This has probably been discussed before but I am quite new here, so please excuse me.

Kojaksmom comments on May 23, 2018:

Well unfortunately America has the s*** Second Amendment. The NRA is one of the most powerful organizations in the world. Human lives don't matter second amendment rights do.

Idiot With MAGA Hat in Santa Fe

Kojaksmom comments on May 23, 2018:

Yes Its expected from Trump supporters and ammosexuals. The reason he was out there was to make love to his second amendment rights. His dick Sack isn't quite as big as he thinks because he lost his nerve when someone put homeboy on the spot.

Regarding dating sites, I don't look at women's profiles, so I'm curious about something.

Kojaksmom comments on May 23, 2018:

Oh What A fun question! I'm going to have to think about this

Maybe I'm just fed up with gun loving misogynists but this meme struck a chord with me when a friend...

Kojaksmom comments on May 23, 2018:

I completely agree

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Kojaksmom comments on May 23, 2018:

Loved it!

Feeling old, down, lonely, can't sleep?

Kojaksmom comments on May 23, 2018:

Yes I have all these symptoms. May I add large quantities of alcohol to your list ? And maybe change my name too?

Trevor Noah calls out Pro-lifers on their stance on gun-control: [youtu.be]

Kojaksmom comments on May 23, 2018:

Priceless!!!!

Next month is my family reunion with my mom's side of the family.

Kojaksmom comments on May 23, 2018:

Uggggg! Do you drink? If not try it it helps! ?

Not this shit again.

Kojaksmom comments on May 23, 2018:

God and guns have always gone hand-in-hand. Most of the Christians that believe this shit probably have a f****** Arsenal in their house.

As a Canadian I have always wondered why Americans seem to all fly American flags outside of their ...

Kojaksmom comments on May 23, 2018:

Because as Bill Maher said Americans are number one at thinking we're number one. This is true even in light of the evidence that proves we are NOT.

Humans just 0.

Kojaksmom comments on May 22, 2018:

Our time is coming, and it looks like it's getting close.

[facebook.com] beautiful corn

Kojaksmom comments on May 22, 2018:

All of my favorite colors! That's amazing!

It's not a good evening for me.

Kojaksmom comments on May 22, 2018:

Sorry to hear that. It's very sad.

Choosing partner is directly or indirectly related with racism.

Kojaksmom comments on May 22, 2018:

Relationships are difficult enough. I prefer to stick with my own race/ ethnicity . While it may work out for many people, it's just not my preference.

When would humanity move from religion to responsibility?

Kojaksmom comments on May 22, 2018:

My favorite mythological creature is the Phoenix. The Phoenix is a mythological bird that is born from its own ashes. I believe in order for humans to change, and for religion to die if would take a damn near apocalyptic Force.

Regarding yesterday's abortion post(s) wars, I would like to offer a simple solution.

Kojaksmom comments on May 21, 2018:

Sexting, the ultimate answer.

What type of people have the best morals

Kojaksmom comments on May 21, 2018:

I vote for practicing Buddhists.

Funny story.

Kojaksmom comments on May 21, 2018:

My grandmother took me church with her. I thought the priest was god.

Next I believe I will stick to being a vegetarian, I don't think I can give up my eggs and my ...

Kojaksmom comments on May 21, 2018:

I totally understand I'm the same way.

Just would like to say hello to any Humans out there, it's a warm evening here and I have been ...

Kojaksmom comments on May 21, 2018:

Well hello! I'm glad you're enjoying yourself!

Hi! I have never wanted to have children and was lucky enough to marry my husband who also isn't ...

Kojaksmom comments on May 21, 2018:

No I'll check it out how do I find it ? Do I just Google TED Talk

Ladies... whats your perfume?

Kojaksmom comments on May 21, 2018:

I like anything from Harvey Prince.

I have a question for you ladies.

Kojaksmom comments on May 21, 2018:

Women do go through menopause and menopause does play Havoc with our sex drives. She may want to talk to her doctor about the problem. Menopause could lead females into depression,Low sex drive, vaginal dryness which makes intercourse painful ,lack of energy ,weight gain and the list goes on. It may be pschological as well. If she is a deeply religious woman who loves small children she may feel like she's not breeding material anymore and therefore there's no point to have sex.

I posted this in Main but am reposting it here.

Kojaksmom comments on May 21, 2018:

Ammosexuals are always happy to infringe on the rights/ safety of others in order to make love to the second ammenment. The freak in this article proves my point.

NRA (nonsensical rifle addiction) [youtu.be]

Kojaksmom comments on May 20, 2018:

Lmao, this is great.

Cocks not Glocks... [facebook.com]

Kojaksmom comments on May 20, 2018:

Love it. She makes an excellent point. Openly carrying harmless dildos is considered to be obscene. Open carry of dangerous weapons that are capable of killing is completely acceptable.

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Kojaksmom comments on May 20, 2018:

Nice!!

My thoughts on the royal wedding

Kojaksmom comments on May 20, 2018:

I'm a sucker for pomp and circumstance.

Are you sure about that?

Kojaksmom comments on May 20, 2018:

Monty Python!

All I'm gonna say about the Texas shooting

Kojaksmom comments on May 19, 2018:

Yeah! Lol ! This is where all your thoughts and prayers go.

Was your first true love so profound you still feel it ?

Kojaksmom comments on May 19, 2018:

Yes it was. It's funny I didn't even know what love was back then, but I will never love another man like that ever again.

Appropriate, (sadly) yet again. Ugh!

Kojaksmom comments on May 19, 2018:

True!!

Arming Teachers?

Kojaksmom comments on May 19, 2018:

And of course the rich Fat Cats want teachers to do this for free. No concern is given for that single parent that is also a teacher that now has to put themselves in the line of fire. They have to use their own money to buy school supplies, the gun nuts want them to use their own money for training and weapons. According to the gun nuts I never realized that the overwhelming majority of teachers were also ex-military ,ex-police officers and fire range instructors.

I want to hear a consensus on this, please If the founding fathers had meant for people to have ...

Kojaksmom comments on May 18, 2018:

And even if they didn't, As Time Marches On the Constitution has to be "translated" to accommodate modern times.

Dick's .

Kojaksmom comments on May 18, 2018:

I buy as much stuff as possible from them. It was a real gutsy move, and I salute them for it.

So, the right is saying gun control won't help? So, what will help? I'm not hearing any answers!

Kojaksmom comments on May 18, 2018:

Exactly! Let's hear some solutions. Particularly from the conservative right-wing that I know are in the group

Can Trump drinking games cause death?

Kojaksmom comments on May 18, 2018:

As much as I like to drink ,I would never even attempt this!

Another school shooting in Sante Fe. When will we learn?

Kojaksmom comments on May 18, 2018:

It's obvious as a country we care more about our freedom to own assault weapons than we care about the safety of kids. Ammosexuals refuse to consider raising the age of gun ownership to 21 almost unanimously. Ammosexuals also are against more extensive background checks almost unanimously. And all gun nuts are violently against Banning assault weapons almost unanimously.

Another horrible shooting.

Kojaksmom comments on May 18, 2018:

I will never understand the gun nuts philosophy that Citizens need to protect themselves from the government. Our military is so well funded if they really wanted to take over no amount of citizens weaponry would stop them. It's gotten to a point where the Second Amendment is essentially about gun nuts rights to kill innocent people.

Parrot dancing exercise. [youtu.be]

Kojaksmom comments on May 18, 2018:

I love birds. I can watch videos of them all day. A recent study on a cockatoo named snowball proved that they actually do know how to dance.

What's your stance on TNR?

Kojaksmom comments on May 18, 2018:

Cats are considered to be the worst invasive species in America. They cannot care for themselves.i support getting rid of as many feral cats as possible. I urge all cat owners to keep cats inside only.

Is there any point in debating to believers about their religion?

Kojaksmom comments on May 17, 2018:

If you don't like to play Angry Birds and want to kill some time sure.

What do you say about polygamy ?

Kojaksmom comments on May 17, 2018:

Fuck that!!!! mix up that genetic material. Humans are dumb enough! the last thing we need is incest . Incest is always the common denominator in polygamist cults.

Let's say "God" does exist.

Kojaksmom comments on May 17, 2018:

it's females who actually have more natural characteristics of this benevolent God thing.

Is Buddhism better than other religions?

Kojaksmom comments on May 17, 2018:

I have a lot of respect for Buddhism. it's not a religion but a way of life and philosophy

This will sound bad .

Kojaksmom comments on May 17, 2018:

I guess I really don't hate children, but I hate the life that children set up for you. And 52 I've come to realize that parenting never ends. I have friends that are raising grandkids. I have friends that never stop worrying about their adult children. Parenthood really is a lifelong Adventure, and a bad one at that.

I have talked to something like 20 people, mostly women who have quietly told me they wished they ...

Kojaksmom comments on May 17, 2018:

I have had some people be honest with me as well. Many of them were the ones that said they could not imagine how anybody would not want children. Now that they have them, they changed their story to I can now I understand why people don't want kids.

My mistake.

Kojaksmom comments on May 17, 2018:

I can't remember at what age. It really kicked in once I started having sex! I feared getting pregnant worse than death. That should have told me something right there. I turned out to be one of the most child hating people that I know. I've never been convinced that there is life after birth.

Sterilization.

Kojaksmom comments on May 17, 2018:

My late husband got sterilized when he was 25. he had no problems at all finding a doctor who would do the procedure. It would have taken me years I'm sure

Memes!! Lets collect memes.

Kojaksmom comments on May 17, 2018:

This is so me

Memes!! Lets collect memes.

Kojaksmom comments on May 17, 2018:

Oh shit! You have to feed these things?

Where do agnostics go when they die?

Kojaksmom comments on May 16, 2018:

All dressed up and no where to go....the story of my life.

No. Just no.

Kojaksmom comments on May 16, 2018:

It looks as if someone needs to get her an antibacterial wipe and some Neosporin

Toys?

Kojaksmom comments on May 16, 2018:

Large collection, proud of it.

Safe sex is the best

Kojaksmom comments on May 16, 2018:

Not so fast you just might inherit 10 screaming grandkids.

Show me your furry child who melts your heart! This is my little buddy.

Kojaksmom comments on May 16, 2018:

He's my spoiled main man

Are you on the edge??

Kojaksmom comments on May 15, 2018:

Yep! I feel it coming!

What snap judgements are you aware of?

Kojaksmom comments on May 15, 2018:

Whenever I see a man in a huge pickup truck I cringe and think what a good old boy ,woman-hating trump supporter he must be. Not all but some just give me that vibe.

Any childfree atheists out there?

Kojaksmom comments on May 15, 2018:

Me too, never had em never will.the bad new is It never gets easier. I'm considerably older than you, and now I'm dating. I'm finding if it isn't kids being a pain in the ass, it's grandkids. It requires a strong set of boundaries, and compromise.

let there be no f ing questions.

Kojaksmom comments on May 14, 2018:

I took this picture at the North Carolina Aquarium.

This Guy is stoking fires all over the middle east.The whole planet could get "Burned"!

Kojaksmom comments on May 14, 2018:

Bout right

Not Gonna Argue With That.

Kojaksmom comments on May 14, 2018:

That's lovely.

Anyone else in this group that has an education or career in agriculture or horticulture?

Kojaksmom comments on May 14, 2018:

I have an associate from the agricultural Institute at NCSU in ornamentals and Landscape. I do specialize in organic gardening and perennials

I guess l need to do some research into Hydrangeas.

Kojaksmom comments on May 14, 2018:

It's the pH of your soil. Acid soil produces blue flowers alkaline soil produces pink

"What's sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander.

Kojaksmom comments on May 14, 2018:

I believe it's womens breeding capacity that give us the shity end of the stick when it comes to social sexual norms. When it comes to sex men are the offense women are the defense. the sexual double standard is so deeply embedded in the fabric of our society it's going to be very difficult to get rid of.

"What's sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander.

Kojaksmom comments on May 14, 2018:

Legitimate question until some asswipe shows up and start splitting hairs.

Hello everyone! Just joined My screen name Robin but real first name is Robin

Kojaksmom comments on May 14, 2018:

Hi robin! Welcome!

Picture of my front yard lilac bush, through the blades of my wind-spinner.

Kojaksmom comments on May 14, 2018:

I wish I could grow lilacs in the south. Technically we can but it's just not the same as how they grow in Northern climates

Don't hold back.. if you must share

Kojaksmom comments on May 13, 2018:

I love this one!

How can WE end rape? Rape being a human issue.

Kojaksmom comments on May 13, 2018:

Rape is not about sex. Rape is about power.

Let's talk about Sex

Kojaksmom comments on May 13, 2018:

Yeah

Do you care if you are remembered when you die?

Kojaksmom comments on May 12, 2018:

Nobody is remembered after they die. To prove it, tell me all about your great-great-great- grandmother.

Community living

Kojaksmom comments on May 11, 2018:

Looking for something like this! I vote myself most likely to run off and join an eco-village somewhere in the North Carolina Mountains. I'll raise goats and sell flowers on the roadside for a living. When I need to take a bath I'll just put on some patchouli perfume.

Woman accused of stalking, sending man 65,000 texts after one date | abc7news.com

Kojaksmom comments on May 11, 2018:

After being in the dating world this does not Shock me at all

How did your faith (if you were a believer) affect your love life?

Kojaksmom comments on May 11, 2018:

My lack of faith had more influence. Jesus jumpers dumped me for another Jesus jumper.

Is Trump an atheist?

Kojaksmom comments on May 10, 2018:

Donald frump is a narcissistic sociopath. Not sure what religion a narcissistic sociopath would gravitate to.

Anyone here antinatalist?

Kojaksmom comments on May 10, 2018:

We all have vocal cords, but not all of us can be opera singers. I despise the pressure put on people to breed. I personally feel I belong to this category, but would not recommend / push others into it. I see the world as a pile of shit. It is extraordinary user-unfriendly. any person who would want a child to be brought into this world is extremely questionable. breeding is necessary however, and theoretically is the only function of life. I think our society does a great disservice to all of its members to show Parenthood in a positive light.

Does anyone else feel like they are destined to fail at relationships?

Kojaksmom comments on May 9, 2018:

Yes, I've given up. I do think I was born to be alone. I was married for 21 years but it wasn't the best marriage. I recently got back into dating and I've had nothing but bad experiences. It does seem that some people have luck some people don't

Hello, I am trying to find friends whom i can share my points of views, without fear of judgement ...

Kojaksmom comments on May 9, 2018:

Welcome fellow north Carolinian! Hope you enjoy yourself here, and best of luck!

So I'm listening to Amy Winehouse and the thought occurred to me.

Kojaksmom comments on May 9, 2018:

I don't think it would have helped. I love her music and I miss her so much. Strange thing was at the very end of her life she look better then she ever had before.

Greetings all, I am totally new to this site! I've been openly atheist for many years now, but had ...

Kojaksmom comments on May 9, 2018:

Welcome ! Whatever you're looking for I'm sure you'll find here.

So I've pretty much given up on dating, specifically dating websites and apps.

Kojaksmom comments on May 9, 2018:

I feel the same way. I think finding love happens by happenstance only. When you're actively seeking and trying to force the situation to happen it almost never does.

Endless fun

Kojaksmom comments on May 8, 2018:

Guess this means you need to stay the fuck out of Kansas City.

Late night crew, what ya sippin' on? Sailor Jerry here. Got the nice warm fuzzies goin' on.

Kojaksmom comments on May 8, 2018:

My kitchen wallpaper.

I've got good news and I've got bad news! First the bad news: Civilization as we know it is about...

Kojaksmom comments on May 7, 2018:

Extremely true! I love the words of EO Wilson . If every human were to drop dead ithe Earth would go back to its abundant beautiful healthy state. If all insects were to disappear the entire ecosystem would collapse into chaos. Humans have no purpose we suck!

Has religion deprived society of being able to cope with death? True or false?

Kojaksmom comments on May 7, 2018:

Not sure, but I believe it deprives people of the opportunity to progress. It's usually the ultra religious that are the most resistant to change. Examples of that would be Christians attitude towards civil rights, women's rights, equality in marriage, abortion and birth control.......

I know, I'm not very good at sharing post or coming up with some deep philosophical crap.

Kojaksmom comments on May 6, 2018:

Welcome to the community, hope you enjoy it. Just give it some time, and things will start looking brighter.

HI everyone, I am happily childfree, but it seems like I'm the only one in my small hometown.

Kojaksmom comments on May 6, 2018:

I know the feeling.

HI everyone, I am happily childfree, but it seems like I'm the only one in my small hometown.

Kojaksmom comments on May 6, 2018:

Welcome!

Redbud loving Amaryllis

Kojaksmom comments on May 6, 2018:

Oh it's so beautiful! love planting amaryllis bulbs in the garden! I always buy them after Christmas when people are itching to get rid of them

Who else out thar, is so tired of all the Trump Bashing ?

Kojaksmom comments on May 6, 2018:

The invention of groups can be useful for this problem. There's every worthless group under the sun from Libertarians to conservative Republicans.. pick your poison bring a weapon and have fun.

Now at my age when you don't have and don't want kids, but looking for a partner, finding a lady ...

Kojaksmom comments on May 6, 2018:

I always thought dating at my age, which is 52 ,would be so much easier because of the breeding issue being off the plate. Unfortunately I'm having the same experience. If it's not grandchildren, it's adult children. Just because a child turns 18 does not in any way mean that it's capable of living on its own. Many men my age have grandchildren and college educations to worry about. I found just because a dating profile says" grown children not living with me" is not the magic bullet for a green light

So.

Kojaksmom comments on May 6, 2018:

It doesn't have to be that way. You could respond to any sex question in a deeper way.

I've been in a passionless relationship for 5 yrs.

Kojaksmom comments on May 6, 2018:

By your question I can tell sexual intimacy is very important to you. So I would have to agree ,it may be time for you to call it quits. But only you can make that decision. Just kick the idea around a little bit .

God is an ethereal object but, somehow it needs your money....?????

Kojaksmom comments on May 6, 2018:

Good point! How many churches use this money for charity work? Answer is very few. Almost all Christians will tell you that they give to their Church so their church can do good deeds. My take on it, you give to your church so that your church leader can live in a multi-billion-dollar complex.

I think this is a cut down to Xenomorphs.

Kojaksmom comments on May 5, 2018:

Definitely separated at Birth

Happy Cinco De Mayo. Today we celebrate our Lord and savior. Jose Cuervo!

Kojaksmom comments on May 5, 2018:

Amen

Happy Cinco De Mayo

Kojaksmom comments on May 5, 2018:

Hey! do not make fun of any pseudo holiday that makes us feel better about going out getting smashed and eating Mexican food

What do people in this forum think about "bad" words?

Kojaksmom comments on May 5, 2018:

I'm guilty of using this option. If you don't like it f*** you.

I've been debating on leaving the site because of some of the judgemental comments I've been ...

Kojaksmom comments on May 5, 2018:

You are never going to be without judgement. please only yourself. If you are happy here, by all means stay.