Have you ever stopped reading a book, listening to a song, or watching a show because it added ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 11, 2018:

Not a song. Too many great songs mention a prayer or god briefly to stop listening. I did stop watching NCIS-NO because it got religious fast. Then regular NCIS started up then finally LA had to go. Story lines were stale anyway.

Is everyone feeling sad about not having a romantic partner on Valentines Day?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 11, 2018:

Nope.

Anyone make any close connections yet?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 11, 2018:

No but then it has only been a couple of months since I joined and only been active for a couple of weeks or so

Finally watching Wonder Woman.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 11, 2018:

I recorded it last night but am waiting to watch with my granddaughter. The kids and I am very much into the super hero/mutant thing

Do you have a particular neighbor that can be annoying?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 10, 2018:

Not yet LOL I've had this house 3 years now and nothing is really bothering me. A few irritants here and there. Many years ago when I was young even more immature, I allowed myself to be drawn into a war with the neighbor one side. A pair of unsupervised teen age girls. And their unsupervised dog. I could write a short story about the back and forth with those two. Some of it tragic, some of it funny, most of it unnecessary but I was in my early 30's and going through a bad time. But there was this one thing: someone clued me that they were gonna egg my house. I had a small boat in driveway and had a dozen eggs sitting in it. For a couple of days. Here in south Florida. When the poor dumb boys they suckered drove up late that night, and pulled way up into the yard, and rolled down their windows, I threw my eggs into their car

Complications on points

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 10, 2018:

I think your stuff has to be reviewed by an admin. Points won't post until that happens.

Worst qualities

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 10, 2018:

I have a temper. And it ain't pretty.

What is the most outrageous or out-of-character thing you have done to get or keep a love interest?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 10, 2018:

Nothing. If they want to go, fuck 'em I did have someone pretend to have cancer in order to get me back. I didn't go back. Our friends tore me up for the callousness. Even my friends admitted it was kinda cold. Only one person had the decency to apologize when the truth came out.

Do your socks match? Always?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 10, 2018:

Yup but the grand-kids do not. It irritates my nearly OCD brain so much that I bought them new socks all the same color.

Can a moderate have a place in this agnostic site?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 10, 2018:

I call myself a progressive yet I would not support a ban on guns. I am also for the death penalty in cases where there is no doubt of guilt and little likelihood of rehabilitation. I'm talking serial killers and cold blooded murder here, not people convicted on the unreliable eye witness testimony. I am pro immigration and think the dreamers should stay but I also think immigrants need to learn English I support health care for all, affordable higher education, most social programs although I think soda, chips, candy etc should not be permitted on EBT but toilet paper and fem hygiene should. Pro choice, pro equal rights, pro marijuana I am not so sure that businesses should pay an 80% tax as much as the loopholes that allow them to pay NO tax should be closed. If they do business here, they need to be taxed here I'm sure I will think of the rest after hitting submit but you get the idea.

Does "TGIF" piss you off?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 9, 2018:

It reminds me that I work Saturday's

As agnosic/atheist, how would you want your funeral to go? I say throw a party for mine.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 9, 2018:

I plan to reside at a body farm.

Psychological Difference Between Liberals and Conservatives February 5, 2018 by Ed Brayton

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 9, 2018:

This is been my observation. I grew up in a politically conservative environment and the same people who use racist slang and denigrate super poor people will also donate their last $10 to a fund raiser for one of their own kind They will also babysit, give rides, and many other kind things which is probably why we can't get through to them about some issues. They really are "nice" people if you are one of them

Last part to my heart story.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 8, 2018:

Sounds a lot like survivors guilt to me. I survived cancer but there were others there that didn't. My boyfriend's mother was diagnosed with colon cancer a year before mine. I had a very curable form caught early so I came through easily and she died not long after my treatment in part because her medicaid kept refusing to pay her treatment and she stopped going because her kids were putting the treatments on credit cards. I felt some guilt because I had insurance and received top notch care All you can do is make the best of this second chance you have in whatever way you can.

POF - Plenty of Fish. Anyone familiar with it or use it? What are your thoughts on pof?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 8, 2018:

I'm on there but haven't found anyone worth meeting

What was your Facebook breaking point?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 8, 2018:

I still use facebook but have have cut way back by unfriending or unfollowing a lot of pages and people.

Which emotion is your greatest asset?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 8, 2018:

The fear I inspire in others lol

Who is one of your favorite mythical gods for entertainment purposes?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 8, 2018:

I've always liked Athena/ Diana because she was a strong woman

Anyone love their pets more than their extended family?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 7, 2018:

My ex complained that I loved my dog more than him. My reply was "I've had her longer" Still had her after he was history.

One of My Heroes just Died Ive been on Vacation this week.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 7, 2018:

:(

More Americans who consider themselves white are discovering they are part African through DNA tests...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 7, 2018:

My daughter has mixed race children- when she was pregnant with the second one her pos sire told her that she was a whore and disgusting and that if he could get away with it he would kill that fucking monkey (her son) His family comes from WV so I bought both of us DNA tests. My daughter is praying that mine has no african dna but hers does. Gotta admit if it does, I am gonna find a way to make sure he finds out. Fuck, I will take out a full page ad in his newspaper

In the nicest possible way is this just another 'piss up the wall' contest?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 7, 2018:

I reached my current level fairly quickly because I interact with the other users. I was getting tired of facebook and the same old shit and although I do not preach my non belief, I do get weary of being a rarity. Here I am not. True there are some people clicking like on everything to up their points but I would imagine it would get old quickly

I just love absolutely cheesy jokes.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 7, 2018:

What do you call a boomerang that doesn't return? a stick

What's your talent(s)?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 7, 2018:

Shhhhhh

Do you think you are well informed?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 7, 2018:

Probably not

Research suggests atheism will defeat religion by 2038 — myscienceacademy.org

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 7, 2018:

So our current political travesty is the death throes of religion? god I hope so LOL

I have to have a plumber come rescue me tomorrow and it's gonna cost $90 an hour.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 7, 2018:

Good thing I did call a plumber because I had to have a new faucet and he had to use a hacksaw to get the old off LOL The dishwasher is not a plumbing issue but he did tell me what it commonly is so I may be able to do that myself. The owner came out, spent half hour taking stuff apart and poking around and told me I needed new faucet after not being to replace cartridge since he didnt have one and I did not know the brand. Said to buy a moen and he would have his nephew come out and install it on the same service ticket. It was a mess under there from all kinds of jury rigging the previous owner's roommate's deadbeat son- a story for another time had done. Nephew is a a handyman on the side so after he finished we discussed the other stuff I want or need to do. When I opened the door I was shocked at how much he resembles my oldest son. I was charged for 1 hour of labor of $90. I did spend $208 on the faucet but it's a nice faucet and now I have a soap dispenser as well. Yeah sometime's it is the little things. Now if only a decent set of cabinets would fall into my lap. LOL

Is anyone else a nerd?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 7, 2018:

I'm more of geek with nerd tendencies :P

Can black people be racist?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 7, 2018:

I think a better word may be bigoted or prejudiced in which case, absolutely they can be. Two of my grandchildren have a black father and one has an Chinese mother. My asian grandson is only in kindergarten so hasn't been out and about enough to notice issues. Since I look younger, the black children are assumed to be my children and I have experienced bigotry from some black people but frankly, I receive more from white people.No doubt my daughter has had the same experience. But in all honesty, I tend to assume all rednecks are prejudiced despite being raised in that culture. Perhaps because of it because I used to be somewhat prejudiced and have said some fucked up shit when I was young

Really glad for this community.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 7, 2018:

History and other cultures Absolutely love both. I also geocache but it's not so interesting in my area. I did rent a jeep and cached in Cozumel and Grand Cayman although my daughter drove while I navigated so I got to experience history, culture and geocaching

I just got my first paycheck with the new tax cuts in effect.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 7, 2018:

For me it will be $4 a week or $208 per year. I can still deduct student loan interest and mortgage interest and but if my insurance premiums go up by 10% that will go down to about $1.60 or $83 per year. I have been feeling a bit of anxiety over what is to come and this $83 bucks is not gonna help me

I feel like the atheist community needs to do more charity work. Any suggestions?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 7, 2018:

https://foundationbeyondbelief.org/

I feel like the atheist community needs to do more charity work. Any suggestions?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 7, 2018:

Yeah, many smaller churches in small towns do a lot of charity work which actually does help people even if it is tied to religion. There are atheists and humanist presences on Kiva and the beyond belief foundation is another but my local humanist and atheist groups are so small that all monies collected go to operating expenses. They do some volunteer work- particularly the retired academics and teachers but they are all older so you won't find them building houses and such. I am looking for a charity to do volunteer work for and religion has that stuff locked down in my area My granddaughter had begged me to pay for her to join a running group that has a local chapter then decided not to because her friends decided not to. I called them and donated it to a child that has the desire and aptitude but lacks the funds. I never would have thought to do that had my granddaughter not pulled her little stunt. It didn't occur to me label myself as a humanist either but then again I was annoyed with my granddaughter soooooo. I think I will do that every year from now on and perhaps that is all that I can do in this area for now.

Who else will ignore Valentine's day?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 7, 2018:

As I am in retail, I am pretty cynical about what I call VD ayyyy My duties are inventory control/ pricing integrity related so I will be tasked with handling the markdowns. I will get the grandkids their favorite candy and they are fine with it because they understand that they get twice as much by waiting a day. My last 3 relationships which ranged over a 20+ year period were also in retail so even though we made token attempts, we were both of the same mindset I am one of those people that think if you have to be forced to show appreciation on a holiday, then your relationship has issues

A Southern custom no one, so far, has been able to explain to me. What are the rules?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 7, 2018:

Yes it is a southern thing and a sign of respect for people that too close for the formal Mrs/Mr/Miss Smith yet not a member of the immediate family. I've noticed that black people adhere to it more than whites do. For example, I have known my daughter's best friend who is 37 since she was about 12. She herself usually calls me mom but her children call me miss sherry. I would rather they call me just sherry but since I understand the why, I deal with it.

Have you ever been annoyed by a question or comment you received from religious people?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 7, 2018:

Most of it used to annoy me when I was younger but not it rarely does as I will attempt to get them to think about it. There are two things that spring to mind however that I find interesting. When I survived cancer, I hear a lot of god saved me for a reason. I typically respond with then god gave me cancer as well but I credit the cancer institute and well trained doctors for my cure. The other is "you believe we are descended from monkeys?" Whereby I respond with no, we share a common ancestor. Many of them look surprised and exhibit curiosity.

How old would you be if you forgot about your true age?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 7, 2018:

Damn, it's hard to say. I seemed to have become fearful about things I used to jump into- particularly if it is even remotely financial. On the other hand, I still think farts are funny and engage in very inappropriate humorous discussions at work.

Why is it when people who claim not to be religious still celibate religious holiday?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 7, 2018:

Christmas and Easter have become fairly secular, Halloween was never a christian religious holiday

Fellow sad singles, let's play a game.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 7, 2018:

I'm told I am have an intimidating and unapproachable demeanor. Even my boss is always asking why I'm pissed off when I am just focused on my task. I also think I look a little masculine and need to lose 50-60 pounds. I'm single because the people I'm attracted to either not attracted to me or are exactly like my ex's in which case, I do the running away But mostly I just do not meet many single people since I go to bed before dark and won't mess around with anyone connected to my job.

Do you invest in Bitcoin?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 6, 2018:

I have about 80 bucks in it. Similar amounts in Ehtereum and Litecoin

It's almost Valentine's Day and I haven't decided what to get myself.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 6, 2018:

Not sure yet but whatever it is will be purchased on the 15th at half price. I'll spend 600 bucks to take 4 people to visit a ruin but I aint paying full price for chocolate.

For those that are interested. These are some of my kaleidoscopes

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 6, 2018:

Love 'em. You on etsy?

So they ask about the possibility of "love" at this site.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 6, 2018:

So who is it?

Who had their infant child circumcised and why?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 6, 2018:

My son was circumcised in 1989 because it was the accepted practice and his father wanted it done.He was a preemie and it wasn't done until he was 6 months old and I very nearly backed out When my daughter in law was pregnant 6 years ago the subject came up and my son thanked me for following through. My oldest grandson was not circumcised when he was born in 1999 because his father was from Europe and not circumcised; my daughter wanted him to look like his father. There was a medical issue and he had to be circumcised when he was 3 and it was horrible for him.

I don't drink alcohol.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 6, 2018:

My father caught my brother and I trying to sneak a beer when we were around 5. He made us each drink an entire can. He was also a substance abuser. My brother and I never developed a taste for alcohol. When I was young and went to clubs, I had to drink stuff that masked the taste which are much more expensive. DIdnt take long for me to decide it was not worth it.

YAY!! With this one silly post, I bounded over the points to Level 6! Next stop - SuperUser of ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 6, 2018:

Im pretty close myself

Are you a Feminist? If so, what does it mean to you?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 5, 2018:

I thought I was until a couple of years ago LOL I have always felt that if a woman did the job as well as a man, she should receive the same pay for it. I didn't feel that it necessarily had to be the woman that always left work for a sick child. HOWEVER, I like for someone to hold the door for me and I will for others. I have reservations about women in combat yet I want them to be able to, etc.

SURGERY Getting right knee replaced 22 Feb.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 5, 2018:

Ive known several people that had their knees done and the only one that had problems was an opiate abuser before she had it done and therefor had a resistance to the pain meds. Just do the rehab properly. Good luck

Does this resonate with your own belief?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 5, 2018:

I have heard it said that believers can be humanists but I have never met one.

What would you do in this situation?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 5, 2018:

I don't know what I would do. I just want to say I'm sorry you're going through it.

If you could change your legal name easily and for free, would you? If so, to what?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 5, 2018:

Lucy Fehr I was named for the Franke Valley song and for some reason hated my name. Wanted Michelle for some reason. When I was a teen, people called me sher which also irritated me because Cher was a big thing at the time. I'm completely happy with my name now. I was barely 17 when my daughter was born and named her Misty which I regret although at 37 she says she is still fine with it. I had my next one nearly 10 years later so he got an adult sounding name of Mitchell and goes by Mitch. I use Lucy Fehr at work. Or Lucyfer

What types of things do you take note of and recall easily?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 5, 2018:

I memorize large volumes of info every week, flush it and memorize more. I think it is an innate skill because I excelled at it from the moment I started doing my current job which has been over 30 years. I heard somewhere that it is called working memory. As for personal life, I will either remember every detail or none of it. I'm not sure what criteria will ensure retention.

Are you good at small talk?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 5, 2018:

I can an do talk to strangers while standing in line. I am a pro at talking all the time yet saying nothing

Purpose

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 5, 2018:

I don't know anymore. I feel like I have no sense of purpose currently. I have always had goals and still do but my current goals are vague and I feel a sense of dissatisfaction with my life. I applied to help with an anti-poverty group on Friday despite not being able to attend their orientation due to work. Hopefully we can work something out since the way this group runs is in my wheelhouse. The grandkids Im helping to raise are becoming older and need less attention, I had few friends but have had to give up on them due to racist bullshit and I realize that I am likely depressed and lonely so do not want to make any life changes until I come out of it. To circle back to original question, I need to stop spending all my time online or watching tv from my bedroom and do something fulfilling.

Am I the only person who cares nothing for football?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 5, 2018:

Nope. Think the sports craze is ridiculous

What is your type?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 4, 2018:

So far my type has been recovering from something and sure I would keep them on the wagon which of course I failed to do. No commonalities in looks or even gender. None were unattractive in appearance and all were charming enough that I looked like the bad guy when it all went to shit. I have been single for about 7 years and my criteria is so specific now that I doubt I will ever be in a relationship again.

Being Completely Honest, Is There A Bible Or Cross Anywhere In Your Home Right Now?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 4, 2018:

A bible given to me by my grandmother. I was very young and listed the birth and death of my rabbit. Forgot I had it until a few months ago when I was going through a cedar chest and found it. My daughter was surprised and I told her she could have it but she is waiting to inherit the entire chest. Perhaps secretively hoping I will read or something. Reading the bible causes atheism lol

16 yrs ago today I quit smoking so every Superbowl It's celebration time.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 4, 2018:

I quit 8 or 9 years ago and do not regret it

It is said that "you don't get a second chance to make a first impression".

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 4, 2018:

Ive heard all my life that people thought I was arrogant. snobbish, bitchy, judgmental, stuck up, conservative, etc

Has anyone realised that the half way point between Levels 7 and 8 is almost the same as the half ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 4, 2018:

I kinda feel like the activities are worth more points once you reach level 5

What have you learned about yourself in the last year?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 3, 2018:

I've learned that busting my ass to leave a paid off house to my adult kid is insane. I need to enjoy my life while I still can and she can use the life insurance to pay it off. Or not. Won't matter cuz I will be dead.

What wildlife do you commonly see where you live?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 3, 2018:

Snowbirds

Why do so many people choose not to upload a profile pic?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 3, 2018:

Paranoia. My brother was murdered and according to my father, I was also a target.. The perp died in prison a number of years ago so I went back to my real name, moved back to the hometown and try to not be paranoid. Just cuz you're paranoid doesn't mean they're not out to get you

Krispy Kreme donuts are coming! The thing about that is, they will have one store to start with, ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 3, 2018:

I lived a mile from a Krisy Kreme for about 5 years. We gorged for about a year then ceased to even smell it anymore. But I really dug those caramel filled crunch things

What is your good news and bad news?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 3, 2018:

The good news is Im a home owner Bad news, it's a fixer upper Bad news II, I'm far less handy than I thought I was.

What's a good romantic gift someone could give you?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 3, 2018:

I'm in retail so I have a cynical view of Valentine's day and always have so I cannot think of anything to answer this question LOL

Soulmates

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 3, 2018:

Not really. I believe that we may find someone that we are compatible with but haven't most of us been the perfect for us person more than once in our lives? If soulmates were true then there would ever only be one. And I realize that there have been people that hit the jackpot and remained together for a lifetime but we don't truly know how happy they were inside.

It is my belief that slavery is alive, and more wide spread than any time in human history.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 2, 2018:

I disagree with what you consider slavery. Since your children cannot be sold, you are not a slave. Since you can choose to leave without being whipped or killed, you are not a slave

I get this all the time. Where do you find your morality if you don’t believe in god?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 2, 2018:

I found mine in a box of cracker jacks I have never been asked that question. I have gotten the what happens when you die a lot and the occasional what happened to make you angry at god stuff but never anything about morality.

Would you be afraid to spend a few nights in the Amityville horror house?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 2, 2018:

I voted no way because I thought I was clicking on nope, not scared. Have no idea how to change my vote

How many of us deal with anxiety and depression?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 2, 2018:

Being different from the norm can be isolating. One thing religion has going for it is the fellowship it inspires. Depression can manifest as anxiety or even anger

What countries have you visited, or would like to visit?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 2, 2018:

Belize, Mexico, Roatan, Grand Cayman, Jamaica via a cruise ship The first cruise I saw and climbed mayan ruins 3 out of 4 ports and will probably do so again On the second cruise we rented vehicles and geo cached. The inland side of Cozumel is wild and beautiful but no sandy beaches so almost no people were there. I want to go back to the above but my bucket list is Europe. Any country. All the country's LOL

Are you for tipping or anti- tipping syndrome?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 2, 2018:

I have friends that have been servers their entire lives and know a lot about how it works so I always tip well even if the service was less than stellar, I don't work on Thanksgiving- which I don't celebrate or Christmas but also do not wish to cook so I take my daughter and grand-kids to breakfast and daughter cooks a meal later. I have always felt torn about this practice because I feel like mothers are missing shit with their children so I tip insanely high on any holiday that I eat out on. If I go to Golden Corral, I tip 20 bucks. A few years ago my grandchildren peeked at the server as we left and were so happy with the servers reaction that they chip in if they have cash on them. It feels good and assuages my guilt LOL I have a friend that gets out a calculator and tips 15% to the penny no matter how the service was.

Are you for tipping or anti- tipping syndrome?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 2, 2018:

If you can't afford to tip, you shouldn't be eating out. Buy food and make your own meal

At a certain age, should people be re-tested for their ability to drive?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 2, 2018:

Absolutely yes they should be tested regularly after a certain age. My grandmother got cancer and gave hers up willingly when she became too sick to drive. I was Tboned 15ish years ago by a 74 year old woman who did not see my hunter green at 9am and rammed me right behing my seat with an ancient pontiac. Destroyed my car and I have permanent issues with my neck Last month a friend was side swiped by a 90 something old woman who never realized she had hit someone. Fell asleep while the cops were running her info. I hear stories like the above time and time again. My insurance company told me years ago that the elderly are the cause of most claims. Texting and driving have replaced that now I'm told

Just curious about political affiliation.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 2, 2018:

I consider myself a progressive and am registered NPA

If you've lost your parents, how much do you miss them?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 2, 2018:

My father died when I was 30 and I had not known him for most of my life anyway. Parents split when I was 6, saw him once or twice for a year then mom took us to Florida. Didnt see him again til I was 18. Had a falling out a few years later and didnt have contact until I was 28 My brother had died the year before with things unresolved between us so Dad and I were working on our issues but I have no idea how he would have felt.

I really hope this site keeps getting some advertisement and expansion.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 2, 2018:

Slim pickings around here too. Although I am open to dating, I didn't join for that reason. I joined because the local non religious groups are not comprised of people my age.

Volunteerism has always been an important part of my life, even after leaving religion it is remains...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 2, 2018:

I'm running into the same issue. There are plenty of environmental/nature things here in Florida that are not overtly religious but not much for helping people. There is no way I will escape the religious component completely because religious people do happen to volunteer but if they don't make god a part of their mission statement, I can deal.

So, I'm trying to buy a house for the first time.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 2, 2018:

I would think that a woman would be impressed by you taking care of your mother but then again I'm older and a large number of my generation are in a similar situation. As a woman I will say that if a girl would pass on you because you are helping your mother, she isn't worth bothering with. My ex bought a house for his parents although he also lived in it and although there were some issues we had to work around, I admired him for taking care of them. I second the granny flat idea if she is able to take care of herself but they are more expensive to buy- If you are going for new construction, dual masters are becoming popular

About you?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 2, 2018:

I'm extremely loyal; sometimes too loyal. It takes a lot for me to even see that I may have been betrayed then a bit more for me to acknowledge it. But once I do, I'm done. I rarely give a second chance Probably why I have no more close friends LOL

Where would you live?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 1, 2018:

I live in a coastal town less than 5 miles from the coast as the crow flies and about 7 to drive. I used to live on the beach many years ago and I loved it but I can't afford the insurance premiums to live out there any longer LOL I will probably never live more than an hour from the beach.

How many of you ignore use by dates on food?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 1, 2018:

Been several hours and I am fine.

You slept with how many?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 1, 2018:

I don't need to know how many sexual partners someone has had before I came into the picture. I appreciate experience and do not care where they got it. Fairly certain I would not answer such a question either.

Are you a member/supporter of a not-just-online freethought group?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 1, 2018:

I belong to both the Humanist and Atheist meet up groups with the Humanist one being an actual 501c but haven't attended a meeting in about a year. Most of them are in their 70's and up and the activities are rather sedate for me. I pay my dues however just in case.

Opinions, experience, thoughts wanted.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 1, 2018:

Pro tip (no not really) if you go to the beauty supply and buy the semi permanent grey hair dye liquid, your hair will become lavender. I don't photograph well when I'm trying to selfie right after daybreak while covered in bug spray and sweat

I need 6,649 more points to hit LEVEL 7.Should I offer sex or continue posting amazing questions?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 1, 2018:

I dunno. How good are you? LOL

Does anyone name their cars and trucks

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 1, 2018:

I had a 2000 Xterra- the first year they made them. I used to call it Ecksy When it was time to trade her in, I didn't care for the current model and had always wanted a pick-up so got a Frontier. I call it the very original and unique name of My Precious although is also referred to as my geomobile when around geo cachers.

What was one of your most embarrassing moments?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 1, 2018:

When I was 19ish, I threw a co-worker/friend under the bus to protect one that I was closer to. She was standing right behind without my knowledge and quit. Threatened to come back and beat my ass etc. For years I saw her around town and she would make a point of refusing to acknowledge me. It has been 35 years and I still feel bad about it but it has also kept me from doing it again

Is anyone else on this site asexual?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 1, 2018:

My sex drive is on the low side and I've wondered if I might be somewhere on the spectrum.

Have you ever been told you look like someone famous?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 1, 2018:

When I was young I looked like Joan Jett. Nowadays? Roseanne

I recently had a very in depth convo with a friend that has been my friend for over thirty years.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 1, 2018:

When my daughter started liking black boys as a teen, I was concerned because I knew it would make life difficult for her since we lived in a small conservative town. Perhaps the fact that I had been in a same sex relationship and suffered harassment for it primed me to be more accepting but I also like to think that I loved my daughter enough to be ok with whoever she ended up with Her father on the other hand called her horrible names and told her when she was pregnant with the second one that he would kill the fucking monkey if he could get away with it. Which is why I have previously said on a different thread that I would run him over if I could get away with it.

If you ever attended church, did you ever pay tithe?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 31, 2018:

As children we were each given a dollar to put into the plate which we did but I have never been in church as an adult except for a wedding or funeral. And cub scout meetings held in one during non hours so I have never given any of my own money to a church.

I just shared with a friend of 35 yr, that I am on Agnostic.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 31, 2018:

I had something similar happen. It sucks.

United denies woman's attempt to bring peacock onto flight - Business Insider

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 30, 2018:

I work in a retail grocery store and I have seen people bring their dogs in on a leash, in a purse, in their arms and sit them in carts, walk along the store getting in others path, urinating on the floor and in one case, I saw a woman pick up a package of chicken, let her dog lick it and put it back. I made a point of picking up the chicken in front of her and taking it away but shitgoddamfuck that pissed me off NONE of the above described animals had a vest on. What pisses me off is that we have a policy regarding non service animals which is clearly posted yet nobody has the sac to tell the customers they cant bring the dog in or at least not let them lick the damn food or piss on the floor. I can't believe some of the teacup varieties haven't been hurt by another shoppers cart

Does this bother you?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 30, 2018:

Im boycotting him. My daughter couldn't believe I refused a sub that was free simply because it would come from there. I said I have to be true to my moral code. I heard her muttering something as I walked away. As for the JJ founder- he is a pos. I am fine with food hunting but find trophy hunting disturbing and not very sporting. But taking your clothes off and dry humping a dead animal tells me he is one sick fuck

Would You Be Ok With Your Child Choosing To Be a Believer?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 30, 2018:

My adult daughter IS a believer and lives with me. So do 2 of her 3 children. My older son says he believes but I do not think so. My youngest son is openly atheist. I think my daughter barely believes and only clings to it because she had a still born daughter that she believes is in heaven and all her friends are believers. Her oldest son is 18 and is not a believer. I had said to her once that I thought her middle child would come out as one when he was older and her response was that it would be her youngest because and I quote " ,,, is like you, she likes science, experimenting and researching stuff" My daughter is sooooo close to being one herself LOL

What does it mean to you to forgive someone?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 30, 2018:

The short answer is "it depends" On what kind of relationship they have with me, what they did, how many times have they done it etc. Sometimes I forgive but cut off contact because either they are not important enough to me to bother giving them another chance or because they've hurt too much to give another chance. With others, the pain they caused fades away and I no longer think about it.

How Many Citizens Do You Have On Block?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 30, 2018:

Haven't been here long enough to run across anyone annoying?

Is it a good idea to date someone at work?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 30, 2018:

Been there, done that and somebody pays a price. The fact that our relationship started as a secret was exciting for a very short time. It created a dynamic that we never overcame in the 12 years we were together. I worked harder than I did before we were together and got no cudos, a raise or any other consideration for fear that when people found out, there would be accusations. I will not date anyone even remotely connected to my job which is in large part why I am still single years later because I do not have a schedule that is conducive to socializing