Not quite sure how this all works, but I'm here. Greetings my fellow heathens <3

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 2, 2018:

Greetings! Welcome

Religion and the internet.

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 2, 2018:

And no where in the Bible does it cover computers. Maybe God hates computers and does not believe any of his followers should be using them. How is a Christian supposed to know for sure.

Volunteerism has always been an important part of my life, even after leaving religion it is remains...

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 2, 2018:

I can understand your point. I think volunteerism is great, and much respect to you for doing it. So I certainly would not let the religious bastards get you down. I volunteer mostly with animals which reinforce my idea that people kind of suck.

Have always wondered....

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 2, 2018:

As an agnostic, there is no proof you are wrong.

Getting ready for the super bowl game?

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 1, 2018:

Come on people! It's a great excuse to get plastered and blow your diet.

Is there a songwriter or musician that resonates with you?

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 1, 2018:

Janis Joplin, she's classic and I just "get" her music.

Is being overweight the new fad?

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 1, 2018:

It's all so confusing. I went on a diet no fried foods, no pork or beef and did not eat high sugar foods. I lost 18 lbs., but my cholesterol went up. :( go figure

What kind of bad manners does your pet have?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 31, 2018:

Big fat lap dog

Have you ever burned a bible?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 31, 2018:

No but I threw one in trash.

Hi everyone, I wasn't sure where to categorize this post.

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 30, 2018:

Amazing talent! Thank you!

The richest 1 percent now owns more of the country’s wealth than at any time in the past 50 years

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 30, 2018:

We Americans wonder why the middle/lower class have no representation? It does sicken me what we tolerate. Politicians are more like Commodities that can be bought and sold.

State of the Union Address, anyone?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 30, 2018:

Maybe if I turned it into a drinking game I would consider it. Like whenever the narcissistic orange overlord told us how smart ,brilliant and how much of a smashing success his presidency has been so far I'd take a shot. On second thought that would be way too dangerous! So my answer is no ,I will not be watching. Is the movie Rocky Horror Picture Show?

Multiple partners?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 30, 2018:

Not for me. Not only is it dangerous from a health standpoint, but it's a bit juvenile.

If you were asked to teach a class of your choosing, what would the subject matter be?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 30, 2018:

Horticultural therapy. I've used it with great success in dealing with bereavement.

Online dating feels futile.

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 30, 2018:

Well it is true that women received tons and tons of computer generated messages that always say the same damn thing. If you're interested in someone on a dating site ,read her profile . send her a message with questions showing that you did read her profile. you have much better chance of standing out that way.

What was your favorite subject in school?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 30, 2018:

Biology!!! Art too!!! i sucked at everything else. Not the brightest bulb on the tree I'm afraid.

A lot of angry and/or uneducated atheists around here...

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 29, 2018:

I agree religion has indeed been Twisted . The Twisted form of religion is what rules, and most of us here despise it. I believe it's too late to reform religion. It's twisting began at its invention.

What is something that you absolutely must have and enjoy?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 29, 2018:

Flavored unsweetened seltzer water. It's my addiction.

I’m here for the community with the possibility of meeting someone to date. What about you?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 28, 2018:

Me as well.

What happens when you cross The Stepford Wives and The Hand Maid's Tale, then throw in an episode of...

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 26, 2018:

"career obsessed banshees” or “nailbiting manophobic feminist she devils.” sounds like some great ideas for t-shirts! I already own a "nasty woman" and I've been looking for more

Can you guys give me some feedback on athiest churches?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 26, 2018:

Look into Unitarian universalists and see if it's something you might be interested in. There are also organizations that would fit what you're looking for but they don't have the same support system as a church.

Satanic Temple beats Missouri in showdown over abortion rights

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 25, 2018:

The Satanist Church is actually very good for situations like this. I heard they were suing for the mandatory wait Before abortion because it violated their religion.

Just because I don't agree with you.

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 25, 2018:

So what do you believe is behind the current change in climate. Do you believe the massive overpopulation of the human animal is responsible?

How many times have you been married?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 23, 2018:

Once for 21 years. He died of cancer 5 years ago.

Did you ever have a job that sucked the life out of you?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 23, 2018:

Yes, total fight or flight inspiring. I kept looking at the door fighting back the urge to run as fast as I could to get out! To this day, I don't even shop there anymore.

Am I the only one that felt like reading the Bible just felt like I was reading one huge story of ...

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 21, 2018:

Yes, the bible does have literary value. My parents bought me a children's Bible. even in a children's Bible they had the story of the man who was going to give his virgin daughters away to be raped all night ..... at 52 when people talk to me about the Bible I still conjure up pictures of Adam and Eve an apple and a big boat with a bunch of animals on it . That's pretty much so the extent of my knowledge about the Bible.

Why don't we have a agnostic church ?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 21, 2018:

I agree, the closest I found to one is the Unitarian Universalist fellowship. I met many atheists, agnostics, freethinkers and others like wicans who also joined.

I love nature.

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 21, 2018:

I am an organic gardener. I love all things that visit the garden. Kayaking on big lake and taking it all in is My idea of "church"

If Agnostic had a potluck, what would you bring?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 21, 2018:

Jello shots! I would have to take a poll on what kind. My favorite is cherry cola made with sailor Jerry rum

There is no agnostic vs. atheist! The peeve I have...

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 21, 2018:

Thank you for your input. You did a fantastic job of differentiating between the two and expanding our knowledge of the two.

Have you ever had days like this?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 20, 2018:

Yep! Pretty much sums up my life.

How religion turned American politics against science | Kurt Andersen - YouTube

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 20, 2018:

Awesome6 video thanks for posting. The term that comes to mind is bastardization. Politics and religion make strange bedfellows. When the g.o.p became gods own party it took, and is taking , a huge toll on society. The dumbing down began and disregard of human rights within our society did too.

Taking yourself out to eat?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 19, 2018:

I'm a huge fan of masturdating. Masturdating is when you take yourself out and have a good time.

I suspect a scammer in my messages, what should I do?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 19, 2018:

Oh no ! I have a flood of them on facebook. I hate that it is happening to you here.

Witches

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 19, 2018:

Don't know much about it, but have met a few in my church. We even had a wiccan circle meet up. I wish I went but didn't.

Who are some of your most favorite authors?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 18, 2018:

Sam keen, E.O Wilson, gloria Steinem, Dawkins,

Is there a meaning to life? If so, what is it?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 18, 2018:

I've adopted a Yoko Ono philosophy on life. Yoko said children grow up, husbands and people die so work is the most important part of life. My job hobbies and the help i give to others gives my life meaning.

Where do you think President Donald Trump stands on religion?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 16, 2018:

That's easy ! Trump, in his mind, is God. All malignant narcissists believe this to a certain degree. I foresee him living a long, long life just like Charles Manson. The wicked never die young. I guess that's where the saying only the good die young came from.

Do you think non-believers are less into trends and fads than most?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 16, 2018:

Fashion works in a circle. Best advice I've been given is if you remember this fad from your younger days, you're too old to wear it. Other fads I'm unsure , depends I guess.

Besides religion, what's an example of magical thinking?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 15, 2018:

I agree, as long it's not harmful to oneself or others it's fine.

If Trump can be president then anybody who's famous with a large twitter following is qualified to ...

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 14, 2018:

Yes the election of Donald Trump proves that money really does buy everything. His turn the presidency into a huge shithole

Feeling pretty good today?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 14, 2018:

Locusts maybe? Large numbers of frogs? Is bible humor allowed here?

Who is Going to Pay for the Assanine Wall?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 14, 2018:

Taxpayers at the tune of billions upon billions upon billions.

Why do so many Americans not believe in vaccines, climate changes or evolution?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 14, 2018:

I'm not sure, I think the internet has given all pseudo scientists a soapbox to preach from. Technology puts a lot of information at our fingertips, however, the ability to evaluate that information is lacking. There are many,many people out there who think doctors and government agencies are corrupt. Many anti-vaxxers believe that the only reason medical professionals want to vaccinate children is to make money.

Scott Dworkin on Twitter: "The word “shithole” is being projected onto Trump’s DC hotel.

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 14, 2018:

Lol! Luv it!

Trail mix is nothing more than simply M&M candy with obstacles. Am I right?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 12, 2018:

Yes but it's delicious

Is President Trump responsible for the current success of Economy?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 12, 2018:

Thank you Obama! Well see how our economy does on auto pilot for now.

How old would you be if you didn’t know how old you are?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 12, 2018:

In my mind I'm 25, but my hot flashes, weight gain, emotion state and body aches tell me a different story

When I was a young boy I used to watch one of my favorite shows.

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 12, 2018:

I loved that show. I'm quite fond of the Carbonaro effect as well.

Have you given big donations to a church?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 11, 2018:

I do give one large donation to my church

Catch ya later.....

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 11, 2018:

You better keep in touch! You know how I like to live vicariously

Trump and this agnostic site

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 11, 2018:

I despise him! not like is too mild. Before he began his journey to feed his malignant narcissism by running for office I disliked him.

A lot of the religious people look down on atheist people and consider them to be immoral.

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 10, 2018:

Because they're Republicans

What do you think of the positive thinking movement?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 10, 2018:

I'm not into it at all. I try to hope for the best, but be prepared for the worst.

What melts your heathen hearts?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 10, 2018:

Animals being rehabilitated and/or saved.

Anyone else an insomniac in the group?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 10, 2018:

I am! I'm really glad this site does not post the time of comments, everyone would think I'm an absolute nut or a vampire.

What kind of pets do we all have?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 10, 2018:

I love animals and if I had my way I would have a house full of everything. I do have fish that was not on the list. my absolute passion are birds. I would love to have an Amazon or an African grey. I watch YouTube videos of people and their birds for hours on end. I don't know if I'll ever get one because I'm sort of against owning Exotics. Birds are wild animals they're not domesticated,

Thoughts on kids? Have them? Want them? No!

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 10, 2018:

Hate them. I find the entire process of having a complete stranger slopping around in my guts for nine months then tearing out of one of the most sensitive areas of my body completely repulsive. I know that's not normal ,but it's just how I feel. I've watched Friends raise kids, that's all I needed to see. Kids just keep becoming bigger and bigger and bigger and bigger pains in the asses as they grow up. There are other ways of contributing to the world Beyond flesh and blood.

Other than religion, in what way are you a minority where you live?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 9, 2018:

I'm a female anti natalist I'm from the south and I can't stand sweet ice tea. I love watching football. During gardening season I'm always playing in the dirt

Describe your life in one word.

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 9, 2018:

REALLY!!

There have been 700 proposals in Congress in the last 200 years to amend the Electoral College, more...

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 9, 2018:

Yes, make every vote count. The winner of the popular vote should be the winner of the election.

Why are so many people still OK with the abhorrent practice of male genital mutilation ...

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 9, 2018:

Not a big fan of turtlenecks sorry. I do believe circumcision has its medical benefits. Who am I to argue with world health organization, American Academy of Pediatrics and the Center for Disease Control. I always ask uncircumcised men to wear condoms because I'm afraid my vagina may give their vagina vaginits. Don't make me tell you about the penile yeast infection story.

If you asked me why I'm single, I'd give you a few reasons actually.

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 9, 2018:

Lol! You are too much!

Why does it anger you when a person tries to convert you to their belief?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 8, 2018:

Because saying shut the f*** up and mind you own business is socially unacceptable.

I was curious

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 8, 2018:

Lol! It is true, the orange Overlord himself claims that he does not read.

[youtu.be] Enjoy...

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 8, 2018:

She is such an elegant woman, and So smart and so insightful. She is such an inspiration.

Dating.

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 8, 2018:

I had a similar post. I'm too old for most dating sites, but I'm not ready for the 65 plus year olds. I'm finding dating really sucks.

Just Hangin out , in front of a fire, sipping pinot noir, watching the golden globes.

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 8, 2018:

Sounds like my kind of evening.

I love when I hear christians sing or talk about the song "Hallelujah" as a religious song.

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 8, 2018:

https://youtu.be/AGRfJ6-qkr4

Ruth Bader Ginsberg slaps trump in the face when he tells her to resign.

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 7, 2018:

Go Ruth! She's my idol.

Imagine you could say "take me to Hell" into your GPS. Where on the map would it lead you?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 7, 2018:

Texas

Dating.

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 7, 2018:

Hell if my luck stays the same, I'll be like George burns. he said I love younger women, hell At my age there isn't anything else.

No religion has a monopoly on moral or ethical posturing. Why do they think they do?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 6, 2018:

That makes a very interesting point. It's also one of the reasons why I feel comfortable with the Unitarian universalists. It is the belief of the U.U 's that all religions have a positive side, and we can learn a thing or two. We study the positive in all religions, But many of us are still atheists and agnostics

Who here was never religious?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 6, 2018:

My father is an agnostic , my mother was a Catholic (she now is a skeptic) I always sided with my dad. I don't ever remember believing in God/ religion as it was presented to me.

WOW!! ---- Tony bennet and lady gaga performance on public broadcast tv.

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 6, 2018:

Tony is the man! He does duet with modern artists and the results are amazing. I'm a big amy Winehouse fan and this collaboration was the last before her death. He recently stated that he was very upset and regrets not talking to Amy about addiction https://youtu.be/_OFMkCeP6ok

Is there anyone else who can control their emotions most of the time?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 6, 2018:

I'm somewhat skeptical about the ability to control your emoitilons. It is best accomplished by sociopaths. Are you speaking of applying it to interpersonal relationships? There have been instances where I interpret someone's non emotional state as clear passive aggressiveness.

I seriously love Sam Harris' book, 'Letter to a Christian nation.' [youtu.be]

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 6, 2018:

Thank you for the link! I will check this out.

What's an adventure you've had in your life?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 4, 2018:

Learning to Whitewater raft in Costa Rica. I still can't figure out why when you get thrown out of the boat in rapids, and you come up for air you're always under the raft. 2 times they had to just park the raft and wait for me to come down river.

Well, I was glad Clinton lost, and cautiously optimistic that Trump wouldn't be too much of a ...

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 4, 2018:

@briangs Hillary Clinton has been investigated more than Richard Nixon. It's tough being a female politician. The US does not want a woman president and will do everything they can to stop it. Including putting a narcissistic idiot mad man in charge. All of the negative things you mentioned about the clintons is probably a typical Friday night for the idiot in Chief

Well, I was glad Clinton lost, and cautiously optimistic that Trump wouldn't be too much of a ...

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 4, 2018:

You could tell by the look on his face on election night He was just feeding his ego as a presidential candidate. As president, he must be absolutely f****** miserable, which by the way, brings me a tremendous amount of pleasure. Narcissistic personalities despise any kind of criticism.

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Kojaksmom comments on Jan 3, 2018:

Lol! Luv it!

I admit that I think an awful lot about future family life.

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 3, 2018:

I would recommend marriage if you're planning on breeding. When the time comes to divorce , and statistically there's a very good chance of that , it's important to have the law on your side. If you're just living together, and you have children, you're in for a world of hurt regarding possessions, the dwelling, custody and money. I don't really see marriage as an impressive Union ,t's simply a formality.

Anybody Else Brand New To This?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 3, 2018:

Glad you're here . I absolutely love this site but haven't had much luck in the dating department but that's okay

I am pretty new to this site, but is christian slamming a normal part of things here?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 2, 2018:

No , but some find it therapeutic. It's a safe place to vent if you need to.

I believe in the power of faith.

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 2, 2018:

I have nothing against prayer, it's giving yourself a pep talk. No harm no foul.

My entire life I have battled depression.

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 2, 2018:

I understand and you are not alone. I too suffer from long term depression and it's a battle. My advice is talk to your doctor. I've been on two different anti depressants and oftentimes had to either change meds or change my dosage for it to continue to be effective.

What are views on nationalism? Do you think it is as dangerous as religion and god?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 2, 2018:

I think it's just as dangerous if not more dangerous. The world is becoming smaller in a sense.im disgusted with Trump and his America first blather. I always felt the u.s. thinks it's number one and the greatest country in world, but Its far far from it. We can learn much from other countries. In trumps America, we have to lower and bully all others to give trumsters the feeling of superiority they so desperately seek.

No names, no courts-martial.

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 2, 2018:

@kreig I thought you would enjoy this. http://junkee.com/online-dating-terminology-bluffers-guide/120770

Cemeteries, creepy, or peaceful?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 2, 2018:

Kind of both. I lost my sister, brother and husband . My husband and sister were cremated but at the same cemetery. I find cemeteries depressing. Death is just an extension of life, but the pain of losing a loved one is gut-wrenching

How to Date - 10 hints.

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 2, 2018:

Aww what a nice post. Yes, keep posting!! Some of us need all the help we can get. The odd thing is in my 52 years of life I haven't learned much about dating.

What makes you break out your soapbox?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 1, 2018:

Definitely the anti choice people. The other one would be "I don't use birth control because God plans my children thing" the stupidity of that makes my blood boil.

What makes you break out your soapbox?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 1, 2018:

Definitely the anti choice people. The other one would be "I don't use birth control because God plans my children thing" the stpidity of that makes my blood boil.

First thing you did this morning? January 1st

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 1, 2018:

Realized I had a hangover and was late for work.

What is your New Years Day meal this year?

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 1, 2018:

I went all out southern. I had pork chops cooked with scallions, Black Eyed Peas cornbread and collard greens. Of course the Black Eyed Peas and collard greens were cooked in chicken stock, spices and ,of course, with a ham hock.

Happy New Year to all you heretics.

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 1, 2018:

Happy New year! See you he'll! Lol

This shit, is really fun.

Kojaksmom comments on Jan 1, 2018:

Happy New Year and new you my man! Keep it coming for all to see.

Do you taunt the religious?

Kojaksmom comments on Dec 31, 2017:

Ah yes! Sacred cows make the best hamburgers.

What do the heart icons,colors,and % mean?

Kojaksmom comments on Dec 31, 2017:

Heart icon is for people who are open to dating and show the percentile of how you answered questions compared to other person.

Would you marry for money or more freedom?

Kojaksmom comments on Dec 31, 2017:

One of my favorite bits of advice- if you marry a man for his money you will earn every penny.

Would you agree with the following: All agnostics are atheists but not all atheists are agnostics?

Kojaksmom comments on Dec 31, 2017:

Yes I would agree with that. I believe agnostics are at least open to the idea that there may be something. atheists are absolutely 100% positively certain there is not.