WADI: noun.

Buttercup comments on Oct 10, 2018:

Similar to "arroyo" in Southern Colorado and New Mexico, a very common word for a very common feature of the terrain..

[friendlyatheist.

Buttercup comments on Oct 5, 2018:

Dumbass beyond compare

Is there any kind of animal/pet you would not want in your home?

Buttercup comments on Oct 2, 2018:

Hamsters, mean little assholes. I really like guinea pigs and even rats are smarter and nicer. I had a bat for a pet, also dumb and ill tempered and hard to maintain. It was just a novelty, I would never have another.

The sound just is so sexy

Buttercup comments on Oct 1, 2018:

One of my professors has a lovely soprano with just a hint of her native Ukrainian accent, many of my classmates mostly women seem to agree.

Boy Scouts?

Buttercup comments on Sep 29, 2018:

Shop around for a troupe, I was a scout leader for many years and we mostly ignored the religious and anti gay stuff

Silly selfies! C'mon, show 'em to me!

Buttercup comments on Sep 20, 2018:

The vampire was for breast cancer awareness month

Question. I have different fetishes. How do I bring it up in conversation?

Buttercup comments on Sep 16, 2018:

Definitely by the time you have the pregnancy/ std talk if it's essential to your sexuality, it's ungentlemanly to just spring stuff on people. I'm pretty kinky and been pleasantly surprised at my reception. It's really not different than other aspects of yourself you reveal, start slow and watch their reaction, be positive we tend to attract people like ourselves and they read more than we think we are revealing.

it's uncomfortable when the neighbors kids look like you!

Buttercup comments on Sep 15, 2018:

Takes a village

Im recently seperated after 27 years of marriage. How long before dating again should one wait

Buttercup comments on Sep 6, 2018:

I've heard a month for every year you were together is average, sounds kind of reasonable for me.( up to a year or two max maybe) Consider your options too, someone really good might happen by.

Anyone have met someone in the adult movie industry?

Buttercup comments on Sep 6, 2018:

Bob Gucccione, I worked for Penthouse. It was just publishing so mostly I worked with Kathy Keaton and even if a model came in she would have been clothed and not a big deal. Funniest thing was all the office people making editorial decisions were women.

Winter camping in Washington state.

Buttercup comments on Aug 28, 2018:

So cool. The big winter storms at Ozette or Shi Shi are awe inspiring, I've seen waves more than 40 feet high. One night it was so cold that we had pans soaking and the seawater in them froze. I've camped in snow caves on Ranier and Hurricane Ridge when I was a scout leader too.

I'm curious how many houseplants do you have in your home?

Buttercup comments on Aug 28, 2018:

Two a philodendron and an aloe, lots outside. Way back when in my apartment I had a bunch, mostly spider plants

Smithereens.

Buttercup comments on Aug 25, 2018:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vqML7WbOun8 I have a weakness for hard working blue collar bands and they're a good one

If you would do anything for Love but you won’t do “that” sexually, what is “that” for ...

Buttercup comments on Aug 18, 2018:

I went to a Jackson Browne concert to impress a girl, can't sink much lower

PSA! People are complaining that things are getting deleted.

Buttercup comments on Aug 18, 2018:

I've had some posts get lost but I think it's just glitches, thanks though!!

At what age did you have your first sexual activity?

Buttercup comments on Aug 12, 2018:

First time to 3rd base was twelve, she was ten, barely pubescent and down for it. She went on to be promiscuous in high school. It only dawned on me a few years ago she was probably being molested even though it was widely known that her older brother was molesting her younger brother. Lots of make out parties about that time; it was a local tradition to play pass around between boys and the girls one or two grades behind us. I wonder if any body took on swinging when they got older.

Currently I have every other day off and not enough time to get out for any big excursions.

Buttercup comments on Aug 9, 2018:

The Olympic Park beaches are cool day hikes, Oil City is less crowded than Ozette or Kalaloch

So I defended Males with Big Penises in a post and 2 "males" right away view my Profile.

Buttercup comments on Aug 2, 2018:

I'm big all over and scarred and put up with Lurch jokes. Dr Frankenstein would've been cruel indeed if the parts didn't match. I think the women I attract also tend to think it's part of the whole package and never seem surprised. The most usual reaction is " That's going to take some getting used to (so let's get started)". There is an old joke... a woman was displeased with her husband and sought out the burliest biker she could find. He whipped out his winkie and it was tiny, much smaller than her husband's. "Who do you expect to satisfy with that?" she demanded scornfully. " heh, heh, ME!" he answered.

Reading comprehension 101.

Buttercup comments on Aug 1, 2018:

This has been on my desktop for a while

Has anyone tried play piercing?

Buttercup comments on Aug 1, 2018:

Old friend of mine did me with a safety pin in the frenum, just innocent fun, truth or dare scenario. It was quite shallow.

Are there certain foods that the texture of makes you gag?

Buttercup comments on Jul 29, 2018:

Canned okra, too slimy, I'm not a fan of canned spinach either. I only do raw or lightly cooked shellfish in small doses like stews. A big bowl of mussels is kind of gross.

Science is unable to set its own priorities.

Buttercup comments on Jul 29, 2018:

Science can set priorities. Ideology can and should be evidenced based, this is a religious argument. The common good as evidenced by evolution, suffering and optimizing the environment is where ideology should be based and nowhere else.

What do you think of Lawrence Krauss recent implication in awkward or insistent or forceful sexual ...

Buttercup comments on Jul 27, 2018:

I can't think of any organization that promotes pedophilia more than the Catholic Church and mistreatment of women is institutionalized in Islam and Christianity

Have you ever had public sex? If so, where and what did you do? Did you get caught?

Buttercup comments on Jul 25, 2018:

My steadfast companion,the same one from the dorm where we had the big audience, loved to smoke pot and fuck, she wasn't afraid of pleasure of any kind and getting soft and dreamy two ways at once pleased her. We fucked once on the banks of the Stanislaus River in Northern California. It was so hot outside it made us dreamy in three different ways. A man approached us in our exposed condition, he called ahead to give us time to cover up, so he must have seen us earlier. He apologized for intruding, said he was rafting with his children and asked if we would stay covered long enough for them to pass. Of course we were happy to oblige. What a sweet man!

Shinrin - Yoku: A Japanese term meaning "forest bathing" or in American terms nature therapy.

Buttercup comments on Jul 24, 2018:

Love the woods

Going to Olympic National Park in a few weeks. Any hiking / biking suggestions for family?

Buttercup comments on Jul 24, 2018:

Shi shi beach and Point of Arches, easy and beautiful(I shopped in the bear but the sunset is normal). Hurricane Ridge is mobbed, sometimes you can't even park. Dosewallops Falls is great, the road is washed out so you can hike into old drive in camps.

What a great group, glad I found it.

Buttercup comments on Jul 24, 2018:

I've heard "L'esprit de l'escalier" before, I guess Europeans need it. (Maybe they're a little slow?)

Just for the fun of it.

Buttercup comments on Jul 22, 2018:

About 12 (older and younger)

Golden Showers; are they sexual??

Buttercup comments on Jul 22, 2018:

Not me, I do like watching women piss in the woods. Not really sexy but adorably awkward.

Have you ever been attracted to someone in a position of authority, over you?

Buttercup comments on Jul 21, 2018:

Not actually my supervisor but an very pretty sweet coworker, I was 15 and she was about 25. I was way way ... too shy to say anything but she had to have noticed my slack jawed drooling when we were in close proximity. She quit and moved away. A couple of years later she came back to visit and needed a place to stay so I offered my house. I put her in my room and went to sleep on the couch. She came out after a bit and said," Aren't you coming to bed?" Teenage virgin boy's dream come true and I pounded her mercilessly for the next three days.

Have you ever been attracted to someone in a position of authority, over you?

Buttercup comments on Jul 21, 2018:

Claiming the fifth on this one, but I had a good time.

I'm into BDSM. Who is with me? Come on, no bigotry shame!

Buttercup comments on Jul 21, 2018:

Have been always, something I noticed is that I attract kinky girls. I used to think it was some sort of kinkdar but since Shades it's become so mainstream I think it's like Mae West said, "There are no good girls gone wrong, just bad girls found out." It probably helps that I look so toppish.

Do you have activities, art, health routines, social responsibilities that just get put on the back ...

Buttercup comments on Jul 21, 2018:

That's just life, I'm not really introverted but sometimes it's very hard to get out and socialize. I always feel better when I do.

I honestly believe within the next 10 years we will have solid proof of alien life.

Buttercup comments on Jul 21, 2018:

More likely to be by spectrographic analysis of exoplanet atmospheres which would detect simple life but tools to detect modulated electromagnetic radiation of intelligent life are are also improving rapidly.

Dom/Sub relationships and protocol

Buttercup comments on Jul 17, 2018:

Up to the participants, I think they are open far more often than vanilla leaning relationships. Beware of dogmatic pronunciations. The Dunning Kruger effect is common in wanna be Doms

Worrying Trend: I am actually somewhat alarmed by 3 posts made today.

Buttercup comments on Jul 17, 2018:

Censorship should be reserved for threats and fraud, we don't need manners police.

Other posts brought up hook ups, watching and sharing porn.

Buttercup comments on Jul 17, 2018:

xhamster, xnxx, xvideos, and redtube, are probably what I see most, I tend to google and use whatever site pops up. luxuretv is Dutch I think and has some very hard content.

Ladies! How many of you ask to see your guy's porn?

Buttercup comments on Jul 17, 2018:

We watch porn together and sometimes when I see something hot or weird or funny I'll save it to show her. A quirk both my wives had was they loved going to porn theaters and being surrounded by aroused men( pheromones or fantasy) Internet and moving to the suburbs spoiled that. Back in the seventies they had premiers of porn like mainstream films in Times Square and North Beach, fun to get dressed up and rub elbows(et al) with people who took perversion seriously.

Do you like to have background music when you have sex?

Buttercup comments on Jul 16, 2018:

Not usually, I like the cool jazz background music in the better Italian and French porn so that's likely to still be on when we move things up a notch. We have lots of birds so that's nice for summer mornings. Rarely, something Vivaldi(ish) for Jane Austin roleplay.

Master Masturbater: Deviant or Normal?

Buttercup comments on Jul 16, 2018:

I'm pretty much one and done for a day. You are the opposite of me. I have less interest in sex when I don't have a partner.

I voiced this particular preference of mine on another platform and was shamed into removing the ...

Buttercup comments on Jul 16, 2018:

Do what feels right to you and find a girl who agrees, fuck (more accurately don't fuck) anyone who shames you.

Why don't you guys have deviant girlfriends? What's the real problem here?

Buttercup comments on Jul 16, 2018:

I married mine, not a problem.

Respectful question here...How many know where the G spot is?

Buttercup comments on Jul 15, 2018:

That's a question for freshman intro, we do A-spot and no touch hypnotic suggestions. Girls are versatile.

How common is it for both you and your partner to reach orgasm in a 69?

Buttercup comments on Jul 15, 2018:

For some reason it worked perfectly with my first wife, lots of intense simultaneous orgasm and terribly with everyone else.

Girls, is it un-manly for a man like be pegged?

Buttercup comments on Jul 15, 2018:

More top/ bottom than man/ woman, really doesn't work for me and several partners have joked about it since it would be so out of character. I've definitely known gay male tops that it wouldn't work for who were extremely masculine.

Do you like leaving marks/receiving marks?

Buttercup comments on Jul 14, 2018:

A few scratches and bruises show some enthusiasm.

Spankins! Yes? No? If you like them, how do you like them best?

Buttercup comments on Jul 14, 2018:

Ah, better to give than to receive. Bent over my knee, dressed, struggling a little, helpless when I pull your skirt up and panties down. I like bound, kneeling and blindfolded with a thin cane, nice crack that burns a little(picante) and keeps you on edge not knowing what's next.

Callipygian (kaləˈpijēən) – this word was used in the 1640s, it means to have beautifully ...

Buttercup comments on Jul 13, 2018:

Great word, frequently used for statues of Aphrodite.

For all of you that woke up this morning just like I did and was thinking whatever did happen to ...

Buttercup comments on Jul 13, 2018:

Jay Leno," The Bobbits have one thing in common, no one wants to date either of them"

Love those blackberries, I used to as a and I still do?

Buttercup comments on Jul 11, 2018:

Himalayan, an escaped cultivar is very invasive, I have more than I could possibly use and routinely cut them back. I make jelly and syrup yearly.

Hi sexual deviants.

Buttercup comments on Jul 11, 2018:

Don't know, I have a frisky, several times a week girl. Just clearing the pipes I think maybe every couple of week would do it.

Dear Fellow Sexual Deviants, Here is an article I would l would like to share with you all: The ...

Buttercup comments on Jul 11, 2018:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JJ2I6Bh6nPI She's done some interesting work

What is aftercare to you? Water, cuddles, space?

Buttercup comments on Jul 9, 2018:

Hard to generalize, usually none, We're a reverse of the stereotype, she goes to sleep and I have a burst of energy. Very rarely, she has a very intense sub crash, spooky, she goes white and I can feel her skin get cooler. When that happens, I just stay with her, stroke her hair and talk softly.

Has it ever been determined what happens if a weirwolf bites a vampire?

Buttercup comments on Jul 8, 2018:

I made a Venn diagram, stay out of Austrailia

Someone posted that they can't get along with ex's.

Buttercup comments on Jul 8, 2018:

My kids grew up calling my first wife Aunt Alice, she lives on the far coast, we all get together whenever when we travel and exchange gifts on holidays.

I'd really love to see a Universal Basic Income implemented.

Buttercup comments on Jul 8, 2018:

I think so too, I would ideally like to see the minimum wage abolished at the same time to really see the market at work. I think a lot of people would work for very low wages at things they like and the really crummy jobs would have to pay a lot more to draw workers, since they wouldn't be forced into it by desperation.

Ok. That would be adorable. Lol! Do you believe in magic?

Buttercup comments on Jul 8, 2018:

Googling Minnie Mouse porn was not as good as I expected. Annette Funicello was my first celebrity crush, wouldn't mind bending her over a big bouncy ball. I just realized we had a giant ball for years and never tried this.

Hey everybody remember the good old comic book days when false advertising was a completely ...

Buttercup comments on Jul 8, 2018:

I had x-ray specs, I had to paint over the hypo swirls to be incognito.

Social Experiment

Buttercup comments on Jul 5, 2018:

I do accessibility remodeling for elderly and handicapped, it would be a dream job if I did it based on need and didn't need the money.

I'm probably going to get laughed or get very negative messages because of this but whats the best ...

Buttercup comments on Jul 5, 2018:

Seriously, the best way is mix it up. There isn't one best way, keeping it fresh is the most fun for both of you.

I'm probably going to get laughed or get very negative messages because of this but whats the best ...

Buttercup comments on Jul 5, 2018:

Do the dishes

Yesterday someone posed a question along the lines of “what would your ideal profile say?

Buttercup comments on Jul 4, 2018:

One of my favorite definitions of love is "to care for" because it captures the feeling to care about as well as the action to take care of.

Just got rather unceremoniously dumped by a fairly well-established paramour because he “can’t ...

Buttercup comments on Jul 4, 2018:

I get it, been there.

Men, what would you think of a woman if they were forward with you and asked you out on a date.

Buttercup comments on Jul 4, 2018:

Every relationship has to have some balance, and a woman has to read the signs and be prepared to be rejected just as a man would. If the guy seems to like you, you just have to risk it. If you don't want it to be about sex do something casual and public like a lecture, zoo or a daytime concert in a park. Romantic restaurants, drinking and dancing or a secluded picnic would send their own message. The cool part about doing the asking is you set the tone.

Can a dog really sense diabetes?

Buttercup comments on Jul 3, 2018:

If the ketosis is bad enough, humans can smell acetone in your breath

Sexual deviancy is most times a healthy lifestyle choice.

Buttercup comments on Jul 2, 2018:

Psychotic rant material for me, mega churches Catholic or Protestant fuck up everyone they touch.

Having Sex In All Kinds Of Places -How About You?

Buttercup comments on Jul 2, 2018:

Not fair, 600 just for three. Would an elevator sub for a stairwell?

Hoping got some comments on this: in the US we use the word "awfully" in strange ways.

Buttercup comments on Jul 1, 2018:

I think it comes from "awe full" as in beyond description.

Doggery: from the late 1800's, English noun.

Buttercup comments on Jul 1, 2018:

I like the word doggerel, I wonder if the resemblance to drunken speech is at play here.

What sex toys do people own?

Buttercup comments on Jul 1, 2018:

I've given Hitachi's as gifts, very well received. I make my own lube with my own lavender oil, I'm crafty. (not compatible with condoms though) Some flops gathering dust.

Beckler Peak.

Buttercup comments on Jul 1, 2018:

Golden Coral (Ramaria aurea) maybe, there are other species close in appearance.

Do tomatoes grow well indoors?

Buttercup comments on Jun 30, 2018:

They need lots of light, research a good cultivar. You would definitely want an indeterminate variety that fruits and flowers over a long interval and doesn't get too big as others have pointed out. Their ancestors are tropical perennials, so hopefully you can find one that lives for years.

I don't understand how ppl my age or any other age get away without knowing basic skills like ...

Buttercup comments on Jun 30, 2018:

I built my house and do car repairs up to engine replacement, also I'm an avid woodsman and ex BSA leader so I have food,supplies and skills to last a few weeks if a major crisis hits. In nursing school currently. I just feel safer but realistically I've accumulated a lot of crap I don't need and waste time repairing things it would be cheaper to replace or I would be better off without.

How can you support your morality without any God?

Buttercup comments on Jun 30, 2018:

Demonstrate one moral tenet that comes from any god. This is a senseless question without evidence.

Tips and tricks.

Buttercup comments on Jun 29, 2018:

Don't boil corn, you throw out the flavor with the water, roast it in the husk.

I feel totally deflated today, which is unusual for me as I usually plan something big and enjoyable...

Buttercup comments on Jun 29, 2018:

Happy Birthday, I think any thoughtful person needs to take stock of their life sometimes. I always say if life isn't kicking your ass, you need to get out more. I'm finding the news lately makes me sad too; that means you're sane. I put a lot of stock in free speech, equality, kindness and honesty, feel good about who you are. I think you have a good heart.

Brummagem: From 18th Century English an adjective meaning cheap and showy.

Buttercup comments on Jun 28, 2018:

I still use the phrase "plastic stick-on" which is awkward for this. Fairly common in seventies in the Bay area but I don't know if it was ever widespread

How young will you date?

Buttercup comments on Jun 27, 2018:

No rule, just common sense. I'm in nursing school and interact with lots of women in an atmosphere of frank communication. You should have mutual goals and mutual interests and a power dynamic that's not exploitative. Someone who wants to tick "fuck older man" off her bucket list is much different than me taking advantage of a woman who is immature or emotionally fragile. Natural sorting seems to put it at mid forties average.

"Silly, random & fun" Silly: every time I try to grow my hair out to wax I can't get past the ...

Buttercup comments on Jun 26, 2018:

Careful, I've touched my tender bits after chopping hot peppers and Owee, be worse right after a wax

Let’s take a few minutes to share our favorite sexual experiences—one that really stands out in ...

Buttercup comments on Jun 26, 2018:

A friend of mine had a key to a dorm at Berkeley that was empty for the summer so we were happily using it for trysts. Our dorm was closed but not the one opposite the quad, one day we looked out the window and there were 30 or 40 people watching. Clearly for a while, they had snacks and chairs and were waving; no curtains so we pulled the mattress off the bed to put us below the window sill.

I went for a hike last Tuesday on a very rocky trail with lots of steep inclines.

Buttercup comments on Jun 25, 2018:

I lived in R.I. and N.Y. and this is the first time I've ever heard there was a hike with an overlook of Boston.

Cas·tra·to kaˈsträdō/Submit nounhistorical plural noun: castrati a male singer castrated in...

Buttercup comments on Jun 23, 2018:

Actually hear one sing. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KLjvfqnD0ws Another barbarism from the Catholic church.

Who is Part of Your Tribe? Someone Who Celebrates Your Quirks?

Buttercup comments on Jun 23, 2018:

I'm in nursing school ( male and old) and there are a few cliques "the moms", " the partiers", "the CNAs" etc. I was explaining to someone who I studied with and she said, " so you're one of the "smart girls".

I find that there are so many misconceptions out there about what polyamory is.

Buttercup comments on Jun 23, 2018:

I tend to handle it like I handle xtians and science deniers; their lack of imagination is their limit not mine. Live and let live until they force their beliefs on me then I get as hostile as necessary to make them back off.

Just had the heart-breaking realization on a wholey visceral level that the pain of rejection hurt ...

Buttercup comments on Jun 22, 2018:

You get what you give, if you're after a dishonest, manipulative, sexist relationship I highly recommend the "rules", it will absolutely work. People rise to our expectations, if you want something better act better yourself. Being vulnerable will leave you open to being hurt but there is also nothing better than being loved for your genuine self. Taking your time and learning to trust sounds to me like that's what you really want.

So, a little help here?

Buttercup comments on Jun 22, 2018:

I think being a single parent, you formed some habits out of necessity. I place a high value on self reliance and that's not a bad thing. Maybe put your self in the other's shoes, many people really like to help and find it rewarding. Change your outlook just a little, you aren't a burden, cooperation helps both people.

Sooooo.

Buttercup comments on Jun 22, 2018:

Not oak, you're too far east, so ivy or sumac possibly. I've always bee immune, reports vary but a goodly minority of people are. Get well soon. Long ago, in my teens, after some naked picnic recreating, my friend was covered in hives and her eyes nearly swollen shut and went to the doctor. I was fine, whoops.

Why does anyone still use the Myers-Briggs or pay attention to it?

Buttercup comments on Jun 21, 2018:

It would be nice to have a way to quantify personality traits, the idea behind Myers is appealing. IQ is well documented and the autism spectrum widely accepted though I can't speak on it.

FFS! Both arms, both legs.... News flash: There is a new patch of Poison Ivy in the garden.

Buttercup comments on Jun 20, 2018:

Bummer, I've always been immune, so that's nice. I am allergic to at least one variety of pampas grass, I've brushed up against and gotten welts in the shape of the leaves like a photographic negative. We've got giant hogweed here, so far I've avoided contact. The county has warned us that it can cause severe burns and blindness.

Who else is currently ashamed of being American???

Buttercup comments on Jun 20, 2018:

"Patriotism is the last refuge of the scoundrel." - Samuel Johnson. Don't let them hide behind the flag or the cross or whatever fucking else.

For various reasons, many of us have had a need to talk about in public without necessarily ...

Buttercup comments on Jun 20, 2018:

"Dinner and a movie" was a porno and "snuggle" was fuck in front of the kids.

So, my great nephew will be staying with me for the next month or so, he is fifteen years old and ...

Buttercup comments on Jun 20, 2018:

Probably a negative self image is driving this, he needs attention but doesn't think he deserves it. Don't pretend with him, be clear that you don't accept his account because you will accept him as he is. He is trying to appear more likable and interesting than he feels inside. This was me at 15.

Who else is currently ashamed of being American???

Buttercup comments on Jun 20, 2018:

Accidents of birth are nothing to be ashamed or proud of, I oppose the policies of our current government because they are unjust, I don't need any other reason.

Who here has had a root canal? Please tell me about your experience, good and bad.

Buttercup comments on Jun 19, 2018:

I've had 8, 4 or 5 failed after a few years and were recrowned or replaced with bridges. Never had much trouble. I was once a heavy smoker and my oral health increased dramatically after I quit.

Ululation: A shrill, howled lament.

Buttercup comments on Jun 19, 2018:

Quite a rare word, I ran across it years ago in a novel and never again.

Have you ever been in an open relationship, or polyamorous situation?

Buttercup comments on Jun 19, 2018:

More than once, with varying results. Every relationship, romantic or otherwise, open or not, has to stand on its own. Happily married, my last girlfriend was just a really good fit, she's very private and a couple of dates a week was as much intimate contact as she needed or wanted; never wanted me to stay over or be in her space when she wasn't around. They were very respectful of each others feelings but not interested in having much to do with each other which led to some keystone cops scenarios when I was left to explain what each wanted without compromising their individual autonomy. We have kids that are friends and my wife and were longtime friends with her sister and brother in law so she already kind of felt like family.

I'm new to the agnostic community.

Buttercup comments on Jun 19, 2018:

In nursing school now and I'm 63. Never had to work so hard at homework.

It's hot here (okay not by some standards ).

Buttercup comments on Jun 18, 2018:

Planning a quick overnight with my son, Thursday in the Olympics. I have a thing for sleeping under the stars next to a campfire.

HA.

Buttercup comments on Jun 17, 2018:

Cock shot

HA.

Buttercup comments on Jun 17, 2018:

Orgy