Earlier this week I shared a recommended question that wasn't quite asked appropriately ( “Are you...

ProudMary comments on Dec 23, 2018:

As the song says, I adore being a girl (yes, I realize "girl" is stretching it a bit in my case). What I don't like -- not enough pockets!

Cabsmom replies on Dec 23, 2018:

@Markss76118, I never wear high heels. I have one pair of dress shoes that might have 1/2" of a heel. I'm only 4' 11" so many would probably think I would love to wear them...nope...I love being short. I don't wear a lot of jewelry. I don't have pierced ears. I did. I might get them done again...we'll see. My wardrobe is amazingly small and I'm fine with that. If you see me wearing the same shirt I wore last week, I'm not going to be embarrassed...it's clean.

Earlier this week I shared a recommended question that wasn't quite asked appropriately ( “Are you...

Cabsmom comments on Dec 23, 2018:

I'm happy being a woman for the most part. There are pros and cons. Pros: 1.most of the time men pay for the dates. 2. Most of the pressure of initiating a relationship is on men....okay, I know that's not necessarily true all the time. I've made the first move before. Cons: 1. We are ...

Cabsmom replies on Dec 23, 2018:

@ProudMary good response...I love your thinking.

Earlier this week I shared a recommended question that wasn't quite asked appropriately ( “Are you...

ProudMary comments on Dec 23, 2018:

As the song says, I adore being a girl (yes, I realize "girl" is stretching it a bit in my case). What I don't like -- not enough pockets!

Cabsmom replies on Dec 23, 2018:

Why don't they think we want pockets? I buy men's sweat pants because they have pockets.

Okay, I changed my status to "seeing someone.

germangirl90439 comments on Dec 23, 2018:

I hope things work out for you and him! One step at a time and take it slow ... like we did (ahem, haha, yeah right ...)

Cabsmom replies on Dec 23, 2018:

I don't know your story, but I'm interested. I'm happy for you both.

Okay, I changed my status to "seeing someone.

MrLizard comments on Dec 23, 2018:

Keep a positive outlook... give it time... and be accepting of the little annoyances. Maybe it *will* work out.

Cabsmom replies on Dec 23, 2018:

That's very true.

Okay, I changed my status to "seeing someone.

MissKathleen comments on Dec 23, 2018:

A brave decision, we are here if you need..

Cabsmom replies on Dec 23, 2018:

Not that brave....lol. I just don't want to have any offers for dates. It's easy to change if things don't work out.

What was you soul crushing teen moment?

hippydog comments on Nov 20, 2018:

I dont know if it was the worst moment. But it was soul crushing.. Dodge ball in gym class. I was not very coordinated, within three games I was consistently one of the last ones picked (seemed like the rest of my life lol)

Cabsmom replies on Dec 23, 2018:

I can totally relate. I'm not athletic at all...well, maybe a little in bed...lol.

Let the backlash begin....

kasmian comments on Dec 22, 2018:

Sadly, this is true in my case: I rarely finish when having sex. They usually get exhausted around the 40 minute mark. I'm happy to have them pleased multiple times before then, though ?

Cabsmom replies on Dec 22, 2018:

It's the opposite for me. I have a hard time cumming unless there is firm pressure on my clitoris for quite a while. I get worried that the man will get bored and frustrated and then it makes it harder for me to cum. I do love sex even if I didn't orgasm.

Saw this and felt it needed to be shared: If you thirst for a love that will drown all of the ...

sapiofile comments on Dec 21, 2018:

I think one should say this when looking in the mirror being the one doing the staring.

Cabsmom replies on Dec 21, 2018:

@Nukdookum, I agree

What's something unexpected about you?

MsHoliday comments on Dec 21, 2018:

Well, since you asked: I was the first woman wedding photographer in Toronto. I have made quilts that won ribbons and I made one quilt that traveled North America to different quilt shows. I raced a fix wheel bicycle

Cabsmom replies on Dec 21, 2018:

@Holiday I do, but haven't been going.

Has anybody ever been felt up/groped on a crowded bus or train, OR...at a crowded concert?

Donotbelieve comments on Dec 20, 2018:

Did you enjoy it?! WTF? No. No, I did NOT enjoy getting groped by strangers without giving my consent. That's why they got punched in the throat. Wow. This mindset is the root of sexual harassment, abuse, and the objectification of our fellow humans. If you find it titillating, ...

Cabsmom replies on Dec 21, 2018:

@jellyfish I'm not sure why you tagged me. I have that guy blocked.

What's something unexpected about you?

MsHoliday comments on Dec 21, 2018:

Well, since you asked: I was the first woman wedding photographer in Toronto. I have made quilts that won ribbons and I made one quilt that traveled North America to different quilt shows. I raced a fix wheel bicycle

Cabsmom replies on Dec 21, 2018:

I make quilts. I've never entered mine in a show though. That's really cool!!

Has anybody ever been felt up/groped on a crowded bus or train, OR...at a crowded concert?

TimWhitaker comments on Dec 20, 2018:

I agree with the general consensus of those that have commented on this thread that such things are assaults and should not be treated lightly. However, I will say that very often, women that I've just met or barely know come up to me and feel up my shoulder/upper arm. Like literally grab me by ...

Cabsmom replies on Dec 20, 2018:

@Ladybug ok...have fun...I'm not worried...I won't miss your rudeness.

Has anybody ever been felt up/groped on a crowded bus or train, OR...at a crowded concert?

TimWhitaker comments on Dec 20, 2018:

I agree with the general consensus of those that have commented on this thread that such things are assaults and should not be treated lightly. However, I will say that very often, women that I've just met or barely know come up to me and feel up my shoulder/upper arm. Like literally grab me by ...

Cabsmom replies on Dec 20, 2018:

@Ladybug, no, she's calling you out on your double standard or at least inconsistency.

Has anybody ever been felt up/groped on a crowded bus or train, OR...at a crowded concert?

Donotbelieve comments on Dec 20, 2018:

Did you enjoy it?! WTF? No. No, I did NOT enjoy getting groped by strangers without giving my consent. That's why they got punched in the throat. Wow. This mindset is the root of sexual harassment, abuse, and the objectification of our fellow humans. If you find it titillating, ...

Cabsmom replies on Dec 20, 2018:

@Ladybug , I think it would have been wise to include that they were talking about consenting adults. My first thought was the illegal type of groping and judging by the responses, I'm not alone. I did realize that there was another scenario possible.

Has anybody ever been felt up/groped on a crowded bus or train, OR...at a crowded concert?

Donotbelieve comments on Dec 20, 2018:

Did you enjoy it?! WTF? No. No, I did NOT enjoy getting groped by strangers without giving my consent. That's why they got punched in the throat. Wow. This mindset is the root of sexual harassment, abuse, and the objectification of our fellow humans. If you find it titillating, ...

Cabsmom replies on Dec 20, 2018:

@Donotbelieve, I have Morgan Freeman blocked so I have no idea what he said, but he's rude. Don't listen to anything he says.

Today's question recommended by a member: Everyone has quirks.

Cabsmom comments on Dec 20, 2018:

1. I fall asleep quickly. When I'm ready to sleep, I close my eyes and I'm asleep within minutes. The only exception is when I'm having a high level of anxiety. 2. I've taken a few "non-drowsy" medicines that knock me out. It's like my body reacts totally opposite than it should.

Cabsmom replies on Dec 20, 2018:

@ProudMary those are intended to make you drowsy, right? I'm talking about medicine that specifies that it's not supposed to make you drowsy.

Has anybody ever been felt up/groped on a crowded bus or train, OR...at a crowded concert?

VIKingsCFH comments on Dec 20, 2018:

Not being judgmental, but what you are suggesting is criminal activity. Anyone having their personal space violated is heinous. Now, if it is amongst consenting adults is another matter altogether, but to openly partake is said behavior should result in a different type of criminal-like activity.

Cabsmom replies on Dec 20, 2018:

That is true. I think it could be fun in an established relationship, but otherwise...NOPE!

Has anybody ever been felt up/groped on a crowded bus or train, OR...at a crowded concert?

Cabsmom comments on Dec 20, 2018:

I think it would be exciting if it was somebody I was already involved with and they were just playing around with prior knowledge of my consent...a little bit of exhibitionism or possible exhibitionism. Other than that...no way!

Cabsmom replies on Dec 20, 2018:

@Anonbene, probably. I'm sorry. Lol

Today's question recommended by a member: Everyone has quirks.

EdEarl comments on Dec 20, 2018:

I do not remember dreams; the most recent one I remember is about sixty years ago.

Cabsmom replies on Dec 20, 2018:

@EdEarl I've had my share of nightmares that I've remembered. Some of them include car wrecks that seemed so real it was awful.

This is winter at my X ranch.Pix 2 Me, My X cat T.C. and Cleo

UUNJ comments on Dec 20, 2018:

How sweet that your cat takes walks with you.

Cabsmom replies on Dec 20, 2018:

@RobertNappi2, we had a cat that would follow my son around. They would even hang out in the same tree.

Today's question recommended by a member: Everyone has quirks.

EdEarl comments on Dec 20, 2018:

I do not remember dreams; the most recent one I remember is about sixty years ago.

Cabsmom replies on Dec 20, 2018:

I remember mine quite often and sometimes quite a few details. They are always weird.

What women really want

Cutiebeauty comments on Dec 19, 2018:

You forgot more shoes !!!

Cabsmom replies on Dec 19, 2018:

@Hihi , I'm not either

I got myself in a situation.

Marcie1974 comments on Dec 19, 2018:

I had a really great date with a guy and thought it went really well. He later told me he had a really good time and felt he could talk to me forever, but he just didn't feel a spark. I was disappointed but understood. Sometimes it's just not there. For me, saying he didn't feel a spark, while ...

Cabsmom replies on Dec 19, 2018:

@Marcie1974 anymore I'm going to listen to my gut. If I'm not interested in the early friendship part of knowing someone, I'm not going to think I can conjure up deeper feelings for them

I got myself in a situation.

Marcie1974 comments on Dec 19, 2018:

I had a really great date with a guy and thought it went really well. He later told me he had a really good time and felt he could talk to me forever, but he just didn't feel a spark. I was disappointed but understood. Sometimes it's just not there. For me, saying he didn't feel a spark, while ...

Cabsmom replies on Dec 19, 2018:

@Marcie1974 That's great. A lot of times when people get rejected they lash out. Even if the person is nice about it. The truth no one can expect chemistry with everyone they meet. I don't expect all men to be attracted to me or if they are, I don't expect it to turn into a committed relationship. There are too many variables.

Have you ever ghosted anyone?

Cabsmom comments on Dec 19, 2018:

I ghosted a female friend. She was so fake that I couldn't stand to speak to her. Sometimes I think I should have said something, but it's too late now. I don't think I've ever ghosted a man. I've had many who after messaging a few times they stopped and I wrote it off as they lost interest or ...

Cabsmom replies on Dec 19, 2018:

@Shelton if it's only messaging and no dates lined up...no problem. I went on one date with a man a few months ago from here. Nothing bad happened, but I didn't sense a connection. I messaged him a few days later and said just that.

I got myself in a situation.

Marcie1974 comments on Dec 19, 2018:

I had a really great date with a guy and thought it went really well. He later told me he had a really good time and felt he could talk to me forever, but he just didn't feel a spark. I was disappointed but understood. Sometimes it's just not there. For me, saying he didn't feel a spark, while ...

Cabsmom replies on Dec 19, 2018:

He seemed to think that just because we could talk that there had to be a romantic connection. Truth be told I can talk to just about anyone for long lengths of time and I get along with almost everyone.

Opening our hearts ❤❤❤

Cabsmom comments on Dec 18, 2018:

Absolutely...it's about family connections-biological and otherwise.

Cabsmom replies on Dec 18, 2018:

@zorialoki, I see my family throughout the year and for the most part we get along. Sure, there are issues now and then, but nothing that can't be forgiven. I love my family and I love getting gifts, but the gifts aren't the most important thing.

"Shooting ropes," who's ever heard this expression before?

Cabsmom comments on Dec 18, 2018:

First thing that came to mind was something sexual...just the way my mind works. Shooting ropes of semen? It might just be a typo though.

Cabsmom replies on Dec 18, 2018:

@Geektheist, or I just have a dirty mind ?

So, he's progressed to early morning wake up calls. Omagawd.

Stephanie99 comments on Dec 18, 2018:

How does texting work? I always thought that it was like an email. You can send it any time and if the other person is too busy, they don't answer back. Or, are you not supposed to send texts at odd times?

Cabsmom replies on Dec 18, 2018:

I try to send a text only if I think the person is awake. As far as replying goes, I hope to get a reply when they read it, but I don't know when they read it.

Do you like pizza more ....?

Cabsmom comments on Dec 17, 2018:

Good dates> great pizza Okay date=great pizza Bad date<great pizza So far this year I've enjoyed pizza more than dating with the exception of two dates recently.

Cabsmom replies on Dec 17, 2018:

@MarvelAnn that would be perfect.

I've heard that I have a high tolerance for pain, and in some instances I do.

Lop-Eared-Mule comments on Dec 17, 2018:

Ask yer Dr.

Cabsmom replies on Dec 17, 2018:

I've been there...no diagnosis. It's probably just IBS. I think that's what they call intestinal problems when there is no other diagnosis.

Can you recall the most romantic moment of your lifetime? Care to describe it?​

Cabsmom comments on Dec 16, 2018:

One would have to be when I was just waking up and my then boyfriend said, "god, you're beautiful." I'm willing to bet he doesn't even remember that.

Cabsmom replies on Dec 16, 2018:

@Wildflower thank you

I've heard that I have a high tolerance for pain, and in some instances I do.

ADKSparky comments on Dec 16, 2018:

Any sharp pain in the abdominal cavity needs to be assessed. That’s not normal.

Cabsmom replies on Dec 16, 2018:

I did go to a GI doctor. I had some tests. Nothing conclusive was found. It's probably IBS. I know it's not normal...believe me...

Any Shoe Fetish? ...Because I Am All In.

Cabsmom comments on Dec 14, 2018:

I'm the total opposite. I have 5 pairs of shoes. Three of those pairs are tennis shoes. I only have one pair or dress shoes. The other pair are house shoes...lol. Shoes don't impress me at all.

Cabsmom replies on Dec 15, 2018:

@GipsyOfNewSpain nope, size doesn't impress me

Have you ever looked at a woman and imagined your balls bouncing off their chin?

Cabsmom comments on Dec 14, 2018:

No...but I don't have balls.

Cabsmom replies on Dec 14, 2018:

@WYSIWYG not my kind of thing

Name One Thing You Want in Your Life in 2019.

Emerald comments on Dec 13, 2018:

A job that doesn't suck my soul

Cabsmom replies on Dec 14, 2018:

Me too

I would replace “men” with “people,” but otherwise it’s on target.

PolyWolf comments on Dec 13, 2018:

I would replace men with people, full stop.

Cabsmom replies on Dec 14, 2018:

Good point. My attractions to men have been all over the place. I've been attracted to tall and short, thin and fat, introverts and extroverts, different races, etc. To me it's more about personality.

This might be me...

JeremyTaylor comments on Dec 12, 2018:

This doesn't sound like me at all...

Cabsmom replies on Dec 12, 2018:

@JeremyTaylor ha ha ha

This might be me...

JeremyTaylor comments on Dec 12, 2018:

This doesn't sound like me at all...

Cabsmom replies on Dec 12, 2018:

Somehow I don't believe you...lol

Okay a poll for the ladies and guys if applies . What is your preference in a guys penis .

Donotbelieve comments on Dec 12, 2018:

If we aren't able to make at least two choices, this poll will help no one. Wait, it's not gonna help anyway. Never mind.

Cabsmom replies on Dec 12, 2018:

That's true.

tummy tuck update- I'm doing well.

t1nick comments on Dec 11, 2018:

But at least its over. You made it through and now its just healing time. Dont push it too fast. Just remember. this is what all that overtime was about. Goal achieved. Congratulations Cindy.

Cabsmom replies on Dec 11, 2018:

Thank you. I'm definitely taking it easy.

tummy tuck update- I'm doing well.

Sheannutt comments on Dec 11, 2018:

My sister went through the same thing couple months back and she's doing great now.

Cabsmom replies on Dec 11, 2018:

It's my gift to myself for losing a good amount of weight.

tummy tuck update- I'm doing well.

glennlab comments on Dec 11, 2018:

you get better, and take care of yourself, and don't over do it.

Cabsmom replies on Dec 11, 2018:

I'm going to take it easy. I have dvds to watch, magazines to read, and hand sewing to do. I'm also staying with my parents so my mom can help me for the first couple weeks.

I can't sleep.

Markss76118 comments on Dec 9, 2018:

I don't know if two dates will be enough to know if you trust him enough, but I hope he can be supportive and visit you at home. Best wishes to you with the surgery, relationship and down time.

Cabsmom replies on Dec 9, 2018:

Yeah...that's tricky. It's hard to fully trust so soon.

At an excavation site somewhere in Egypt (blanket thieving while sleeping is nothing new)

Angelina comments on Dec 9, 2018:

But I'm always so cold ?

Cabsmom replies on Dec 9, 2018:

@WayneDalton I wouldn't be able to sleep with only a sheet.

I can't sleep.

MrLizard comments on Dec 9, 2018:

If tonight goes well... he'll wait the 2-3 weeks. That'll be important.

Cabsmom replies on Dec 9, 2018:

Good point

I can't sleep.

Cutiebeauty comments on Dec 9, 2018:

Do you like him? Then go out again...

Cabsmom replies on Dec 9, 2018:

I'm not worried. I want to go out again. I am just thinking about him because the date went so well.

I can't sleep.

germangirl90439 comments on Dec 9, 2018:

Hope your second date will be as great as the first one, and many more to come! All the best for your surgery tomorrow. Hope it's nothing too serious!

Cabsmom replies on Dec 9, 2018:

It's an elective surgery. I'm getting a tummy tuck.

At an excavation site somewhere in Egypt (blanket thieving while sleeping is nothing new)

Angelina comments on Dec 9, 2018:

But I'm always so cold ?

Cabsmom replies on Dec 9, 2018:

Me too. In the winter I sleep in and under layers.

If there's ever a good reason to pity an atheist, it's because there's nobody for him to talk to ...

Triphid comments on Dec 8, 2018:

hey, don't pity Atheists because we can actually get BJs WITHOUT feeling sinful afterwards.

Cabsmom replies on Dec 9, 2018:

And give them without guilt also.

It's aways something!

Donotbelieve comments on Dec 6, 2018:

True

Cabsmom replies on Dec 6, 2018:

@Donotbelieve I've been exercising lately and that's one area I'm going to try to keep firm if I can help it...leg lifts, squats, etc. Other parts may never be firm again...lol.

It's aways something!

Donotbelieve comments on Dec 6, 2018:

True

Cabsmom replies on Dec 6, 2018:

@Donotbelieve oh, you have nice proportions...very pretty

Having a super rough day.

Cabsmom comments on Dec 6, 2018:

I'm getting a tummy tuck this Monday. After losing weight this will help my body look better. I won't have a perfect body by any means, but I'm happy I'm getting it done.

Cabsmom replies on Dec 6, 2018:

@boatdude87 my insurance is covering the skin removal part. I'm paying 100% of the rest. Some insurance companies won't pay.

Having a super rough day.

Cabsmom comments on Dec 6, 2018:

I'm getting a tummy tuck this Monday. After losing weight this will help my body look better. I won't have a perfect body by any means, but I'm happy I'm getting it done.

Cabsmom replies on Dec 6, 2018:

@PolyWolf, at least for a few days after I'll be texting/messaging/talking to a bunch of people I hope.

Having a super rough day.

Cabsmom comments on Dec 6, 2018:

I'm getting a tummy tuck this Monday. After losing weight this will help my body look better. I won't have a perfect body by any means, but I'm happy I'm getting it done.

Cabsmom replies on Dec 6, 2018:

@PolyWolf, thank you. You haven't seen me naked though...my abdomen...ugh! I know it's only part of me and the last man I was with didn't have a problem with it. I hate it though.

It's aways something!

Donotbelieve comments on Dec 6, 2018:

True

Cabsmom replies on Dec 6, 2018:

@Donotbelieve, here's my backside. It doesn't look as big in this picture as it does to me in real life...

It's aways something!

Donotbelieve comments on Dec 6, 2018:

True

Cabsmom replies on Dec 6, 2018:

@Donotbelieve, thank you. Some men like big rear ends. I don't want to lose mine....lol.

It's aways something!

Donotbelieve comments on Dec 6, 2018:

True

Cabsmom replies on Dec 6, 2018:

@Donotbelieve, I wear 38 c. However, my ass is huge (or to me it is). I've been told it's proportionate...

I'm a quilter.

thinktwice comments on Dec 6, 2018:

turned out nice...how do you plan on quilting it?

Cabsmom replies on Dec 6, 2018:

@thinktwice there are places where you can rent longarm machines. That's where I quilted that one. I use my home machine sometimes. I also hand quilt sometimes.

I'm a quilter.

thinktwice comments on Dec 6, 2018:

turned out nice...how do you plan on quilting it?

Cabsmom replies on Dec 6, 2018:

It's already quilted. That's an old picture. I'll see if I can find some of the pictures of the quilting.

Good morning Girls and Boys...How is everyone Doing?

germangirl90439 comments on Dec 5, 2018:

Good morning! Baby, it's cold outside ?

Cabsmom replies on Dec 5, 2018:

@Deveno, I love that song. I've never thought of it in any way condoning rape. It's playful banter. In fact, the way I see it and the way I've seen it explained, it's actually about a woman contradicting societal norms of that day. In my opinion (and this could cause people to not like me-Oh well) some people try too hard to look for the bad in things. Everything is offensive to some people. A lot of the "offensive" things are totally innocent.

This was fun on FB, but I'm sure you guys will make me squirm. yay!

Cabsmom comments on Dec 1, 2018:

Top or bottom

Cabsmom replies on Dec 1, 2018:

@FlippantLlama top to start...bottom to finish

I like my women like my ancient staircases. Curvy and can lead me straight to Hell.

chucklesIII comments on Dec 1, 2018:

I like my women like I like my Coffee. Without a penis.

Cabsmom replies on Dec 1, 2018:

I like my men with a penis. Probably my favorite male body part...lol

I like my women like my ancient staircases. Curvy and can lead me straight to Hell.

chucklesIII comments on Dec 1, 2018:

I like my women like I like my Coffee. Without a penis.

Cabsmom replies on Dec 1, 2018:

@chucklesIII oh...I'm tired. I work nights...at least that's my excuse...lol

I like my women like my ancient staircases. Curvy and can lead me straight to Hell.

chucklesIII comments on Dec 1, 2018:

I like my women like I like my Coffee. Without a penis.

Cabsmom replies on Dec 1, 2018:

@chucklesIII, Just curious. I fail on that list...lol

This was fun on FB, but I'm sure you guys will make me squirm. yay!

JeremyTaylor comments on Dec 1, 2018:

Giving oral or receiving oral?

Cabsmom replies on Dec 1, 2018:

I want to answer...giving!

This was fun on FB, but I'm sure you guys will make me squirm. yay!

Cabsmom comments on Dec 1, 2018:

Top or bottom

Cabsmom replies on Dec 1, 2018:

@FlippantLlama too hard to decide. It depends on the day and mood.

I like my women like my ancient staircases. Curvy and can lead me straight to Hell.

chucklesIII comments on Dec 1, 2018:

I like my women like I like my Coffee. Without a penis.

Cabsmom replies on Dec 1, 2018:

Is that the only physical requirement? Hmm...

I like my women like my ancient staircases. Curvy and can lead me straight to Hell.

TheDoubter comments on Dec 1, 2018:

i like a short flight of stairs. you get down to business quicker

Cabsmom replies on Dec 1, 2018:

4' 11" here

From another dating site...so very Christian

Untamedshrew comments on Nov 29, 2018:

Seems like a catch!

Cabsmom replies on Nov 29, 2018:

To catch and release

From another dating site...so very Christian

Count_Viceroy comments on Nov 29, 2018:

Tell us how your date went!

Cabsmom replies on Nov 29, 2018:

Funny

From another dating site...so very Christian

IrishTxJudy comments on Nov 29, 2018:

Oh my, sounds like a delightful person. I wonder which rock he crawled out from under. I probably would have corrected his message and sent it back to him. Lol ?

Cabsmom replies on Nov 29, 2018:

I wasn't able to respond. I did report him though.

From another dating site...so very Christian

Deiter comments on Nov 29, 2018:

Is that a rap? It may be the worst one I've ever seen. Though, prob not his intention but it was also one of the most honest character profiles you could hope for. Gosh, you'd think your going to Hell would be enough to soothe his triggers. What terrible things did you say to this radioactive ...

Cabsmom replies on Nov 29, 2018:

Absolutely nothing. It says I'm an atheist in my profile.

From another dating site...so very Christian

Sticks48 comments on Nov 29, 2018:

What a charmer. Did you go out with him? :)

Cabsmom replies on Nov 29, 2018:

He never even asked

From another dating site...so very Christian

Christiep77 comments on Nov 29, 2018:

He spelled retarded wrong. And I’m guessing doesn’t handle rejection well? What a sad ignorant person he must be.

Cabsmom replies on Nov 29, 2018:

I didn't reject him. I guess he saw that I was an atheist in my profile.

From another dating site...so very Christian

HippieChick58 comments on Nov 29, 2018:

I'd have responded with a critique of his spelling, and a few other terms he might have used. It's like he took what you told him very personally, consider that bullet dodged.

Cabsmom replies on Nov 29, 2018:

I couldn't respond, but I reported him

Does anyone ever have sexually erotic dreams so intense that when you wake up to real life it seems ...

Gman510 comments on Nov 28, 2018:

I'm not taking enough drugs......When I was young I dreamed about sex all the time.I rarely dream anymore or perhaps I don't remember them. You wanna know the best part of getting old? Trick question. Getting old sucks, 100% sucks!!!!

Cabsmom replies on Nov 28, 2018:

56 isn't old!

Dating site observation.

maxhyde comments on Nov 26, 2018:

All your interpretation...both are compliments but you interpret things how you see them. Nothing wrong with it at all. How you feel about them as individuals impacts how you interpret things. Pretty natural for an acquaintance's compliment to be received differently than a stranger

Cabsmom replies on Nov 26, 2018:

Good point

Dating site observation.

Sticks48 comments on Nov 26, 2018:

Would you rather be told you are not sexy, but l like your brain? We are sexual beings, at least most of us are. I find it strange on a site full of nonbelievers, that when discussing sex I hear the impact that Christianity still has on Americans when it comes to sexual matters.

Cabsmom replies on Nov 26, 2018:

I think I would rather have a small conversation before the compliments start.

Dating site observation.

Deiter comments on Nov 26, 2018:

Why can't shallow be sincere? I'd say the creep may be even more sincere than your Fb messenger (who may have access to you that the creep didn't) – the creep's operating on a purer impulse, one unencumbered with experience or context. He just likes (and maybe wants) what he sees. Still a ...

Cabsmom replies on Nov 26, 2018:

Interesting...maybe it's because I don't want shallow...no matter how sincere. I've been there and done that. It didn't work for me.

Dating site observation.

Sticks48 comments on Nov 26, 2018:

Would you rather be told you are not sexy, but l like your brain? We are sexual beings, at least most of us are. I find it strange on a site full of nonbelievers, that when discussing sex I hear the impact that Christianity still has on Americans when it comes to sexual matters.

Cabsmom replies on Nov 26, 2018:

Well, I'm not sure if you specifically mean my post, but my post had nothing to do with religion. I'm questioning why I feel awkward when I put photos that are hopefully good (and a little sexy) on a site. I get responses that affirm that and it's just weird to me. It probably has something to do with low self esteem that I'm trying to overcome. However, I also believe that a lot of comments like that are either insincere or a good indicator of the shallowness of what they are looking for. If I were looking for a shallow relationship, maybe my response would be the total opposite.

Dating site observation.

darien75 comments on Nov 26, 2018:

You pose an interesting theory. Shallow over sincere. In some ways one can be shallow and sincere. Worse still they can be sincerely shallow. Trick is in the knowing which is which. Secret is all in the eyes and the tone of speech once you can see it see the shallow lie you'll always see it.

Cabsmom replies on Nov 26, 2018:

It's really hard to know in the written word for sure. I feel conflicted because in one way I like to think I sometimes do look sexy. It just makes me feel awkward when I don't know the person. Plus, I do believe IMO a lot of those comments come from a shallow place.

Dating site observation.

IrishTxJudy comments on Nov 26, 2018:

Being called sexy in the initial message feels a bit slimey to me. Someone may think that but it doesn’t have to be said in the first message. There are people who lack filters and social skills unfortunately

Cabsmom replies on Nov 26, 2018:

I agree. Thinking it and knowing when to say it are two different things.

Dating site observation.

Mike1947 comments on Nov 26, 2018:

Yes,your BS filter must be set up properly,to "Weed Out",the undesirables.

Cabsmom replies on Nov 26, 2018:

Some of them are worse "Let's get naked together." "I've got nine inches." "Let's fuck tonight." Ugh!!!

What are your thoughts about the attractiveness of pregnant women?

OldGoat43 comments on Nov 26, 2018:

Sorry, but I don't think that idolizing pregnant women is a good idea. Our planet is being destroyed by humans and adding more of them does not seem like a good idea. When I was born the human population of this earth was 2.6 billion vs 7.3 billion now using up all resources and polluting at record ...

Cabsmom replies on Nov 26, 2018:

I don't think she was referring to idolizing.

Another day (night) another dollar.

inthecloset comments on Nov 25, 2018:

My sympathies. Do you have a day or two off during the week so you can watch everybody else work?

Cabsmom replies on Nov 25, 2018:

@inthecloset Styrofoam products

Another day (night) another dollar.

inthecloset comments on Nov 25, 2018:

My sympathies. Do you have a day or two off during the week so you can watch everybody else work?

Cabsmom replies on Nov 25, 2018:

@inthecloset yes, except holidays

Another day (night) another dollar.

inthecloset comments on Nov 25, 2018:

My sympathies. Do you have a day or two off during the week so you can watch everybody else work?

Cabsmom replies on Nov 25, 2018:

@inthecloset I work on the production line at a factory

Another day (night) another dollar.

inthecloset comments on Nov 25, 2018:

My sympathies. Do you have a day or two off during the week so you can watch everybody else work?

Cabsmom replies on Nov 25, 2018:

I work two weekends and then I'm off for four weekends. This week I should have had Wednesday and Thursday off but I'm going to work at least Wednesday for overtime.

Are These the Things We Want From Our Guys/Gals? What Do You Think of This List?

coralisthree comments on Nov 24, 2018:

dick food laughter cuddling @DoDapper

Cabsmom replies on Nov 24, 2018:

@coralisthree, whatever floats your boat. You're not alone...I'm just not into pain during sex. I did enjoy their pain when I got my tattoo...so I try to understand where you're coming from.

Are These the Things We Want From Our Guys/Gals? What Do You Think of This List?

coralisthree comments on Nov 24, 2018:

dick food laughter cuddling @DoDapper

Cabsmom replies on Nov 24, 2018:

@coralisthree, I'm not into spanking, but I know it's a common kink. I do like moderate grabbing and biting

Are These the Things We Want From Our Guys/Gals? What Do You Think of This List?

Seeker55 comments on Nov 24, 2018:

I have done all of these things in relationships....happily. And yet, am solo, so it is not that simple.

Cabsmom replies on Nov 24, 2018:

It's not that simple. The other person has to be decent. Plus, there are other factors to consider.

Are These the Things We Want From Our Guys/Gals? What Do You Think of This List?

coralisthree comments on Nov 24, 2018:

dick food laughter cuddling @DoDapper

Cabsmom replies on Nov 24, 2018:

In that order?

NAME A KINK. New shenanigans. (Remember "kinky" is very flexible and subjective.)

ghettophilosopher comments on Nov 20, 2018:

Ok, I'll bite... Edging.

Cabsmom replies on Nov 23, 2018:

Green

NAME A KINK. New shenanigans. (Remember "kinky" is very flexible and subjective.)

DoDapper comments on Nov 23, 2018:

Blowjobs. (How was this not said yet? ?)

Cabsmom replies on Nov 23, 2018:

I don't really think this is a kink, but maybe some people do

NAME A KINK. New shenanigans. (Remember "kinky" is very flexible and subjective.)

DoDapper comments on Nov 23, 2018:

Blowjobs. (How was this not said yet? ?)

Cabsmom replies on Nov 23, 2018:

@JeremyTaylor, giving is better than receiving

What (in hindsight) are the most idiotic things you've done for a relationship?

Cabsmom comments on Nov 23, 2018:

I kept getting back with my son's dad.

Cabsmom replies on Nov 23, 2018:

@Freethinkingxx, actually when my son was 3 months old I pretty much broke it off with him right then. We still hooked up a couple times, but we were never a couple after that at least not in my mind. I didn't want to put my son through all the fighting.

who's the lucky one?

Chrisbiologist comments on Nov 23, 2018:

So for the ladies in the group, would you find this funny, from a potential play partner, or off putting?

Cabsmom replies on Nov 23, 2018:

I would find it funny and enticing from someone I was interested in or already sleeping with. From a stranger or near stranger...uh..no thank you.

I've thought a lot about this recently... Who are the people I love being around?

Likeminds comments on Nov 22, 2018:

I'm not around anyone that is beautiful on the inside or outside. Lol. Still searching.

Cabsmom replies on Nov 22, 2018:

Not even friends or family?