Continually improving my home make it a fun relaxing place be is a satisfying activity. My home doesn't hog all the focus though...I work just as hard on myself evolving and improving so I can be the best Earthling I can be.
After 6yrs at 'St John's Of Perpetual Guilt' I fired my storybook in 1969. Why anyone would want to build their lives around some bronze- scribblings by ancient men full of fear who didn't even understand where the fecking Sun disappeared to at night is beyond me.
Experienced some interesting things in this life that makes for great stories. Experimenting with creating simple jewelry, making crystal sun-catchers and scented oil candles sates the creative side. Golfing with my life friends is a lot of fun though none of us are worth a hoot at it. Goofball to the max, if that trips your trigger. Curious. Deep thinker with a busy mind. My alter-ego is Timex: takes a licking and keeps on ticking. Very interested in human behavior.
I'm excited to re-discover love again at some point. The clock is ticking, and I'm at the best point in my life that I've even been. The next time though will be different with more conversations about realistic expectations, role definition and goals...if the relationship becomes that tight. I’ll not say never to the possibility of marriage again, but I’ll just as much attention to the peripheral financial/property structure of the budding relationship as I will the goo-goo gah-gah I love you part, lol.
My two divorces were E-X-P-E-N-S-I-V-E because of changing laws where judges had the right to disagree and throw out previously agreed upon 'settlements' between the parties, and those resources cannot be replenished anymore if it were to happen again. There simply has to be another way to show genuine love and devotion for your partner other than entering into cohabitation where common law laws mimic divorce laws closely, or a marriage that will ruin you when you can least deal with it as you age.
Life long Union man who doesn't play well with 'Conservative' philosophy. Trumpsukkkers should find the 'back' button right about now and use it. I am completely free of religious dogma, as peace and happiness is my 'Church’. Think of me as the aging bad boy you always wanted, but with investments and no police record. Lol!
After so many decades in Colorado, the beauty of the state is starting to be overrun by traffic and building, and the shine of 6-7months of winter has turned to rust. Traveled the past two winters to warmer climes, but am grounded this year as Covid is the boss of that. In a perfect world I would be in CO for 4mos in summer to golf with my lifelong friends, then get the hell out of here after the first aspen leaf hits the dirt in fall.