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On holiday in Killarney...but I haven’t forgotten my A-friends.

BudFrank comments on Jun 8, 2019:

Looks like you must be having fun

... Then there's "us".

BudFrank comments on Jun 8, 2019:

Yeppers

The ban wagon pulled into town today.

BudFrank comments on Jun 8, 2019:

Bye bye!

Ok.

BudFrank comments on Jun 8, 2019:

I started out searching since 2010. It’s painful but it’s the best way I know to get through it.

Going to be laying low for the next week or so.

BudFrank comments on Jun 7, 2019:

Enjoy!!

Is this real?? Please tell me this is real.

BudFrank comments on Jun 6, 2019:

I just checked with a nurse. It is real, for a chest x-ray.

Out of curiosity, what is your favorite holiday for sex (be it because of the theme, availability or...

BudFrank comments on Jun 6, 2019:

I like New Year’s. It’s starting over, and what better way to start something new?

Just wanted to post a feel good video. Cutest thing I've seen in awhile. [youtube.com]

BudFrank comments on Jun 6, 2019:

So cute!

Last night I ended up taking the night off of work.I used a vacation day. Why?

BudFrank comments on Jun 6, 2019:

Good for you!!

It certainly does.

BudFrank comments on Jun 6, 2019:

We had ladybird books for our kids when we were In England. It was good for reading skills. Somehow we missed this one.

Found at Bed, Bath, & Beyond.

BudFrank comments on Jun 6, 2019:

Interesting reading on that tag. Wonder if somebody got fired for that.

Dumbo has other ideas

BudFrank comments on Jun 6, 2019:

So what does he do with that trunk? It might make oral interesting.

I hope you got good snacks!

BudFrank comments on Jun 6, 2019:

I bring the wine

Ok.

BudFrank comments on Jun 6, 2019:

That’s ok. You be yourself. Don’t let anybody dictate who you are.

What are some reasons you are afraid to commit?

BudFrank comments on Jun 6, 2019:

I got messed up with my second marriage. She was angry and controlling. Since I got out of that in 2010, I haven’t been willing to commit long term. A couple of years ago I did find a woman I loved, but she felt I suffocated her and she cut off everything. Sometimes life just sucks

I'm such a divided person.

BudFrank comments on Jun 6, 2019:

I understand the feeling

Today I am thankful for the churches.

BudFrank comments on Jun 5, 2019:

In know the Red Cross is there too. It’s one location I could go when I’m available next week

Today would have been our 15th wedding anniversary.

BudFrank comments on Jun 5, 2019:

Hugs!

Any advice?

BudFrank comments on Jun 5, 2019:

Yes, I have done that. I spent a couple of years in a Codependents Anonymous group that helped some getting my head screwed on better.

Has anyone else experienced emotionally unavailability?

BudFrank comments on Jun 5, 2019:

Yes I have, and have been accused of it too. If one of you is emotionally available and the other is not, that’s a recipe for heartache and failure.

Genetics won. Curses, foiled again!

BudFrank comments on Jun 5, 2019:

I’m glad you found the generic. Hope it works for you!

Good morning, my lovelies :) I hope you're all doing well.

BudFrank comments on Jun 5, 2019:

Bad spelling and grammar are a couple of them. There are lots of ways that shows up. I don’t isually respond but that affects my thinking about the person to some extent. Myself, I will make mistakes, but they are usually typing mistakes and poor proofreading.

Can a potential romantic relationship move too slow?

BudFrank comments on Jun 5, 2019:

On top of old smoky all covered with snow I lost my true lover By courting too slow. I feel dating is like two cars driving side by side. You want to find someone who has the same end destination as you, as well as is happy going the same speed in developing the relationship. If both are not true, you’ll move apart and eventually disappear. I have had this happen with me, often with me being reluctant to commit, but the other way too.

This question is prompted by a conversation I had with a coworker at lunch today.

BudFrank comments on Jun 4, 2019:

I hoped to be in better places financially, but I suspect many of us are in that boat. I am living in my travel trailer, and it is paid for, which is somewhat of a dream. I’m able and willing to volunteer and have had a number of opportunities to do so this last year. It’s not what I envisioned but I love it

Heterosexual men like women’s breasts.

BudFrank comments on Jun 4, 2019:

I like breasts of all sizes, but that is not the most important thing by far. I even have dated women who have had mastectomies and not rebuilt, and have caressed their chests lovingly.

To catch or not to catch.

BudFrank comments on Jun 4, 2019:

A skyscraper wouldn’t be good. I agree there has to be a healthy medium somewhere. I just don’t know what it is. Still if it was a skyscraper, you should be able to say you tried.

I'm finally here after all these years.🤗

BudFrank comments on Jun 4, 2019:

Agreed!

Congratulations to @scurry on making it to level 8.

BudFrank comments on Jun 4, 2019:

Congratulations scurry!!! 🎂🎊🍰🍰🎈

Sorry guys but this really made me laugh. Lol