I've been a widower since 2007 and retired since 2009 (officially). I have one daughter and two grandchildren.
I don't do birthdays but supply cakes around the relevant part of the year because I never refuse cakes when offered.
I don't have pets but don't object to stroking other people's. (Providing they don't slobber, bite or scratch.)
I try not to watch too much television and enjoy going to the theatre now and again. The last thing I saw was 'The Peter Pan That Went Wrong" in London. (unbelievably funny)
My moral direction can be summed up in one sentence: "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you".
I do have subclauses to deal with those whose direction is not the same, but I keep those hidden until needed.