references is made to be believed. The fact is that the bible the faithful worship today has been translated, edited, rewritten, revised thousands of times, and was originally put together to benefit a Roman emperor and consolidate his power. To make this book the center of your life makes as much sense as worshipping Dr. Seuss, or Aesop’s fables, both of which contain better life philosophies. And a book that can encompass every denomination from a Catholic, Ortodox or other, to Amish, to snake handling Pentecostals, has no real message, just interpretations controlled by human con men and women.
SweetHarp comments on Mar 8, 2018:
I have read it. My question. Why do you believe the bible is true?. Religion came first, then they wrote the book to back themselves up.
Barnie2years replies on Mar 17, 2018:
Is there truth in Lancelot and the knights of the Round table? The fact that some biblical stories intersect with regional historical events does nothing to prove the bible is a truthful document anymore than the average novel peppered with actual historic references is made to be believed. The fact is that the bible the faithful worship today has been translated, edited, rewritten, revised thousands of times, and was originally put together to benefit a Roman emperor and consolidate his power. To make this book the center of your life makes as much sense as worshipping Dr. Seuss, or Aesop’s fables, both of which contain better life philosophies. And a book that can encompass every denomination from a Catholic, Ortodox or other, to Amish, to snake handling Pentecostals, has no real message, just interpretations controlled by human con men and women.
Sexless marriage
Gnarloc comments on Mar 16, 2018:
Before I read.
A friend read a book a while back and relayed some of the interesting twists in it. The one that comes to mind is that in Puritan society, back in the 1600s, a marriage had to be consuamated. There were histories of marriages of a man and a woman that sounded like he was looking ...
Barnie2years replies on Mar 16, 2018:
I’m guessing the sex was mainly for procreation, there was little pleasure and that was reserved mostly for the man. My thoughts on the Puritans would not leave much room for debauchery, even between married couples.
Gnarloc comments on Mar 16, 2018:
Before I read.
A friend read a book a while back and relayed some of the interesting twists in it. The one that comes to mind is that in Puritan society, back in the 1600s, a marriage had to be consuamated. There were histories of marriages of a man and a woman that sounded like he was looking ...
Barnie2years replies on Mar 16, 2018:
I’m guessing the sex was mainly for procreation, there was little pleasure and that was reserved mostly for the man. My thoughts on the Puritans would not leave much room for debauchery, even between married couples.
Okay so I post quite openly on social media.
Bernardo comments on Mar 15, 2018:
Then i unfriend most of my family(seblings, cousins) on facebook, maybe you could do it also.
Barnie2years replies on Mar 16, 2018:
I had a good friend recently tell me she stopped getting my news feed due to my many FFRF, Humanist, Athiest postings. She missed my posting information of my recent heart failure and dog attack. I told her that’s fine, I would just send her any news on SMS! ? I have stopped following several friends because of their constant posting of goofy ass religious and Right Wing garbage, they are free to unfollow me.
Bernardo comments on Mar 15, 2018:
Then i unfriend most of my family(seblings, cousins) on facebook, maybe you could do it also.
Barnie2years replies on Mar 16, 2018:
I had a good friend recently tell me she stopped getting my news feed due to my many FFRF, Humanist, Athiest postings. She missed my posting information of my recent heart failure and dog attack. I told her that’s fine, I would just send her any news on SMS! ? I have stopped following several friends because of their constant posting of goofy ass religious and Right Wing garbage, they are free to unfollow me.
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