Who didn't see this coming? [yahoo.com]

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 22, 2018:

His followers. They will be wearing their maga hats and singing his praises as their accounts hit zero

Anyone here going to be apart of the Black Friday madness?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 22, 2018:

I will be working in a grocery store Friday. That is the extent of my participation

Remember everyone:

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 21, 2018:

Aint that the truth. Although I would include teen mom

Question 17: What is your most treasured memory?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 21, 2018:

My grandmother and her sister baking me a sheet of just pie crust because I didn't like the soggy bottom of pies

EDIT Folks, this was an attempt at sarcastic humor.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 21, 2018:

I would assume that a post made in the Silly, Random and Fun group would NOT be a serious one.

Question 16: What do you value most in a friendship?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 20, 2018:

Loyalty.

Question 15: What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 19, 2018:

Surviving

Question 14: Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 19, 2018:

I've dreamed of visiting Europe. I've not done it because I lack the funds lol

How often do you block someone?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 19, 2018:

I haven't blocked anyone. Not even the one that constantly berates me for my bad language lol

[broadly.vice.com]

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 19, 2018:

saving to read later since I have to get ready for work now. May weigh back in later.

Right Wingers and Ayn Rand.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 19, 2018:

I haven't studied her or even read much about her but have heard references to her enough to understand what she is about. I also read recently that near the end of her life, she did in fact receive assistance from those programs she so detested the rest of us having

Is it harder for non-believers to find love?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 19, 2018:

The dating pool is smaller so in my opinion, yes

Can’t stand sjws. Don’t like it?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 19, 2018:

Everyone has deal breakers but the way you have presented it assumes that all the women want you. They don't

Are There Really Advantages When You're Over 50?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 18, 2018:

Discounts

Single and need a place to go?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 18, 2018:

If you meet someone in a bar, that is where you will likely always find them

Among the creepy posts: (this guy played Words with Friends with me.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 18, 2018:

The scammers is part of why I will be giving up words with friends. I stopped doing rematches and once my current games are done, I will be deleting the app

Have been thinking of a possible trip for summer.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 18, 2018:

Yes. There is a rotating floor that the kids would love.

Looks like I'm not the only one who's up way too early on a Sunday! Good morning!

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 18, 2018:

Up super early every day for work so am awake on the days off as well

I recently lost my hiking buddy and I adore Alabama's landscape.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 18, 2018:

I visit Alabama once a year to see the parents. I will post in here when I head that way although they live in Enterprise. I like geocaching and have considered heading that way and grabbing a hotel room so I can hit a trail Have you ever done any caching?

I work for a major retailer and theft is high in my store.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 18, 2018:

People who would never treat treat their neighbors like shit have no problem treating us like shit.

i have a problem but im scared to share to anybody :(

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 18, 2018:

Why are you scared?

Since finding my birth mother when I was 28 we have continued a warm relationship.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 17, 2018:

Im not the adopted one, my mother is but I refer to them as my grandmother and birth grandmother when doing the DNA thing. Otherwise I refer to her by her name My mother called her birth mother by her first name and her adoptive mother "mom"

This was on Facebook over 200 comments.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 16, 2018:

Aw shit. I see what I did. shit.

Question 12: If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 16, 2018:

I would like to have a higher metabolism lol

519 points until level 8

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 16, 2018:

And now you're a bit closer

I want that t-shirt Only 39,106 more points to level 8!

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 16, 2018:

It took months to get to 7.4

This was on Facebook over 200 comments.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 16, 2018:

30

Good morning from dreek Scotland.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 16, 2018:

Is dreek a town? Or is that a descriptor of something? I love learning the local lingo of other places. I too, doubt I will find a mate here but some of the discussions are fun. Welcome

What are your plans for turkey day?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 16, 2018:

I will deliver a couple of meals for the disadvantaged but after that not much since I have to be at work at 4am the following day to do 10 hours. My daughter is cooking so I will eat well though

I got woken up at 7 o’clock this morning by someone knocking on my bedroom door.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 16, 2018:

A dog's tail thumping against the door. Robotic vacuum or motorized toy

I was maybe a week or so old when I was brought home by my adoptive parents.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 15, 2018:

I am on both sites and found a cousin on each. The one on ancestry is uninterested. I found her on facebook and she locked her facebook down. Ancestry does have an extensive database but they want 20 bucks a month to use it. I keep saying I'm gonna free up some time and subscribe to that part.

Who else loves graveyards?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 15, 2018:

I like to explore them and imagine who was related to who and what may have happened to them

Question 11 just doesn't work for this setting ("11.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 15, 2018:

I did that yesterday lol

11 Signs That The U.S. Economy Is Starting To Slow Down Dramatically [thedailysheeple.com]

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 15, 2018:

Well, shit

This Thanksgiving, remember those who cannot be home with their families for the celebration.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 15, 2018:

Thank you for thinking of us LOL My particular employer will be closed on Thanksgiving and Christmas but seeing as how I have to be AT work at 4am the following days, I will not be enjoying that holiday very much

Got attacked yesterday, broken eye socket needing surgery and lots of bruising of the face.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 15, 2018:

That's horrible. Hope they catch the fuckers. Keep on the cops and dont let them pull plea bargain shit

Hi there...hopefully u won't kick me out. I am not 50 until Feb but I thought it was close enough

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 14, 2018:

I don't think you're too young. ;)

O it's along story so I'll try to condense.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 14, 2018:

I am so happy for you. I just did the Dna less than a year ago and found a couple of cousins but no idea how we are related. I need to start doing the digging. Be happy

Question 10: If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 14, 2018:

Both of my parents came from solid middle class backgrounds yet raised my brother and I in poverty for the most part. My mother was adopted and a single child whereas my father was the youngest, Both could have gone to college but refused. Instead they forced a marriage by getting pregnant with me My parents were barely 17 when I was born and my mother was someone that should not have had kids so I have my issues yet their weaknesses exposed me to a way of life in my early years that shaped my opinions today. My father was a musician and we traveled a lot. I spent a lot of time around societal misfits and had a level freedom thanks to my mother's neglect that made me the unsheep that I am today. I was not exposed to religion at all during this time either. Just peace, love, and people on mind altering substances. I was never abused by anyone during this time. My mother's second husband was a wannabe cult leader with an inappropriate interest in me. I left at 16 to avoid rape. During the 7 years they were married, I was forced to memorize entire chapters of the bible and submit to quizzes. Questions at sunday school got me beaten. She married her 3rd husband when I was 17 and pregnant with the man I ran off with to avoid her second husband but he is a great guy. They're still married nearly 40 years later but I am very much aware that if he didn't like me, she wouldn't care. I sometimes think my life would have been better with dad despite his heavy drug use because my younger half brother was much happier than I was but he was also patriarchal and I may not have fared as well as my brother. I hated my former step father so defying him was easy. Anything I think about changing makes me immediately think of something that would be different now. I guess I wish I had been around my maternal grandmother more because she did love me but since I wasn't around her much until I was 17, I wasn't aware of it. I am being quite verbose today. That shit needs to stop LOL

just joined the group.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 14, 2018:

I wanna be you someday LOL I feel that what I am doing now will pay off when Im retired. As a teen of the 70s, I did a lot of walking because there were no rides to had, and not everyone had a phone assuming they were even indoors to answer one. would walk 3 miles to find out that my friend was at the park another mile away whereby I would run to catch her. In the 80s I had kids to chase after but by the 90s I had the net and older kids so I got soft and lazy. I started walking and hiking outside here in Florida about 3 years ago due to geocaching but now I am biking to build endurance and strength. Because I want to be the one to say I am 75 but my body thinks Im 50

A question for all those that are looking for a date/mate/lover .

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 14, 2018:

Not at all. Being bi doesnt make a person non monogamous

For east coasters, or those willing to travel, Would there be interest in a ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 14, 2018:

Going on one in my local area LOL

I'm not Rick Scott's biggest fan, but honestly I didn't think he'd act like this.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 14, 2018:

I'm wondering what would actually happen if Nelson does have the votes and Scott refuses.

Could you forgive someone who murdered your love one??

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 14, 2018:

I can answer this easily since my brother was murdered little over 20 years ago. Nope.

Hi! ? How do you guys address the ole "What if you're wrong?" question?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 14, 2018:

Then I guess I will burn in hell while the repentent child molesters live in heaven next to their victims

How Long Have You Been Single?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 13, 2018:

About 8 years. Didn't plan it but life has made me its bitch and keeps me from having much of a life

Question 9: For what in your life do you feel most grateful?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 13, 2018:

I'm grateful for the strength that has enabled me to survive all that I have survived and still manage to find shit to laugh about

I had to have a corneal tissue transplant a few weeks ago, and I'm just starting to see well enough ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 13, 2018:

Reading your description made my stomach flip flop

Who thinks asking inane questions is a good way to get points?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 13, 2018:

LOL. You do

Ooops.... and there you have it!!

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 13, 2018:

Please tell me this is satire. Realfarmacy is not a legit source of anything medical

Democrat Kyrsten Sinema wins Arizona Senate seat, becoming first nontheist bisexual elected to the ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 13, 2018:

I didn't know she was bi or non theist. I saw a thing on the news this morning about her being elected and that she had voted with trump about 54% of the time. Meant to check that out when I got home, thanks for the reminder

Help please!! 175 points to get to 7, all help gratefully appreciated 😉😉😉😉😉

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 13, 2018:

That's pretty close. Here's a couple for you

I’m just wondering if ppl say “have a blessed day” in other parts of the country.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 12, 2018:

Yes, it's popular here in Florida as well

Not sure if something is up with the Greeter messages as you only know if they've been seen if ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 11, 2018:

For the last month I've noticed a downtick. Many days I have none and no more than two on the other days. I understood it when I was logging on a couple times of week but lately I have been on every day and most days twice.

[yahoo.com] I Don't Know Much About Polyamory - Is it Abnormal or Could it Benefit Couples?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 11, 2018:

I see how it can be beneficial in various ways such as multiple adults to aid with child rearing and household duties and not to mention a higher standard of living if all of them have income but I also think it takes a different mind set than most of us have to make it work in practice. I could really really use two men these days. Lot of shit around here needs fixin' lol

Who Can Name More Than 5 Characters?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 11, 2018:

I recognize the shows of all but one. There are a few whose actual character name I cannot immediately name.

Just curious on members belief in extraterrestrial life.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 11, 2018:

I find it more plausible than a god

Do you display any symbols of your humanist philosophy?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 11, 2018:

I have a happy humanist pin I wear on my uniform at work. I have a trailer hitch cover on my truck that has the darwin fish humping the xtian fish which has not really be noticed since my hitch is a short one. I don't on the house because my daughter and grandkids live here and don't wish them to be targeted.

Question 7: Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 11, 2018:

Not so secret: I will die of a heart attack trying to beat the shit out of a modern republican. Seriously, I dunno. I work in retail in an area primarily of retirees and I see these people in carts or shuffling along and I don't want that to be me. About 3 years ago I started walking outside to condition myself for climbing a Mayan pyramid. Never stopped, and now I do a 3.5 mile bike in 20 mins every day off, joined a hiking group and I know Im getiing stronger. About 6 months ago, I started on the diet change which has been less successful because I suddenly developed a sweet tooth a few years ago. Im a cancer survivor and I suspect cancer will be the culprit

I almost forgot today's question.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 11, 2018:

I would choose body since my mind at 30 was still pretty ignorant.

Question 5: When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 11, 2018:

Just because I can't sing, doesn't mean I won't sing LOL I sang the last time music played.

Question 4: What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 11, 2018:

Exploring a historical site with someone else that also loves history.

Question 3: Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 11, 2018:

I do if it's important or of a sensitive nature. Or if I fear I will lose my temper; I will then practice various possible scenarios

Question 2: Would you like to be famous? In what way?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 11, 2018:

I guess not. I would prefer to be anonymously rich

Question 1: 1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 11, 2018:

That answer would vary day to day. Perhaps even hour to hour. Today is a day off and I am home when normally I would have been at work for over 2 hours by now so my mood is lighter. My first thought when reading this was to answer Jason Momoa On a bad day at work it could be the CEO of my company lol

Looking to make friends and chat, central Florida!

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 11, 2018:

Hi from Fort Pierce

I'm curious as to whether people here actually find someone on this site to date.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 11, 2018:

Same dilemma here

I turned down a guy for a date late last night at the market.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 11, 2018:

They may not have been for him; I buy stuff like that for my grandkids. Each kid gets a box Now I'm gonna look at my store purchases with a new eye LOL

Up a little early, so still groggy while I wait for my coffee to brew.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 11, 2018:

I slept in a bit until 330 lol

[yahoo.com] Why Do White Women Vote Like Their Republcan Husbands?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 11, 2018:

I think I saw somewhere a graph that showed 73% of white women voted for trump. No fucking wonder white people walk up to me and say racist shit assuming I'm one of them. Apparently, they have reason to believe it

Just wondering, why are you on this website?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 11, 2018:

Joined initially because it was an alternative to POS and OKstupid but realized quickly that that aspect was not gonna work in my area. I've stayed because I can engage in discussions with other people that have a similar non-belief so I don't have to deal with the thoughts and prayers

This Woman Drying Her Panties On An Airplane Will Make You Lose Faith In Humanity ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 10, 2018:

WTF?

I ran across this post from 2012.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 10, 2018:

You mean like the literacy tests the south conducted pre-civil rights era? Yeah, NO.

Does everyone know their Clan/family or district tartans?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 9, 2018:

I researched my surname briefly many years ago and found that martin was a sept of Cameron. I have never doubled checked that but now that DNA results confirm the Scottish blood, I will eventually.

What's everyone think of a new "Picard" series? I'm excited but also nervous.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 9, 2018:

I must check it out. I will make it so.

Do you prefer home-ownership or renting?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 9, 2018:

I was denying myself extras due to my determination to leave my daughter a paid off house or at least a low enough balance to afford.The thing is that once her children are gone, she wouldn't need this house and likely wouldn't even want it by then. Tunnel vision kept me from seeing that before. My house also needs a lot done to it but now my decisions are based on MY future needs and it is quite likely I will sell the house and move when my grandkids leave. Will your children need the house? Do they want to live in it when you're gone or will it be something they to attend to as your heirs?

Well the Midterms have passed and we now have a Democratic house and Republican senate.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 9, 2018:

For now, I am going to be hopeful that there will be change since so many of these new faces are also relatively new to politics.

It's extremely odd that the coverage of the 'migrant caravan' has ceased entirely.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 9, 2018:

That prop is no longer needed

Let's all take a moment to say Fuck Off and GOODBYE to the Keebler Elf Bastard!

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 8, 2018:

I think you need to stop maligning the keebler elf; that fucker makes some tasty cookies so has value Extrapolate the rest folks

How many scammers have you met on this site? I would like to hear your stories.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 8, 2018:

Not a lot; guess I aint purdy enuf

"Who are you?" Phone or computer? There might still be a few PC folk out there too.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 7, 2018:

Laptop for most online activities although I will use the phone to read some emails and an occasional website if stuck sitting around somewhere

It is Better to Walk Alone, Than With Going With a Crowd in the Wrong Direction..

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 7, 2018:

I concur

Hi all Just decided on a topic for a defunct group I took over.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 7, 2018:

Same advice my father gave me which has stood the test of time: If you want your kids to come to you, don't freak out when they do. Sounds easier than it was. When my kids asked me about drugs, I gave them the facts before asking if they were using. When my daughter thought she was pregnant at 15, my first comment was about why she didnt use a condom (they did but failed to hold on upon withdrawal). My added advice is: Do not assume they are doing what they are asking about. The above mentioned drug questions were due to the D.A.R.E. program at school not answering all their questions If you cannot be calm, buy yourself some time with the "I need to give this some thought and will get back to you" but get back to them quickly because you want to be the one that supplies that info first. Not gonna join the group just to be able to make the occasional post and I am a grandma now so my advice may not be practical for the day to day issues.

Being a shameless point whore tonight.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 7, 2018:

The first one grabbed

Election 2018: Breaking Down the Shell Game of Politics [ghionjournal.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 7, 2018:

I dunno. It has some merit but Trump is oceans away from any previous politician. I don't know if it will ultimately be for the worse or the better- although my bet would be on the former, but I am fairly certain that politics have turned a corner and we will not be going back to the status quo this writer described.

UGH! Florida! wtf! DeSantis? really?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 7, 2018:

There was no way in hell the ignorant masses of Florida was gonna let another black man have any power in floorduh This state is so fucking bigoted that we import the bigots from blue states up north

Wow! Just reached level 7. Where I’ll be when I die.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 7, 2018:

Yeah, probably lol

How close is too close?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 7, 2018:

I would be ok with a themed matching of outfits such as the highland games, renn faires etc. And I like the whole family wearing the same tshirt thing at Disney

The mid term elections won't stop Trump.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 7, 2018:

I'm bummed AF too but I disagree with you. There were historic levels of voters in many areas and the house gained at least 30 more women; many of which are of color. Progressive initiatives were passed here and there in addition to some very close races. I live in Florida and believe there isn't much to be happy about today but we did enable the restoration of voting for former felons which at this time amounts to 1.5 million. Blue lost to red by about 100k votes Will Trump prevail in whatever he tries to do? Likely but then again he is a petulant child and there may be just enough resistance to either get him to quit or fuck up enough to turn a couple of republicans

Hi ! I hope everyone is voting or has voted. Florida is an important state!

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 6, 2018:

I also voted by mail and verified that it was tabulated. Hopefully it was tabulated correctly.

Anyone have plantar fasciitis?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 5, 2018:

I gave up the pretty shoes and wear sneakers made for plantar fasciitis.. It has been an issue for me off and on for 20 years but less of an issue when I stick to the correct shoes.

Have you done the Myers Briggs?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 4, 2018:

I've taken it several times in my life and can't tell you what I was labeled or even if they all came out the same. Since this is something that we tally on ourselves, I would say that the bias is too difficult to overcome for most people. I would say we are far too likely to answer as we wish we are rather than how we actually are.

I get that the idea of hiding caches is to present a bit of a challenge, but sticking them so far ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 4, 2018:

It could be that they were placed before it was so overgrown but yeah I get what you mean. I remember when I was newish and went after the 8 mile walk thru a swamp where I was stung by wasps, stabbed by palmetto spikes, tripped by vines into mud, covered in bug bites despite bug spray all for 5 smilies Now I chase virtuals and earth caches although if I were with a group I would go for a good bushwack once in a while.

Hi.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 3, 2018:

Hello from beautiful Fort Pierce where most of the red algae has dissipated

Wrong answers only!

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 3, 2018:

Dirty Dancing

TRUMP: What one thing describes your problem with Trump in as few words as possible?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 3, 2018:

He's done a great job of galvanizing the people. Pretty sure voting records are going to be set.

Ok so let's hear how everyone thinks on this issue.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 2, 2018:

Since I live in Florida, I am nearly always in flip flops and prefer being barefoot, I am very likely to kick mine off whether they want me to or not LOL Enclosed footwear is another matter. If I see a pile of shoes at the door and they have light carpet or brilliantly gleaming floors, I typically take them off but in the absence of some obvious hint that I should, I probably won't If you prefer that people remove their shoes, you could post a decorative or whimsical sign

As a greeter this is my first response from a new member.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 2, 2018:

Yup a scammer. btw, generally has two L's Normally, I wouldn't point out a misspelling but thought since it is a greeter message, I thought you may want to know

A potential confused individual [agnostic.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 2, 2018:

Schrodinger's religion?

Schadenfreude May Come in 3 Flavors, Some Meaner Than Others [livescience.com]

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 1, 2018:

A little schadenfreude makes work more bearable sometimes lol