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No! It's Fluffy Akbar! [facebook.com]

BudFrank comments on Dec 1, 2019:

I can understand why a cat would misinterpret your actions when trying to do Muslim prayers.

Friendships with former lovers.

BudFrank comments on Dec 1, 2019:

I have stayed good friends with some former girlfriends after we decided it wouldn’t work to date. I still have several that will not be romantic any more. Some are married and some are not. I also have broken off totally or been broken off with totally. It is possible but there is not a firm rule. His being dishonest with you on it is another matter.

Not just guys. Everyone wants a little TLC.

BudFrank comments on Dec 1, 2019:

Don’t we all?

UPDATE: There will not be a second date and that's a good thing.

BudFrank comments on Dec 1, 2019:

Don’t overthink. Give it some time

A Family Wolf Encounter

BudFrank comments on Dec 1, 2019:

Cool!

Good morning! I feel like we're in a food coma, have been getting together and eating since ...

BudFrank comments on Nov 30, 2019:

Liver. Still hate it

Benefits of living alone!

BudFrank comments on Nov 30, 2019:

Yep. That’s about it

So on thanksgiving, I was at Frankie's parents home.

BudFrank comments on Nov 29, 2019:

Most of my family would do the same thing

Today’s rehab brag: I have only been letting myself go to the dog park every other day, and today ...

BudFrank comments on Nov 29, 2019:

Good for you!

Tomorrow is moving day.

BudFrank comments on Nov 29, 2019:

Great! Hope it all goes well.

Americans don’t have egg cups. How do they eat boiled eggs?

BudFrank comments on Nov 28, 2019:

We had egg cups when I was a child. I just peel them, maybe quarter them and put them on a plate with pepper and/or salt, depending on my mood that morning

I am curious about your day. Did you have any family mishaps or faux pas?

BudFrank comments on Nov 28, 2019:

It was a pretty good day with family. No real problems. It was maybe a little disappointing that I had my 70th birthday this week, and the kids didn’t recognize it other than happy birthday texts on the day They prayed and I was respectful at that point. There was no other particular religious talk, though, and that’s a relief

Hope you all had a nice Thanksgiving!

BudFrank comments on Nov 28, 2019:

It was a pretty good day with family. No real problems. It was maybe a little disappointing that I had my 70th birthday this week, and the kids didn’t recognize it other than happy birthday texts on the day.

My daughter made this sweet potato pie for dinner.

BudFrank comments on Nov 28, 2019:

Great pie! Wish I’d known and could have watched

Happy Thanksgiving from Aurora, Colorado! Wishing everyone a good day wherever you are!

BudFrank comments on Nov 28, 2019:

Happy thanksgiving from Charlotte NC

Correcting Others Make You Look Bad

BudFrank comments on Nov 28, 2019:

You em we’re right on piqued because it’s a French word. But it’s silly to correct people like that.

I've already said more "Happy Thanksgivings" than I intended to, and I'm sure I'll say more before...

BudFrank comments on Nov 28, 2019:

Happy Friday Eve!

Just told a relative the grown-up equivalent of “If you can’t say anything nice, don’t say ...

BudFrank comments on Nov 28, 2019:

Some people never get it

Happy thanksgiving from vermont !!

BudFrank comments on Nov 28, 2019:

Happy Thanksgiving from North Carolina!

Good morning and Happy Thanksgiving! 🥰 I'll dwell on the positives in my life today .

BudFrank comments on Nov 28, 2019:

I am thankful for friends, especially here, for enough retirement to live on, a good roof over my head, a volunteer opportunity it’s that gives me a sense of fulfillment.

Did you know?

BudFrank comments on Nov 27, 2019:

Interesting trivia

Hi Everyone, I'd like everyone's opinion here.

BudFrank comments on Nov 27, 2019:

There is a term “benching” where someone will keep you on the back burner, so to speak, in case things done work out with someone else. I’m not saying thats what’s happened here. I have gotten into some projects that keep me from normal chit chat for a while. Hard to know

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BudFrank comments on Nov 27, 2019:

Yep. That’s a walnut. People don’t understand it hurts whatever argument they have if they use such obviously false pictures

Have you ever tried pulling on a man's big toe during orgasm?

BudFrank comments on Nov 27, 2019:

Nope. Never heard of that. I must have worked for somebody though

Isn't she exquisite?

BudFrank comments on Nov 27, 2019:

Nice shape too. It took me a moment to get to that part

Mt.

BudFrank comments on Nov 27, 2019:

Thanks for sharing. Great pics!

I am watching a great little British film (Ladies in Lavender), where an attractive young woman on ...

BudFrank comments on Nov 27, 2019:

Good comeback!

I get two points.

BudFrank comments on Nov 27, 2019:

Four for me

Gooooooooood Morning Everyone! I am working not so diligently today, and hoping for an early ...

BudFrank comments on Nov 27, 2019:

Repairing roof leaks. I don’t have a yard to worry about now

I would never consent to this! Who wants a bloody, torn ear?! :o

BudFrank comments on Nov 27, 2019:

Nice symbolism but in reality it’s very stupid

"Distance doesn't matter in a relationship."

BudFrank comments on Nov 26, 2019:

Yes distance does matter. Being together matters and whatever prevents that is a problem. Other things that matter are working together under stress to see how each other responds to stressful situations, having some hobbies in common (but not necessarily everything).

Maybe not completely all alone but away from the BS would be nice.

BudFrank comments on Nov 26, 2019:

Agreeing with your take on it

The uncomplicated truth about women’s sexuality. [ted.com]

BudFrank comments on Nov 25, 2019:

In my case it’s the reverse. As a result of aging, I have to tell a prospective partner she will have many more orgasms than me. It’s nothing wrong with her. My body just doesn’t respond like it used to. But still I get a lot of pleasure from “pleasuring” her, including the clitoris and g-spot. It’s truly a “it’s not you. It’s me” point, and that has caused guilt on their parts, but eventually is accepted, I think. Men generally don’t have that kind of guilt if the woman’s doesn’t have an orgasm, sadly.

Hey everyone - Happy Monday! This Thursday we're doing something new for Thanksgiving.

BudFrank comments on Nov 25, 2019:

Going to my daughter’s house. Two daughters and some grandkids will be there, as well as my ex. Since it’s near my birthday I’ll be wondering if they will acknowledge it.

I suppose this is more of a question for when I begin dating again.

BudFrank comments on Nov 25, 2019:

I have made viagra work for me. It does take a little planning but for me if gives the desired effect. Even if I don’t use it, things work somewhat. But even so, there is a lot of satisfaction that can be had from seeing a partner have an orgasm. And there is a lot of pleasure for both parties in kissing and caressing.

Now i understand.

BudFrank comments on Nov 25, 2019:

Here’s my favorite post on it. It helps if you know some French. https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/style/le-grande-thanksgiving/2011/11/18/gIQA2nerYN_story.html Let me know if the link doesn’t work and I’ll post the whole thing

[yahoo.

BudFrank comments on Nov 25, 2019:

I hope it helps, but some people will never be convinced.

[cincinnati.

BudFrank comments on Nov 25, 2019:

A creative genius who left us sooner that we would like.

Alone on Thanksgiving Day. How do you cope?

BudFrank comments on Nov 25, 2019:

I’m sorry you’re alone, but glad you found something. I will be with two daughters but the relationships have been strained somewhat. My ex will be there because she’s the girls’ mother. We get along ok but only for things relating to the kids. I’ll stay a few hours and excuse myself when I think it’s safe. I’m making an apple pie. I’ll post pictures too. Your cake looks great!

I'm a real Don Juan!

BudFrank comments on Nov 24, 2019:

Good answer, unfortunately

Good Afternoon Everyone! Been packing and organizing today.

BudFrank comments on Nov 24, 2019:

Actually I walked through a Wally World one Black Friday at noon and it was pretty quiet. All the real going go shoppers were there at 6 AM and we’re home napping by then

Sheriff no longer has a woody.

BudFrank comments on Nov 24, 2019:

Yep. It happens that way.

Sorry I couldn't resist 🤣

BudFrank comments on Nov 23, 2019:

The kisses can come out like that too if they aren’t properly cooked

Anyone like mathematics?

BudFrank comments on Nov 23, 2019:

I majored it math but never like that!

Christmas cactus: my longest relationship.

BudFrank comments on Nov 23, 2019:

I appreciate your history and methods of making them bloom

I’m meeting someone for an adult beverage this evening.

BudFrank comments on Nov 22, 2019:

Hope it goes well

Friday 'feline' funnies

BudFrank comments on Nov 22, 2019:

I’ve heard a number of these

I think we generally agreed a guy who has several pictures of himself consuming alcohol is a ...

BudFrank comments on Nov 22, 2019:

It doesn’t bother me

Good afternoon! Almost Friday, yay! So ... popcorn or M&M's?

BudFrank comments on Nov 21, 2019:

Yes

The world of Celtic history was thrown into disarray today by the discovery of a 13th-century ...

BudFrank comments on Nov 20, 2019:

What will ever become of Irish dancers? We will have to wait for a new generation to come up who don’t have vestigial arms

Happy Wednesday, everyone.

BudFrank comments on Nov 20, 2019:

Not much. Eat cereal or drink a smoothie, brush teeth, shave, dress, and head out, for days when I volunteer. They have coffee and tea there. When I am staying in, I’ll likely eat while I catch up on Agnostics notifications, then do the rest eventually

Just call me Kermit.

BudFrank comments on Nov 19, 2019:

Tool, glasses, lots of options

I'd like to hear about what your local kink/sex positive scenes are like.

BudFrank comments on Nov 19, 2019:

I know there’s a polyamory meetup group in Charlotte with maybe 3 subgroups depending on what side of town you’re in.

It wasn't that at all, Make that wish come true

BudFrank comments on Nov 19, 2019:

Good point. Especially on the internet.

What is being lonely?

BudFrank comments on Nov 19, 2019:

I understand. I struggle with that too

It's called caterwauling. :P

BudFrank comments on Nov 19, 2019:

Actually may be a love song when it’s that

Today's hike with micro-spikes on one foot. Needed two.

BudFrank comments on Nov 19, 2019:

Great pictures and description. I’m glad you were able to figure an option, and didn’t get hurt when you fell

Art of the day.

BudFrank comments on Nov 19, 2019:

Interesting. Almost an alien dragonfly

Going to trump rally

BudFrank comments on Nov 19, 2019:

I see they’re entering Missippi. That sounds about right

Update and follow-up: I want to thank everyone who responded to my post last week regarding the ...

BudFrank comments on Nov 19, 2019:

Great! So glad to hear that

I got lucky today. I found the charging cord for my old digital camera...yay!

BudFrank comments on Nov 19, 2019:

Yay! Finding matching g power cords can be challenging

❤️You are holding a cup of coffee when someone comes along and bumps into you or shakes your ...

BudFrank comments on Nov 19, 2019:

Good thoughts!

Thanks to all for all your well wishes.

BudFrank comments on Nov 18, 2019:

I’m sorry you’re having to deal with that -health and friends

If You Want To Be Trusted, Be Honest | I Heart Intelligence.com

BudFrank comments on Nov 18, 2019:

And being raised in the south it’s a cultural thing to try to say what is inoffensive, maybe followed by “bless your heart,” (which can mean “fuck you” or several other things).

. Me too!

BudFrank comments on Nov 18, 2019:

Can I have both?

Today , after I slept like dead for 14 hrs , I had to turn down as politely as possible a 29 yr old ...

BudFrank comments on Nov 18, 2019:

Good way to handle it

Hi Everyone! Home sick today with very bad cold or start of something else.

BudFrank comments on Nov 18, 2019:

Hope you’re better soon

Happy Monday! I have a shameless love of Spam! Fry it up and put it on a sandwich with cheese and ...

BudFrank comments on Nov 18, 2019:

We used to fry it, cut it up and put it into mac and cheese, back when we lived in Africa and American food was hard to find

A friend talked me trying Match again.

BudFrank comments on Nov 18, 2019:

Red flags are red flags. Listen to the message

Apparently I think like a kid... LOL

BudFrank comments on Nov 17, 2019:

Great ones!

I have NO idea what that means.

BudFrank comments on Nov 17, 2019:

I’ve seen this kind of thing. I’m guessing this was India.

What country are you from?

BudFrank comments on Nov 17, 2019:

Isn’t language wonderful?

Mea Culpa I just knee jerked and removed a meme without scrolling.

BudFrank comments on Nov 17, 2019:

I appreciate you being honest about that. It wasn’t my post, but that’s the kind of admins we need

Today's cheese 🧀🧀🧀🧀

BudFrank comments on Nov 17, 2019:

Groan ! 🙄🤣

Good Afternoon Everyone! Finishing packing.

BudFrank comments on Nov 17, 2019:

Glad you have good groups to participate in

Some scammers on dating sites are not too bright.

BudFrank comments on Nov 16, 2019:

I’m guessing she never heard of that before on her country. She probably figures it’s some kind of check

for you mathematicians... [static.boredpanda.com]

BudFrank comments on Nov 16, 2019:

🤨😜🙄

I guess I will join the religious joke day 🤣

BudFrank comments on Nov 16, 2019:

They’re getting more popular in the southern US, but some people haven’t figured them out yet.

So.