butts are spouting

BudFrank comments on May 4, 2019:

Nice! Wish I had a garden. I’d probably do as a scarecrow if nothing else. I don’t have nearly as nice a figure as this one

I've been attending AA meetings for some 8 months now.

BudFrank comments on May 4, 2019:

I agree with you. I went to codependents anonymous for two years and learned some things that have helped me grow. I was constantly thinking, though, that statements made my some didn’t apply to me, or applied poorly

Just random thoughts.

BudFrank comments on May 3, 2019:

🍷🍸🍾 supporting each other is the basic reason most of us are here.

A significant shift for me… I used to do a lot of crafting and art, very adept with my hands, ...

BudFrank comments on May 3, 2019:

Great!! Glad to hear you’re learning about yourself and moving ahead with your growth

It's very VERY difficult...

BudFrank comments on May 3, 2019:

Unless you are Amos Decker

Guten Morgen! :) Right on to question 8, which I will expand from partner to also include friends:...

BudFrank comments on May 3, 2019:

Friend: touch, world view, intelligence

A man contacted me after about a month.

BudFrank comments on May 3, 2019:

Nope, nope, nope!👎

When I talk to people who don't really like sex.

BudFrank comments on May 2, 2019:

Ex-wife felt it was mainly a duty that’s partly why she’s the ex. Kind of takes the joy out of it. And her conservative views and what she was taught by her mother (if anything) didn’t help either.

Sounds a little fishy...

BudFrank comments on May 2, 2019:

Some people! Just not accounting for them. So narrow minded

What big eyes you have!

BudFrank comments on May 1, 2019:

Truth!

Does anyone else find it interesting that the vast majority of recent weather related disasters ...

BudFrank comments on May 1, 2019:

On the other hand the worst disaster last year was in California, and that could be repeated this year

A little cheese 🧀🧀🧀🧀

BudFrank comments on May 1, 2019:

Groan! 🙃😏🤫

I am laughing uncontrollably! 😅😂😅

BudFrank comments on May 1, 2019:

Not to mention Crocs!

Good morning! On to question 6 - I need to ponder that one a little bit myself: If you were able...

BudFrank comments on May 1, 2019:

I’d go with the body. That would open up so many possibilities of experience: travel to a lot of places I might not risk right now. I’d keep my mind at its current level with the wisdom I’ve accumulated

Playfull pics 1950's

BudFrank comments on May 1, 2019:

She is beautiful!

Take a break

BudFrank comments on May 1, 2019:

Actually that is a kindness to them to give them a reality check.

Another first and last date. Want to hear about it?

BudFrank comments on May 1, 2019:

You deserve something better. Definitely a one and done in my humble opinion.

Help I have a Date Act III: Romance is like music; too much harmony can be tiresome.

BudFrank comments on Apr 30, 2019:

I’d want a partner who is the complete package. That’s a pretty important part of it. You should be able to judge that for yourself

Good morning! Moving right on to question number 5 .

BudFrank comments on Apr 30, 2019:

Went dancing a while back and sang with the woman I was with

Showed them!!

BudFrank comments on Apr 29, 2019:

I’m too old for teachers to be telling me that. When I was in college it was slide rules (really!!!).

I am 68 y/o...looking 55 and feeling 40. Am I in the right group?

BudFrank comments on Apr 29, 2019:

Yes, I think this is one of several possible groups for you, in order to interact with similarly mature and thinking people

My luck un on line dating, was all bad luck. I gave it up.

BudFrank comments on Apr 29, 2019:

Yes it can be pretty frustrating

One disagreement and our friendship is over.

BudFrank comments on Apr 29, 2019:

Sorry you had that experience. You’re worth more/better than that

A few days ago I posted about joining a dating site that sounds like a part in a door that helps it ...

BudFrank comments on Apr 29, 2019:

Wow! Higher rate than normal.

I think I lost a like or two for my profile picture ...lol.

BudFrank comments on Apr 29, 2019:

Profile picture here? I don’t see any problem with it

Guten Morgen :) Moving right on to question 4: What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?

BudFrank comments on Apr 29, 2019:

A perfect day would be spending time with a close female friend out in nature, sharing our impressions and reactions to what we’re experiencing. It would probably include a picnic on a blanket.

Trying to get involved in my new little village of 1500.

BudFrank comments on Apr 28, 2019:

Glad this chapter is closed, although sorry for the way it happened. Good to hear about the new group for you

Wow, what a concept.

BudFrank comments on Apr 28, 2019:

That’s my way of doing things anyway.

If you aren't being treated with love and respect, check your price tag.

BudFrank comments on Apr 28, 2019:

Good point!

Art of the day. What do you see? Had to change it - pic of the day

BudFrank comments on Apr 28, 2019:

A view of a bridge. A. Close-up view

Recipe for Happiness: Live with enthusiasm.

BudFrank comments on Apr 28, 2019:

Agreed! But especially smile with no reason. It makes them wonder what you’ve been up to

We have to keep our relationships exciting! Keeping it freaky!

BudFrank comments on Apr 28, 2019:

Looks like too many possibilities of a negative outcome. No thank you

Muscle relaxers useless; anti-inflammatories cause nausea.

BudFrank comments on Apr 28, 2019:

Go ahead with the CBD oil. It should help , and I really don’t think it will hurt. Sending a hug 🤗!

Good morning! Back to the 36 questions.

BudFrank comments on Apr 28, 2019:

Good morning! Not usually. I’m pretty spontaneous. I would have the basics in mind. But I also try to be responsive to how the call is going and adjust how I would say things accordingly.

Bob was kind enough to paint this for me! lol

BudFrank comments on Apr 28, 2019:

Surely that can’t be about you! I’m sure there are a lot of guys who would want to date you. You’re easy on the eyes.

Hey it's a start in the right direction.

BudFrank comments on Apr 28, 2019:

Ive had two of the three in my life in one person before. Don’t think I’ve ever had the income at the same time.

Said goodbye to my dad for the last time today.

BudFrank comments on Apr 28, 2019:

In may be facing that soon. I’m sorry for your grief. I know it’s hard.

Hi I'm thinking of get a tattoo.

BudFrank comments on Apr 26, 2019:

Have to ask me tomorrow. Today all I can think of is the Avengers logo.

Do it. Drive drunk.

BudFrank comments on Apr 26, 2019:

If you insist

Does anyone else who's de-converted from religion struggle with logically knowing / accepting ...

BudFrank comments on Apr 26, 2019:

Each person is different in his growth. It was a process for me, and I still have knee jerk reactions since I was in the church 60 or so years and out about 9. I was kicked out for reasons irrelevant to this discussion and it was a relief actually

Lithographs, Germany, 1865 [honesterotica.com] Yes, thats a dog there

BudFrank comments on Apr 26, 2019:

Interesting g puzzle trying to find out who (or what) is doing whom

WTF!!! I just called the doctor about the MRI I thought they wanted me to get.

BudFrank comments on Apr 26, 2019:

Glad it was normal. Hopenthe oain gets better soon.

Cowgirl! Womxn, What little things do you like to do when you're riding?

BudFrank comments on Apr 26, 2019:

I want her to come as many times as possible. That position is more for her pleasure IMHO. I like it when she tilts her pelvis down to get good friction. I also like this position for visual reasons. We can see more of each other and appreciate the wonderful things about each other, including nipples.

Are you impressed?

BudFrank comments on Apr 26, 2019:

Intelligence and kindness. Im not sure which I like most but when I find them together in a person it’s powerful

I live in the Bible Belt and being open about being an unbeliever would be difficult to say the ...

BudFrank comments on Apr 26, 2019:

Welcome to the community! There are a lot of us in the Bible Belt. Hope you can find some nearby friends. Otherwise we can support you from wherever we are.

I am an atheist.

BudFrank comments on Apr 26, 2019:

Sorry to hear about the rejection. I know that sucks! And it hurts. 🤗 hugs 🤗

Okay, I've had enough.

BudFrank comments on Apr 26, 2019:

I’m proud of proudmerrie

Good morning .

BudFrank comments on Apr 26, 2019:

I would like to be famous for being kind, serving others in some way.

I'm heading up river at noon today to spend the weekend with my baybee. Y'all play nice.

BudFrank comments on Apr 26, 2019:

Enjoy!!

Religion is lazy way of governing/parenting.

BudFrank comments on Apr 25, 2019:

The problem I see with this thought is that most parents didn’t just invent it to control the kids. They really believe it.

Hey, y’all.

BudFrank comments on Apr 25, 2019:

Hang in there!

I want honest answers... Are you turned on by turning your partner on?

BudFrank comments on Apr 25, 2019:

Yes! Definitely!

Good day my friends! Thanks @FlippantLlama for the suggestion to start over! So here it goes: ...

BudFrank comments on Apr 25, 2019:

If it was anyone living or dead, I’d choose the Buddha. Having an interpreter would also be nice. From anyone now living, the Dalai Lama

I’m new to this .

BudFrank comments on Apr 25, 2019:

Welcome to North caromina! There are a few of us around

Do women tend to like, or dislike wet, sloppy kissers? I tend to be a bit wet and sloppy.

BudFrank comments on Apr 23, 2019:

Asking for a friend?

Just sayin

BudFrank comments on Apr 23, 2019:

Don’t forget stink bugs. If you don’t have them where you live, you’re better off

;) girl power! Woohoo!! :):)

BudFrank comments on Apr 23, 2019:

I’m all for girls having power. Us guys haven’t done so well wielding it for centuries

Not all girls are made of sugar and everything nice.

BudFrank comments on Apr 23, 2019:

Agreed

Go back to college? Hmmmm.....

BudFrank comments on Apr 21, 2019:

I wish it was that easy. I don’t remember my college days that way. But I’m a guy. May be different for girls.

I need help

BudFrank comments on Apr 21, 2019:

Taser him, but don’t let any children see. It would traumatize them

I made it home from my vacation with my guy.

BudFrank comments on Apr 21, 2019:

Good for you!!

What's your super power?

BudFrank comments on Apr 21, 2019:

Kindness, expressed in my volunteering with the Red Cross. My “cape” is a red and white vest. People stopped me in Walmart in Northern California saying “you’re awesome” or “thank you for all you do” when I was doing my job, buying office supplies and food stuffs for the shelters. That’s all

Hello! I'm new to this site as well.

BudFrank comments on Apr 21, 2019:

Welcome to the site and to the group!

So.

BudFrank comments on Apr 21, 2019:

Good observations

Estranged from family members... anyone experience this?

BudFrank comments on Apr 21, 2019:

Yes, my agnosticism has estranged me to an extent from my conservative family members. I has brought me closer to my daughter and husband who are agnostic also

Good morning! It's partial moving day today for Chuck into our townhouse.

BudFrank comments on Apr 20, 2019:

I’ve lost track. Over 20

Hey, y’all! I’m feeling much better today, but I can definitely tell when the muscle relaxer ...

BudFrank comments on Apr 20, 2019:

I’m sorry it’s rough right now. We’ll welcome you back when you’re up to it. Rest assured some of us are concerned for youeven if we don’t have your number. We will be friends from a distance for now. 🤗

I responded to some suggestive posts from friends on FB. DAMN! I'm hoping my family won't see...lol

BudFrank comments on Apr 19, 2019:

You can delete your comments. More than once I’ve done this. More than once I’ve barely restrained myself from posting things or responding to things because my conservative family members would object.

Happy Friday! I'm off today, up since 4:45 am, and we have already been out to breakfast, grocery ...

BudFrank comments on Apr 19, 2019:

Tornadoes bother me the most directly because of their unpredictability. With the aftermath, hurricanes have potentially the worst damage, which affects me as a Red Cross volunteer. It’s cool to see thunderstorms, especially if you have a metal roof.

UUNJ posted this article about improving your oral talents on a woman.

BudFrank comments on Apr 19, 2019:

I try to watch,listen, and feel for a woman’s response to know where and how she likes it with oral and manual stimulation. I appreciate feedback. And that is a good article

I saw my doctor this morning.

BudFrank comments on Apr 19, 2019:

I’m sorry you’re having such a difficult time and not getting good cooperation. Hugs (but gentle ones so as not to hurt you) 🤗

I'm kind of posting a similar post to Flippant Llama's yesterday.

BudFrank comments on Apr 19, 2019:

Yes I have, even without the physical contact. I have had physical attraction (that was not reciprocated in this case), mental connection, and just enjoyed doing things together.

Good morning! Last day of work for the week for me, as the courts are closed for Good Friday, so ...

BudFrank comments on Apr 18, 2019:

In a single word, ANGER. Could be political, religious, relationship-related, or whatever.

Insomnia! I’ve had it for the past two nights.

BudFrank comments on Apr 17, 2019:

Sorry to hear that. Hope it gets better soon.

Here's a good one! I just read a profile where she stated, I need a mentally strong man.

BudFrank comments on Apr 16, 2019:

And the problem with that is?

This almost feels like watching helplessly as the Twin Towers burned and fell again.

BudFrank comments on Apr 15, 2019:

Agreed! I visited Notre Dame a number of years ago and the architecture was wonderful

No soft cushy play areas for us! Lol

BudFrank comments on Apr 15, 2019:

Me too! I survived standing on top of jungle gyms

I cannot see your hand if you raise it so if you would give me a yes or no. 😊👍

BudFrank comments on Apr 15, 2019:

Yes

So much for the cathedral of Notre Dame in Paris.

BudFrank comments on Apr 15, 2019:

I am sorry for it’s historical, architectural, and art value which is lost , but not as a church

Post the last nature photo you took while using your cellphone. Thanks I'll start........

BudFrank comments on Apr 15, 2019:

Tornado damage in Alabama last month

Good morning! I will finally have the opportunity again a few times coming up, to bake some yummy ...

BudFrank comments on Apr 14, 2019:

Pecan pie

I know i've been gone a few days, i had an accident monday night.

BudFrank comments on Apr 13, 2019:

I’m sorry to hear that. I hope it heals well

Ever feel like you’ve f@&ked something up before it’s even had a chance to begin?

BudFrank comments on Apr 13, 2019:

Many times, at all different stages of friendships/relationships.

I’m enjoying my road trip—now on Day 7—and I have lots of time to think about what and who ...

BudFrank comments on Apr 12, 2019:

I missed meeting you in NC. I’m glad it’s a good trip for you.

While I'm not running late this morning, I don't have much time either.

BudFrank comments on Apr 12, 2019:

I have used both but Have chosen iPhone the last few times. They are pretty dependable. I don’t get the latest model. You can get a lower price on last years model.

On our way home.

BudFrank comments on Apr 11, 2019:

Nice nails. And hoping for a speedy recovery

Deep dude

BudFrank comments on Apr 11, 2019:

One of my hands is clapping for this

Hand surgery today part deux. I'll see ya on the flip side. Right thumb joint replacement.

BudFrank comments on Apr 11, 2019:

Wow! Hope it goes well and you recover quickly.

Connie is running late - so asked me to come up with a question for the day.

BudFrank comments on Apr 11, 2019:

The Princess Bride.

Teach your children well:

BudFrank comments on Apr 11, 2019:

Good thoughts.

Good afternoon boys and girls! Since I'm going to be essentially absent for nine days beginning ...

BudFrank comments on Apr 10, 2019:

Welcome CarolinaGirl!

Good morning! One of the things I am really looking forward to is going back to the Rijksmuseum in ...

BudFrank comments on Apr 10, 2019:

Rodin’s “The kiss”. It’s not that it’s so detailed and anatomically correct, but it communicates emotion. Been to Paris so it’s hard to choose

Has anyone else had or is anyone else having a “short” distance relationship, say 2-4 hours ...

BudFrank comments on Apr 9, 2019:

I tried that several times. There were always other reasons it failed too, but the distance thing was a part of it too. It is wearing on the body, especially for those if us that are,... ahem, more mature. That’s my experience.

Good morning! There are some parts of my body I would like to just take off and put aside when ...

BudFrank comments on Apr 9, 2019:

I agree with the arm when snuggling. I had a knee replacement on my right knee a year ago. I still have pain in it, and it gets tight.

Yay a Monday meme!

BudFrank comments on Apr 8, 2019:

I would substitute “Bible belt” instead of “middle America “.

Would you relocate if you found someone on here that you have a connection with?

BudFrank comments on Apr 8, 2019:

Yes I would. Being retired and living in a travel trailer helps

As we all reach a certain, er, thicker vintage, larger than we may've once remembered, we must also ...

BudFrank comments on Apr 8, 2019:

Somewhere in the “middle” sounds good to me.

Good morning! I'm coming right to today's question: What bridges do you not regret burning?

BudFrank comments on Apr 8, 2019:

My ex-wife, who told a friend she had had “Lorena Bobbitt thoughts”.

Back when I was a boy...

BudFrank comments on Apr 7, 2019:

Yes, did that more than once in the deep past

[out.reddit.com] Testing a gif.. does it work?

BudFrank comments on Apr 7, 2019:

Yes. It works very well.