How would everyone feel about being refused a date because you’re an atheist?

DUCHESSA comments on Apr 1, 2018:

Whenever I meet people for the first time, I find a way to let them know I am Atheist....if they react in a negative way I let few minutes go by and, then, I say I need to use the facilities....and I never come back. I used the same technique whenever a man approached me and I wanted to know if ...

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 4, 2018:

@bonfirefromtx Some people reach to any excuse to justify their way of thinking.....Byeeeeeeeeee.

How would everyone feel about being refused a date because you’re an atheist?

DUCHESSA comments on Apr 1, 2018:

Whenever I meet people for the first time, I find a way to let them know I am Atheist....if they react in a negative way I let few minutes go by and, then, I say I need to use the facilities....and I never come back. I used the same technique whenever a man approached me and I wanted to know if ...

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 4, 2018:

@bonfirefromtx Dear, what is rude to you isn't for me...specially when I don't know how the other person will react.

I am trying to understand how people seem to think that owning gun is a right but healthcare isn't>

nicknotes comments on Apr 3, 2018:

Eric Fromm, the psychologist said "a gun is a penis substitute" A lot of guys who can't get it up buy a gun to feel more "manly."

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 4, 2018:

@nicknotes Why...because they don't suffer ED? LOL Please, your parallel between guns and penises is -to say the least- machista and the product of misinformation. BTW, don't send me your google searches; I may be a lot more knowledgeable about this issue than you may ever find out.

Seeing supposedly religious people support tRump has made me incredibly angry.

DUCHESSA comments on Feb 27, 2018:

They have the right to support Trump as much as you have the right to get angry over said support.... BTW, anger doesn't add to the "kindness" , you mention. BTW2, I am an Atheist and I voted for Trump.

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 4, 2018:

Let it be said I have a strong opinion about immigration and related issues.

Circumcision

JacarC comments on Apr 3, 2018:

To be clear, I am not tolerant of abusing children. Cutting boys and girls in this manner is one of the most abusive "adult" behaviors. Mutilating the genitals of children should be responded to with the complete removal of the genitals of ALL those involved. This might not be nice. But it is...

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 3, 2018:

While there could be a medical reason to circumcise a boy's penis....there is none to practice circumcision on a girl. Please, read about the "rationale" behind female circumcision

I am trying to understand how people seem to think that owning gun is a right but healthcare isn't>

nicknotes comments on Apr 3, 2018:

Eric Fromm, the psychologist said "a gun is a penis substitute" A lot of guys who can't get it up buy a gun to feel more "manly."

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 3, 2018:

@nicknotes Is Pfizer behind such "study"? See, even if every man on this world becomes an ED sufferer....to buy the "A gun is a penis substitute"....is the stupider statement I ever heard. Anyway, what excuse that psychologist has for the women who get guns? LOL

What does it mean to you when a members starts to follow your posts?

CallMeDave comments on Apr 3, 2018:

It means they "got your number."

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 3, 2018:

Trust me, darling, I am not one to scare easy. ...LOL

What does it mean to you when a members starts to follow your posts?

Condor5 comments on Apr 3, 2018:

Generally, the people I follow are those whom I perceive as having thinking close to mine. Very selfish reasoning.

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 3, 2018:

@Condor5 As my granny used to say "We never stop maturing."

I am trying to understand how people seem to think that owning gun is a right but healthcare isn't>

nicknotes comments on Apr 3, 2018:

Eric Fromm, the psychologist said "a gun is a penis substitute" A lot of guys who can't get it up buy a gun to feel more "manly."

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 3, 2018:

With your way of thinking only guys over 70 will need to get a gun...LOL Please.

What does it mean to you when a members starts to follow your posts?

Condor5 comments on Apr 3, 2018:

Generally, the people I follow are those whom I perceive as having thinking close to mine. Very selfish reasoning.

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 3, 2018:

@Condor5 Don't we all ? :)

What does it mean to you when a members starts to follow your posts?

Sticks48 comments on Apr 3, 2018:

I think they must not have cable.

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 3, 2018:

And other have the cables on their head disconnected. LOL

What does it mean to you when a members starts to follow your posts?

Condor5 comments on Apr 3, 2018:

Generally, the people I follow are those whom I perceive as having thinking close to mine. Very selfish reasoning.

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 3, 2018:

Why do you see it as selfish?

What does it mean to you when a members starts to follow your posts?

pthomas59 comments on Apr 3, 2018:

You level up. Your alerts get crowded. Which is cool if you like that sort of stuff.

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 3, 2018:

Do I get to eat ice cream...two flavors? LOL

Who else is spring cleaning?

DUCHESSA comments on Apr 3, 2018:

I am one of those who does "all year cleaning". Every so often you can see me driving to the Salvation Army with an old lamp or a bag of clothes.

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 3, 2018:

@MollyBell The way I see it is they have helped many guys with their alcoholism

Quite a few of the radical gun control people are calling for a repeal of the 2nd amendment but it ...

DUCHESSA comments on Apr 3, 2018:

I was watching "Death Wish 2" last night; the scene that keeps popping up is the one where the police removes a gun from an older couple stating that's illegal to own one. The old man tells the cops they have the gun for protection....but the cops ignore him. Few minutes after the cops left...and ...

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 3, 2018:

@Trajan61 BNut the scene also shows hoe the cops were bsing.

Yay!! Got my t-shirt today! Woot woot! ????

David1955 comments on Apr 3, 2018:

What's the deal on the Tshirt? Do you order it on the site?

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 3, 2018:

@BeeHappy I enjoy posting / commenting.

What does it mean to you when a members starts to follow your posts?

juli15 comments on Apr 3, 2018:

I am not sure what it means but you definitely have contributed many more interesting posts comments and reply’s than me . You have submitted 75 posts and 793 comments as opposed to my 3 posts and 75 comments .You have 12 followers and I have 20. By my standards you should have many more followers...

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 3, 2018:

Well, not everebody likes / agrees with my opinions.

Personally, I'm against abortion but I know there are instances where it is a medical necessity.

DUCHESSA comments on Apr 3, 2018:

Is very stupid to think women use / will use abortion as birth control.

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 3, 2018:

@Melbates I don't say it has not happened....but my point is that most pro-lifers want people to believe ALL women use abortion as a method of birth control. IAW, is another myth...as is "If you abort you will never be able to have kids."

Yay!! Got my t-shirt today! Woot woot! ????

Rudy1962 comments on Apr 3, 2018:

Two more years and I'm going to be level 8!

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 3, 2018:

@Rudy1962 I went to 7.2 in a piff...and now is so slow it feels I am dragging a ton of religious people.....lol

Yay!! Got my t-shirt today! Woot woot! ????

David1955 comments on Apr 3, 2018:

What's the deal on the Tshirt? Do you order it on the site?

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 3, 2018:

@BeeHappy I will post non-stop from now on.......lol

Yay!! Got my t-shirt today! Woot woot! ????

Rudy1962 comments on Apr 3, 2018:

Two more years and I'm going to be level 8!

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 3, 2018:

LOL............is taking longer for me........grrrrrrrrrrrrr

Does anyone shy away from using a company who promotes religious ideals?

RandyWells comments on Apr 3, 2018:

i would like hobby lobby, and thats only because of how they treat women when it come to insurance and such

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 3, 2018:

I won't buy from the "My pillow" guy. The fact he displays a cross on his neck makes me laugh at him.

Does anyone shy away from using a company who promotes religious ideals?

GenuineCdnMan comments on Apr 3, 2018:

They absolutely have the right to promote values. Just as I have the right to shop elsewhere if I disagree with values.

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 3, 2018:

You meant "to promote THEIR values"? Everybody have values...the fact that one person's may be different from the neighbor's doesn't mean those are not values.

How would everyone feel about being refused a date because you’re an atheist?

DUCHESSA comments on Apr 1, 2018:

Whenever I meet people for the first time, I find a way to let them know I am Atheist....if they react in a negative way I let few minutes go by and, then, I say I need to use the facilities....and I never come back. I used the same technique whenever a man approached me and I wanted to know if ...

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 3, 2018:

@GoldenHand If you are not judging....why the remark "is against common courtesy"? Do you know how many people have got up and moved to a different seat upon finding out I am Atheist? Many. Please, don't talk to me about common courtesy.

Please new members introduce yourself

DarrelScott comments on Apr 3, 2018:

I'm Darrel and live in Temple, Tx. Would love to meet other freethinkers who are nudists who live nearby.

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 3, 2018:

Hi, have you investigated the nudist resorts in your area....as well as the Atheist groups? They may not be "around the corner" from you but I am sure there are few that are not too far.

Should women still act like women and men like men?

FAIZ comments on Mar 31, 2018:

Promoting feminism is a propoganda of media to get attention heigher TRP. Feminism is not to roam naked arround,but feminism is the feminism of Marrie Curie,Klara Zetkin,Kalpana Chawla etc. Men have no HAZARD from true feminism,but provided feminism to be feminism.

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 2, 2018:

@FAIZ Bye

Should women still act like women and men like men?

FAIZ comments on Mar 31, 2018:

Promoting feminism is a propoganda of media to get attention heigher TRP. Feminism is not to roam naked arround,but feminism is the feminism of Marrie Curie,Klara Zetkin,Kalpana Chawla etc. Men have no HAZARD from true feminism,but provided feminism to be feminism.

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 2, 2018:

@FAIZ Somehow I pity you.

How would everyone feel about being refused a date because you’re an atheist?

DUCHESSA comments on Apr 1, 2018:

Whenever I meet people for the first time, I find a way to let them know I am Atheist....if they react in a negative way I let few minutes go by and, then, I say I need to use the facilities....and I never come back. I used the same technique whenever a man approached me and I wanted to know if ...

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 1, 2018:

@GoldenHand Since a relationship with a person who doesn't respect my feelings / opinions won't blossom....my technique is not ruthless at all....

Quite a few of the radical gun control people are calling for a repeal of the 2nd amendment but it ...

DUCHESSA comments on Apr 1, 2018:

Poorly written? Out of time? May be....but re-writing it wouldn't the proper thing to do?

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 1, 2018:

@Trajan61 Exactly my thoughts while answering your previous comment.

Quite a few of the radical gun control people are calling for a repeal of the 2nd amendment but it ...

DUCHESSA comments on Apr 1, 2018:

Poorly written? Out of time? May be....but re-writing it wouldn't the proper thing to do?

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 1, 2018:

I think the wording should be "modernized" .

Friends trying to "save" me!!

SpikeTalon comments on Apr 1, 2018:

Unfortunately, due to having family members who are not understanding or accepting individuals, I am forced to keep my skepticism to myself for the time being. Regarding your friends who are trying to "save" you...politely say no thanks and walk away. Most likely, they perceive what they do as ...

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 1, 2018:

@SpikeTalon Have you reported to the authorities those relatives prone to violent acts? I would do so in a second.

Footy is back!! Well, European footy that is.

DUCHESSA comments on Mar 31, 2018:

Us England going to Russia?

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 1, 2018:

@Crimson67 Your safe assumption was a condescending one. Dear, everybody knows when the WC is played.... I knew USA didn't make to the WC but you -again- felt it was necessary to let me know about this detail. You made me laugh.

Friends trying to "save" me!!

SpikeTalon comments on Apr 1, 2018:

Unfortunately, due to having family members who are not understanding or accepting individuals, I am forced to keep my skepticism to myself for the time being. Regarding your friends who are trying to "save" you...politely say no thanks and walk away. Most likely, they perceive what they do as ...

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 1, 2018:

I never understood why a person must keep his / her opinions to him/herself to avoid offending those who could care less about offending others.

Friends trying to "save" me!!

lacrossa1228 comments on Apr 1, 2018:

I have 2 people in my life who do this. One is my Grandmother. She is constantly slipping Jesus into our conversations. For example... I recently decided to ask my husband for a divorce. We are now separated. When I told my Grandmother she insisted I shouldn't leave bc it was Satan working to ...

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 1, 2018:

Religious proselytism in the schools is against the law. During a P/T Conference a mother was giving away small cards of the Virgin Mary; she was escorted out of the school fast & furious.

Why is nudity considered "a bad thing"?

farmboy2017 comments on Mar 31, 2018:

Christianity teaches us to loathe the body and pleasure. I tell my students to ignore that garbage.

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 1, 2018:

@farmboy2017 She was convinced the Dept. of Ed. would send a nurse / doctor to teach the boys how to properly penetrate a girl. My comment (to other teachers) was "I guess she thinks we will hire whores and pimps for this subject."

Footy is back!! Well, European footy that is.

DUCHESSA comments on Mar 31, 2018:

Us England going to Russia?

DUCHESSA replies on Apr 1, 2018:

@Crimson67 Gee, I am Argentinian but if you didn't tell me when the WC starts "I wouldn't know"......LOL Please. Again, did England classified for the WC?

Why is nudity considered "a bad thing"?

farmboy2017 comments on Mar 31, 2018:

Christianity teaches us to loathe the body and pleasure. I tell my students to ignore that garbage.

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 31, 2018:

@farmboy2017 You can say that again. Their ignorance is overwhelming. One mother opposed Sex Education because she was convinced the kids were going to be taught "How to f...k" (her exact words).

Why is nudity considered "a bad thing"?

birdingnut comments on Mar 31, 2018:

I think it's mostly working class Americans who have these nudity phobias, from church teachings. The more upper class people don't have this, and much of Europe as well.

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 31, 2018:

I have visited many Nudist resorts, in USA, Spain, Australia, Argentina, Pto. Rico...Most people visiting these resorts were / are middle class people.

Why is nudity considered "a bad thing"?

farmboy2017 comments on Mar 31, 2018:

Christianity teaches us to loathe the body and pleasure. I tell my students to ignore that garbage.

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 31, 2018:

I have debated with my students and friends many topics....nudism was one of them. The answers / comments from my students have been -always- ten times better than those from the adults.

In honor of tomorrow, wishing everyone Feliz Dia de los Huevos! ;)

DUCHESSA comments on Mar 31, 2018:

¿Huevos duros o huevos blandos? LOL

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 31, 2018:

@AzVixen52 ¿Los huevos del ranchero? lol

Should women still act like women and men like men?

Rockandroll134 comments on Mar 31, 2018:

I wish a woman would make a move on me, I am tired of games

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 31, 2018:

@kensmile4u No, is not always the case that a drink and good music break the ice.

Should women still act like women and men like men?

Rockandroll134 comments on Mar 31, 2018:

I wish a woman would make a move on me, I am tired of games

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 31, 2018:

@Roadster No, I have seen both sides....What I don't understand is the need to insult / attack the person asking for a dance / date. I don't understand, either, why most men ignore the ladies who are not lookers.

Twins brothers?

psycheworks comments on Mar 31, 2018:

Wow the likeness is incredible ;-)

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 31, 2018:

It was noticed during the first week he became Pope.

Should women still act like women and men like men?

Rockandroll134 comments on Mar 31, 2018:

I wish a woman would make a move on me, I am tired of games

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 31, 2018:

@kensmile4u Well, she was an ass...I have heard men telling their friends they would never ask a lady to dance unless she was a looker...I have seen not so attractive ladies seating at the bar -alone- because men didn't care for their looks. I have hear / seen many of my students ridiculing their female classmates for not being # 10...and the ironic side of things is most of the men rejecting the ladies were fat / bold / not handsome....

Should women still act like women and men like men?

Rockandroll134 comments on Mar 31, 2018:

I wish a woman would make a move on me, I am tired of games

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 31, 2018:

@kensmile4u Did he say to her "Do you want to go to bed with me? "

Should women still act like women and men like men?

Rockandroll134 comments on Mar 31, 2018:

I wish a woman would make a move on me, I am tired of games

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 31, 2018:

@Roadster I heard -never seen- of women treating men disgustingly....but I don't think it reaches the same level some men treat women.

Should women still act like women and men like men?

FAIZ comments on Mar 31, 2018:

Promoting feminism is a propoganda of media to get attention heigher TRP. Feminism is not to roam naked arround,but feminism is the feminism of Marrie Curie,Klara Zetkin,Kalpana Chawla etc. Men have no HAZARD from true feminism,but provided feminism to be feminism.

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 31, 2018:

The problem is most people think FEMININE and FEMINIST are one and the same. A woman can be both...and the art resides in how to deliver each one.

Should women still act like women and men like men?

Rockandroll134 comments on Mar 31, 2018:

I wish a woman would make a move on me, I am tired of games

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 31, 2018:

Do you know of a woman attracted to a guy but he wasn't attracted to her and, then, he ridicule her, laughed at her with his male friends, made negative comments about her looks.....was he embarrassed to be seen even talking to her? Do you know of a woman never invited out for not being a looker? I have heard / seen men behaving in such manner. If you did as well, you know why women won't approach a man.

My daily mischief.

MissingLink16 comments on Mar 30, 2018:

I don't fight against it. It's sometimes like standing in the ocean and trying to hold back the waves. Sometimes it's like having a battle of wits with an unarmed person.

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 31, 2018:

No, is not like fighting Mother Nature... MN knows what "she" is doing....religious people are ignorant.

ONLY A PRIEST DARE TO DO THIS.

HippieChick58 comments on Mar 30, 2018:

Poor gal. Another reason the catholic church is horrible.

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 30, 2018:

His excuse was "Thyy always come here to celebrate but leave a mess."

My daily mischief.

SweetHarp comments on Mar 30, 2018:

I have, in the past, taken said pamphlets, re-written them, type them up, and leave them mixed in the stack. Just sayin' it can be a fun hobby. Maybe your neighbor would like to learn about the Flying Spaghetti Monster. Or the Church of Me.

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 30, 2018:

No, his brains went the stupid way long time ago.....lol

My daily mischief.

ipdg77 comments on Mar 30, 2018:

Generally speaking I've found that living in the UK there isn't very much of the 'In your face' Christianity. As for work they could all worship Odin for all I know, it doesn't get discussed. There is one lady who is a bit more religious, she likes to put Songs Of Praise on the TV on a Sunday in the...

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 30, 2018:

Well, in USA is different.

My daily mischief.

JackPedigo comments on Mar 29, 2018:

When I go to oour library I go through our used magazine shelf and pull religious or gun oriented mags and recycle them (I also find ones I want to read). Only once did I get a Seventh Day Adventist flyer at my door so I took it along with a FFRF newsletter and took them to the local gathering ...

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 30, 2018:

@Meep70 Can you fight rabies with water? Well, we need to use their strategy to fight them.....besides, is fun to hear him saying "Somebody is enjoying the material I leave here."

Eating out alone?

DUCHESSA comments on Mar 29, 2018:

We live in a society where while is OK for a guy to eat alone....is not so OK for the ladies.

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 30, 2018:

@Gwendolyn2018 More like relying on what I overhead "few times". And this is New York,

Eating out alone?

DUCHESSA comments on Mar 29, 2018:

We live in a society where while is OK for a guy to eat alone....is not so OK for the ladies.

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 29, 2018:

@Gwendolyn2018 I must be special then....lol

Eating out alone?

DUCHESSA comments on Mar 29, 2018:

We live in a society where while is OK for a guy to eat alone....is not so OK for the ladies.

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 29, 2018:

@Gwendolyn2018 The fact you see women eating alone has nothing to do with the way society perceives us. I eat alone nine out of ten times....and about being : regional"....I live in New York...so the regional doesn't apply in my case. Safety? Nope. See, last week was not the first time a "gentleman" asked me why I was eating lunch alone. Men -hunters- are the ones who need to change about this issue.

My daily mischief.

sassygirl3869 comments on Mar 29, 2018:

ignore

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 29, 2018:

No, I won't....he feels he can contaminate minds and I feel I can prevent him from doing so. This is going on for a while. LOL

My daily mischief.

Rosh comments on Mar 29, 2018:

I think what makes you happy and as you have a mischief eye why not bring the child out of it

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 29, 2018:

Síííííííííí'............

Again, religious ignorance running amok;;; There is an stone chapel for the virgen in The Bronx; ...

IAJO163 comments on Mar 28, 2018:

I've debated with religious folk who have threatened that I will lose my place in heaven. I laugh but don't see them as ignorant. Out of all the debates I've had, there is only one true fact that stands tall and on either side, only belief is factual. Nothing else has been proven.

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 29, 2018:

@IAJO163 Well, the impact this "no derogative" ignorance has (and had) on mankind is quite scary....as scary as "the other" ignorance.

My daily mischief.

carcmcgarc comments on Mar 29, 2018:

Every time I go to a hotel I hide the Bible. Baby steps, like posting things online where my religi-nosense friends and family members can see why I think their beliefs are illogical and often hypocritical.

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 29, 2018:

I hide the "buybull" each / every time I am in a hotel.

Dating after 50

DUCHESSA comments on Mar 13, 2018:

I was told that at my age I shouldn't think about dating....so, I can't answer. :-))

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 29, 2018:

@Rosh Thanks; the :) should have told you I don't care about what people say.

My daily mischief.

birdingnut comments on Mar 29, 2018:

Hmm..seems like you'd only encourage him to believe his work isn't in vain.

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 29, 2018:

WHATEVER HE THINKS IS IRRELEVANT TO ME...MY POINT IS TO REMOVE HIS PROPAGANDA FROM PUBLIC VIEW AS FAST AS POSSIBLE.

My daily mischief.

LeighShelton comments on Mar 29, 2018:

You should put playboys and devil worships things about in their place.

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 29, 2018:

I don't think so...lol

Is atheism in America still worst than ANY religion?

DUCHESSA comments on Mar 28, 2018:

Since my last name is extremely religious...by the time they recover from finding out I am Atheist I had walked far away from them....LOL

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 29, 2018:

@iamjc With "S".

Does anyone have irreconcilable differences with members of their family?

Browneyedlady comments on Mar 28, 2018:

I do, but it has nothing to do with religion. I cut the toxic people , whether related or not out of my life after my mom died about ten years ago. I didn't need the drama in my life.

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 28, 2018:

The same here. I cut all ties with my older sister (the only relative) 34 years ago....it had nothing to do with religion but with the toxicity that emanates from her towards me....thanks to our mother comparing one another "to improve behavior". Please, my sister is 18 y/o than I am.

Again, religious ignorance running amok;;; There is an stone chapel for the virgen in The Bronx; ...

IAJO163 comments on Mar 28, 2018:

I've debated with religious folk who have threatened that I will lose my place in heaven. I laugh but don't see them as ignorant. Out of all the debates I've had, there is only one true fact that stands tall and on either side, only belief is factual. Nothing else has been proven.

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 28, 2018:

When you base your life on a false premise...the conclusion is a negative one. IAW, to base your life on an imaginary entity is ignorant....specially when mankind has suffered the worst on account of "this condition".

Why do women on dating sites want someone that can make them laugh?

farmboy2017 comments on Mar 27, 2018:

All I have to do is post my picture and the laughter begins. My youngest granddaughter thinks I look like the Lorax.

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 28, 2018:

@farmboy2017 Great actress...but not a looker.....Grrrrrrrrrrr.

Again, religious ignorance running amok;;; There is an stone chapel for the virgen in The Bronx; ...

ErichZannIII comments on Mar 28, 2018:

Religion doesn't have to be synonymous with ignorance. I've met Catholics who are extremely well educated, who believe fully in Evolution and Climate Change. My mother is one example.

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 28, 2018:

@ErichZannIII it has nothing to do with being judgmental or with "allowing religion to rule one's life" but with the fact that to believe in imaginary friends is -to say the least- easy to be lead. Please, to find something where there is nothing....

MARCH FOR LIFE.

AltWhite comments on Mar 28, 2018:

I feel like the problem lies with social media and our instant gratification culture. Everyone wants their 15 minutes of fame, and the internet makes it easier than ever before. Teenagers, for the most part, crave attention. Especially the loners who aren't getting it in real life. They see the ...

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 28, 2018:

@AltWhite Internet and social media make the bullying a lot more dangerous because both help to spread the harassment "fast & furious"....but the cause is as old as ever.

Why do women on dating sites want someone that can make them laugh?

farmboy2017 comments on Mar 27, 2018:

All I have to do is post my picture and the laughter begins. My youngest granddaughter thinks I look like the Lorax.

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 28, 2018:

@ailurophile And I do as well....but she wasn't a looker.

Again, religious ignorance running amok;;; There is an stone chapel for the virgen in The Bronx; ...

ErichZannIII comments on Mar 28, 2018:

Religion doesn't have to be synonymous with ignorance. I've met Catholics who are extremely well educated, who believe fully in Evolution and Climate Change. My mother is one example.

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 28, 2018:

If a person believes in the existence of god....said person may have all the schooling you want but...

MARCH FOR LIFE.

AltWhite comments on Mar 28, 2018:

I feel like the problem lies with social media and our instant gratification culture. Everyone wants their 15 minutes of fame, and the internet makes it easier than ever before. Teenagers, for the most part, crave attention. Especially the loners who aren't getting it in real life. They see the ...

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 28, 2018:

What you state about the teens' underdeveloped mins is quite correct....but in certain cases resorting to guns -for them- has nothing to do with "getting attention" but everything with stopping harassment. We had a female student who suffered from depression and she was teased day on / day out by two classmates for her condition. The bullies were reprimanded, their parents informed...everything was done. Guess what? One day -at the lab- the two classmates began to tease her again...even they destroyed the girl's purse. The kid reacted by grabbing a lab tool and stabbing one of the bullies very close to her right eye. Yes, the girl was arrested....and the bullies were pampered as victims. During a training section for teachers, a colleague from another school told us what one of his students said to a classmate: "I can't take his harassment any longer; I wish I had a gun." Yes, he was reported.

Why do women on dating sites want someone that can make them laugh?

farmboy2017 comments on Mar 27, 2018:

All I have to do is post my picture and the laughter begins. My youngest granddaughter thinks I look like the Lorax.

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 27, 2018:

@farmboy2017 Don't worry. I was told -all my life- that I look like Bette Davis.....and unfortunately I know is truth. :*

Why do women on dating sites want someone that can make them laugh?

farmboy2017 comments on Mar 27, 2018:

All I have to do is post my picture and the laughter begins. My youngest granddaughter thinks I look like the Lorax.

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 27, 2018:

Do you want us to feel sorry because you look like Lorax? :(

MARCH FOR LIFE.

Trajan61 comments on Mar 27, 2018:

This March for our lives crap is just another ploy by the liberals to strip the rights of law abiding gun owners away. Unfortunately there’s always going to be idiots who abuse guns just as there is who abuse cars and other things. The problem with the schools is they are gun free zones. If we ...

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 27, 2018:

@Trajan61 They should have gone inside. In NYC all the schools have Police Officers....armed and specially trained to deal with the youth.

Is me or each new member in Agnostics is stupider than the one before?

Trajan61 comments on Mar 27, 2018:

I know a lot of religious folks and I don’t agree with them about their religion and I don’t like religious involvement in government but most lf them are better folks than the Obama loving, gun grabbing Trump bashing liberal idiots on the main forum of this website. Almost all of the school ...

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 27, 2018:

The liberal -whom I ignore in the general forum- have an special ability to ignore the truth. While not all broken home lead to violence...most do.

MARCH FOR LIFE.

Trajan61 comments on Mar 27, 2018:

This March for our lives crap is just another ploy by the liberals to strip the rights of law abiding gun owners away. Unfortunately there’s always going to be idiots who abuse guns just as there is who abuse cars and other things. The problem with the schools is they are gun free zones. If we ...

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 27, 2018:

I don't agree with arming teachers...Not now no after Columbine. School SHOULD be gun free zones....but they are not; the students are extremely savvy about entering them to the campuses. I don't know about the schools in your area but in NYC all have Sec. Guards and Police Officers...every day. Yes, the MDOL should be ONLY to request the that civilians can't buy assault weapons.

Should public nudity be legal?

JabberingJohn comments on Nov 5, 2017:

Just at we are all born atheists, so we are all born nudists. Nudity should be legal and without penalty. I agree with the statement above that if a person is using it for sexual arousal it should be completely normalized. I think it would take some time for the general public to accept nudity as...

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 27, 2018:

@snytiger6 That some communities do not have nudist resorts doesn't mean is not legal in that place.

MARCH FOR LIFE.

MikeFlora comments on Mar 27, 2018:

Lady I was there, marching with about 10 to fifteen thousand people in Columbus OH(host Gun Control Now). The only weapons all of us are talking about banning are weapons that should never been on the street to begin with, decent people don't need assault weapons to defend themselves. I doubt 15 ...

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 27, 2018:

And you need to read my post few more times...for comprehension.

MARCH FOR LIFE.

Jesusluvsu comments on Mar 27, 2018:

Duchessa - just FYI, it’s was called March for Our Lives. March for Life sound like a pro-life rally. Very different.

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 27, 2018:

Thanks....I know the difference...but I made a boo.

I recently watched a documentary regarding (in this instance) American men choosing to marry ...

Humanlove comments on Mar 26, 2018:

Well, if you live in a society that's becoming anti- men, 24/7, what would you do?

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 27, 2018:

@Freedompath You make great points..... BTW, those relationships that work are based on communication, respect....and on no accumulating negativism at the throat level. See, when something bothered me I told my husband right then and there (with respect); I didn't allow it to fester and neither did he. If we let things to fester, by law of human nature these things are going to jump out of us...and not in a civil way thus creating a breach that sometimes will be impossible to close.

I recently watched a documentary regarding (in this instance) American men choosing to marry ...

Gozer comments on Mar 26, 2018:

As someone whose thought about only as an idea ... It sounds like a great idea ... But from what I've seen on documentaries too ... Is sometimes the agencies make big dollars for sex trafficked women. However, being at that point of not fully getting what exactly American women or any woman ...

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 27, 2018:

USA has a population of about 450 millions people....about half is female....and you can't find one lady who fulfill your bucket list. Who has the problem? just asking.

Is the era of men "wooing" or "Pursuing" over?

Oddsbodikins comments on Mar 26, 2018:

NoI do not, but the provlem I see most of the time now is women don't respond to it. Or, maybe I just forgot... /shrug

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 27, 2018:

Well, she won't respond if she is not interested.

Is the era of men "wooing" or "Pursuing" over?

GeorgeRocheleau comments on Mar 27, 2018:

Time for women to start wooing.

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 27, 2018:

Have a seat; you will get tired standing up. LOL

Is the era of men "wooing" or "Pursuing" over?

Katrik comments on Mar 27, 2018:

It's simply becoming more equal in who is doing the pursuing. As time passes you will see more women asking men out, until it is no longer thought of as being one gender's role to do it.

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 27, 2018:

Really? Well, then, I will be drinking coffee alone forever since I will never ask a man out.

Is the era of men "wooing" or "Pursuing" over?

Krickit comments on Mar 27, 2018:

Im old fashioned. I still believe in the idea of "courting" but with modern twists. I open car doors, walk on the traffic side of a sidewalk, and look at a girl in the eyes when she talks to me. No using a cell phone on a date; it stays on silent. I don't see much of this going on at all anymore.

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 27, 2018:

You are a gentleman....but those things you mention (I love them) are not "pursuing".

I recently watched a documentary regarding (in this instance) American men choosing to marry ...

DUCHESSA comments on Mar 26, 2018:

1. How a person can chat with another if he / she doesn't speak the other person's language? 2. These "mail-order brides" are -IMHO- ladies who want to come to USA.

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 27, 2018:

@LeighShelton Not kidding....and the fool falls for this game.

What's the most ridiculous pet peeve you have?

DUCHESSA comments on Mar 26, 2018:

When small kids are playing on the local streets and the parents yell to every driver "Watch out for the kids."

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 26, 2018:

@TheInfiniteChris Well, then, some people shouldn't procreate.

What's your biggest fear or insecurity?

mistymoon77 comments on Mar 26, 2018:

Get old timers.. can't remember shit. Once the mind goes, it's over.

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 26, 2018:

@SteveB Priceless...

I am curious what some of you think.

DUCHESSA comments on Mar 26, 2018:

ARE YOU 15 Y/O?

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 26, 2018:

@Valarina61 yes, your answer shows you are...

MARCH FOR LIFE.

Beach_slim comments on Mar 26, 2018:

Some teachers support having a gun. Community colleges in Texas you are permitted to bring a gun as long as it's concealed, as a student. If someone t re is to shoot you, you have a gun to protect yourself. Otherwise most classrooms you will be vulnerable.

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 26, 2018:

. I mentioned "Right after Columbine no teacher agreed with being armed." OK? 2. Many teachers carry guns but are left in their cars. No, is not a good idea.

Are Some Men Reluctant to Talk on the Phone?

meister268 comments on Mar 26, 2018:

I am willing to chat to anyone on the phone, so long as the conversation is pleasant.

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 26, 2018:

And meaningful.

WHAT'S YOUR POSITION ON ABORTION ?

goamerica76 comments on Mar 25, 2018:

I'm pro-choice for sure. And pro-life would be more properly called anti-woman. If they were so pro-life then why are they against paid maternal leave, food stamps, housing, education, healthcare for the poor, government paid daycare, raising the minimum wage, etc...? It is just their tool to make ...

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 26, 2018:

Don't you think education would solve a lot?

What Guides You?

DUCHESSA comments on Mar 25, 2018:

Moral, decency and, above all, common sense.

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 25, 2018:

@arca2027 You could call it my motto.

What do you say?

NicoleCadmium comments on Mar 25, 2018:

We don't comment when someone coughs, belches or breaks wind. The origins of blessing someone for sneezing are supposedly in that they might signifiy the beginning of a fatal illness (typically Bubonic Plague.) That's a long time gone, now. So I say nothing. I actually makes me feel awkward when ...

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 25, 2018:

Not so sure about "breaking wind". A colleague broke wind...accidentally and laud and another teachers said to him "GOD PROTECT US ALL'.

Should public nudity be legal?

LadyStardust96 comments on Oct 18, 2017:

I'm kind of conflicted about it. Like, people should be able to do what they want, but I also think that there is a time and a place for it. Idk, I also don't want my genitals touching where someone else's genitals were touching LOL. That's a personal thing though, if it doesn't bother you then ...

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 25, 2018:

@ailurophile NNNNNNNNNetiquette.

Congress has approved 700 billion for defense and only about 1 billion for the wall - It seems the ...

DUCHESSA comments on Mar 23, 2018:

The wall....which was started during Ronald Reagan's time....will never be finished. Now, the talks about the wall resulted in a very noticeable reduction in the influx of illegals to USA. BTW, there is a wall between Guatemala and Mexico

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 24, 2018:

@gater No, it won't...but talks about being finished resulted in what they wanted: Less illegals entering USA. I love it, I do.

Why do men ask other men if their girlfriends have single friends and can hook them up?

Allikat comments on Mar 24, 2018:

Also thought i had deleted this question and it's still up for all these answers. Not interested in smartass comments.....

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 24, 2018:

@sarahjustme Some similar happened with one of my threads. I posted on a Monday and few days later it showed up as "authored by another female member". I felt honored that somebody did so. LOL :)

Have you ever found a religious person that was genuinely interested in hearing what you had to say ...

DUCHESSA comments on Mar 23, 2018:

I have had people offering me a bible, calling me ignorant....getting up from their seats and moved away from me....but no one -in their blessed ignorance- has shown any interest about atheism.

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 23, 2018:

@irascible And, trust me, I am not interested in teaching them. I honestly feel a person changes his/her opinions / beliefs on their on. You can call it "Awakening".

If you were from another country what would your opinion of the US be?

DUCHESSA comments on Mar 22, 2018:

I a, from another country; I lived there 29 years and I am going into my 38th year in USA. I guess this answer your question.

DUCHESSA replies on Mar 23, 2018:

@atheis Your joke is quite out of line.