I've had a lot of opportunities for growth.
All of the stuff we all go through. Plus losing my parter of 18 years to cancer, becoming a single parent... And meeting a lot of wonderful people who have helped me in ways large and small, and I have helped them. And doing Tantra and HAI and other workshops focused on personal growth.
I'm sex-positive and polyamorous, have been all my life. I'm in a committed partnership with a wonderful woman. We see other people, both together and separately. I believe in meeting each person as they are, not as I might wish them to be.
I'd like to imagine that by now I've learned a few things -- how to listen, how to hold someone who's crying, how to speak my truth. How to stay honest always.