Candy corn, yes or no?

Nukdookum comments on Oct 13, 2018:

It's ok. Is "Meh" an option?

Grrrrrrrr!

Nukdookum comments on Oct 13, 2018:

Great foot shot. I love the stockings and the toe rings. I'd hang out with this person.

God's twitter feed.

Nukdookum comments on Oct 13, 2018:

Acknowledging that you have a problem is the first step...

What may anyone here think about the aspect of hookups if one's partner is sexless?

Nukdookum comments on Oct 13, 2018:

As long as everyone involved knows what is happening and has consented to it, then by all means. Love isn't a zero sum game.

Do you have that one friend?

Nukdookum comments on Oct 12, 2018:

I don't have any friends like that. I must be that friend!

I had a lunch date.

Nukdookum comments on Oct 12, 2018:

What bad luck. This guy must be special if you're distracted enough to bite your lip.

Introducing Aquatic Performer Marina MeduSirena™.

Nukdookum comments on Oct 12, 2018:

We need more mermaids!

So I was thinking (insert appropriate dig).

Nukdookum comments on Oct 12, 2018:

I don't leave my troubles on social media.

What would you say?

Nukdookum comments on Oct 12, 2018:

I usually go with "Tell your mother thanks for me."

Today, I would like to suggest a movie adapted from a HP Lovecraft story starring Jeffery Combs (one...

Nukdookum comments on Oct 12, 2018:

I love this movie!

Ha! Funny and so true!!!

Nukdookum comments on Oct 12, 2018:

Thank the Fates I've never broken one of those.

This makes me so sad. And angry for those women who see themselves as dependent on men. [nyti.ms]

Nukdookum comments on Oct 12, 2018:

My heart goes out to those who have just given up and think that it is their place to be mistreated by men. I can't make them see the light, but I can still care about their well being while they live in the darkness.

He did a poor job of handling abuse but he is a role model for Catholic Clergy? [nyti.ms]

Nukdookum comments on Oct 12, 2018:

One of the many reasons I hate organized religion.

Yesterday was the first time I came out as bi.

Nukdookum comments on Oct 12, 2018:

Some men can be assholes.

What do you do when you are smitten with someone that lives in a town that isn't yours and you want ...

Nukdookum comments on Oct 12, 2018:

Use your words.

Q: What can women put behind their ears that make them irresistible to men? A: Their legs

Nukdookum comments on Oct 12, 2018:

I prefer the intellect behind their ears to make them irresistible to me.

A girl has needs! ?

Nukdookum comments on Oct 12, 2018:

Sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do!

Is this what you want.

Nukdookum comments on Oct 12, 2018:

That's getting closer..

So i still need to come up with a punishment for myself because of my indiscretion the other night.

Nukdookum comments on Oct 11, 2018:

Is the goal to receive punishment or is the goal to modify behavior? Depending upon the answer there are a few options to choose from.

Do that thing you do .

Nukdookum comments on Oct 11, 2018:

I touch oh so gently with my finger tips, tracing the outlines of a body and seeing what gets the best reactions and noises. I will use the palm of my hand for a much higher skin touching ratio along thighs, hips, buttocks, sides, and yes sometimes even breasts. I like to barely touch skin with my lips, the most sensitive part of my body, to taste and smell the unique odor of my partner. Nibbling and using fingernails to delicately trace symbols on pure skin areas to "mark" for a few hours that I was there. In return I like all of that same stuff but what drives me wild is the feel of sharp nails either lightly scraped across skin or digging in so that they leave a thin red welt in their wake. Teeth is also a turn on for me. Being bitten playfully anywhere is always fun foreplay and there are certain areas that I love having bitten hard. Yeah, like that only harder. OK almost, just a little bit harder. OK YES, like that.

Well, I see that GOD is up to no good once again.

Nukdookum comments on Oct 11, 2018:

People have way too much time on their hands and need to stop worrying about anyone else living their life peacefully.

Cheating everywhere! Even wine masters! And I can not imagine spending that much time doing this.

Nukdookum comments on Oct 11, 2018:

I know it's impressive to show off skills but I have never really understood the motivation behind cheating was. Sure you may truck everyone else but you know. In the end you have to live with yourself and your own self worth is really what's important.

If it is not a fit.

Nukdookum comments on Oct 11, 2018:

So much this! It can be devastating when you have invested so much and believe in the relationship, but in the end, it cannot possibly be the relationship that you think was going to be if the other person simply doesn't want it.

The best thing in life is ......?

Nukdookum comments on Oct 11, 2018:

YES!

I was chatting with a guy tonight and he said he has a FFM threesome fantasy, but would never ...

Nukdookum comments on Oct 10, 2018:

That attitude is unfair and shows an underlying feeling of insecurity. It is ludicrous to think she might leave you for "him" but would never leave you for "her". I know too many people that have had that exact thing happen to them. If you are secure that she (or he) isn't leaving, then it doesn't matter who the third is in the three some.

So I have a question. What, to you, makes a good dating profile?

Nukdookum comments on Oct 10, 2018:

It's personal. Each and every person is unique and I tend to like different aspects of different profiles.

Resonate with anyone else?

Nukdookum comments on Oct 10, 2018:

Those are the best things to wear. I really appreciate folks who are genuine and seem to be mostly happy. If you are wearing these things and becoming happy with yourself and your life, then I am likely going to want to hang out with you because I like being happy too.

Hi I'm Natalie from Nashville it's nice to find this site and past time for my coffee

Nukdookum comments on Oct 10, 2018:

Welcome Natalie.

What are your feelings about "Friends with Benefits"?

Nukdookum comments on Oct 10, 2018:

It is amazing. Obviously some folks are not cut out for that sort of relationship and should follow their hearts. To me it is fairly simple. When one is dating early in the relationship it is pure folly to think that just because you went to dinner a couple of times that person isn't also going to dinner with other "potential" long term mates. It is also pure folly to think that if the dating results in a sexual encounter or two that the other person isn't also having sexual encounters with other potential long term mates. Only when the relationship progresses to the "I think we should be exclusive" stage is it normal then to think that sex is only happening with you. Therefore, since it is perfectly normal to be non-monogamous during the early stages of dating, it can also be perfectly normal to be non-monogamous in ones friendships right up until the point of reaching that point of "This is the one for me" with someone who is a potential long term relationship partner. Obviously, in poly situations the friends with benefits or even multiple boyfriends/girlfriends can exist long after that point as well. What matters is the strong bond between the partners which fosters a feeling of security and comfort. It is also key to be able to separate the physical need of sex from the emotional need of companionship.

Learn How To Walk Away

Nukdookum comments on Oct 10, 2018:

This is hard to do but it is necessary.

Someone will come along ?

Nukdookum comments on Oct 10, 2018:

Wait for it...

Guys don't like being called dude?

Nukdookum comments on Oct 9, 2018:

To my knowledge no. Though I use "Dude" so maybe they don't want to tell me that it isn't appreciated.

This is by far the scariest thing. And we may never recover from it. [nyti.ms]

Nukdookum comments on Oct 9, 2018:

You post the most interesting articles.

A friend said something tonight and I Googled it.

Nukdookum comments on Oct 9, 2018:

Open and honest communication is key to getting along with people even when you disagree. I practice that as often as I can.

When Someone Cares For You Count Your Blessings

Nukdookum comments on Oct 9, 2018:

I love this. I live this. Sometimes it is harder to find understanding, independence, and forgiveness, but with practice I have found that they always come when needed.

It’s never too late to suggest changing things up, and it can be done without hurt feelings.

Nukdookum comments on Oct 9, 2018:

I would try harder..I mean I do want my partner to be as happy as they want to be.

FUBAR: fu-bar.

Nukdookum comments on Oct 9, 2018:

I also like SNAFU. "Situation Normal, All Fucked Up"

POIGNANT: poign-ant.

Nukdookum comments on Oct 9, 2018:

It was such a poignant moment as I stood and watched her drive out of my life for good.

I'm pretty damn strong.

Nukdookum comments on Oct 9, 2018:

I am certainly feeling this one the past few weeks. Thankfully though I think I am on my way to being my happy go lucky self again.

So fellow deviants,I'm wondering what your opinions are.

Nukdookum comments on Oct 9, 2018:

I know a few people that may have learned to equate love with pain due to disciplinarian parents, though as a sample size those people are are a mere 2-3% of the local community here. I know of a lot more who suffer from body wide chronic pain and use the endorphin high which comes from BDSM play to relieve that pain without resorting to heavier medication. For me personally it is about self discovery. I want to experience things and it doesn't matter how twisted they are. What I like is discovering how my body reacts to each new stimulus. I have learned so much about myself and my sexuality by exploring all of that with very good friends and mentors.

Zloty: a unit of currency in Poland, which incidentally is a valid word in Scrabble.

Nukdookum comments on Oct 9, 2018:

Oh, this one I did not know.

Coimetromania.... that's me, who else?

Nukdookum comments on Oct 9, 2018:

I love them, and find that visiting them give me a sense of history. Reading the epitaphs and wondering at the lives that were lived which were then summed up into that one simple phrase..it is very peaceful and gives me a sense of just how unimportant the things which cause me stress really are.

So.

Nukdookum comments on Oct 9, 2018:

I've never met my father's side of the family except for my grandmother, his mother. He was an asshole who left but Grandma was pretty cool. I did like some of my mother's family but they are most definitely the more fake in my opinion.

It's cuffing season!

Nukdookum comments on Oct 9, 2018:

It sucks. I don't like Red Lobster, I'm a vodka drinker, not tequila, I prefer Regal. Thankfully there are haunted houses for me to entertain myself!

Ok, let's say you meet someone and you two hit it off.

Nukdookum comments on Oct 1, 2018:

If I am so in love that I think they are the one? I will give them whatever they want, even if that costs me something that I may want.

Music to the ears

Nukdookum comments on Oct 1, 2018:

All the time.

A relationship with someone ❤❤❤

Nukdookum comments on Oct 1, 2018:

Amen!

this sums up my life

Nukdookum comments on Sep 28, 2018:

I do feel this way at times. But since I always find the positive in things, like Olnoseven said, at least I am watching the orgy!

My insomnia had been a little better now.

Nukdookum comments on Sep 28, 2018:

I hope you find ways to fall asleep. Lack of sleep can be devastating.

Pays to know what we are thirsting for.

Nukdookum comments on Sep 28, 2018:

Yeah, you gotta recognize lies just like you need to read the truth when necessary. Matters of the heart are difficult to navigate but with a little practice you can learn to make things work no matter what the situation.

And that makes all the difference.

Nukdookum comments on Sep 28, 2018:

Truth!

No means No and it doesn't matter why either person says those words, No Means NO.

Nukdookum comments on Sep 28, 2018:

I can't agree more. No means no. There is never any reason to violate someone's consent.

Could a Cock ring be responsible for a UTI and and suggested types?

Nukdookum comments on Sep 28, 2018:

Anything which isn't clean and comes into contact with the urethra could be the cause of a UTI. I haven't any suggestions on a type, just use one that fits, is comfortable, and does what it is supposed to.

That's how it works now

Nukdookum comments on Sep 20, 2018:

I love my computer because it allows me to watch porn for free when I can't sleep

Do other people have tiny little frogs sticking to their windows at night or is it just me? Lol...

Nukdookum comments on Sep 20, 2018:

They heard about your legs and couldn't believe it.

I didn't know the proper group for this.

Nukdookum comments on Sep 20, 2018:

I would pass someone whatever they wanted. My hope is that if I ever find myself in a similar position of extreme need, I would want someone else to take pity on me. So yeah.

Everyone hug your loved ones tight and kiss your babies as much as you can.

Nukdookum comments on Sep 20, 2018:

Cherish every day, even the bad ones. They are all precious.

Who are 3 of your favorite movie actresses?

Nukdookum comments on Sep 20, 2018:

Noomi Rapace Pauley Perrette Helen Mirren

La Cage Aux Folles 1978.

Nukdookum comments on Sep 20, 2018:

Sadly no.

Name two things that go together?? EX: witches and black cats

Nukdookum comments on Sep 20, 2018:

Latex and baby powder.

Have you ever felt like your life was a book written in a language you don't understand?

Nukdookum comments on Sep 20, 2018:

At times. I'm good at translating though.

Over five times and still entertained???

Nukdookum comments on Sep 20, 2018:

Arthur with Clive Owen. Troy with Brad Pitt, The matrix, Deadpool, and Little Shop of Horrors come to mind off the top of my head.

Just how freaky are you?

Nukdookum comments on Sep 20, 2018:

12,800. Not much considering the things I've done.

Why not both?

Nukdookum comments on Sep 19, 2018:

Bondage isn't enough, I need pain...because feeling pain is better than not feeling anything at all. Or so I've heard.

Ok, so no more politics or religion.....does this mean we can talk all we want about SEX?!!! LOL

Nukdookum comments on Sep 19, 2018:

Perhaps. I think there are things in that realm that cannot be talked about either, but I do have a fairly wide definition of what constitutes sexual activity.

What is Love?

Nukdookum comments on Sep 19, 2018:

I believe all of this. One day I may even find it. Pandora is my hero, for of all the things that she let out fo the box, she also gave us HOPE. I cling to hope as if it were a security blanket. It doesn't shield me from the pain, but it does give me the strength to carry on, move forward, and find the beauty in the world despite any pain that I might be feeling at the time.

Last Friday I joined another dating site.

Nukdookum comments on Sep 19, 2018:

Good luck!

This past summer, my 12 year old granddaughter wanted to share “the greatest showman” with me.

Nukdookum comments on Sep 19, 2018:

I liked that movie too. I have some friends who are disenfranchised who did not like it. I'm glad that it is at least having a positive effect on some people and opening eyes to the struggles of being different and needing love. I thought the singing and dancing were very engaging as well.

Creature features are my jam.

Nukdookum comments on Sep 19, 2018:

I'm a fan of the old black and white movies. Karloff, Lugosi, Chaney. I will have to say that Creature from the Black Lagoon is my favorite.

So...who here has a Fetlife profile...I do.

Nukdookum comments on Sep 18, 2018:

I do. I am not active on it and almost never check it for messages. I used to use it more back when I was more involved with the local community but right now I just kinda have my friends, go to the parties I find out about via word of mouth, and engage other friends when I need to "exchange services" shall we say.

Table for one.

Nukdookum comments on Sep 18, 2018:

Needs a mirror.

So true! I feel this way every night!

Nukdookum comments on Sep 18, 2018:

I feel that way about some of my friends, so yeah I get this.

"I'm so glad to have an average size, average shaped penis".

Nukdookum comments on Sep 18, 2018:

I can't change it so I won't worry about it. The only thing which matters is whether my partners enjoy it. If for some reason they do not, then they don't have to be my partner.

Yes indeed, how about you? ???

Nukdookum comments on Sep 18, 2018:

Yes, this I would do.

If you're a reader or someone who thinks too much, is that a requirement for dates?

Nukdookum comments on Sep 18, 2018:

I would walk away at that point, but I have high standards. Some might even say too high. So do what you will, they are your standards and you get to decide where that line is. Perhaps it won't last long, but it could last long enough...

Space Movie??? ?

Nukdookum comments on Sep 18, 2018:

Dark Star. I loved that the bomb was afraid to die.

Do Guys Like Girls That Can Take Charge?

Nukdookum comments on Sep 18, 2018:

Yes. Sometimes she could even take charge of me.

Guys, during oral sex, how do you feel about her gently using her incisors to stroke the edge of ...

Nukdookum comments on Sep 18, 2018:

Gently? Always! Somewhat aggressively? Yes please. You wanna stop mid stroke and bite down on it? I will love you forever! Yeah. I know. I am a freak. Please don't judge.

WHIGMALEERIE, WHIGMALEERY. - Noun (Scottish)....a trinket, a knickknack.

Nukdookum comments on Sep 18, 2018:

Ohh a new word for my vocabulary.

I gota say the worst part about this night shift buisness is everyone asleep and here i am bored out...

Nukdookum comments on Sep 18, 2018:

I have found that to be true. It is rare to catch anyone awake and online at the same time as when you are bored in the middle of the night.

Since this was brought up today, this is how I feel about being a submissive.

Nukdookum comments on Sep 18, 2018:

What a beautiful sentiment.

Heh heh...

Nukdookum comments on Sep 18, 2018:

This is funny!

New here! I’m kind of a closeted atheist with some family and friends.

Nukdookum comments on Sep 18, 2018:

I will always be polite when the other person is being polite to me. I don't care what words they use, the intent is there. If instead they are wanting to change me, then I have no desire nor obligation to be polite.

When you are out and about and come across someone you find attractive.

Nukdookum comments on Sep 18, 2018:

I prefer the good old fashioned "Hello, my name is ..." approach.

Has anyone had the pleasure of seeing this movie about a Serb and a Bosnian stuck in the middle?

Nukdookum comments on Sep 18, 2018:

I really liked the message this movie sent. It was a great movie.

The best feeling is.....?

Nukdookum comments on Sep 18, 2018:

YES! This is one of the best things in the world.

Things Men Do To Upset Women? What Do You Think?

Nukdookum comments on Sep 18, 2018:

Lies. This meme is misleading.

I'm feeling very oral today! ? The line starts here...

Nukdookum comments on Sep 17, 2018:

*Gets in line*

Glabrous: (adj) Smooth and hairless "My, aren't we looking glabrous this evening, my dear.

Nukdookum comments on Sep 17, 2018:

I'm using this in the future. My goal is to work this into a conversation sometime today.

Rough or gentle?

Nukdookum comments on Sep 17, 2018:

Gentle. I'm very fragile right now.

NEFARIOUS - Adjective...(typically of an action or activity) wicked or criminal; villainous

Nukdookum comments on Sep 17, 2018:

I decided to meet her anyway, despite her nefarious intent.

We haven't had one of these for a while now, we are way overdue.

Nukdookum comments on Sep 17, 2018:

I'm sticking around just to piss you all off!

Stop thinking about my penis.

Nukdookum comments on Sep 17, 2018:

I've tried but I'm addicted. What can I say?

Exercise your right

Nukdookum comments on Sep 17, 2018:

If they all voted the same way.

Up pretty late, sitting in my hotel room in Cambridge (mildly depressed, but mostly just overheating...

Nukdookum comments on Sep 17, 2018:

Very nice story.

When do you ask or tell a new partner that you have some kinks, fetishes, or whatever the new lingo ...

Nukdookum comments on Sep 17, 2018:

When I feel the time is right. IF I met her at a fetish club, it's pretty obvious. If I met her on FetLife, also pretty obvious. If I met her somewhere else, then I wait until she brings it up. Before you ask "what if she never brings it up?", if the subject isn't breached in the first two dates, then there isn't a third. I will tell her at the end of the second date that I don't think it will work. When she asks why I tell her that I don't want to corrupt her. If one day she shows up at the club on her own then maybe she will get a second chance. Yup, I'm harsh like that because I ain't got time for that.

CASTIGATE: cas-ti-gate.

Nukdookum comments on Sep 17, 2018:

I am getting bolder at doing it to check male privilege.

Please describe your worst sexual encounter.

Nukdookum comments on Sep 17, 2018:

I was going to have a threesome with a woman I had been dating a few months and my best friend. The friend and I had often talked about threesomes. He liked nice boobs, not overly large but large on her frame. I on the other hand am an ass man. I like the curvy hips. So we would say that we were the perfect wing men, we always wanted the "friend" because it's hard to find a woman with both curves and perky larger breasts. That was our unicorn which we called a "high-fiver" because in a threesome I got the ass, he would get the mouth and the boob end, and we would share amicably. Well this woman that I had met, was a high-fiver. And, she was also down for the opportunity when I approached her with the idea. Damn I loved that woman. So the day comes. My friend and I meet her at her apartment. We are all hanging out in the living room chatting and getting to know if there is enough chemistry to make this thing happen. There was..so clothes came off and we started to get aroused. She was sucking him, I was watching her suck him off with her ass towards me, it was fucking hot. Live action porn. Sadly, my penis had stage fright that day. Something about being naked with my friend for the first time made it weird and I couldn't get it up. In the end he sat on the couch while she kissed him and I tried fruitlessly to make anything happen on my end. She got down on her hands and knees again and started blowing him while I licked her from behind. They both came. Then she turned around to kiss me and surprised me with a snowball, which was kinda nice. I had confessed to her earlier that I liked my friend and would have blown him myself but he was definitely a woman only kind of guy. The only touching he was ever interested in during a threesome was the aforementioned high-five. Later, when I was able to coax semi-consciousness outta the little guy, we got back into position, me entering her from behind and her on his cock so that we could high five over her back. So sorry if that isn't seen as a "bad" encounter by many here, but it was my "worst" so that's what I wrote about.

Would you ride o on the back of an elephant in the jungle of Africa?

Nukdookum comments on Sep 17, 2018:

Great question.

What's your favorite? ???

Nukdookum comments on Sep 17, 2018:

Scaring the children and giggling maniacally at the thought of the therapy that their parents will have to pay for. No seriously, the costumes and being able to dress up.