I don’t see any groups on the internet as groups of people, I imagine Agnostics.

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 20, 2019:

never know unless you share, as for care they may or may not. I do like how you put it as a building with many rooms and we chose what rooms we want to go into and see what and who is there.

This applies equally to critical thinking...

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 20, 2019:

We see what we want to see instead of what is really there.

That is how I like it

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 20, 2019:

Don't we all.

Resolved: That great intimacy is possible without sex, but great sex is not possible without ...

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 20, 2019:

I think either is possible. I have a person that I have the some of the best sex of my life with, we are not friend, or lovers, we just hook up now and than, we never contact each other unless it is to set up a play date, I know nothing of his life nor him mine. I have a FWB that we are very close and love each other very much and sometimes the sex is great and sometimes just ok, but always the intimacy between us is always great. I have friends that we have a very intimate friendship without ever having sex. I do think when we are deeply in love sex is only a part of our intimacy with that person, and like you said about your ex, when we lose all forms of intimacy in a relationship it falls apart and we fall out of love.

Just a fun song from Bone Poets Orchestra. Why Can't We Just [youtu.be]

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 20, 2019:

Would love to put that on my sound track for my erotica shop but I will not put on things that drop the "F" bomb. Great song, loved it.

I would love find someone with.

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 20, 2019:

Once aroused, soft and light, suck to hard press to hard can be painful and cause nerves to shut down instead of building up the pleasure. I would bet every woman is different as to how she likes oral.

I asked a couple people, both genders, about some sextual .

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 20, 2019:

I can see saying , thank you, as a way of being respectful to your offer even though she was not interested, if you were polite why not be polite in return. As for thanking men who do not send unsolicited dick picks or say crude things it does send a positive message that we respect men who respect us and lets men know and learn the correct way to communicate with us, positive reinforcement for good behavior.

We should be having sex. [newsweek.com]

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 20, 2019:

I know from my customers in my erotica shop that both couples and singles in their 80's are still having sex of some kind, I sell toys to both. They give me hope that just because you are older you do not have to give up on a sex life.

Beavers and wood [youtu.be]

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 20, 2019:

That was great!

Is it Kinky when it involves the Supernatural?

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 20, 2019:

They both are cons, this is a way that their followers will not lose faith in them so they can keep up the con.

What's the craziest place you have had sex in...?

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 19, 2019:

In a snow storm, wearing snow shoes. A friend bet me that I could not have sex wearing them, he lost.

What's the craziest place you have had sex in...?

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 19, 2019:

Out snow shoeing, we left our snow shoes on. A friend bet me I could not have sex wearing snow shoes.

On the Gypsy ... the Gypsy Queen ...

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 19, 2019:

Beautiful woman beautiful art.

Twisted reason strikes!

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 19, 2019:

I have a sticker on my frig kinda like this. ( a pro choice, anti abortion) It say " save a life suck a dick".

Hoping to have mine taken tomorrow

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 19, 2019:

A nice guy would hold her hair back for her.

[huffingtonpost.ca] More of a male or female activity? Would be an interesting study. ?

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 19, 2019:

I cannot say I have never done this.

How much is masturbation worth to you?

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 19, 2019:

The cost of a toy would be a whole lot less than the legal fees for this.

bike balls

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 18, 2019:

I have these on my bikes, they are fun.

45 has decided to give his State of the Union address from his favorite place!

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 18, 2019:

My first thought was from the john, in the middle of the night by tweet.

So much for the best part of waking up....

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 18, 2019:

Glad I am a tea drinker.

Meh, something about like that!

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 18, 2019:

Would this be so even for after sex cuddling?

When does the child mind grasp the concept of reality?

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 18, 2019:

I think it depends on the child. My first child was very smart and developed mentally early. As young as 6 she was testing us on things like Santa and the Easter Bunny. Buy 7 I think she knew it was not real. As early as 2 her favorite questions were, what is that? and why? to everything, she wanted to know everything about everything in her world. A child's reality is going to be much different than an adult's, their would is small and simple, it will not look anything like we think of as reality,

Isn't it just as bigoted to believe there isn't a god as believing there is one?

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 17, 2019:

I would think that would depend on whether you are Agnostic or atheist and are you unwilling to consider whether there could be. If you are intolerant of someone just because they believe different than you then maybe you would be perceived as a bigot in their eyes.

Who uses a Sex Swing? We love ours, so much fun...

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 17, 2019:

What kind do you have? Not only have I used them, but I sell them in my erotica shop. I like the ones more like a hammock over the ones that are straps, just more comfortable but much more expensive.

Having a little fun

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 17, 2019:

She must not of done her homework.

i once gave a blowjob for a cheeseburger

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 17, 2019:

I once traded my ex- husband blow jobs for every day he could go without smoking, up to 30 days. He did make the 30 days and yes I kept my end of the deal. He is non smoker now.

Couple Bringing Japanese Bondage to Art Classes This kinbaku dojo teaches rope tying, hosts life ...

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 17, 2019:

This is a good thing, they all have their element of consent needed for them and we know some are still confused as to what consent is.

No explanation needed.

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 17, 2019:

Oh I get that one, have done it many times.

Gloryhole under construction.

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 17, 2019:

That proposed hole is a little small.

When does the child mind grasp the concept of reality?

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 17, 2019:

Do we ever? look what site we are on, most believe in some kind of god, how is that grasping reality?

Just out of curiosity, how long does it take you to "finish".

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 17, 2019:

Depends on what you are talking about. Are you asking once there is penetration how long to finish? Or are you asking how long ones average sex last, from foreplay to cuming?

Anyone care to comment on how the Catholic Church ruins sex for members.?

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 17, 2019:

Most religions rule by fear and guilt but the Catholics are masters at it. They keep therapist in business.

Kinky, kind of...

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 17, 2019:

I think I will pass on that.

Always lovely when rather than being appreciated for your sexual deviancy, you are judged

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 17, 2019:

Be true to yourself.

Based on the amazing, simple face-sitting image posted by @Marcie1974 in the Deviants group the ...

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 16, 2019:

Nice job! you write very well.

Doesn't get much sexier or classier than this! [youtube.com]

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 15, 2019:

One beautiful sexy woman. She looks hot in her leather jumpsuit also.

It takes a minute to get there, give it time.

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 15, 2019:

All this is true but they left out the negative thing about house cats, they take a toll on the population of small birds. They have wiped out song birds populations all over the world. Yes cats love to hunt and kill but if humans did not keep them as pets and they were all just wild, they would also be hunted and their population kept in check. Checks and balances are hard to maintain when you through humans into the mix. Do not get me wrong, I love cats and have always had outdoor cats to keep rats and mice away, but I also know there is a flip side in doing so.

Swinging is great fun, so a Polyamorous group of people basically just want to keep it to themselves...

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 14, 2019:

I have been a swinger for many years and yes there is a big difference between poly and swinging. For me poly is about multiple loves, while swinging is multiple sex partners. I was lucky and found a poly lover in the swinging world. We are not the norm in swinging for sure but given the choice I will take poly over swinging every time.

What attire/appearance first sexually aroused you?

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 14, 2019:

I was turned on by the sexy looks of women long before men. Barbra Eden in I dream of Jeanie and Linda Carter in Wonder woman were my first female crushes and I am sure the outfits had something to do with it

What is your fave type of Porn?

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 14, 2019:

I like the older stuff because it is real sex, and some amateur is also. I like a mix of all subjects, as long as it is not the same old same old, girl blows guy, guy fucks girl in all kinds of non pleasurable to her positions and than cums on her face, that stuff is the worst.

Artistica Amazonia

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 14, 2019:

I like a softer look to a women curves.

SpaceX Laying Off 10 Percent of Its Workforce [space.com]

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 14, 2019:

I look at like this, maybe we should spend the time, money and science fixing the planet we already live on, than think about space.

Product review

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 14, 2019:

Most squirter's would not need the vibrator to do that, just a partner with strong fingers.

Yes this contract is done lol

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 14, 2019:

That cracked me up.

I recommend 2015 movie "The Pet".

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 14, 2019:

looks interesting, checked Netflixs and they do not have it. Do you know where it can be found?

Are emotion and motivation related?

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 14, 2019:

Most defiantly, have you or someone you know ever been depressed? Depression takes away motivation.

If you have difficulty with problem-solving or decision making then critical thinking can help, once...

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 14, 2019:

That is why I joined this group, to learn how to critical think.

R U in time out???

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 14, 2019:

Looks like she is thinking about what mischief is can get up to.

One of my favorites. Elle Johnson.

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 14, 2019:

The outfit she is wearing (naughty school girl) is the best selling fantasy costume in my lingerie shop.

“Earring” Magic Ken.

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 14, 2019:

if they put him out today, as gay Ken I bet it would sell, times have changed.

Greetings from a lifelong fan of stockings and suspenders! x

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 13, 2019:

Greetings, you must be a Brit, only they call them suspenders. Here in America we call them garter belts. : )

This just feels like an ideal place to share this, being recently returned from hospitals myself.

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 13, 2019:

Got to love John Cleese.

Sharing sweet intimacy in public in the grand fashion... Showing folks how it is done! [youtu.be]

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 13, 2019:

Nothing like connecting your heart connection with you dance moves and it shows. Beautiful.

I agree with this.

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 12, 2019:

That could be a positive thing, like waking the beast of passion in one.

Report on dating scammers! I just went back on Plenty of Fish, and I have the latest updates on ...

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 12, 2019:

Thanks for the heads up, I am also on POF but so far have not been contacted by any scammers. Lots of men just looking for hook ups.

Seeing how many beautiful people met anyone in person?

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 12, 2019:

From other sites yes, new this site and not many people on here that live close where I do.

This is so desperate dehumanizing and the end of western civilization.

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 12, 2019:

They have been available for men for 20 years, why not for women also? I could also see both the male and female dolls, being used in sexual therapy also.

It’s Clearer Than Ever: Civilization Can Only Choose Socialism Or Barbarism [ghionjournal.

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 12, 2019:

I feel that this capitalist system in America is a form of barbarism. When you enslave the poor by the wealthy and the poor have no rights or a way to change this because the government is controlled the wealthy, how is that not barbaric.

As atheist and agnostics what in your opinion is the odds of there being a afterlife ?

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 12, 2019:

None!!!

What do you believe in?

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 12, 2019:

The cycle of life, mother nature. When we are long gone the earth will cleanse it's self and life will continue without us. In the grand scheme of things, we humans are pretty insufficient.

I may leave this group and I may stop posting anything about sex.

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 12, 2019:

Do not give him that much power over you, report and block.

Time for me to take a break from posting memes and ask a question instead.

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 11, 2019:

Depends what the goal is, if I want to hold off from cuming to soon, than I like standing doggie style. If the guy is taller than me, that has to be done with me wearing 6" heals. If I am ready to get off than cowgirl always seems to work.

Rihanna speaks to my heart [youtube.com]

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 11, 2019:

I love giving a flogging to this, great rhythm and lyrics.

THAT got me breathing heavy!

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 11, 2019:

The longer things build the better the orgasm.

I'm getting drunk tonight!! ? Pick one...

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 7, 2019:

I think I would go on a binger and have too much of each for 9 nights in a row. Why have only one?

Very true words.

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 7, 2019:

This should be true, but women are told staring at a very young age not to satisfy this appetite and when we do we are judged for it.

I feel that this video lends further support to the position that a utopian setting needs to revolve...

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 6, 2019:

Interesting. I took it more like with everything provided for them, each generation lost it's survival drive, and the more generations born the more this was lost, they no longer had a purpose in life. Would of been interesting to see if he stopped providing their every need or how often they were met if it would of reversed.

A thought just came across my mind looking back at many failed romances and even friendships.

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 5, 2019:

I would not say a lot of people are superficial, rather a lot of people have their own hang ups and insecurities that they do not know how to let the other person in. It is like the difference between having small talk with someone compared to having a deep conversation. Some people go through life never letting anyone truly know them and in that they never know real intimacy. I think it takes both for real intimacy, if one sided the one doing all the giving and is getting nothing back, that is not intimacy.

I've noticed some of these points to be true about decent women having a hard time finding solid ...

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 5, 2019:

We all want to be accepted for who we are and loved without having to change for someone. The problem I have had dating is not so much finding men to date but that they hide who they really are and what they want for a very long time. My last relationship the man hid his bad habits, true fitness and what he was really like in bed until we lived together. Once living together I was in a relationship with a completely different person, so say the least we no longer are together. For all you men who think they are what the women in the article want, show your true self from the beginning so you can be loved and accepted for the real you.

Love Us for Our Minds...

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 5, 2019:

The brain is the largest sex organ, turn that on and you turn the rest of her on.

I'm not sure what a real relationship is like - but this might be a start.

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 5, 2019:

It is just being respectful.

Ok ladies...What say you?

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 5, 2019:

What is kink to one is vanilla to another.

She said..."Cross my heart"...and he obliged....

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 5, 2019:

Beautiful rope work.

NAME A KINK. New shenanigans. (Remember "kinky" is very flexible and subjective.)

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 5, 2019:

Folgging

A question for the ladies.

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 5, 2019:

I have kissed a few men and women in my life. I do not think it has anything to do with one's sex. I find good and bad on both sides, I think it is more like, do they kiss you the way you like to be kissed. The way one person kisses you and you hate another will love how they kiss.

I'm a widow and I'm not planning to take off my wedding ring.

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 3, 2019:

You reach out to who you are interested in, they will not care about the ring. My advise as a woman is be very careful, there are a lot of dangers out there. Always have a friend you let know you are meeting someone. First meets should always be in a public place. Have a plan if things are not going well, go to the restroom and text your friend to call you and make up something so you have to leave. Never ride with them in their car, take your own and fallow them to where this play is going to take place. Let your friend know where that will be and set a time that you are going to call her and check in, no text, to easy that that could be from someone else. Take the mans picture and a picture of his license plate, if he is not ok with that than do not go any place with him. Add please use condoms, always! Stay safe and have fun.

When a guy wants an open relationship and doesn't consider you a girlfriend, but still wants the ...

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 3, 2019:

A open relationship, is still a relationship, if he does not see you as a girlfriend than he is a player, not in a open relationship. Good for you for drawing the line. Even FWB is a friendship and friendship is a type of relationship. Everyone must be on the same page as to what that is and all be kind and respectful.

Here's another one.

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 3, 2019:

I took the time to fill out an extensive profile on a dating sight and have found 99% of people do not take the time to read it. I get contacted by men that would never match up with what I am looking for or even have anything in common with. Most of the time I just delete their message, but if they put some effort into the message I will reply that sorry we are not a match.

I have just started using internet dating.

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 3, 2019:

I was married to a Christian man for 34 years, it never was a problem. We both felt strongly on our beliefs but respected the others views. It was the only thing we did not see eye to eye on. As long as you have many other beliefs and interest in common I do not see why if you wanted to make it work, you could. It all comes down to respect. I would ask, how religious are they and would they date someone who is not, never hurts to ask.

For the non-monogamous minded: "How long should you date someone before you meet their spouse?

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 3, 2019:

As someone who was in a open marriage for a few years, and also did swinging for 12 years, You never have a date, or open relationship without meeting all involved. I need to be able to confirm that all are truly in an open relationship and how stable that relationship is. Drama is the last thing you want.

Have you ever done this for your male partner?

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jan 3, 2019:

I have done this with a number of partners. All loved it and had the most intense orgasms, full body, shaking and sometimes with multiple ejaculations . They definitely came back for more.

Anal Sex: For You Men.

Mermaidfantasy comments on Dec 20, 2018:

I know this post was for the men in the group, but can a woman who gives advice on this almost everyday say something. I own a erotica shop and anal is the one thing that I get asked about the most. For all you men who say, no way, never going to happen, do not knock something until you try it. When done correctly, a prostate massage can give you the most intense orgasm of your life. Two fingers pressing on the right spot is all it takes. I have had the honer and pleasure to give 5 men their first prostate massage, all loved it and either asked for it again or asked me to teach their primary partner how to do it. Try it, you'll like it!