When do you think its time to let go of an Internet relationship/ friendship that you know is never ...

lauraleigh38 comments on Oct 22, 2018:

I just bought the book...reasons why hes just not that into you...I suggest you get it too!

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 22, 2018:

@Nukdookum true

When do you think its time to let go of an Internet relationship/ friendship that you know is never ...

lauraleigh38 comments on Oct 22, 2018:

I just bought the book...reasons why hes just not that into you...I suggest you get it too!

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 22, 2018:

No , I don't think I would be into that book. At my age I don't care. I don't consider anything that happens on a dating site or the internet to be anything real unless it translates into real life. So, in actuality, I'm not losing anything. But I may be wasting my time.

How to achieve level 8 in 52 days or less. Posted 10-22-2018

graceylou comments on Oct 22, 2018:

I’m not in a rush to get to Level 8. I don’t like the idea of posting and commenting just to collect points to get to the next level. I’m ok plodding along like a tortoise. I’ve got about 16000 points to go but I’m ok with that.

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 22, 2018:

@Cutiebeauty it's no offense! I wasn't being rude, I was just saying I've given up on the number Chase.

How to achieve level 8 in 52 days or less. Posted 10-22-2018

graceylou comments on Oct 22, 2018:

I’m not in a rush to get to Level 8. I don’t like the idea of posting and commenting just to collect points to get to the next level. I’m ok plodding along like a tortoise. I’ve got about 16000 points to go but I’m ok with that.

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 22, 2018:

Me too, you can buy a t-shirt now if it's that important to you.

Oh the humanity.

Cutiebeauty comments on Oct 22, 2018:

Lol not to much thought put into this move

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 22, 2018:

Lol! shoestring budget much?

When do you think its time to let go of an Internet relationship/ friendship that you know is never ...

GreatNani comments on Oct 20, 2018:

Did you have a specific outcome in mind? Does it have to lead to somethingor can it just be what it is? I am curious because I have had the same thought.

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 21, 2018:

@brainyactress it's a little bit more than Trust. Communication does not occur spontaneously only at set times. The opportunity to possibly meet did present itself once, but was never even slightly attempted by this person. Wife's profile on Instagram does show pics . Of him and their two kids.

Hi, I’ve always found children highly annoying.

BlackDove comments on Oct 12, 2018:

That's the taboo: to be able to say that you can't stand kids. It makes you out to be some kind of devil. I don't like kids either, especially babies. I don't find them cute at all; they're annoying, they smell, and the newborns look like little raisins--not my idea of cute. My 24 year old ...

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 21, 2018:

@BlackDove exactly ! the pressure to reproduce is always there

Just a reminder for Halloween, because we have to do this EVERY year.

IamNobody comments on Oct 20, 2018:

Another case of PC.... ??????

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 21, 2018:

@IamNobody true, as I've said I don't have a problem with any Halloween costume and think everything is fair game as long as it's not malicious in it's intent. I love Halloween! and every now and then, even throw a huge party and dress up like a nun. Dressing up as a nun is probably extremely offensive. I smoke I ,drink I swear and usually I'm quite plastered on my worst behavior. So it just keeps getting funnier and funnier as the night goes on.

Just a reminder for Halloween, because we have to do this EVERY year.

IamNobody comments on Oct 20, 2018:

Another case of PC.... ??????

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 21, 2018:

@Wildflower I agree! I work with the public and we go out of our way to not be rude and offensive. Anti PC people are usually are the ones that could dish it out ,but they can't take it. Even on this site I've listened to conservative Republicans use every single slang term for liberals and be extremely nasty, but when I throw the same shit back to them I always get reported.

If you had to wear one outfit from head to toe every day for a year, what would it be?

Cutiebeauty comments on Oct 21, 2018:

Sweat pants, sweat shirt.

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 21, 2018:

I could relate to that!

Hi, I’ve always found children highly annoying.

BlackDove comments on Oct 12, 2018:

That's the taboo: to be able to say that you can't stand kids. It makes you out to be some kind of devil. I don't like kids either, especially babies. I don't find them cute at all; they're annoying, they smell, and the newborns look like little raisins--not my idea of cute. My 24 year old ...

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 21, 2018:

Yeah your right about people seeing you as evil. Unfortunately we live in a very pronatal country. Even people who don't want or like kids have them. breeding it's something that you should just do. To me, that's really, really sad.

Here is a good one. Thanks Pralina Luvbound23 I wonder what happened to Luvbound22?

MarvelAnn comments on Oct 15, 2018:

People really fall for this crap?

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 21, 2018:

Most men will.

When do you think its time to let go of an Internet relationship/ friendship that you know is never ...

WalterWhite comments on Oct 21, 2018:

When you realize that you KNOW it is never going to lead to anything worthwhile.

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 21, 2018:

Good answer

When do you think its time to let go of an Internet relationship/ friendship that you know is never ...

Humanistheathen comments on Oct 21, 2018:

When it feels more like duty or a chore I think. If you're getting something out of it and can keep your expectations low, perhaps just enjoy yourself in the connection you have. But if your investment of time and emotional energy start feeling like a sinking investment, time to take care of you.

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 21, 2018:

Good advice

When do you think its time to let go of an Internet relationship/ friendship that you know is never ...

GreatNani comments on Oct 20, 2018:

Did you have a specific outcome in mind? Does it have to lead to somethingor can it just be what it is? I am curious because I have had the same thought.

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 21, 2018:

Looks like it is what it is. Im not sure thats enough to keep me interested. I'm also pretty sure this person is married, but He denies it.

MommyMaker [agnostic.

SukiSue comments on Oct 17, 2018:

Lol... I hate to say it guys but I think it's a joke!

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 20, 2018:

No it's not. His profile is full of shit slinging.

MommyMaker [agnostic.

pepperjones comments on Oct 17, 2018:

Gahhh, that guy was the worst!

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 20, 2018:

He is a disgusting troll. I reported him. He threatened to rape, impregnate and cut up the members of a group I belong to. Funny thing is he blocked me after I reported all his vile posts.

Are there any people here who don't suffer from Trump derangement syndrome?

t1nick comments on Oct 17, 2018:

I removed myself from fb to avoid such a fate.. He represents everything I find repugnant. He stands for evertthing I was raised to abhor: lying. chesting, stealing, misogyny, racism bullying. ignorance, laziness. gluttony, harrassment. abusiveness to those lees fortunate, condesceding. cheap, ...

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 20, 2018:

Yep! If you're a conservative you would. The way I see it you either believe the human animal is a pack animal or you believe the human animal is an independent Hunter. I'm left off center because I believe the human animal is a pack animal.

Are there any people here who don't suffer from Trump derangement syndrome?

LEPeff comments on Oct 18, 2018:

There are a few of us here. There a few groups that include conservative athesists, libritarians, and republicans.

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 20, 2018:

@SpikeTalon your right to an extent. Females tend to not identify as libertarians because we usually get stuck caring for infants who are among the most helpless in the animal kingdom. We can't kill our infants if raising them is not in our best interest. We also can't kill the sick, mentally handicapped ,elderly and disabled Among Us either. Humans will likely never make the world a better place because we're stupid animals. That what we can anticipate from the human animal, imperfection.

Are there any people here who don't suffer from Trump derangement syndrome?

LEPeff comments on Oct 18, 2018:

There are a few of us here. There a few groups that include conservative athesists, libritarians, and republicans.

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 20, 2018:

@SpikeTalon but when it comes to the voting booth, Evangelical theocrats are far more likely to identify with conservative values. I'm also an independent, but believe that our rapidly expanding population can't survive without some form of cooperation. Libertarianism is every man out for himself, no rules, no taxes, no regulations and no laws. Humans breed worse than rabbits, so that's not going to be possible if you take the big picture into account. I agree that in certain ways they all suck, however, no man is a self-made success.

Are there any people here who don't suffer from Trump derangement syndrome?

LEPeff comments on Oct 18, 2018:

There are a few of us here. There a few groups that include conservative athesists, libritarians, and republicans.

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 20, 2018:

@SpikeTalon it's still as hard for me to believe that a conservative atheist exists. Conservatives are never supposed to question the supreme authority of the Bible and it's racism and sexism homophobia and general intolerance to people who think onTheir Own.

Halloween is coming up and it's my favorite holiday! Help me find some good music for the holiday.

zorialoki comments on Oct 19, 2018:

The Cramps are great

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 19, 2018:

I like them too! Human fly and goo goo muck are my favorite.

The rich ones are delicious!

LEPeff comments on Oct 18, 2018:

Isn't the table a little hard on your back?

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 18, 2018:

Oh I think I can make it work

For my gal pals out there.. I'm running in circles, how about you

coralisthree comments on Oct 18, 2018:

mmmm Morgan, Jax and Khal Drogo

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 18, 2018:

Hell yeah

My girl...

Kojaksmom comments on Oct 17, 2018:

Aww

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 18, 2018:

@yanic she looks a little bit like my baby Kojak

Halloween is coming up and it's my favorite holiday! Help me find some good music for the holiday.

Oldman51 comments on Oct 17, 2018:

I love the season with everything changing. The food and being our time of year.

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 17, 2018:

I always throw a big party. I show off my bad cake decorating skills with a 3-tier cake and just make tons of food. It's so much fun!

Halloween is coming up and it's my favorite holiday! Help me find some good music for the holiday.

Bigwavedave comments on Oct 17, 2018:

What kind do you like?

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 17, 2018:

@Bigwavedave that sounds kind of cool!

Halloween is coming up and it's my favorite holiday! Help me find some good music for the holiday.

chalupacabre comments on Oct 17, 2018:

Joan Crawford by Blue Oyster Cult, Mr. Crowley by Ozzy Osbourne, 46 & 2 by Tool, and Dragula by Rob Zombie

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 17, 2018:

Awesome, thanks.

Halloween is coming up and it's my favorite holiday! Help me find some good music for the holiday.

Bigwavedave comments on Oct 17, 2018:

What kind do you like?

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 17, 2018:

I think some 80s or 90s garage Punk might be in order. I'm open to suggestions. Anything strange or scary

Would you date someone who was overweight?

JurassicT4 comments on Oct 16, 2018:

Funny, ever since doing biology and nutrition, many people are overweight and don't even know it.

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 17, 2018:

If You judge by BMI, most of us are.

The Care and Feeding of the Vagina

Kojaksmom comments on Oct 15, 2018:

I wonder if my Ben Wah balls have any secret powers.

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 17, 2018:

@maturin1919 don't knock Ben Wah balls they work. She also was an advocate of steaming the vagina. Lol! Caused a bit of a stir in the gynecological community.

Is she actually hot or is it really just her dyed hair, tattoos, piercings, and various mental ...

hippydog comments on Oct 16, 2018:

The crazy ones are almost always the best in bed ..

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 17, 2018:

The old saying crazy in the head crazy in the bed . Too bad it doesn't work for women, we just wind up getting killed. well I guess men do too.

[youtu.be] Haven't heard this song in ages! I always thought it was a catchy tune and loved it!

Sticks48 comments on Oct 12, 2018:

I'm not sure why l like this song, but l do.

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 12, 2018:

Me too

Important Republican and conservative Public Announcement!

metalhead222 comments on Oct 11, 2018:

lol I am voting in November fist time. registered for Bernie never got vote via bs, claimed myself as independent therefore can not vote during preliminaries. fuck that bs

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 11, 2018:

I'm an independent too, and I vote in all elections. you do have to choose a party to vote in some.

Important Republican and conservative Public Announcement!

glennlab comments on Oct 10, 2018:

stolen and posted to FB

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 10, 2018:

Me too

Somewhere...

Umbral comments on Oct 10, 2018:

She doesn't look like she has any more fucks to give there.

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 10, 2018:

@zorialoki she was great. That was too bad.

An honest questionnaire!

Umbral comments on Oct 10, 2018:

*j j j jaded* I like finding uses for Aerosmith songs.

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 10, 2018:

I know the feeling!

I'm totally confused

LEPeff comments on Oct 8, 2018:

True dat!

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 8, 2018:

If you were a Libertarian you wouldn't care as long as you and your crotch droppings were okay it's all good

It starts with females, I think I have a solution for our current divided state.

Kojaksmom comments on Oct 7, 2018:

Here in the South, with the tight family units, many women are Republicans because of their daddies.

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 7, 2018:

@Green_eyes my former friend mentioned that she voted for Trump because she knows her daddy would have liked him and her husband likes him too. I'm absolutely positive that if I ask more deeply what is it Donald Trump and BART Kavanaugh can do for her, she would go blank.

It starts with females, I think I have a solution for our current divided state.

LiterateHiker comments on Oct 7, 2018:

**Don't blame women** for the problems in America. Fucking hypocritical, racist, sexist, power-hungry, greedy, white, male Re-thug-licans! I believe Dr. Ford. Kavanaugh lied under oath. He is unfit to serve as a Supreme Court justice. Republicans only care about power and greed. They rushed ...

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 7, 2018:

@JimG yes, all of them

[youtu.be] Steady As She Goes

lee_man comments on Oct 6, 2018:

One of my favs... Good post!

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 7, 2018:

Luv em!

Get ready guys! Let's make this happen!

Boogey comments on Oct 6, 2018:

Oh yeah I'd love me some Jason Momoa!

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 7, 2018:

Me too!

Bout sums it up

Snickers77 comments on Oct 5, 2018:

All we can do is laugh as America sinks into the mire.

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 6, 2018:

Yeah!

Bout sums it up

KKGator comments on Oct 5, 2018:

Yeah. I hate them all.

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 6, 2018:

Me too.

Bout sums it up

phoenixone1 comments on Oct 6, 2018:

All I can say is we had better flip this shit in November or I may think hard about moving to Mexico...this country is so fucked right now.

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 6, 2018:

Got that right!

Bout sums it up

phxbillcee comments on Oct 6, 2018:

It is getting harder & harder to keep my blood pressure (& outright rage) under control!

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 6, 2018:

Me too! particularly since I found out that he's basically in. I lost faith in the human animal a long time ago so I'm used to it.

Yeppers....

glennlab comments on Oct 4, 2018:

I slept like god durung the Holocaust.

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 5, 2018:

I'm using that now all the time.

image for Trump supporters

ThisGuy comments on Oct 3, 2018:

Much like armadillos, they can be found all over the south and occasionally further north.

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 5, 2018:

I live in the south and yes the good old boys around here are the absolute worst. this last election is shown me there's f****** rednecks all over the country

The national alert system sent a text message to every cellphone in America today... ?!

DenoPenno comments on Oct 3, 2018:

I hope Trump cannot send us personal messages. I don't want his tweets and I'm sure he would like to send them to every one of us.

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 3, 2018:

At 3 a.m

I didn't need a reason to say, "Goddamn she's hot" but I'll take it.

Leafhead comments on Oct 2, 2018:

A sin a day keeps the Bible away

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 2, 2018:

Love it!

And we thought it was the turkey

KKGator comments on Oct 1, 2018:

Well, I posted this on Facebook, and have been informed I'm not allowed to contribute any baked goods to the holidays this year. Mission accomplished! :D

Kojaksmom replies on Oct 1, 2018:

You're a genius!

I'm a sucker for love songs.

AdamHoople comments on Sep 25, 2018:

@Kojaksmom Jason Isbell (Cover Me Up) https://youtu.be/NaUCDqWzy1k

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 30, 2018:

Very nice

Garage sale vs Store?

maturin1919 comments on Sep 30, 2018:

I hit up garage sales for gently used underwear and sex toys.

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 30, 2018:

Lol Yep! You can find some great deals!

I've asked this question in a different forum, and the answers were interesting.

Stepmomofdragons comments on Sep 28, 2018:

Just don't insult a woman if she rejects you. That's pretty common these days. As for me, I'd date more if dating these days wasn't a huge joke. ?

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 29, 2018:

That's a very good point. A lot of women, like myself, do not feel comfortable with the man at first. Men should not take this as rejection and should respect a woman's need to feel safe. I've been hit with a lot of negative comments about not wanting to have dinner at their house, watch football with their friends etc etc.

From my experience there are large numbers of people that will not come out and call themselves an ...

seaspot_run comments on Sep 29, 2018:

Being as how "out" atheists are among the most reviled and discriminated-against people in society, it is easy to see why someone would want to be pretty under the radar about their lack of belief.

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 29, 2018:

I agree.

From my experience there are large numbers of people that will not come out and call themselves an ...

OCJoe comments on Sep 29, 2018:

I just posted this to a similar comment: The primary difference between most believers and all atheists is that atheists know they are not believers.

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 29, 2018:

Good one

I thought something was missing at the hearing today!

SACatWalker comments on Sep 29, 2018:

Yeah, we know he'd rather have been drinking beers, and the way he was chugging that water he'd have been drunk fast. I'd hate to see his crazy ass drunk. Heck he almost got a buzz on just going through the motions. It's called the placebo effect; even though he knew that was just water, he ...

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 29, 2018:

I also remember when Petraeus, the head of U.S. Central Command, passed out after being grilled. I think it was back in 2010 ?. The reasons given was that he had just returned from a trip and was tired. you're right, Hillary Clinton was grilled for 11 hours straight and did not flinch or lose composure.

Tucker Carlson Criticizes Rape Victims Who Don't Report: 'You're Part Of The Problem' | HuffPost

Kojaksmom comments on Sep 26, 2018:

In the perfect world he would be right .men in general are unwilling or unable to understand something that they can't personally relate to. women blame themselves because that was a fact of life not that long ago. There was a time when it was almost impossible to prosecute a man for a violent ...

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 29, 2018:

@Bigwavedave that's a really good idea. A lot of men can't believe the incidents of sexual harassment, and how often they occur. The first time I was sexually propositioned by a stranger I was 13 years old . He was a much older man. This is not uncommon at all. It's not easy being a female.

Amee KavaNOPE Vanderpool on Twitter: "Can someone please tell me who did this video, so we can give ...

Renickulous comments on Sep 29, 2018:

Innocent until proven guilty, not guilty because hes part of the evil conservatives. This looks like a political maneuver and she has no evidence. Come on atheists, we are known for asking "wheres the proof" until its something like this?

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 29, 2018:

@Renickulous Trump ordered a very limited one week FBI investigation. The fact is in a lot of these cases ,if you went back, you would find a lot of evidence of abuse from a lot of different women . In most cases nothing was ever done. Bill Cosby was the exact same way . his lawyers were having him pay women off left and right and instead of going through public humiliation and death threats that's what they would do.

Tucker Carlson Criticizes Rape Victims Who Don't Report: 'You're Part Of The Problem' | HuffPost

Kojaksmom comments on Sep 26, 2018:

In the perfect world he would be right .men in general are unwilling or unable to understand something that they can't personally relate to. women blame themselves because that was a fact of life not that long ago. There was a time when it was almost impossible to prosecute a man for a violent ...

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 29, 2018:

@Bigwavedave there are quite a few women that share my experience. I'm told a few of my friends what happened and they said the same thing happened to them

Tucker Carlson Criticizes Rape Victims Who Don't Report: 'You're Part Of The Problem' | HuffPost

Kojaksmom comments on Sep 26, 2018:

In the perfect world he would be right .men in general are unwilling or unable to understand something that they can't personally relate to. women blame themselves because that was a fact of life not that long ago. There was a time when it was almost impossible to prosecute a man for a violent ...

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 29, 2018:

@Bigwavedave still not the worst!

Amee KavaNOPE Vanderpool on Twitter: "Can someone please tell me who did this video, so we can give ...

Renickulous comments on Sep 29, 2018:

Innocent until proven guilty, not guilty because hes part of the evil conservatives. This looks like a political maneuver and she has no evidence. Come on atheists, we are known for asking "wheres the proof" until its something like this?

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 29, 2018:

He doesn't want an FBI investigation and neither do the conservatives. The conservatives just want to push his confirmation through. He's going to sit on the highest court of the land for the rest of his miserable life. is getting to the truth so f****** hard to ask for?

Being Jewish

Sbaren00 comments on Sep 18, 2018:

This thread is very interesting as to what people think a Jew is. It’s not just a religious belief. There’s heritage, culture, and tradition behind it. I’m kind of surprised by some of these comments.

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 29, 2018:

So is it possible to be a Catholic Jew? If it was a culture it would be possible.

From my experience there are large numbers of people that will not come out and call themselves an ...

ThisGuy comments on Sep 28, 2018:

It is really common. Religion is by nature outrageous. Many people do not in anyway buy into the claims made, but don't want the stigma that comes with unbelief. As it becomes more acceptable more people will claim the title.

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 28, 2018:

I agree.

Who's the Liar?

Jolanta comments on Sep 28, 2018:

It is sad when people talk about the movie rights in such a terrible situation.

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 28, 2018:

Typical unless it's a person that they know and pretend to care about.

I have learned a lot from this site .

genessa comments on Sep 27, 2018:

married men can't chat? chatting with an eye toward romance, yeah, that's a no-no, but chatting? i'm a straight woman and i am spoken for anyway, but i'll chat with anyone who doesn't get rude lol. g

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 28, 2018:

Me too

I have learned a lot from this site .

Kojaksmom comments on Sep 27, 2018:

Perhaps do some meet ups locally if you feel trapped and in a rut. I belong to a few, and its a good way meet people who enjoy similar activities.

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 28, 2018:

@Bigwavedave you can Google meetups in our area. l for instance I belong to the 50s higher hikers we go on Hikes, we go to movies, we do taco Tuesdays, we go to the beach, we go to Gardens...... there's all kinds of meetups in the triangle area.

Me trying to understand Libertarians

phxbillcee comments on Sep 27, 2018:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ycu8Rlu7TBY

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 27, 2018:

So true

The fun has to start somewhere!

metalhead222 comments on Sep 27, 2018:

ill throw my last cheers to that. beer makes you fked up after 20 or so

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 27, 2018:

That's why I stick to the hard stuff.

Aren’t the democrats being hypocrites on their dirty war against Kavanaugh after backing Bill ...

SpikeTalon comments on Sep 26, 2018:

@Trajan61 Good post, and predictably enough the screwballs showed up...

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 26, 2018:

don't blame us if you would fit better in an Evangelical far-right Christian barn.

Do you think that Humanity is progressing?

patchoullijulie comments on Sep 26, 2018:

Sometimes it just doesn't feel like it. We seem to recycle the same old stupid shit with each generation. However, having said that, I think in general, we have made small steps towards enlightenment but it is that constant regressing that is so frustrating.

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 26, 2018:

I agree, we had Obama now we have Trump. I can't stand the constant pendulum swing.

From my experience there are large numbers of people that will not come out and call themselves an ...

Anne209 comments on Sep 25, 2018:

I see that a lot. Many of my friends fall in that category. They just haven't taken that last step.

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 25, 2018:

Mine too ,the closest they get is to say they're non denominational. I can be pretty outspoken about religious bullshit, and they always agree with me.

From my experience there are large numbers of people that will not come out and call themselves an ...

William12354 comments on Sep 25, 2018:

It took my mother years before she officially identified as agnostic. She has spoken fluent agnostic for decades.

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 25, 2018:

Exactly

I can't imagine how hard this will be for her. I stand with her.

KKGator comments on Sep 25, 2018:

I'd like to stand with her, too, with a AR-15 on full-auto (with plenty of extra ammo). I'd be fine with clearing her path by taking out the trash.

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 25, 2018:

@Freedompath as the conservative Wingnuts would say Second Amendment!!!!

An insult to cattle

zorialoki comments on Sep 25, 2018:

What a tattoo to go through life with

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 25, 2018:

LOL right! now that's a dude, who hopefully, will never get laid again!

Aren’t the democrats being hypocrites on their dirty war against Kavanaugh after backing Bill ...

shebaloney comments on Sep 25, 2018:

I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say that if this dude @trajan61 is defending Kavanaugh, it's because he's got some shady shit in his past, too. How many women have you groped/assaulted/raped in your life, hmmm @trajan61? I bet you think Bill Cosby got short shrift, as well, amiright? You, ...

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 25, 2018:

@Trajan61 yeah you sound like an old fart who Longs for the 1900s to come back again.

Aren’t the democrats being hypocrites on their dirty war against Kavanaugh after backing Bill ...

bigpawbullets comments on Sep 25, 2018:

I remember, back when "The BIG Dog" was president, I was working in, among other places, Buenos Aires. The Argentines, and many Europeans i interacted with were highly amused at the "Norte-Americano's" puritanical reaction to Bill's indescretions. "He's a manly man!" Was the consensus. "Send ...

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 25, 2018:

That's very red that's very red pill of you. let's see how you act when your daughter or your wife gets raped you going to have the same Cavalier attitude?

Aren’t the democrats being hypocrites on their dirty war against Kavanaugh after backing Bill ...

Flyingsaucesir comments on Sep 25, 2018:

Special Prosecutor Ken Starr went through the Cinton's lives with a fine-toothed comb going back decades and found nothing. The investigation went on for years. No one was indicted or pled guilty or went to jail. Eventually Bill's pecadillo with Monica Lewinski came to light and it didn't faze ...

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 25, 2018:

@bigpawbullets but we have to be very careful about the Supreme Court. Nobody votes for them,and they are on the bench for LIFE! That sir screws your philosophy of checks and balances.

Aren’t the democrats being hypocrites on their dirty war against Kavanaugh after backing Bill ...

Flyingsaucesir comments on Sep 25, 2018:

Special Prosecutor Ken Starr went through the Cinton's lives with a fine-toothed comb going back decades and found nothing. The investigation went on for years. No one was indicted or pled guilty or went to jail. Eventually Bill's pecadillo with Monica Lewinski came to light and it didn't faze ...

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 25, 2018:

@bigpawbullets a lot of people actually do vote like that for real. That's why this country and its people are as fucked as they are.

Aren’t the democrats being hypocrites on their dirty war against Kavanaugh after backing Bill ...

LouElmo comments on Sep 25, 2018:

Yes they are hypocrites and nothing has of yet been proven on Kavanaugh. Just because SHE SAYS SO doesn't make it so. It is total bullshit that just because she says so we must believe it. She has the burden of proof. I'm waiting for it. If and when it comes then I will consider it.

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 25, 2018:

@david75090 the conservative Republicans are not they just spew death threats at her

Aren’t the democrats being hypocrites on their dirty war against Kavanaugh after backing Bill ...

bigpawbullets comments on Sep 25, 2018:

Trajan! I salute your bravery in posting this in the general area! Hope you've got your flak jacket and protective goggles on!

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 25, 2018:

Yes ,everybody enjoys a Gathering points pimp.

Aren’t the democrats being hypocrites on their dirty war against Kavanaugh after backing Bill ...

DaphneDarling comments on Sep 25, 2018:

I’d also like to hear you’re reasoning on how the Republican Party is not hypocritical by supporting a man who has confessed to womanizing, having affairs, and has been accused by several women of several levels of sexual misconduct when one woman’s blue dress was enough for impeachment with ...

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 25, 2018:

@LouElmo maybe not for all,but for the overwhelming majority. In trajans case, you can take the man out of the Baptist church ,but you just can't take the church out of the man.

Aren’t the democrats being hypocrites on their dirty war against Kavanaugh after backing Bill ...

Gatovicolo comments on Sep 25, 2018:

Kavanaugh is being accused of rape and exposure. President Clinton’s worst fault was womanizing. Also, Kavanaugh is looking at a lifetime apt not just a maximum of 8 years in office. All of that’s despite the fact that you’re assuming the democrats are behind anything. Isn’t it just ...

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 25, 2018:

@Trajan61 and you're disgusting rape sympathizer just like the rest of the conservatives.

Aren’t the democrats being hypocrites on their dirty war against Kavanaugh after backing Bill ...

DaphneDarling comments on Sep 25, 2018:

Democrats will be Democrats. Amiright!! I’d like to hear your opinion on McConnells reasoning to not allow Merrick Garland even a hearing while pushing this one through amid scandals?

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 25, 2018:

@Trajan61 why don't you try figuring out that changing the Constitution is a little bit more complicated.

Aren’t the democrats being hypocrites on their dirty war against Kavanaugh after backing Bill ...

DaphneDarling comments on Sep 25, 2018:

I’d also like to hear you’re reasoning on how the Republican Party is not hypocritical by supporting a man who has confessed to womanizing, having affairs, and has been accused by several women of several levels of sexual misconduct when one woman’s blue dress was enough for impeachment with ...

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 25, 2018:

@ronnie40356 the conservative men believe that it is fine to rape and abuse women, that's why they are confused with any Republican man being accused of sexual abuse.

Southerners be like....

Varn comments on Sep 24, 2018:

Why the hell is it taking so long for water to run down hill? The *Dan* River’s still fairly high & muddy, but much lower than a week ago. This former Oregonian wants to know ;-)

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 25, 2018:

@gebulldog the rainfall varied widely throughout the state. in certain places, the rainfall was measured in feet not inches

Florence flooding pollutes Carolina rivers flowing into ocean | News & Observer

JackPedigo comments on Sep 24, 2018:

One cost of our meat culture. These externalities are often, conveniently ignored.

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 24, 2018:

That's another really devastating thing. All of the Hogs and chickens on these massive Farms where simply left to drown. The Farmers Insurance will cover it, but the taxpayers will wind-up cleaning up the pollution. Their Rich enough and big enough to be forced to bring these animals to Higher Ground or ship them out.

Southerners be like....

Varn comments on Sep 24, 2018:

Why the hell is it taking so long for water to run down hill? The *Dan* River’s still fairly high & muddy, but much lower than a week ago. This former Oregonian wants to know ;-)

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 24, 2018:

the estimates are Florence dumped 18 trillion gallons of water on us

An insult to cattle

ArdentAtheist comments on Sep 24, 2018:

Doesn’t he know that’s not how Trump draws the flag?

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 24, 2018:

LOL! yep he got it wrong

Whose mutton is that?

Happyonearth comments on Sep 24, 2018:

So they settled for trump

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 24, 2018:

While Hillary won the popular vote by over 3 million. I think our Founding Fathers would be considered crackheads if they existed today.

What have you eaten while not realizing what it was until afterwards?

ProudMary comments on Sep 23, 2018:

Venison.

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 23, 2018:

@JenBeberstein I never noticed anything too bad about eating catfish. I have tasted some game animals, and I hated them all . they all taste dirty and bloody to me. I think it's more of a mental thing. If I know I'm eating a deer or bear or goat I'm put off by it.

What have you eaten while not realizing what it was until afterwards?

ProudMary comments on Sep 23, 2018:

Venison.

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 23, 2018:

@JenBeberstein no, at least not without starving to near-death first

What have you eaten while not realizing what it was until afterwards?

ProudMary comments on Sep 23, 2018:

Venison.

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 23, 2018:

@JenBeberstein no venison taste like a cross between blood and dirt

What have you eaten while not realizing what it was until afterwards?

Kojaksmom comments on Sep 23, 2018:

Trail mix, but the beef jerky tasted sort of strange to me. I made a comment about it and found out that it was bear jerky.

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 23, 2018:

@JenBeberstein it tasted like a cross between beef and dirt. Everybody knows how strange I am when it comes to meat. So everybody got a good laugh at it.

"Faith is Pretending to Know Things You Don't Know

Kojaksmom comments on Sep 23, 2018:

First off to clarify, I do not believe in the concept of God as it has been presented to me. By your definition of what faith is atheists fall into that category. I can just as easily say you have faith that there is no God because you have no proof. Faith is also having a belief in something when ...

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 23, 2018:

@reponeus there is no scientific evidence of anything spiritual. There is no proof that God exists. There is no proof that God does not exist. There is no proof that people have souls. There is no proof that people don't have souls. There is no proof that when we die our personalities rot. There is no proof that there is some form of life after death.

Men who never learned to cook

Kojaksmom comments on Sep 23, 2018:

I've run into the same thing in the dating world. I had one man tell me that his mother was an amazing cook, to which my reply was and you don't know how to cook? He said he never felt like he would need to because there would always be a woman in his life to do it for him. Needless to say that was ...

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 23, 2018:

@Pete66 Lol! More power to ya!

More gun control measures are not the answer, and "responsible" gun control is just more of the ...

MikeFlora comments on Sep 20, 2018:

We don't have the money or the qualified people for any of that, or the facilities. When both parents have to work to pay the bills, it cuts down on the parenting thing I think I'm going to have to call you on the movies and video game thing, I don't think kids take what they see in movies and ...

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 23, 2018:

@SpikeTalon what you pulled off financially is something that I would not be able to. Apparently your set of skills is in a very high-paying line of work. Not all of us are so lucky. I work my ass off and even invest my money to just scrape enough to barely get me by until I could get my hands on my 401k. I certainly am not the only one that feels that way. If it wasn't for the Affordable Care Act, I would not have health insurance at all. I know many people who don't have kids and work two jobs that have a tough time keeping up with bills and Healthcare. You can't even rent a decent apartment in Raleigh North Carolina for under a 800 bucks a month .I work for a large grocery store chain, and they have done nothing but cut benefits over the years. My grandfather got a lot of compensation and job security for being a good employee. He was well loved by the staff and students alike.That is unheard of today. I have watched as people who have 30 and 40 years with the company simply get tossed to the side. Too many jobs are dead-end jobs that do not keep up with the cost of living. Walmart employees make $11 an hour , but only get 8 hours a week to offset the drain on the billionaire owners .I don't think that people rely on the government, but for example, expecting a single parent to pay $2,000 a month for healthcare(so insurance companies could get rich) is a sure-fire way of ruining the entire Healthcare System. Having health care that is Way Out Of Reach for the average person forces them to go to the emergency room for treatment. We all wind up paying extra because of the uninsured. I support a Universal Health Care System where everybody pays, because everybody should use Healthcare System. This ties into the topic because mental health issues / depression are certainly one of the primary causes of mass shootings. If we want to address mental health issues and depression and its association with crime,we have to make diagnosis and treatment affordable for all.

More gun control measures are not the answer, and "responsible" gun control is just more of the ...

MikeFlora comments on Sep 20, 2018:

We don't have the money or the qualified people for any of that, or the facilities. When both parents have to work to pay the bills, it cuts down on the parenting thing I think I'm going to have to call you on the movies and video game thing, I don't think kids take what they see in movies and ...

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 23, 2018:

@SpikeTalon the conservative logic is that you can't help some people and that's very true. I don't live in the best neighborhood in Raleigh, so I see some teenagers roaming the streets, who if you ask me, are headed for prison in the near future. It's too easy to say their parents don't give a shit about them, they're just a lost cause and there's nothing we could do. That's bullshit! these kids are going to be the next gang members ,murderers and who knows what else. It's this group of underprivileged teens that need help the most. Technically there is a lot we can do .we can invest in programs for After school and in our communities for high-risk kids. Schools are full of awkward males who are bullied relentlessly. Perhaps something could be done when teachers begin to notice this. The one thing that won't help is if their parents have an arsenal of God damn weapons in their homes. The Availability of weapons in a society that believes that violence and death threats cure all ills ,I believe, is one of the reasons why school shootings are viewed as being a completely normal and acceptable part of living in a free Society . There may be people that may have an issue with the last statement, but in our culture if you don't put your money where your mouth is your words are as meaningless as your thoughts and prayers.

So post your level, gender, and how many profile visits you've had.

Kojaksmom comments on Sep 21, 2018:

Level 7 Female 864

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 23, 2018:

@TimWhitaker but if you were to ask me how many of my visitors are willing to chat with me, after a relatively short pause, I would say 3 maybe 4. Lol

Men who never learned to cook

Seeker3CO comments on Sep 22, 2018:

While I was a bachelor in my 20s I learned to cook, entirely on my own with the aid of cookbooks. I cook very well. I have never dated a woman who cooked. I found that odd but not a deal breaker. I enjoy cooking. I would also never expect to cook for anyone or expect them to cook for me.

Kojaksmom replies on Sep 23, 2018:

I love to cook too. And I like to cook for people as well, but I hate it when it begins to feel like a chore because a man is behaving more like my child. I don't have kids and there's a reason for that.