Stillness can give you extraordinary strength.

WeaZ comments on Oct 13, 2018:

The coffee won't let me have Stillness... haha

Jolanta replies on Oct 13, 2018:

You can always drink de caff and it will change all for you. A new world will emerge.

Using four letter words doesn't make you look cool. You just look like someone with an ugly mouth.

CaroleKay comments on Oct 10, 2018:

I don't know what to say. I'll pray for you.

Jolanta replies on Oct 12, 2018:

What so you are a fake agnostic then.

Using four letter words doesn't make you look cool. You just look like someone with an ugly mouth.

memorylikeasieve comments on Oct 10, 2018:

I feel sorry for you.

Jolanta replies on Oct 12, 2018:

Why? Do you think I am unhappy?

Using four letter words doesn't make you look cool. You just look like someone with an ugly mouth.

CommonHuman comments on Oct 10, 2018:

They are spice in language soup. To not use a four letter word simply because we consider it taboo is frankly ridiculous. As with all language it is or is not appropriate for the people you are speaking with or a situation, but a blanket statement of you always look like you have an ugly mouth is ...

Jolanta replies on Oct 12, 2018:

Seems to me that a lot of people normalise four letter words, and yes everything has its place.

Using four letter words doesn't make you look cool. You just look like someone with an ugly mouth.

Rob1948 comments on Oct 10, 2018:

Somehow, saying “Oh heck, that hurt.” When I smash my finger in a door doesn’t quite explain my true feelings. Whereas, any number of four-letter-words and their related phrases can truly capture the experience and emotions of the moment. Yes, there are more elegant words and phrases that ...

Jolanta replies on Oct 12, 2018:

Yes but how often do you smash your fingers

Using four letter words doesn't make you look cool. You just look like someone with an ugly mouth.

AnneWimsey comments on Oct 11, 2018:

Latest studies say 4-letter words soothe the part of the brain that lights up if you whack your shin!

Jolanta replies on Oct 12, 2018:

Yes true it’s four letter words without the wack on ones shin that I object to.

Using four letter words doesn't make you look cool. You just look like someone with an ugly mouth.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 11, 2018:

I'm a bit old to worry about looking cool but there is something just so satisfying about letting foul words rip LOL

Jolanta replies on Oct 12, 2018:

Maybe you need to expand your vocabulary. But yes I know what you mean. I object to it when every second word is a four letter word.

Using four letter words doesn't make you look cool. You just look like someone with an ugly mouth.

lauraleigh38 comments on Oct 11, 2018:

Research shows cursing is good for you and your friends.

Jolanta replies on Oct 12, 2018:

This research must be one of those “false” research, probably done by a foul mouthed person. I have many friends and none of them appreciate it.

It's raining, it's raining, hurray.

Marionville comments on Oct 10, 2018:

It’s sunny, it’s sunny.....hurrah! Depends which part of the world you live what weather you wish for. I do realise that you have a serious problem in Australia with drought, and don’t want to appear flippant. Glad you are having some rain at last.....you would need quite a bit for it to ...

Jolanta replies on Oct 10, 2018:

Thank you.

Barak Obama started a trend of confrontation which continues to this day and if we don’t get a ...

Jolanta comments on Oct 10, 2018:

Oh, Barak started it, did he. So what do you call all the protesters over the years prior to Obama?

Jolanta replies on Oct 10, 2018:

@Darthpug Hi, Trojan61 considers himself to be 'here for the community', well that community is only for people who think exactly like him.

Barak Obama started a trend of confrontation which continues to this day and if we don’t get a ...

Jolanta comments on Oct 10, 2018:

Oh, Barak started it, did he. So what do you call all the protesters over the years prior to Obama?

Jolanta replies on Oct 10, 2018:

@Trajan61 If that is so, obviously the conservative group only want people who are yes people, nobody who can think for themselves and put two and two together. And I am not a troll.

Not a "conservative," but I joined up to pose a question to the conservatives in this group.

bigpawbullets comments on Oct 7, 2018:

You're more than welcome here. Personally, and I don't speak for anyone else here; Religion is not a big deal to me. And I believe the Republican party of today emphasises that too much. But, from a practical standpoint, that's one way of attracting voters to your base. Racism: I see no ...

Jolanta replies on Oct 9, 2018:

@bigpawbullets Hi, I actually come from one of those Social Democratic countries. Yes people or some people are not happy with the "influx" of immigrants. They are afraid of all the propaganda against "Others", however a larger proportion of the population don't feel that way and the Social Democratic way still works fine. Unfortunately they did get far too many people in a very short time and that is hard to assimilate. The problem is also that it is hard for immigrants to get jobs, not because they don't want to work but because the negative media input. Talking about "slackers" is just adding to the problem both for the immigrants and the local population who start believing it is true, so the wheel goes around and nothing gets solved. That doesn't meant that there are not "slackers" there. I am sure that you personally know people who are "slackers".

Was reading a thread and this popped into my head (If you're unhappy about the spike in the price of...

Jolanta comments on Oct 9, 2018:

Both the Democrats and Republicans are doing immense damage to local business.

Jolanta replies on Oct 9, 2018:

@PinkyandtheBrain Yes, big business is killing small business all over the world.

Was reading a thread and this popped into my head (If you're unhappy about the spike in the price of...

buck1977 comments on Oct 8, 2018:

Some times I think liberals shouldn't be trusted with their own money.

Jolanta replies on Oct 9, 2018:

@Morganfreeman Hardly true. Plenty of Liberals are rich, some inherited it, some worked for it, some conned others out of it, some stole it, etc, etc. Just the same as Republicans.

Was reading a thread and this popped into my head (If you're unhappy about the spike in the price of...

buck1977 comments on Oct 8, 2018:

Some times I think liberals shouldn't be trusted with their own money.

Jolanta replies on Oct 9, 2018:

And you are basing that on what?

Was reading a thread and this popped into my head (If you're unhappy about the spike in the price of...

SpikeTalon comments on Oct 8, 2018:

Undoubtedly had Hillary gotten elected this country would be far worse off, for sure.

Jolanta replies on Oct 9, 2018:

No, it would be the same without the tweets.

Was reading a thread and this popped into my head (If you're unhappy about the spike in the price of...

Leutrelle comments on Oct 8, 2018:

I wondered what President Clinton's trade repercussions would be. I knew it would hurt American workers, but I didn't see China becoming a world power. If Hillary would have won she would have given what's left of America away.

Jolanta replies on Oct 9, 2018:

There is nothing to do about what has been done by previous presidents whether they were Republicans or Democrats. Both parties love free trade agreements because they can make a lot of money for themselves and do not care about the population. You need to understand that most rich people don't care about you. They talk like they do but talk is cheap. I can tell you that China is already a world power, they own a large chunk of the US and also the rest of the world. The US have borrowed billions from China and if they wanted it back you guys would be in deeper shit than you are now.

Rather than try to compete on the issues, Democrats are now talking about packing the Supreme Court.

buck1977 comments on Oct 8, 2018:

and they really don't want to win elections....perpetual outrage and zero responsibility is their comfort zone...

Jolanta replies on Oct 9, 2018:

Of course they want to win, they are just going about it the wrong way.

Rather than try to compete on the issues, Democrats are now talking about packing the Supreme Court.

Leutrelle comments on Oct 8, 2018:

If the Dems have it their way they will shred the Constitution and replace it with a Marx-us document. They can only do that with illegal immigrants.

Jolanta replies on Oct 9, 2018:

I think you need someone to tell you that illegal immigrants cannot vote and don't do so. They do not want to get themselves involved in any governmental business as they would be discovered and deported. So little time and so much to learn.

Accurate on several levels:

Trajan61 comments on Oct 7, 2018:

Both those guys seem to piss the liberals off big time. So both of them must be great guys!!

Jolanta replies on Oct 9, 2018:

@HarrySlick, @bigpawbullets We may need to one day. I have come back from Sri Lanka and the Chinese are building an artificial island just outside Colombo, not good. Also our stupid government has leased on of our sea ports to the Chinese on a 99 year lease. Twatts, only interested in the money that China gives them as donations.

Accurate on several levels:

Trajan61 comments on Oct 7, 2018:

Both those guys seem to piss the liberals off big time. So both of them must be great guys!!

Jolanta replies on Oct 9, 2018:

@HarrySlick Millions of men should have their mouths washed out with carbolic soap too. And yes it is not legal to grab anybody by their p.... I wonder how you would like women grabbing you and really squeezing. If we look at what he has accomplished as a President what do you like the best. How about how he revoked the laws about dumping toxic waste into waterways.

I am a conservative social democrat. Can I join?

idolpx comments on Oct 7, 2018:

Do you believe in conservative use of government? Or liberal use of government?

Jolanta replies on Oct 9, 2018:

I believe in the Social Democratic Conservative of Government. And yes there is such a thing.

I am a conservative social democrat. Can I join?

Leutrelle comments on Oct 9, 2018:

From what I have read you are not a conservative.

Jolanta replies on Oct 9, 2018:

What do you think all conservatives think and act the same way. They do not.

Octoberfest is going to be special this year:

Jolanta comments on Oct 7, 2018:

What on being a cry baby. There should have been a proper investigation just like there was one for Cosby.

Jolanta replies on Oct 8, 2018:

@PinkyandtheBrain Yes there was, however there was not any time give to get any proof on K. It was a done shabbily and way too fast.

Not a "conservative," but I joined up to pose a question to the conservatives in this group.

bigpawbullets comments on Oct 7, 2018:

You're more than welcome here. Personally, and I don't speak for anyone else here; Religion is not a big deal to me. And I believe the Republican party of today emphasises that too much. But, from a practical standpoint, that's one way of attracting voters to your base. Racism: I see no ...

Jolanta replies on Oct 8, 2018:

@bigpawbullets Hi, thank you for your post. I shall get back to you when I have more time. Need to get ready for work.

Not a "conservative," but I joined up to pose a question to the conservatives in this group.

azzow2 comments on Oct 7, 2018:

That is moderate and it is trending. The government has no right in our personal lives the more they are invited in the control takes over (this is what religion was intended to do) the fewer liberties we enjoy.

Jolanta replies on Oct 7, 2018:

@azzow2 No matter how many die you say.

Not a "conservative," but I joined up to pose a question to the conservatives in this group.

azzow2 comments on Oct 7, 2018:

That is moderate and it is trending. The government has no right in our personal lives the more they are invited in the control takes over (this is what religion was intended to do) the fewer liberties we enjoy.

Jolanta replies on Oct 7, 2018:

@azzow2 And that makes it ok? Have not heard one peep from you about a protest here.

Accurate on several levels:

Trajan61 comments on Oct 7, 2018:

Both those guys seem to piss the liberals off big time. So both of them must be great guys!!

Jolanta replies on Oct 7, 2018:

@Trajan61 I don’t think you are answering the question

Do conservatives have a more patient attitude?

buck1977 comments on Oct 7, 2018:

What you're seeing now is the result of 8 years of moron coddling that came from the Obama administration. They've just had the rug pulled out from under their continued attempts to get their perversions and lunacy injected into normal society. Liberals think and behave like children and are ...

Jolanta replies on Oct 7, 2018:

@jorj Sounds like an excuse not to help your fellow Americans.

Not a "conservative," but I joined up to pose a question to the conservatives in this group.

bigpawbullets comments on Oct 7, 2018:

You're more than welcome here. Personally, and I don't speak for anyone else here; Religion is not a big deal to me. And I believe the Republican party of today emphasises that too much. But, from a practical standpoint, that's one way of attracting voters to your base. Racism: I see no ...

Jolanta replies on Oct 7, 2018:

@bigpawbullets Have you ever herd of the Skandinavian countries?

Not a "conservative," but I joined up to pose a question to the conservatives in this group.

Trajan61 comments on Oct 7, 2018:

Trump realizes the conservatives unfortunately can’t win without the support of the mostly conservative religous right wing so he caters to them even though he’s likely not a Christain himself. Myself If i have to choose between the gun grabbing, Obama loving Trump bashing left wing socialist ...

Jolanta replies on Oct 7, 2018:

@Trajan61 you don,t get it. Coal is financially too expensive. There are more jobs in clean energy than coal. An if you want to talk about the pipeline and clean water. Which one would you be able to survive without or without? You can’t eat oil but it certainly can kill you. If you don’t have clean water you will certainly die.

Not a "conservative," but I joined up to pose a question to the conservatives in this group.

bigpawbullets comments on Oct 7, 2018:

You're more than welcome here. Personally, and I don't speak for anyone else here; Religion is not a big deal to me. And I believe the Republican party of today emphasises that too much. But, from a practical standpoint, that's one way of attracting voters to your base. Racism: I see no ...

Jolanta replies on Oct 7, 2018:

@Trajan61 If you think that your kids and grandkids will be ok in the future then you are mistaken, no matter how much money they have. There is going to be a revolution in the US if you keep on squeezing those who have nothing. By the way cows do add substantialy to green house gasses, you need to look that up. All that farting they do all day long. And no, I don’t want a revolution but it will happen and then China will come and gobble it up. After all they already own a big chunk of the world.

Accurate on several levels:

Trajan61 comments on Oct 7, 2018:

Both those guys seem to piss the liberals off big time. So both of them must be great guys!!

Jolanta replies on Oct 7, 2018:

@Captain_Feelgood, @Trajan61 I am concerned because it affects us all over the world. So you are ok with him “fighting” with the rest of the world and by the way, pissing other nations off doesn’t make it safe, completely the opposite.

Accurate on several levels:

Trajan61 comments on Oct 7, 2018:

Both those guys seem to piss the liberals off big time. So both of them must be great guys!!

Jolanta replies on Oct 7, 2018:

@Captain_Feelgood Really you think that women deserve to be grabbed by the p...., then.

Do conservatives have a more patient attitude?

DarrelScott comments on Oct 7, 2018:

In my view yes. At least we aren't rioting in the streets, destroying property and attacking those who disagree with ua.

Jolanta replies on Oct 7, 2018:

@Trajan61 Really, the clan is non existent. Where did you get that information from? You are right that law enforcement officers have died, however, how many. As far as I can tell there are way more people being killed by the very people who are supposed to protect them than there are officers being killed and I am talking about black, white & brindled. And the officers seem to get away with it every time.

Sunday, sunshine & good friends, what else can you ask for!

AnneWimsey comments on Oct 7, 2018:

The sunshine? Which was Again promised, but, nooooooooo

Jolanta replies on Oct 7, 2018:

Sorry for you. It is sunshine where I am.

Not a "conservative," but I joined up to pose a question to the conservatives in this group.

buck1977 comments on Oct 7, 2018:

Show me one instance of what you consider racism coming from a main stream Republican leader. Republicans openly reject their lunatic fringe...Democrats put theirs on stage.

Jolanta replies on Oct 7, 2018:

@buck1977 Interested in the truth. What is wrong with your ears. Don't you listen to what Donald is saying?

Do conservatives have a more patient attitude?

buck1977 comments on Oct 7, 2018:

What you're seeing now is the result of 8 years of moron coddling that came from the Obama administration. They've just had the rug pulled out from under their continued attempts to get their perversions and lunacy injected into normal society. Liberals think and behave like children and are ...

Jolanta replies on Oct 7, 2018:

@buck1977 I don't think you get it here. Insurance and someone or you have a pre condition then insurance companies make it so expensive to get that health care. When Obamacare was in place that was not so.

I found this meme on my page but could not comment on it as it was in a group to which i do not, and...

Jolanta comments on Oct 6, 2018:

Hi, I just joined that group so I can post things to it. I wonder how long I will last there after they figure out that I am a conservative social democrat, which I state from the beginning.

Jolanta replies on Oct 7, 2018:

@idolpx Thank you for that, and I guess it goes both ways.

Not a "conservative," but I joined up to pose a question to the conservatives in this group.

azzow2 comments on Oct 7, 2018:

That is moderate and it is trending. The government has no right in our personal lives the more they are invited in the control takes over (this is what religion was intended to do) the fewer liberties we enjoy.

Jolanta replies on Oct 7, 2018:

So, if the government has no right in our personal lives, what did you do to prevent them from spying on you?

Not a "conservative," but I joined up to pose a question to the conservatives in this group.

bigpawbullets comments on Oct 7, 2018:

You're more than welcome here. Personally, and I don't speak for anyone else here; Religion is not a big deal to me. And I believe the Republican party of today emphasises that too much. But, from a practical standpoint, that's one way of attracting voters to your base. Racism: I see no ...

Jolanta replies on Oct 7, 2018:

Why are you so afraid of socialism? What in particular?

Not a "conservative," but I joined up to pose a question to the conservatives in this group.

Trajan61 comments on Oct 7, 2018:

Trump realizes the conservatives unfortunately can’t win without the support of the mostly conservative religous right wing so he caters to them even though he’s likely not a Christain himself. Myself If i have to choose between the gun grabbing, Obama loving Trump bashing left wing socialist ...

Jolanta replies on Oct 7, 2018:

I am sad to hear you say that. Seems to me like you don't give a fig about what happens to your fellow Americans as long as you can have your gun, no matter if it kills your own family. By the way Obama never said anything about grabbing your gun, what he said is that you need to look into the whole messy business.

Not a "conservative," but I joined up to pose a question to the conservatives in this group.

buck1977 comments on Oct 7, 2018:

Show me one instance of what you consider racism coming from a main stream Republican leader. Republicans openly reject their lunatic fringe...Democrats put theirs on stage.

Jolanta replies on Oct 7, 2018:

If that was so, why does Donald not say that but talk about these are"very fine people" when the racists are on the rampage?

Accurate on several levels:

Trajan61 comments on Oct 7, 2018:

Both those guys seem to piss the liberals off big time. So both of them must be great guys!!

Jolanta replies on Oct 7, 2018:

What I know about what is happening around the world Donald is "pissing off" many people and not to his advantage either.

Do conservatives have a more patient attitude?

buck1977 comments on Oct 7, 2018:

What you're seeing now is the result of 8 years of moron coddling that came from the Obama administration. They've just had the rug pulled out from under their continued attempts to get their perversions and lunacy injected into normal society. Liberals think and behave like children and are ...

Jolanta replies on Oct 7, 2018:

I guess I too would not be "handling" adversity if I no longer had health care and one of my family members had a life threatening illness.

Do conservatives have a more patient attitude?

DarrelScott comments on Oct 7, 2018:

In my view yes. At least we aren't rioting in the streets, destroying property and attacking those who disagree with ua.

Jolanta replies on Oct 7, 2018:

So what about the right wing that cover their faces and start fights?

Do atheists observe Halloween?

Jolanta comments on Oct 6, 2018:

Most would as most celebrate Christmas too, or at least the giving or exchanging presents.

Jolanta replies on Oct 6, 2018:

@benhmiller Yes, I believe it too, however it is also very sad for those who do not have any family or who are not in touch with them.

I found this meme on my page but could not comment on it as it was in a group to which i do not, and...

Jolanta comments on Oct 6, 2018:

Hi, I just joined that group so I can post things to it. I wonder how long I will last there after they figure out that I am a conservative social democrat, which I state from the beginning.

Jolanta replies on Oct 6, 2018:

@genessa The power of one can be immense, he, he.

I found this meme on my page but could not comment on it as it was in a group to which i do not, and...

Jolanta comments on Oct 6, 2018:

Hi, I just joined that group so I can post things to it. I wonder how long I will last there after they figure out that I am a conservative social democrat, which I state from the beginning.

Jolanta replies on Oct 6, 2018:

@genessa Maybe, just maybe I may start some of them wondering about what is going on. I hope for the best.

I started a list of atheist friendly TV shows: Seinfeld, Big Bang Theory, Southpark, Northern ...

Jolanta comments on Oct 6, 2018:

I am not so sure about Seinfeld. Jerry is Jewish and quite happy to go to Israel with his family and shoot Palestinians even though it was in a "game".

Jolanta replies on Oct 6, 2018:

@PalacinkyPDX Sometimes we have to get pick. To see what that person/s are made of.

I found this meme on my page but could not comment on it as it was in a group to which i do not, and...

Jolanta comments on Oct 6, 2018:

Hi, I just joined that group so I can post things to it. I wonder how long I will last there after they figure out that I am a conservative social democrat, which I state from the beginning.

Jolanta replies on Oct 6, 2018:

@genessa Yes, I am optimistic, but I have to tell you that a few of them have welcomed me to the site and say that they are happy with fresh input. Only time will tell.

I am a conservative social democrat. Can I join?

bigpawbullets comments on Oct 6, 2018:

Absolutely. A view into your country's current political and cultural situation will be interesting. Welcome.

Jolanta replies on Oct 6, 2018:

Thank you. Well at the moment I live in Australia and we have a very conservative government that has a lot of infighting. All of them seem to want the top job, bunch of twits. Instead of working together they are divided. The cultural situation is abysmal. The Aboriginal people get a raw deal, probably something like the native Indians in the US.

I am a conservative social democrat. Can I join?

azzow2 comments on Oct 6, 2018:

Not a problem as long as you have an open mind and criticism can be tolerated.

Jolanta replies on Oct 6, 2018:

Thank you.

The liberal’s may regret the dirty war they waged against Kavanaigh.

buck1977 comments on Oct 6, 2018:

You mistakenly assume leftists have the ability to learn from their mistakes...regret is a personality trait common to people who have integrity and empathy.

Jolanta replies on Oct 6, 2018:

What you think that they don't have the same brain functions as the conservative do?

I found this meme on my page but could not comment on it as it was in a group to which i do not, and...

Jolanta comments on Oct 6, 2018:

Hi, I just joined that group so I can post things to it. I wonder how long I will last there after they figure out that I am a conservative social democrat, which I state from the beginning.

Jolanta replies on Oct 6, 2018:

@genessa I wonder, one day or two, he, he.

Sunday, sunshine & good friends, what else can you ask for!

Sticks48 comments on Oct 6, 2018:

Hair and a Government that works. ☺

Jolanta replies on Oct 6, 2018:

Well your government does work just no for you and hair you can always buy a wig. Good luck.

I'm curious as to how other people feel about the Republicans shoving Kavanaugh down our throats.

IamNobody comments on Oct 6, 2018:

You have worded your last sentence as an statement. I don't have an opinion, I do have a question though..... Why is he going to vote for corporations and against woman and LGBT rights?

Jolanta replies on Oct 6, 2018:

What, you have not notice what he has been accused of, or you have not heard his aggressive whine.

Use your social media more effectively.

Ostopal comments on Oct 1, 2018:

For that to happen you first need 'friends', I have only 'contacts' on social media.

Jolanta replies on Oct 5, 2018:

@Ostopal Yes it is difficult but don't give up. It takes two to do it. Keep it up.

Use your social media more effectively.

Ostopal comments on Oct 1, 2018:

For that to happen you first need 'friends', I have only 'contacts' on social media.

Jolanta replies on Oct 4, 2018:

@Ostopal So don't you talk to your neighbours?

We want to fight Isis, or a violent ideology, but we can’t even get out of bed to make cereal ...

Jolanta comments on Oct 1, 2018:

What did you do or not to piss her off so much?

Jolanta replies on Oct 4, 2018:

@skinnymcfatty Yet they are.

Test showing sexual preferences

Jolanta comments on Sep 30, 2018:

Why, are you confused?

Jolanta replies on Oct 3, 2018:

@sweetcharlotte I am fine and it is now morning. I did not get my education in Australia but went to school in Sweden. Surely you must know how you feel when it comes to your sexuality. What orientation you go towards, everything else is just rubbish and hype. That is nothing one learns in books or on google.

Use your social media more effectively.

Ostopal comments on Oct 1, 2018:

For that to happen you first need 'friends', I have only 'contacts' on social media.

Jolanta replies on Oct 3, 2018:

@Ostopal Sorry to hear that. Being disable must be tough, but could you not start something of your own? Like put up a notice about a book club, or how about a notice to meet up with other disabled people? I know that in the UK there are a few organisations that help people who are alone.

Use your social media more effectively.

birdingnut comments on Oct 1, 2018:

Gracious, no. The advantage of social media friends is not having to hang with them in reality. There are only a few I'd probably enjoy being with, and then only for a short time to do something specific.

Jolanta replies on Oct 3, 2018:

@birdingnut Sorry to hear about you illness. What are your plans, going back to the US? Or what?

Use your social media more effectively.

Ostopal comments on Oct 1, 2018:

For that to happen you first need 'friends', I have only 'contacts' on social media.

Jolanta replies on Oct 3, 2018:

What none of your friends in life are friends with you on social media?

We want to fight Isis, or a violent ideology, but we can’t even get out of bed to make cereal ...

Jolanta comments on Oct 1, 2018:

What did you do or not to piss her off so much?

Jolanta replies on Oct 3, 2018:

@skinnymcfatty Funny how so many people blame it on something instead of taking responsibility. If you know you are selfish, don't get into relationships.

Test showing sexual preferences

Jolanta comments on Sep 30, 2018:

Why, are you confused?

Jolanta replies on Oct 3, 2018:

@sweetcharlotte How about going back to school. Maybe that would help.

Use your social media more effectively.

birdingnut comments on Oct 1, 2018:

Gracious, no. The advantage of social media friends is not having to hang with them in reality. There are only a few I'd probably enjoy being with, and then only for a short time to do something specific.

Jolanta replies on Oct 3, 2018:

@birdingnut That all sounds great. Why on all word would you cook if you live in Thailand, after all the food there is so delicious and cheap. This would not be until sometimes next year, and yes I am independent and mellow, without the alcohol, he,he. Only way to be.

While sleeping when it's warm I like to leave one leg outside the covers in order to moderate body ...

Bendog comments on Oct 1, 2018:

Not anymore. I did that while camping and a bear took it. I only have one left.

Jolanta replies on Oct 1, 2018:

I hope you are joking.

Use your social media more effectively.

birdingnut comments on Oct 1, 2018:

Gracious, no. The advantage of social media friends is not having to hang with them in reality. There are only a few I'd probably enjoy being with, and then only for a short time to do something specific.

Jolanta replies on Oct 1, 2018:

True but a lot of our friends on social media are the very ones that we know personally, like our very own family. Remember that one day I will come to visit you in Thailand, though, he, he.

Hey, Agnostic community! Here are i am! Looking to make connections and have some fun with it.

Jolanta comments on Oct 1, 2018:

Hi Ian, welcome. One small thing, intellectual and drinking may spell disaster.

Jolanta replies on Oct 1, 2018:

@IanOlsen So are you drunk now. You are talking to me after all.

My family started watching the original Star Wars trilogy this weekend because my 14 year old niece ...

Jolanta comments on Oct 1, 2018:

She probably doesn't believe that in some parts of the world children go to school without shoes either.

Jolanta replies on Oct 1, 2018:

@davyjones I hope her life will turn out to be happy.

Five things to quit.

Jolanta comments on Oct 1, 2018:

Easy to do when we are happy and contented but not so when we are stressed.

Jolanta replies on Oct 1, 2018:

@HardBlues69 It certainly is. We need or I am now talking about myself. When I am stressed or sad, I seem to forget all about putting myself down and overthinking.

Just in case anybody wonder, yes please come in, I am already disturbed ?

Jolanta comments on Oct 1, 2018:

We know you are, no need to remind us.

Jolanta replies on Oct 1, 2018:

@IamNobody Probably only fun for you.

Yup.

Marionville comments on Sep 30, 2018:

This MUST be a purely American treat! Never crossed to this side of the Atlantic! The only thing we do with pumpkins is make Hallowe’en Lanterns or Soup with them.

Jolanta replies on Sep 30, 2018:

@maturin1919 Of course they are but only in the negative sense.

Women can be sexist too. Allow him how to operate the washing machine.

Jolanta comments on Sep 29, 2018:

Only women who have been living with men understand why. It is not like we don't want them to or that we are in any way preventing them from being equal, but it is dam hard to get them off the sofa in the first place.

Jolanta replies on Sep 30, 2018:

@LenHazell53 Well, if I have then so do most of my female friends too.

Get involved in your community and your world will expand.

brentan comments on Sep 29, 2018:

Any more positive ideas like that and I'm going to report you!

Jolanta replies on Sep 30, 2018:

Spoilt sport, you are just jealous because you did not think of it first.

Get involved in your community and your world will expand.

bingst comments on Sep 29, 2018:

In a predominately religious community, that would cause me loads of stress and might even be dangerous.

Jolanta replies on Sep 30, 2018:

What to help people, dangerous?

Get involved in your community and your world will expand.

LucyLoohoo comments on Sep 29, 2018:

And you'll live longer, be happier and you'll find the deep pleasure which comes from helping people!

Jolanta replies on Sep 29, 2018:

And you mainly have helped yourself.

Brett Kavanaugh Lied To Senators About The True Definition Of Several Terms In His Yearbook.

sweetcharlotte comments on Sep 29, 2018:

I have never heard of any of that. And to know he did things like that as a teenager to girls makes him entirely disrespectful to women, in my opinion. As wealthy as his family were, giving him the expensive prep school education,and a huge home to live in, were not watching out for the important ...

Jolanta replies on Sep 29, 2018:

@sweetcharlotte You are not old, just experienced in life, and unfortunately it is not only happening in the US. It is all over the world on a smaller scale.

Woman are a force to reckoned with.

CrazyQuilter comments on Sep 28, 2018:

I expect they will refute your opinion until they find themselves a minority, then they'll whine and attack harder. I'm hoping the younger generation will run out the majority of the old white guys in power. They just can't change.

Jolanta replies on Sep 29, 2018:

@CrazyQuilter So it is.

Who are you going to be for Halloween this year?

Jolanta comments on Sep 29, 2018:

Well good for you. I so wish that this US tradition would not invade us here in Australia but it does, business can see dollar signs with this. I am closing my door and not answering it when the doorbell rings.

Jolanta replies on Sep 29, 2018:

@MountainBound I could, you are right but I did not. I get rather frustrated at "traditions" that has nothing to do with us. Only for commercial game, and anytime you want to have a fancy dress party, you can. I really don't like kids knocking on my door demanding sweets and or money, kids that any other time of the year would not even say hello to you.

Brett Kavanaugh Lied To Senators About The True Definition Of Several Terms In His Yearbook.

sweetcharlotte comments on Sep 29, 2018:

I have never heard of any of that. And to know he did things like that as a teenager to girls makes him entirely disrespectful to women, in my opinion. As wealthy as his family were, giving him the expensive prep school education,and a huge home to live in, were not watching out for the important ...

Jolanta replies on Sep 29, 2018:

Well, I guess you have heard of the young man (Brock Turner) from Stanford who raped a young unconscious woman and got 6 months for it. His father also said that it was only 20 minutes of action. What can you expect when parents have that kind of attitude.

Trump official caught OKing family separation plan she said didn't exist

kmdskit3 comments on Sep 28, 2018:

Fucking lying fucks...

Jolanta replies on Sep 29, 2018:

Language

Woman are a force to reckoned with.

CrazyQuilter comments on Sep 28, 2018:

I expect they will refute your opinion until they find themselves a minority, then they'll whine and attack harder. I'm hoping the younger generation will run out the majority of the old white guys in power. They just can't change.

Jolanta replies on Sep 29, 2018:

What you don't think that women are a force to recon with?

I really feel that Dr.

Paracosm comments on Sep 28, 2018:

What is out of hand exactly?

Jolanta replies on Sep 28, 2018:

@sunnn, @FlyingEagle1952 I wonder if you were a witness you would have "come" forward. I think most of them would not. There is such shame around this, that you did not do anything, etc, etc and you need to educate yourself about rape. What is this about her living with there mother? What exactly has that to do with the assault and because there was no penetration doesn't mean that it is less. Did you not listen to what she said happen, the other guy jump on them and they all tumbled down, if he did not a rape would certainly have happened. This is not about democrats or republicans but about a women or women who have been sexually assaulted by K. Not for one moment did you say anything about him not answering the questions, which he did not.

I really feel that Dr.

Paracosm comments on Sep 28, 2018:

What is out of hand exactly?

Jolanta replies on Sep 28, 2018:

@sunnn Neither do I.

Weigh the stakes, wait, and break.

Jolanta comments on Sep 28, 2018:

Is this about you?

Jolanta replies on Sep 28, 2018:

@stinkeye_a Wow, but then I too would look over my shoulder if I was living in the US.

Well, I lost another facebook friend.

Jolanta comments on Sep 28, 2018:

Did you de friend them or did they?

Jolanta replies on Sep 28, 2018:

@tnorman1236 I don't usually do that but I keep on hammering at them about the stupid, hurtful, disgusting things they post and I make it personal to them, but sometimes one just have to un friend them too.

I really feel that Dr.

Paracosm comments on Sep 28, 2018:

What is out of hand exactly?

Jolanta replies on Sep 28, 2018:

@FlyingEagle1952 So you think it is a joke when she did tell people about it years and years ago. 16 year old boys do rape and so do 13 year old boys.

Pat Robertson to God: Please ‘throw confusion’ into Kavanaugh’s accusers – DeadState

Pralina1 comments on Sep 28, 2018:

He needs to die and be w Jesus . Like now .

Jolanta replies on Sep 28, 2018:

I don't think Jesus would have him.

Anybody thinking about divorce here?

Jolanta comments on Sep 25, 2018:

Did it twice, was very painful, but I survived. Now I cannot understand why I every married either one of them.

Jolanta replies on Sep 27, 2018:

@fidla When it happened you were in love. It is funny how we don't seem to ever remember that we once loved that person. So have you done this more than once?

You are not responsible for anybody else's happiness.

genessa comments on Sep 26, 2018:

maybe responsibility is the wrong concept here. it is not our job to ensure anyone's happiness, and that's good, because we can't. it would be an impossible job. on the other hand we do have responsibilities: not to abuse people, not to sabotage people's rightful attempts to be happy, stuff ...

Jolanta replies on Sep 27, 2018:

@p-nullifidian I am sure you are not the only one.

You are not responsible for anybody else's happiness.

Marionville comments on Sep 26, 2018:

No we’re not, but we have a duty to ourselves to make ourselves happy. If we are happy then we will make others happy by being around us. Some people may say that it is selfish to make oneself happy but I disagree and I don’t mean when I say this to be self-centred. We must always consider ...

Jolanta replies on Sep 27, 2018:

You are spot on there. It is pity that the woman always comes last, after the dog sometimes too.

What does everyone think about sexbots?

Jolanta comments on Sep 22, 2018:

You need to ask yourself if you wanted your wife to go to one of these "brotherls" assuming that there are male sexbots too, without you.

Jolanta replies on Sep 25, 2018:

@manfrompahrump In my knowledge of women, most of the married ones would not partake and would be rather unhappy if you did.

A Tale of Gender Bashing and a Double Standard.

Jolanta comments on Sep 22, 2018:

I never understood why women would not look out for each other, instead of what is happening. Women are the ones who mostly bring up children and have a big influence on them, it is about time that they started to teach their children to show respect towards each other.

Jolanta replies on Sep 25, 2018:

@linxminx Those kind of women must be incredibly insecure.

Failing Mother’s Godly Child Checklist One thing I love being at med school is that I get to ...

Jolanta comments on Sep 22, 2018:

Considering you live in the Phillipines you need to be an activist and a feminists too.

Jolanta replies on Sep 25, 2018:

@SimonCyrene Hardly.

A Tale of Gender Bashing and a Double Standard.

Jolanta comments on Sep 22, 2018:

I never understood why women would not look out for each other, instead of what is happening. Women are the ones who mostly bring up children and have a big influence on them, it is about time that they started to teach their children to show respect towards each other.

Jolanta replies on Sep 22, 2018:

@linxminx I don't understand it either, considering who do we "run" to when our lives are in tatters, not a man but to your girlfriends.

Weekends..

birdingnut comments on Sep 22, 2018:

I'm up, as I am every day, at 3:30 AM, then sip cho-wa tea and eat some spicy Thai sardines, and locally baked fish crisp chips from here in Songkhla, Thailand. I ride my "gallopers" up and down the long hallway, and do 10 pull-ups in my room, climb the stairs to my 5th floor just for exercise. I...

Jolanta replies on Sep 22, 2018:

@birdingnut Maybe next year. I have just come back from my big holiday this year.

Weekends..

birdingnut comments on Sep 22, 2018:

I'm up, as I am every day, at 3:30 AM, then sip cho-wa tea and eat some spicy Thai sardines, and locally baked fish crisp chips from here in Songkhla, Thailand. I ride my "gallopers" up and down the long hallway, and do 10 pull-ups in my room, climb the stairs to my 5th floor just for exercise. I...

Jolanta replies on Sep 22, 2018:

I think I need to come and visit you.

Dalai Lama says all religions are the same.

p-nullifidian comments on Sep 14, 2018:

Until seeing the recent video evidence of men dressed similarly to the Dalai Lama committing acts of violence and persecution against an ethnic / religious minority, I had thought Buddhism to be incapable of such intolerance. But seeing the hardline monks of Myanmar as they conducted ethnic ...

Jolanta replies on Sep 19, 2018:

@pnfullifidian It is not necessary true that they do not integrate but more likely that they are "frozen" out of doing so.