Outside of work, my life isn't overly planned. I like to stay present in the moment and see where life takes me.??i want spend time with a nice person and enjoy the good things. I like live theater, dinners and conversation, just sitting and have talking on the couch or wherever, I'd love to find someone who would like to share it with me. am new to this site to search for a real soulmate.I have never been about the internet until i noticed that online dating are turning out to be successful.