Does anyone else's cities pick up compost like they do trash or recycling?

DoDapper comments on Aug 19, 2018:

In south of Chicago, we had to pay a specific amount if we put out our brown bin - with whatever plants, branches, mowed grass, &.

What is the kinkiest most sexual thing you've done on a formal dinner date?

DoDapper comments on Aug 19, 2018:

I enjoyed the long linen tablecloths at a five course oriented restaurant, just enough room to hide a lithe little lady. She got her dessert while I forked Mine.

Do you have a concept of Higher Power? I use Good Orderly Direction as mine.

DoDapper comments on Aug 19, 2018:

The people within my regular sphere, my demographics inherently unknown intimacy sociologically, is my "Higher Power".

I can't find the conversation but it had been mentioned that certain fruit or vegetables looked like...

DoDapper comments on Aug 19, 2018:

That opening does look like it carries decent attributes of a couple human orifices.

“A hairy cunt is fucked much better than one which is smooth; it holds in the steam and wants ...

DoDapper comments on Aug 8, 2018:

I would be interested in doing my own translation from the Latin. Romans were public and outspoken about sex.

Worst chat up line?

DoDapper comments on Aug 8, 2018:

After seeing a couple guys ask for a girls number and get rejected, I said, "No need to be ashamed if you lost your number, you can have mine." Got a call back later that night.

Worst chat up line?

DoDapper comments on Aug 8, 2018:

"Want to come back to My place to watch a movie and serve as My footstool?" That one has only been successful, though.

Worst chat up line?

DoDapper comments on Aug 8, 2018:

"Are you okay? ... Did it hurt when you clawed your way up from Hell?" Far more successful than "... Did it hurt when you fell from Heaven?"

Some of My ropework to start your day. Good morning, all you deviants you.

DoDapper comments on Aug 8, 2018:

Some quick restricting ropework.

Have you ever had sex in a vehicle?

DoDapper comments on Aug 7, 2018:

I've had sex in vehicles at least twice with every regular sexual partner I had.

I'm curious, not sure if this has been asked before, but what are everyone's thoughts about sex in ...

DoDapper comments on Aug 7, 2018:

Once you've had a little practice managing a few different positions in the shower, sex in the shower should be part of any couples' daily hygiene.

Possibly too nerdy for this group?

DoDapper comments on Aug 7, 2018:

Definitely a princess.

Good morning, Everyone! Today's topic: Lying. How do you define it?

DoDapper comments on Aug 7, 2018:

Lying is any aim to obscure the truth by what you say - inherently including omission and little whites. I used to lie without a thought about any number of things I considered insignificant, with a vague aim of testing who had enough personality to call me out. Now I tend toward unrepentant truth. I tolerate lying as a social necessity because most people do and because I'm cynical about that. I suspect honest people of waiting for bigger useful opportunities to lie. I'm working on that. Liars I confront. I have a pretty good sense of when I'm being lied to. If something is important or particularly interesting to me, I'll confront a lie with a direct question. Whether the other person admits it or not, that usually makes it clear "We both know what the truth is here."

Mental health warriors: tell me about something you're really good at.

DoDapper comments on Aug 7, 2018:

I can laugh over the grimmest things that happen to me. And I've perfected a stand up routine for laying down on ambulance rides.

I always thought this explained it well

DoDapper comments on Aug 6, 2018:

Consentual Non-Consent?

Some mornings

DoDapper comments on Aug 6, 2018:

Yes you are.

Have you ever deliberately gone out in the rain and played as an adult?

DoDapper comments on Aug 6, 2018:

Only if the rain earns it. I don't accept half-ass rain, it takes a full ass to get me wet.

What is your favorite position to have intercourse?

DoDapper comments on Aug 6, 2018:

Quality sex has three positions or more.

Do you like to play with you partners feet? What do you he/she like to do?

DoDapper comments on Aug 6, 2018:

No. My partners' feet are a hard limit. On rare ocassion, I may allow my feet to be touched.

Wait, where is the remote control? ;)

DoDapper comments on Aug 6, 2018:

Getting drunk and waterboarding someone?

So, most of you know that I've been busy finishing up requirements for my Master's Degree in ...

DoDapper comments on Aug 6, 2018:

I've always identified with Wolverine and the Joker. Unsurprising many female types I like sit on a spectrum from Jean Grey to Harley Quinn (with maybe an odd jaunt towards a Cinderella service slut submissive?).

This just came to me.

DoDapper comments on Aug 6, 2018:

I love telling that one to a group of masochists. "Said the true masochist to the true Sadist, 'Hurt me.' Replied the true Sadist to the true masochist, 'No.'" And reliably the masochists echo a delightful chorus of "Noooooooo!"

When it comes to noises during sex. What do you prefer?

DoDapper comments on Aug 6, 2018:

I like loud sincere noise, and the sudden moment of open-mouthed silence of my partner in overwhelming orgasm Silence has its place, if I feel like gagging you or (carefully) choking you out for a couple seconds.

Hi, I decided to stop being a voyeur and join.

DoDapper comments on Aug 6, 2018:

As an exhibitionist, it's good to know the voyeurs are really watching.

I still make sure to do this lol

DoDapper comments on Aug 6, 2018:

As a kid, I always dangled an arm or leg off the bed, because I was trying to bait the monsters to come out. I think the general plan was to eat them. Yes, I'm the human child the boogeypeople tell stories about to scare each other.

What are the lovely insomniacs of the world up to tonight?

DoDapper comments on Aug 4, 2018:

Downside, I had to wake up a bit early this morning. Upside, I'm sleep deprived enough I'm getting that second wind feeling.

grins and winks

DoDapper comments on Aug 3, 2018:

One of my favorite jokes.

BDSM Relationships.

DoDapper comments on Aug 2, 2018:

@CarlosEsmi , in response to your question about her referring to a "Sir", a very good point to call on.

I want to try kink getting tied up with a blindfold i think it would highten the experience i just ...

DoDapper comments on Aug 1, 2018:

I like adding noise cancelling headphones for additional sense deprivation.

Has anyone tried play piercing?

DoDapper comments on Aug 1, 2018:

Play piercing you mean? The people I know who do regular needleplay browsed a couple of medical supply websites and kink specialty sites.

One Night Stands; the preserve of the younger generation or do we all enjoy? Ladies first...

DoDapper comments on Aug 1, 2018:

I've had a few one-nighr stands -- though they all ended up being more like 36 hour sex marathons -- but I derive very little satisfaction from them on the whole. I prefer having two regular sexual partners, ideally, but it's very limited for me who I even feel attracted to enough to actively want sex.

OK folks.

DoDapper comments on Aug 1, 2018:

I am a big fan of giving spankings with machetes. I want My kits for fire massage and very basic wax play. 75 feet of 1/2" braided rope. Large kerchiefs for gagging and blindfolding. My three play bag neckties. And two good floggers of equal weight for Florentine are the last *must have*. Other items I would want include a carbon fiber cane and a bamboo cane, a larger paddle, riding crop, a short single-tail whip, vibrator, princess plug, nipple clamps, dog choke collar, My few sizes of leather dog collars in black and in pink, a leash, noise-cancelling headphones, a large wood-backed hairbrush, and 2 or 3 feet of towing chain.

Masturbation: with a partner or without?

DoDapper comments on Jul 31, 2018:

I enjoy all three options in both directions. A partner's play with my cock never gets me off, though. Solo play, I always want to at least know when My submissive has played or cum, and I frequently let My partner know when I have, to tease or torture or tempt them.

Reminder: Sexual Deviants Chatroom opens in approximately 3 hours. New faces welcome!

DoDapper comments on Jul 31, 2018:

Hope to be there causing fun trouble.

Just for fun question: Have you ever made love on a beach?

DoDapper comments on Jul 31, 2018:

Does in a car parked on a beach count? I have been curious about sex on the beach if wary of the sand, but it's been a hard no for any partner with whom it's come up.

Threesomes - everyone has an opinion! What is yours?

DoDapper comments on Jul 31, 2018:

My favorite threesome was one that led to dating both girls for a couple years. They didn't have much interest in playing with each other beyond that, but it was phenomenal and comfortable polyamory. My primary had two secondary boyfriends. My secondary was 100% monogamous with me in all types of play. And they both were comfortable with me doing lots of my usual platonic BDSM activities and sometimes trying out dates/sex with third partners.

Threesomes - everyone has an opinion! What is yours?

DoDapper comments on Jul 31, 2018:

Threesomes, in my experience, work best if everyone has gotten social and relaxed beforehand. No shame about discussing preferences and desires and what gets each person off. And absolutely talk about expectations beforehand. I have taken lead in directing with my foursome and few MFF threesomes, making sure i is fairly even and pressuring partners to express themselves. I'm interested in trying MFM. (Looking at you, @coralisthree ) I've done MFM , but those were times I wasn't doing full sex with additional partners. I accepted requests to join to fuck her mouth or touch her all over and to provide guidance or Dominance.

Hey submissive women! How do you show your partner you want some lovin'? Throw these men a bone!

DoDapper comments on Jul 31, 2018:

Nothing is as effective for Me as having a partner kneel, eyes downcast, holding up a stingy flogger or one of My sheath knives - something that begs for attention and acknowledges willingness for Me to have Sadistic pleasure first. At a distance, I like a blunt text along the lines of "Sir / Daddy / Mister / Master , Your girl could use a beating please." Any cute little submissive things get My attention. Just smelling someone in the room starting to be turned on gets My Primal attention. The more I'm being pressured for , teased with brattiness or "accidental" ass wiggles, etc., the more I will call it out and draw out a partner's patience.

This post is for all my sapiosexuals.

DoDapper comments on Jul 31, 2018:

@nutrition_nerd -- I'm going to congratulate you specifically on giving a shout out to sapiosexuality. It's been awhile since someone brought up that word around me who wasn't me.