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ProudMerrie comments on Jan 25, 2019:
In all honesty, even at my age I rarely have days like that but when I do it's because of something emotional.
Cabsmom replies on Jan 25, 2019:
I'm the same. I have emotional days like this, but physically I am usually fine.
When a certain someone uses a certain nickname (that they know you like).
sweetcharlotte comments on Jan 25, 2019:
It's really nice when a couple of words will put a smile on your face. That certain someone is a powerful person in your life.
Cabsmom replies on Jan 25, 2019:
@sweetcharlotte, all I know is that I never thought I'd feel this way so soon after meeting a man.
Looking for some feedback.
Nukdookum comments on Jan 25, 2019:
Why do that? At best it will make them feel bad for "being a bad friend" and perhaps will make them reach out to you and initiate communication from a place where they now feel "obligated" to keep score and try to initiate at least half the time. At worst it will kill the friendship. Perhaps framing...
Cabsmom replies on Jan 25, 2019:
I think your idea is the best so far.
When a certain someone uses a certain nickname (that they know you like).
sweetcharlotte comments on Jan 25, 2019:
It's really nice when a couple of words will put a smile on your face. That certain someone is a powerful person in your life.
Cabsmom replies on Jan 25, 2019:
I've never felt this way about a man before.
When a certain someone uses a certain nickname (that they know you like).
germangirl90439 comments on Jan 25, 2019:
Sleep well with that smile on your face!
Cabsmom replies on Jan 25, 2019:
Just when I thought I screwed things up beyond repair. I think he understands me well.
Is marriage your relationship end game?
Stepmomofdragons comments on Jan 25, 2019:
Sounds disingenuous to me; people dating just for the goal of getting married, like it's a race. I don't do the whole linear staircase thing, because 1. Life hasn't ever worked that way. 2. Puts pressure on people to modify perfectly good relationships as they are, because this is what society ...
Cabsmom replies on Jan 25, 2019:
I understand. I'm all fur thinking outside the box. Heck...throw the damn box away!
Happy Friday! Here's today's question: What’s something you like to do the old-fashioned way?
AmiSue comments on Jan 25, 2019:
Drive. My car has a stick/standard transmission.
Cabsmom replies on Jan 25, 2019:
Me too
In 25 words .....or less WHY ARE ATHEISTS BETTER LOVERS? . .. .
coralisthree comments on Jan 24, 2019:
well, i don't feel like i have to ask for forgiveness after i have sex
Cabsmom replies on Jan 24, 2019:
Amen!!!
Happy Friday Eve! Here's today's question (and I'm sure none of you will have an answer ;) ): ...
DaphneDarling comments on Jan 24, 2019:
People tell me I’m quirky. I don’t know what quirks I have though. I do break out into song every once in awhile and my bed linens never match (moreso because I don’t care if they do).
Cabsmom replies on Jan 24, 2019:
My bed linens don't match either and I don't care at all.
How was your day, dearies?
TheGreatShadow comments on Jan 23, 2019:
Who the hell starts the day with a smile on their face? Maybe if you got laid the night before, or woke up to getting a blowjob (assuming you are not in prison).
Cabsmom replies on Jan 23, 2019:
I don't. I don't wake up happy. Once I'm awake it depends.
We are all different and have varying preferences of body types.
EyesThatSmile comments on Jan 20, 2019:
Love chest hair on a guy! Not sure who decided hairless is the way to go.
Cabsmom replies on Jan 21, 2019:
To me it doesn't matter one way or another. I agree that men should not feel they need to be hairless though
We are all different and have varying preferences of body types.
Cabsmom comments on Jan 20, 2019:
I'm a curvy woman so I'm glad my body type is appreciated...although I don't think I look as good as those women...lol.
Cabsmom replies on Jan 20, 2019:
@Donotbelieve, thank you for saying that. I think I love him. I never thought love was possible so early on...but now I believe it is possible. All I know is that I want him in my life. I couldn't even go 24 hours without texting him. Maybe he needs to think things over, but then again he gives indications that he has feelings also. Wow! I got off the subject here. Lol.
We are all different and have varying preferences of body types.
Cabsmom comments on Jan 20, 2019:
I'm a curvy woman so I'm glad my body type is appreciated...although I don't think I look as good as those women...lol.
Cabsmom replies on Jan 20, 2019:
@Donotbelieve I have coping techniques. I have lots of good friends and family. However...and maybe I'm wrong...I feel such a deep connection with him that it's crazy. I broke down and texted him tonight. I want to have him in my life. I can't give up on him yet.
We are all different and have varying preferences of body types.
Cabsmom comments on Jan 20, 2019:
I'm a curvy woman so I'm glad my body type is appreciated...although I don't think I look as good as those women...lol.
Cabsmom replies on Jan 20, 2019:
@Donotbelieve, I'm going through a very difficult time. I fell for a man that is not ready for a serious relatioship. I'm in so much pain right now. We've only known each other a few months. I was with my son's dad for 5 years and never felt sad that we broke up. This man is SO right...but he's not ready for a relationship.
We are all different and have varying preferences of body types.
Cabsmom comments on Jan 20, 2019:
I'm a curvy woman so I'm glad my body type is appreciated...although I don't think I look as good as those women...lol.
Cabsmom replies on Jan 20, 2019:
@Donotbelieve I'm learning that my cellulite and stuff is just part of me. A man will accept me the way I am or he's not the right man.
We are all different and have varying preferences of body types.
Cabsmom comments on Jan 20, 2019:
I'm a curvy woman so I'm glad my body type is appreciated...although I don't think I look as good as those women...lol.
Cabsmom replies on Jan 20, 2019:
@Donotbelieve thank you very much. I'm learning to appreciate my body. It's a process.
Good morning! Here's today's question: In what situation or place would you feel the most out of...
SukiSue comments on Jan 20, 2019:
Online dating.
Cabsmom replies on Jan 20, 2019:
@SukiSue I'm 49 and going through my own crisis.
Good morning! Here's today's question: In what situation or place would you feel the most out of...
SukiSue comments on Jan 20, 2019:
Online dating.
Cabsmom replies on Jan 20, 2019:
That's so true. I have stopped my online dating at least for now. It's awkward and I feel like I'm a piece of meat upon for sale.
Fill in the blank.
WYSIWYG comments on Jan 17, 2019:
Orgasms!
Cabsmom replies on Jan 17, 2019:
I agree
Good morning, everyone! Here's today's question, and it's a loaded one (at least for me): How ...
Cabsmom comments on Jan 17, 2019:
Quite a bit has changed for me. I started dating about this time last year. I didn't go out a lot, but it was a start. I was finishing up my associates degree...and in May 2018 I succeeded to do so with a 4.0 gpa. I was about 50-60 pounds heavier this time last year. I lost enough weight to get a ...
Cabsmom replies on Jan 17, 2019:
@germangirl90439 good point
Good morning, everyone! Here's today's question, and it's a loaded one (at least for me): How ...
Donotbelieve comments on Jan 17, 2019:
It was busier, more driving, more money, more stress, and a miscarriage. This year I am monetarily poorer, but happier in every other way with a baby due any day.
Cabsmom replies on Jan 17, 2019:
Any day? Cool! That's exciting!
Good morning, everyone! Here's today's question, and it's a loaded one (at least for me): How ...
germangirl90439 comments on Jan 17, 2019:
A year ago I was living in my rented townhouse with my two kids and our dog, I was alone, but not lonely, actually enjoying my single life, without any drama. Then my son moved out. Then I found agnostic.com in April of 2018. While I initially didn't want to put myself out there for dating, my ...
Cabsmom replies on Jan 17, 2019:
It's crazy how our lives can sometimes change by just taking a risk.
Always lovely when rather than being appreciated for your sexual deviancy, you are judged
Seeker55 comments on Jan 16, 2019:
Who's judging you?...Let me at 'em!....
Cabsmom replies on Jan 17, 2019:
@Marcie1974, too sexual? Like someone else said most guys would love that.
Anxiety is a bitch.
Carin comments on Jan 17, 2019:
What did you do that helped? Glad you're doing better.
Cabsmom replies on Jan 17, 2019:
I cleaned. Then I went to the store. I also messaged someone that also gets anxiety.
Serial vs parallel dating.. have i posted this topic already?
Xenocat comments on Jan 13, 2019:
I don't date (not by choice), but I'm a firm believer in monogamous relationships--strictly one at a time. 'Parrellel dating' in my book is called cheating.
Cabsmom replies on Jan 14, 2019:
I tend to serial date. However, I don't think parallel dating is cheating. Cheating is when you break mutually agreed upon parameters. That's going to be different for different people. I might parallel date if I weren't particularly interested in one person.
I may leave this group and I may stop posting anything about sex.
Tibert comments on Jan 12, 2019:
I am curious, why would you let someone dictate your life or posting. Are you eager for validation or so fragile that you would let other run your life?
Cabsmom replies on Jan 13, 2019:
@Tibert you started with the insults so please read your own advice. If you didn't like my post, you could have simply moved on. I happen to be a very polite person, but I have limits. However, you don't know me so you thought I was either looking for validation or that I was weak...that's insulting me. Don't worry though...your opinion doesn't is just that-your opinion.
This should be easy. Name a fad you hated. I hated the Twiggy haircut I was forced to get.
Fit50something comments on Jan 13, 2019:
Why past-tense? The fad that I hate more than any other is TATTOOS ON WOMEN! The only word that I can use to describe it is "pollution".
Cabsmom replies on Jan 13, 2019:
I'm "polluted" then.
I may leave this group and I may stop posting anything about sex.
Tibert comments on Jan 12, 2019:
I am curious, why would you let someone dictate your life or posting. Are you eager for validation or so fragile that you would let other run your life?
Cabsmom replies on Jan 12, 2019:
Maybe his comment left me rattled and felt very creepy. I think almost to that point that I would have been scared to meet this man face to face. If that makes me look weak to you...I don't give a rat's #%!.
I may leave this group and I may stop posting anything about sex.
VineetHonkan comments on Jan 12, 2019:
Do what these guys suggest...block and report. You have that power, which this creep cannot take away from you.
Cabsmom replies on Jan 12, 2019:
I did
I may leave this group and I may stop posting anything about sex.
Flexymorals comments on Jan 12, 2019:
I’m on the app, so this might not be the same for you weird people who still use computers ?. Go to his profile and click on the lines in the upper right corner to block and report.
Cabsmom replies on Jan 12, 2019:
I did
I believe the key to great sex is very simple.
JeremyTaylor comments on Jan 11, 2019:
Ding! Ding! Ding! We have a winner! Give the woman a cigar!
Cabsmom replies on Jan 12, 2019:
@JeremyTaylor nothing personal...I'm just not into casual sex. I should have said that above. You are a cool guy.
I believe the key to great sex is very simple.
JeremyTaylor comments on Jan 11, 2019:
Ding! Ding! Ding! We have a winner! Give the woman a cigar!
Cabsmom replies on Jan 12, 2019:
@JeremyTaylor I think I'll have to pass...lol.
I have a question for the women in the group.
Cabsmom comments on Jan 11, 2019:
I do realize that in the end it doesn't matter what a man does. I am just mostly attracted to blue collar workers. Just like I'm normally attracted to tall men. These aren't requirements by any means....lol...just the type I'm drawn to.
Cabsmom replies on Jan 12, 2019:
@hippydog I said normally...it's not a deal breaker...lol.
Good morning! Here's our question for the day: What’s the farthest you’ve ever been from ...
Cabsmom comments on Jan 11, 2019:
Cozumel, Mexico
Cabsmom replies on Jan 12, 2019:
@Riki64, please stop. Your comment is not appreciated. Just what the fuck were you thinking responding like this?
I believe the key to great sex is very simple.
JeremyTaylor comments on Jan 11, 2019:
Ding! Ding! Ding! We have a winner! Give the woman a cigar!
Cabsmom replies on Jan 11, 2019:
I'll trade that cigar for an orgasm.
I believe the key to great sex is very simple.
Sticks48 comments on Jan 11, 2019:
I have had amazing sex with women I had no deep feelings about at all. Maybe that was why it was great sex. There were no feelings interfering with pure unabated lust. I have had great sex with someone l was in love also. I have had below average sex with both also.
Cabsmom replies on Jan 11, 2019:
I'm referring to caring about the sexual pleasure in this post. If a person really cares about the sexual pleasure of their partner...sex is better.
What do these things indicate to you?
Wangobango3 comments on Jan 10, 2019:
#3 will just confuse the situation. As others have mentioned, have The Talk.
Cabsmom replies on Jan 10, 2019:
@Wangobango3 he's actually an overthinker also. I noticed on our second date. We even talked about it.
What do these things indicate to you?
Alvinsmama comments on Jan 10, 2019:
The question is: Does he feel the same way? If he does, wonderful. If not, get ready for some heartbreak.
Cabsmom replies on Jan 10, 2019:
I know that I need to talk to him about it. I also know I could be facing some heartbreak.
What do these things indicate to you?
Outsideit67 comments on Jan 10, 2019:
Perhaps attachment. Is this your pattern from before ? I say that only to make sure you stay present and don’t repeat the past.
Cabsmom replies on Jan 10, 2019:
No. I have never felt this way even with my son's dad.
What do these things indicate to you?
Wangobango3 comments on Jan 10, 2019:
#3 will just confuse the situation. As others have mentioned, have The Talk.
Cabsmom replies on Jan 10, 2019:
I did and then we talked about it. He knows I'm an overthinker.
What do these things indicate to you?
UrsiMajor comments on Jan 10, 2019:
After 3 dates, I think it's ok to have the "talk." You're just wasting time and emotional trauma if he's just stringing you along. Definitely have the talk if you are considering sexual relations. An old mother-of-an-ex once described my old boyfriend's roomate as an animal b/c he had a different ...
Cabsmom replies on Jan 10, 2019:
The 3rd date happened about a month ago. I just remember that I already had a date planned and I remember how I felt weird going out with someone else. We've already had sex and I don't regret it. I just wish we had discussed our relationship before, but it is what it is...and the sex is great...lol
What do these things indicate to you?
Lavergne comments on Jan 10, 2019:
do you have any idea how he feels about you?
Cabsmom replies on Jan 10, 2019:
Not exactly, but I know there is something there. If I had to guess I would say he wants me in his life.
What do these things indicate to you?
aspiringunicorn comments on Jan 10, 2019:
That's something deep. Go with it. Relax, you got this.
Cabsmom replies on Jan 10, 2019:
Yep...and I've never felt this before...lol
Time for me to take a break from posting memes and ask a question instead.
hippydog comments on Jan 10, 2019:
"What are your favorite positions for sex?" ... the last one that made her cum extra hard.. ?
Cabsmom replies on Jan 10, 2019:
I like a man that thinks like that. I find giving a man pleasure is absolutely INTOXICATING. So I understand your statement. If both partners feel that way...sex is enhanced for sure.
Time for me to take a break from posting memes and ask a question instead.
EyesThatSmile comments on Jan 10, 2019:
I never like this question. I prefer variety and wouldn’t want to get “tied down “ to only a few options...
Cabsmom replies on Jan 10, 2019:
@Charity, I've had very few sexual partners for two reasons..One I was very religious for years and two- I didn't think anyone would want me. I was very heavy and had a lot of insecurities that honestly I'm still working through. I'm enjoying not being sexually repressed. I'm learning what I'm comfortable with. I have boundaries, but they are there because that's what I personally want...not what religion dictates.
Today's Question: What skill would you like to master?
Cabsmom comments on Jan 8, 2019:
Speaking sign language
Cabsmom replies on Jan 8, 2019:
@RavenCT I took two semesters at college last year. I need to practice and learn more. Yes, online there are ways to learn some. However, human interaction is the best way
Care to weigh in on this one ladies? ?
thinktwice comments on Jan 8, 2019:
Here is the thing...you really can't over think sexual acts or else you never would do anything...let passion and lust take over so that your mind doesn't get bogged down on such trivial and inane thoughts...lol... I mean, seriously, sometimes I imagine alien beings looking down at us and ...
Cabsmom replies on Jan 8, 2019:
I agree. Sex is wonderful and weird if you analyze it. It's one of the things in life that's better to just enjoy. I think if there is any passion...your mind goes into a different mode.
The online dating "Scattershot Effect" Years ago i had this friend .
maturin1919 comments on Jan 8, 2019:
You have a slightly higher chance to win the raffle with every ticket you buy. He's playing the odds, which, as you yourself said, works. What I'm wondering is what about that makes it a douchebag move?
Cabsmom replies on Jan 8, 2019:
@hippydog, exactly right. It took me a while to learn some warning signs. I used to respond to most messages. Now, I respond to few...if any. At times I hide my profile on POF because it just gets so...ugh...frustrating and juvenile. I respond to most messages here, but I don't lead men on. If I'm not looking for whatever reason (like right now) or I'm not interested I won't flirt and sometimes I'll come right out and say that I'm not interested.
Reading other posts and other people's reactions.
EyesThatSmile comments on Jan 8, 2019:
I’ve never really liked the term “Babe” or “Baby” even from a boyfriend. It sounds demeaning. Just my own opinion.
Cabsmom replies on Jan 8, 2019:
I don't mind it from a boyfriend.
Reading other posts and other people's reactions.
PontifexMarximus comments on Jan 8, 2019:
My piece of advice … DO whatever you like and live with the consequences!!!
Cabsmom replies on Jan 8, 2019:
That's your opinion. It would be nice, however, if you could listen to the opinions of others and learn what is acceptable for most. Or, you could go ahead and live a life of stubbornness.
Online dating success stories?
Cabsmom comments on Jan 6, 2019:
I met a wonderful man that is not in the right place for a long term relationship. I'm hoping that changes, but I can't force it. We are still talking. I've also met another wonderful man that just lives way too damn far away. Believe me if he lived closer, we would have a great time. He is a ...
Cabsmom replies on Jan 6, 2019:
@Savage I disagree. Family can outweigh romantic desire.
Online dating success stories?
Cabsmom comments on Jan 6, 2019:
I met a wonderful man that is not in the right place for a long term relationship. I'm hoping that changes, but I can't force it. We are still talking. I've also met another wonderful man that just lives way too damn far away. Believe me if he lived closer, we would have a great time. He is a ...
Cabsmom replies on Jan 6, 2019:
@Savage neither one of us wants to relocate so distance does matter.
Online dating success stories?
Cabsmom comments on Jan 6, 2019:
I feel there are good opportunities to meet people that are compatible. I think it just takes a different kind of thinking to navigate the online dating world. Just how much can you tell from a profile and a short beginning message? Not a lot. It's too much to respond to everyone, so I use a ...
Cabsmom replies on Jan 6, 2019:
@Remowill , some deal breakers for me 1. First message "hey sexy" or something 2. Before we meet /or before it's wanted...asking about my sex life 3. Very little info on profile 4. Religious...I will ask someone if the seem interesting about religion. However, I am aware some will lie.
Online dating success stories?
germangirl90439 comments on Jan 6, 2019:
@MrLizard and I met through this site and have been in a relationship since June. We've been living together for some time now and will combine households by the end of May.
Cabsmom replies on Jan 6, 2019:
I love your story. I hope it happens for me some day.
Answer please .... do age matter in dating ?
Cabsmom comments on Jan 5, 2019:
Age matters to me. I don't want anyone way younger or older. I also won't do long distance and will not relocate anywhere over 30 minutes or so from where I am now. I might have a long distance flirtatious relationship, but as far as committed relationship...no.
Cabsmom replies on Jan 6, 2019:
@JamesZabodyn I think more like mid 40s to mid 50s....lol
A question for the ladies.
TheDoubter comments on Jan 5, 2019:
all this discussion begs a question: what do women like in a kiss that a man doesn't provide? can a woman or two or more give us answers?
Cabsmom replies on Jan 5, 2019:
I am satisfied with a man's kiss. I guess I like firm, paasionate kissing. I like kissing to be both of us pulling in as close as possible with our mouths and our bodies (clothed or naked). I guess I'm saying kissing should communicate desire. I also don't want it to be rushed...like "ok...we kissed...that's over."
I was talking to a friend the other day about anxiety.
Cutiebeauty comments on Jan 4, 2019:
No general anxiety but maybe some short term ... I'm a little anxious about my pregnancy but I think that's normal.... About the driving anxiety you experience, maybe take a drivers defensive course... It gives you some confidence...
Cabsmom replies on Jan 4, 2019:
@RavenCT I've thought about getting one.
I was talking to a friend the other day about anxiety.
Treehugger comments on Jan 4, 2019:
Can you find a safe empty parking with a friend. I can parallel park 14ft box truck in San Francisco or back into loading dock across sidewalk but it took practice.
Cabsmom replies on Jan 4, 2019:
It's not about being able to back up...it's the fact that small humans might be behind my car.
I was talking to a friend the other day about anxiety.
Cutiebeauty comments on Jan 4, 2019:
No general anxiety but maybe some short term ... I'm a little anxious about my pregnancy but I think that's normal.... About the driving anxiety you experience, maybe take a drivers defensive course... It gives you some confidence...
Cabsmom replies on Jan 4, 2019:
It's not driving in general. It's only backing up in parking lots, especially crowded ones with kids- Wal-Mart, etc.
I was talking to a friend the other day about anxiety.
Count_Viceroy comments on Jan 4, 2019:
Not to be facetious, but do you ever try to back into a parking space? That's what I do at work (a school) and it helps! I have recurring dreams of backing up and my car accelerating out of control.
Cabsmom replies on Jan 4, 2019:
I do that sometimes.
Happy New Year to me.
PinkyandtheBrain comments on Jan 2, 2019:
Nice! Was it just a hand job? Sometimes I just receive oral that's ok. But I prefer long multi orgasmic sex.
Cabsmom replies on Jan 2, 2019:
No. There were different things going on...lol. I've just never had a man do that for me successfully...lol
Today's question should be a fun and interesting one: Tell us about a favorite article of clothing ...
Cabsmom comments on Jan 2, 2019:
I'm going to add one. Today's favorite would be the smaller jeans I fit into since I've lost weight and had the tummy tuck.
Cabsmom replies on Jan 2, 2019:
@ProudMary very good?
Happy New Year to me.
Cutiebeauty comments on Jan 1, 2019:
Details LoL
Cabsmom replies on Jan 1, 2019:
Let's just say I had several orgasms and I'm not sure of the number because they were back to back or maybe some of them were just long ones. I was in ectasy.
Happy New Year to me.
BitFlipper comments on Jan 1, 2019:
You must have that one lined up in advance ?
Cabsmom replies on Jan 1, 2019:
Nope! We've been seeing each other, but he has kids ..so he is busy a lot. It was a lovely surprise. He texted me a couple dirty messages...how could I refuse?
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Jay1313132018 comments on Dec 31, 2018:
... Let me explain why this works so well as a contraceptive. ???
Cabsmom replies on Jan 1, 2019:
That comment is really good...can you please explain more?
I think some people misunderstood part of my post yesterday.
hippydog comments on Dec 31, 2018:
".I am not going to become the party girl to please him. I might go to a party with him." ... the more important question is.. can he touch your ass at said party? ???
Cabsmom replies on Dec 31, 2018:
That depends on how long I've known him...?
I think some people misunderstood part of my post yesterday.
tedelliss comments on Dec 31, 2018:
Just to let you know...I had sent you a ' like ' and an itroductory private message.
Cabsmom replies on Dec 31, 2018:
I didn't get a message
I think some people misunderstood part of my post yesterday.
Ruby_Slipper comments on Dec 31, 2018:
I think the people who misunderstood your post either did so to be willfully obstinate or because they really don't support women, whether they're female-identified or not. If people have issues with women asserting ourselves, that tells me everything I need to know about their other motivations, ...
Cabsmom replies on Dec 31, 2018:
@Deveno for the record. I'm not mad that you pointed out in the original post how it could be misinterpreted. It happens. My post was vague and while some saw my intent others saw a different point of view.
I think some people misunderstood part of my post yesterday.
germangirl90439 comments on Dec 31, 2018:
Your post yesterday was clear to me too.
Cabsmom replies on Dec 31, 2018:
A couple/few people didn't get my intent so I thought I would clarify.
I'm changing my thinking about dating and relationships.
Deveno comments on Dec 31, 2018:
There seems to be a couple of differing opinions, here. I do hear a chorus of something akin to: "Right on, sister!" and this is consistent of my observations that women generally express feelings of concern and empathy for each other more than men do. I see another expressing dismay at ...
Cabsmom replies on Dec 31, 2018:
I made a new post today to hopefully clear up my viewpoint.
I'm changing my thinking about dating and relationships.
Deveno comments on Dec 31, 2018:
There seems to be a couple of differing opinions, here. I do hear a chorus of something akin to: "Right on, sister!" and this is consistent of my observations that women generally express feelings of concern and empathy for each other more than men do. I see another expressing dismay at ...
Cabsmom replies on Dec 31, 2018:
I get your point. In a response below I think I said something similar. You don't have to like everything about someone to like them as a whole.
Here's another one.
Cabsmom comments on Dec 30, 2018:
I'm new at this stuff to, but I don't like profiles where they say, "ask me" or something similar. It only takes a few minutes to tell something about yourself. As for why they do that...I have no idea. Men do it also so it's not a gender thing.
Cabsmom replies on Dec 30, 2018:
@GreenAtheist yes, but saying something as benign as... I like football or I'm friendly or I like dogs Hardly seems risky.
I'm changing my thinking about dating and relationships.
Deiter comments on Dec 30, 2018:
**I guess I'll be the lone voice of dissent then**: The dating experience hasn't been working so your solution is to double down? Tell me if I'm wrong but what I think you're saying is you're prepared, and willing if it comes to that, to go it alone. Fair enough but every time someone posts like ...
Cabsmom replies on Dec 30, 2018:
@Deiter, I'm sorry if I read into your response something that wasn't there. You read something into my post that wasn't there. I guess we move on from this point. It's easy to misunderstand people especially in the written form AND especially when the people don't know each other.
I'm changing my thinking about dating and relationships.
evergreen comments on Dec 30, 2018:
In the very best relationships I've ever had - I certainly did not like certain flaws in people. Whether friends or lovers. But I liked the individuals enough to accept the flaws with whatever the whole package included. I would expect no more or no less from someone wanting to be with me.
Cabsmom replies on Dec 30, 2018:
Well said. Everyone has flaws. I don't expect a man to totally like that I over think sometimes and can be quiet when I'm doing so. I do, however, believe that to have a long term relationship with a man-he would need to see beyond that flaw and not expect me to change. I'm not a bitch when I over think. I just might seem a little down.
I'm changing my thinking about dating and relationships.
Deiter comments on Dec 30, 2018:
**I guess I'll be the lone voice of dissent then**: The dating experience hasn't been working so your solution is to double down? Tell me if I'm wrong but what I think you're saying is you're prepared, and willing if it comes to that, to go it alone. Fair enough but every time someone posts like ...
Cabsmom replies on Dec 30, 2018:
Nope. I am just trying to be myself more than ever before. I'm not jaded. I'm not giving up on dating. I'm just being aware. There is not always going to be a connection. I'm okay with that. I'm not going to force a connection if there isn't one. I don't want to compromise who I am. There are other types of compromise that are fully acceptable. I don't require that I'm the only priority. People have other people in their lives. In fact, I don't want an overly clingy relationship. I think you're projecting. You're reading something in my post that is not there.
I'm changing my thinking about dating and relationships.
germangirl90439 comments on Dec 30, 2018:
I come as I am, but so does everyone else. It does go both ways!
Cabsmom replies on Dec 30, 2018:
Very true. I don't think it even means you have to like the flaws, but you can still like the whole package.
Oh my, with all the excitement in my life, I forgot today's question: Is there a particular place, ...
Cabsmom comments on Dec 30, 2018:
The mall...I hate it. I have anxiety while I'm in them.
Cabsmom replies on Dec 30, 2018:
@ProudMary I like certain types of shopping, but not mall shopping.
I kind of lost myself this past summer.
bleurowz comments on Dec 30, 2018:
Maybe you just needed to do what you did at the time. When we know better, we do better.
Cabsmom replies on Dec 30, 2018:
My need should not have been met that way.
I kind of lost myself this past summer.
Deiter comments on Dec 30, 2018:
*Values* can be, at times, a luxury. We all want to be true to ours, and ourselves, and in the right circumstances maybe we can be. Poverty, whatever the kind we may have, can sometimes lead us elsewhere. Maybe next time you'll have the luxury of saying *no.*
Cabsmom replies on Dec 30, 2018:
For sure. The thrill was fleeting.
I kind of lost myself this past summer.
Seeker55 comments on Dec 30, 2018:
Good for you and welcome back to...yourself!
Cabsmom replies on Dec 30, 2018:
@Seeker55 well, at least next time my peace is disturbed, it won't be because I was in that situation.
I kind of lost myself this past summer.
Seeker55 comments on Dec 30, 2018:
Good for you and welcome back to...yourself!
Cabsmom replies on Dec 30, 2018:
It's a much more peaceful place.
I kind of lost myself this past summer.
jondspen comments on Dec 29, 2018:
I hope you don't beat yourself up over it. You said yourself you had zero self esteem, and this was an escape. Perhaps you feel bad for what you did to her - maybe a bit to yourself? Dunno - just projecting myself here, but I hope you don't use this as a reason to beat yourself up and be at ...
Cabsmom replies on Dec 30, 2018:
I am not beating myself off...but I'm learning from it. I would rather be alone than in that situation again. Besides it's a lonely place to be. Sex and then emptiness.
I kind of lost myself this past summer.
blumandolin comments on Dec 30, 2018:
You went with your emotions that's right He did the wrong .
Cabsmom replies on Dec 30, 2018:
I was wrong too. I've forgiven myself, but I was guilty.
I kind of lost myself this past summer.
TomMcGiverin comments on Dec 29, 2018:
I haven't done that and never would, but I can understand what motivated you to do that. We all want to feel attractive, wanted, and be with someone. All of that is healthy, at least in my mind and it doesn't by itself make you codependent or dysfunctional. I don't judge you and am glad you learned ...
Cabsmom replies on Dec 29, 2018:
A year ago I would have said that I never would either.
When you are just falling back asleep in the morning and a text wakes you up.
t1nick comments on Dec 28, 2018:
Sounds like things are going well for you Cindy
Cabsmom replies on Dec 28, 2018:
Day by day.
Im trying to remember this in the New Year.
germangirl90439 comments on Dec 28, 2018:
.... or I'm pushing instead of pulling ...
Cabsmom replies on Dec 28, 2018:
That's me or pushing on the wrong side of the door.
Marilyn had class...
Wildflower comments on Dec 27, 2018:
The forehead is a pretty special kiss!
Cabsmom replies on Dec 27, 2018:
When done with the right sentiment behind it. I've had forehead kisses that meant nothing.
Marilyn had class...
ClaytonE83 comments on Dec 27, 2018:
F name v. Do Mr u
Cabsmom replies on Dec 27, 2018:
Is that a code?
"Sexual Deviant", how is this group defining it?
hippydog comments on Dec 27, 2018:
Anything goes as long as its consensual and doesnt harm another. Pedophilia and rape are a hard no.
Cabsmom replies on Dec 27, 2018:
exactly
Okay, I changed my status to "seeing someone.
Mokvon comments on Dec 24, 2018:
That is great for you. Let it come. Have fun.
Cabsmom replies on Dec 25, 2018:
@Mokvon I know.
Sometimes all you need is? ?
Cabsmom comments on Dec 23, 2018:
I agree...wholeheartedly
Cabsmom replies on Dec 24, 2018:
@Petter it depends on who I'm with and what mood I'm in.
So...I'm curious...what do you folks find EROTIC or SENSUOUS...and WHY???
Cabsmom comments on Dec 24, 2018:
Lots of things... Passionate kissing Talking about what we are going to do sexually at a later time Touches/kisses to certain parts of my body....or my touches/kisses to certain parts of his body Sending each other sexually suggestive memes Just thinking about kissing him having sex ...
Cabsmom replies on Dec 24, 2018:
@Bungaloebob thank you. For me that's only for someone I'm in a relationship with. I realize that not everyone feels that way and I wasn't upset. So...all is good.
Okay, I changed my status to "seeing someone.
Mokvon comments on Dec 24, 2018:
That is great for you. Let it come. Have fun.
Cabsmom replies on Dec 24, 2018:
I changed it back. He doesn't want a serious relationship.
Today's question recommended by a member: Everyone has quirks.
Cabsmom comments on Dec 20, 2018:
1. I fall asleep quickly. When I'm ready to sleep, I close my eyes and I'm asleep within minutes. The only exception is when I'm having a high level of anxiety. 2. I've taken a few "non-drowsy" medicines that knock me out. It's like my body reacts totally opposite than it should.
Cabsmom replies on Dec 24, 2018:
@Sticks48 the medicine thing isn't really a blessing. Thankfully I don't have to take any non-drowsy medicines regularly.
So...I'm curious...what do you folks find EROTIC or SENSUOUS...and WHY???
Cabsmom comments on Dec 24, 2018:
Lots of things... Passionate kissing Talking about what we are going to do sexually at a later time Touches/kisses to certain parts of my body....or my touches/kisses to certain parts of his body Sending each other sexually suggestive memes Just thinking about kissing him having sex ...
Cabsmom replies on Dec 24, 2018:
@Bungaloebob, I'm hoping you meant nothing by it, but please don't call me babe.
I hope this post won't be frowned upon too much.
Cabsmom comments on Dec 24, 2018:
Well, I think it's interesting. I'll use myself as an example. I belong to the sexual deviants group. On the deviant scale I'd probably be a 2 or 3...or maybe a 4 out of 10. There are things I've thought that I might enjoy, but I will probably never do. There are a couple things that I'm most likely...
Cabsmom replies on Dec 24, 2018:
@daylily no problem. I do understand to a certain degree. But just remember it's not always cut and dry.
I hope this post won't be frowned upon too much.
Cabsmom comments on Dec 24, 2018:
Well, I think it's interesting. I'll use myself as an example. I belong to the sexual deviants group. On the deviant scale I'd probably be a 2 or 3...or maybe a 4 out of 10. There are things I've thought that I might enjoy, but I will probably never do. There are a couple things that I'm most likely...
Cabsmom replies on Dec 24, 2018:
@daylily I get it. I had thought about leaving the group for that reason. However, I am who I am. I happen to be dating someone I met in a different site...so he didn't know I belonged to that group....However, he knows about my enthusiasm for sex...lol.
Hi gang just a curious questions for men & women what are you looking for in eachother in a ...
LimeySteve comments on Dec 24, 2018:
Tenderness, openness, honesty, lots of touch, intelligence, a quick wit, compassion, unconditional love. Someone to sleep next to, to put an arm around in the middle of the night. Someone who shares her day with me and is sincerely interested in mine. Connection, trust, the pure joy of a shared ...
Cabsmom replies on Dec 24, 2018:
Nicely said
The best kind!
EyesThatSmile comments on Dec 23, 2018:
On vacation with small kids around and oh, how they love to play with phones!???
Cabsmom replies on Dec 23, 2018:
Lock it with a password. Hide the pics on a special file...
Okay, I changed my status to "seeing someone.
Carin comments on Dec 23, 2018:
Good luck!! Did you meet this special person here?
Cabsmom replies on Dec 23, 2018:
No, but he is an unbeliever also.

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