Hey.. So who exactly is the "cabal" everyone keeps talking about? ?

Stacey48 comments on Feb 22, 2019:

You do realize that simply by joining this group, we have established a "cabal", right? Cliques are formed to establish power, even by those who by a communities, or societies, standards are seen as powerless and lacking in value or contribution. Most members of a cabal cannot stand themselves, or ...

Sticks48 replies on Feb 25, 2019:

@CaroleKay Lets not skip over the naked so fast. ;)

Science Britches....

EyesThatSmile comments on Feb 25, 2019:

He works in mysterious ways. Or so somebody still believes...

Sticks48 replies on Feb 25, 2019:

So they say, so they say.

Sleep study??

Sticks48 comments on Feb 24, 2019:

Been there done that for a month back in the nineties. At least it felt that way. :)

Sticks48 replies on Feb 25, 2019:

@Sheannutt No shit.

When are we going to get these religious assholes out of our lives.

SassyLady comments on Feb 23, 2019:

Because Kraft is a criminal? Sex trafficing is illegal. Do you really think saying prostitution is the oldest profession makes it ok? Men seem to think it's their "right" to use women however they want. I personally can't imagine wanting to have intercourse with a person who had serviced, that's...

Sticks48 replies on Feb 25, 2019:

@SassyLady I said you were making up what I said. You really can't read. I don't know who you are. I don't care who you are. I am sorry you have had such a bad life, but I had nothing to do with it. I get so tired of the general attacks on men from women like you. Whomever you were with was your choice. The women I have been with were my choices. I never blame other folks for my decisions. People who do that just don't want to be responsible for their choices. If it was a mistake, it was no ones fault but mine, just like all of the other decisions I have made and will continue to have to make.

Sleep study??

Sticks48 comments on Feb 24, 2019:

Been there done that for a month back in the nineties. At least it felt that way. :)

Sticks48 replies on Feb 25, 2019:

@Sheannutt It got pretty fucking old pretty fucking fast. :)

Men say women should come with instructions.

A2Jennifer comments on Feb 22, 2019:

The whole trope of “women are so hard to understand” is mostly an excuse for men who make no effort to listen to or understand their partner.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 24, 2019:

@A2Jennifer I clearly stated no right or wrong and no good or bad, just different. Pay attention. If you want to fight you need to join Keith's new group.Over there you can have at it, no holds barred. :) k

When are we going to get these religious assholes out of our lives.

SassyLady comments on Feb 23, 2019:

Because Kraft is a criminal? Sex trafficing is illegal. Do you really think saying prostitution is the oldest profession makes it ok? Men seem to think it's their "right" to use women however they want. I personally can't imagine wanting to have intercourse with a person who had serviced, that's...

Sticks48 replies on Feb 24, 2019:

@SassyLady I don't recall blaming anyone for anything. Now you're just making shit up. :)

When are we going to get these religious assholes out of our lives.

SassyLady comments on Feb 23, 2019:

Because Kraft is a criminal? Sex trafficing is illegal. Do you really think saying prostitution is the oldest profession makes it ok? Men seem to think it's their "right" to use women however they want. I personally can't imagine wanting to have intercourse with a person who had serviced, that's...

Sticks48 replies on Feb 24, 2019:

@Aristopus Read the sentence slowly. I said making it "illegal" leads to more problems.

Can someone please explain to me wtf is going on?

stinkeye_a comments on Feb 24, 2019:

Since @Irascible asked nicely--and @Cutiebeauty nominated me (for some damn reason :P ), here goes: *Preamble: I am against naming names and discussing personal drama, airing dirty laundry, spreading gossip, etc., *in general*, and *especially* in Community Senate--as I have said, here, many ...

Sticks48 replies on Feb 24, 2019:

@Cutiebeauty You go girl!

Love the idea of being the reason of so many men in hell. ?

GreatNani comments on Feb 24, 2019:

There are times when I just don't know what to say. Like really, I did not know my vagina had the power to send a man to hell. Heaven yes, hell no :))

Sticks48 replies on Feb 24, 2019:

@rockarol Yeah, You could call it that if you like. :)

Love the idea of being the reason of so many men in hell. ?

GreatNani comments on Feb 24, 2019:

There are times when I just don't know what to say. Like really, I did not know my vagina had the power to send a man to hell. Heaven yes, hell no :))

Sticks48 replies on Feb 24, 2019:

More power than you might realize.

Lizz Wright - Old Man [youtu.be]

Sticks48 comments on Feb 24, 2019:

I like this better than Young's version.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 24, 2019:

@whispers I am pretty sure I made it up. Does it work? :)

When are we going to get these religious assholes out of our lives.

SassyLady comments on Feb 23, 2019:

Because Kraft is a criminal? Sex trafficing is illegal. Do you really think saying prostitution is the oldest profession makes it ok? Men seem to think it's their "right" to use women however they want. I personally can't imagine wanting to have intercourse with a person who had serviced, that's...

Sticks48 replies on Feb 24, 2019:

Only people's attitudes make sex dirty. I am constantly amazed on a site of nonbelievers how many people's attitude toward sex is straight out of church doctrine. Like any decent human being, I am against forced prostitution. That being said, just as with drugs and alcohol, making prostitution illegal only leads to more crimes and bigger problems.

I could not stand it any longer, and made a post to the Senate I'm not waiting for chat day.

Sticks48 comments on Feb 24, 2019:

I haven't seen you fired up like that in a long time. I've missed it.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 24, 2019:

@Stacey48 Same here. I set a goal to reach level 9 and then leave. We will see when I get there.

I could not stand it any longer, and made a post to the Senate I'm not waiting for chat day.

Sticks48 comments on Feb 24, 2019:

I haven't seen you fired up like that in a long time. I've missed it.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 24, 2019:

@Stacey48 It is good to see you back. You were always one of my favorite folks on this site.

Lizz Wright - Old Man [youtu.be]

Sticks48 comments on Feb 24, 2019:

I like this better than Young's version.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 24, 2019:

@whispers We play together every week. I meant it is not that often you have a great connection on and off the stage. My brother and I have been through between 35 and 40 band mates and matettes in our over 40 years of playing together. I can only think of one other player I bonded with like I have with Chuck. I have liked all the players we have had in the band, at least at the start, except for one B3 player. Only three or four have really pissed me off to the point I was glad they were gone.

Lizz Wright - Old Man [youtu.be]

Sticks48 comments on Feb 24, 2019:

I like this better than Young's version.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 24, 2019:

@whispers That hasn't happened very often.

Lizz Wright - Old Man [youtu.be]

Sticks48 comments on Feb 24, 2019:

I like this better than Young's version.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 24, 2019:

@whispers He is like really, really good. We are so fortunate to have him. He is also one of my favorite people.

Lizz Wright - Old Man [youtu.be]

Sticks48 comments on Feb 24, 2019:

I like this better than Young's version.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 24, 2019:

@whispers I had not heard of her either. I have never played tablas, I thought it sounded really good. I love slide. It is a dying art. Our lead guitarist is a good slide player.

Lizz Wright - Old Man [youtu.be]

Sticks48 comments on Feb 24, 2019:

I like this better than Young's version.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 24, 2019:

@whispers I will look for it.

John Hiatt ft. Ry Cooder on slide - Lipstick Sunset [youtu.be]

Sticks48 comments on Feb 23, 2019:

You come up with so much good music.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 24, 2019:

@whispers You haven't received it ? Goddamn UPS!

John Hiatt ft. Ry Cooder on slide - Lipstick Sunset [youtu.be]

Sticks48 comments on Feb 23, 2019:

You come up with so much good music.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 24, 2019:

@whispers There are a whole lot of other things you could be weird and obsessive about that wouldn't be near as entertaining and educational. You are really providing a service. :)

Men say women should come with instructions.

A2Jennifer comments on Feb 22, 2019:

The whole trope of “women are so hard to understand” is mostly an excuse for men who make no effort to listen to or understand their partner.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 24, 2019:

@A2Jennifer Actually it is a difference in brain function. Not right or wrong, good or bad, just different. It is one of a few differences in men and women.

This Viral Thread Explains How White Supremacists Are Trained By The Military

Sticks48 comments on Feb 22, 2019:

Well there is a real surprise! Do you think a bunch of college educated liberals are joining the Army Infantry and the Marines?

Sticks48 replies on Feb 23, 2019:

@F-IM-Forty I am talking about officers and enlisted men. Why did you have to be stealthy about being liberal. You just make my point. Where exactly did I say there were no liberals? Most cops and most military are conservative. This is no secret. How is telling the truth abusive?

This Viral Thread Explains How White Supremacists Are Trained By The Military

Sticks48 comments on Feb 22, 2019:

Well there is a real surprise! Do you think a bunch of college educated liberals are joining the Army Infantry and the Marines?

Sticks48 replies on Feb 23, 2019:

@F-IM-Forty I grew up around the Army and I was in the Army. I noticed it was over run with liberals. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!

Americans Remain Deeply Ambivalent About Diversity - The Atlantic

mzbehavin comments on Feb 23, 2019:

Diversity is so much more interesting. I do not understand why some people fight it so.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 23, 2019:

Ignorance.

Here we go..The Intercepts Mehdi Hasan's POV..Hope y'all enjoy the read! [theintercept.com]

Sticks48 comments on Feb 23, 2019:

Comrade Trumpski was too inexperienced, too old, too racist, too misogynistic, and too stupid, and he won.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 23, 2019:

@Looking4-Others I didn't say he would, but after 2016, nothing would surprise me.

Secret keeper?

Lllewis comments on Feb 22, 2019:

What would a man do if the same woman does the first 4 choices??

Sticks48 replies on Feb 23, 2019:

@Lllewis How well l know. It is nice to hear a woman say that. I have never had a problem accepting my gender is not always easy to deal with for different reasons. Too many folks look at these differences as flaws instead of differences. That point of view will get you know where but disappointed in the the end. IMO...Of course I could be wrong. I am a guy. ;)

Secret keeper?

Lllewis comments on Feb 22, 2019:

What would a man do if the same woman does the first 4 choices??

Sticks48 replies on Feb 23, 2019:

@Lllewis I will buy that. I learned in my twenties not to try to figure out what women are going to do. Like the rest of my life, l just take it as it comes. :)

This is what my dogs do when I am on the computer! (They are such snugglers, but I cannot have ...

Sticks48 comments on Feb 23, 2019:

Cute overload warning Will Robinson! Cute overload warning!

Sticks48 replies on Feb 23, 2019:

@Rustee Thank you. Great looking family.

Secret keeper?

Lllewis comments on Feb 22, 2019:

What would a man do if the same woman does the first 4 choices??

Sticks48 replies on Feb 23, 2019:

Yeah, that's gonna happen! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH

Just sayin' ?

Sticks48 comments on Feb 22, 2019:

Mine is a cheap motel with no pool and a black and white TV.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 23, 2019:

@BeeHappy More like not going to be. :)

Just sayin' ?

Sticks48 comments on Feb 22, 2019:

Mine is a cheap motel with no pool and a black and white TV.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 23, 2019:

@BeeHappy We only have one, and it is really just a very narrow street.

Men say women should come with instructions.

A2Jennifer comments on Feb 22, 2019:

The whole trope of “women are so hard to understand” is mostly an excuse for men who make no effort to listen to or understand their partner.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 23, 2019:

Too many women have a problem getting to the point. They wander around like Moses in the dessert before getting to the point. Cut back on that extra five thousand more words a day women use and men don't. It is that simple. :)

That was fast!!!

silverotter11 comments on Feb 22, 2019:

But trump can grab women by the genitalia, hire a prostitute as his wife gives birth (or just pregnant), lie about paying her off, hire illegal immigrants, etc. and the market goes nuts over a football team owner caught with his pants down. SMFH over the ignorant Americans.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 22, 2019:

Ain't it the fucking truth? This country is pitiful.

This is what FB says I look like as a dog.

Sticks48 comments on Feb 22, 2019:

Baby, you will never be a dog. ;)

Sticks48 replies on Feb 22, 2019:

@Stacey48 If there is anything I can do to bring out the cunt in you, please let me know. I probably won't be there for you, but let me know anyway.

This is what FB says I look like as a dog.

Sticks48 comments on Feb 22, 2019:

Baby, you will never be a dog. ;)

Sticks48 replies on Feb 22, 2019:

@Stacey48 I have a strong belief you have it in you.

Just sayin' ?

Sticks48 comments on Feb 22, 2019:

Mine is a cheap motel with no pool and a black and white TV.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 22, 2019:

@BeeHappy That would be Austin. The women that hang out in the alleys in Austin are out of my league.

Just sayin' ?

Sticks48 comments on Feb 22, 2019:

Mine is a cheap motel with no pool and a black and white TV.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 22, 2019:

@BeeHappy Thanks, I'll need it. I live in a very small town with very few alleys.

This is what FB says I look like as a dog.

Sticks48 comments on Feb 22, 2019:

Baby, you will never be a dog. ;)

Sticks48 replies on Feb 22, 2019:

@Stacey48 Never, never! That would be way too ladylike. We can't have that here. Cuntyness is probably more appropriate in this group.

Let's see how this goes.

Stacey48 comments on Feb 22, 2019:

Social experiments are interesting.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 22, 2019:

@EricTrommater Truth, but they do fuck chickens, so I would avoid Colonel Sanders.

This is what FB says I look like as a dog.

Sticks48 comments on Feb 22, 2019:

Baby, you will never be a dog. ;)

Sticks48 replies on Feb 22, 2019:

@Stacey48 You are a stone cold fox! :)

Let's see how this goes.

Stacey48 comments on Feb 22, 2019:

Social experiments are interesting.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 22, 2019:

@EricTrommater Pretty much. I had a run-in with one in North Dakota. The smarmy little bastards are everywhere. Not to be confused with the three eyed, tiny brained assholes from Alabama.

Just sayin' ?

Sticks48 comments on Feb 22, 2019:

Mine is a cheap motel with no pool and a black and white TV.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 22, 2019:

@BeeHappy I'm sure an alley is where I will find her. :)

I'm not going to do a lame poll.

Sticks48 comments on Feb 22, 2019:

5 is good. It gives them a chance to get used to this place.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 22, 2019:

@GuyKeith I have no shortage of those, believe me. I have some more useless than that.

Gorgeous piece from one of Houston's own, Calvin Owens.

Sticks48 comments on Feb 22, 2019:

I live the hell out of this. My stepfather was a trumpet player. He had his own big band and a jazz combo. Later he toured with Doc Severinson's band. He is the one who convinced me to play drums.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 22, 2019:

@whispers I agree. I don't know if it's a good thing or not.

Let's see how this goes.

Stacey48 comments on Feb 22, 2019:

Social experiments are interesting.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 22, 2019:

As long as we don't end up with any three eyed assholes with tails.

Let's see how this goes.

coralisthree comments on Feb 22, 2019:

when i was very little my parents use to always say, "she's a Whiner", after the character played by gilda radner on SNL

Sticks48 replies on Feb 22, 2019:

@coralisthree Oh yeah, lets not fuck that up boss man.

I'm just wondering why all you atheists celebrate Valentine's Day?

Sticks48 comments on Feb 22, 2019:

It is a horrible Helladay. A money grab with all of the pressure on the men. I have been very fortunate in my life to be with women who feel the same. It is a money grab for florists, jewelers, candy makers,and card companies. I buy flowers because I want to, not because I am supposed to. I tell ...

Sticks48 replies on Feb 22, 2019:

@confidentrealm Agree :)

Gorgeous piece from one of Houston's own, Calvin Owens.

Sticks48 comments on Feb 22, 2019:

I live the hell out of this. My stepfather was a trumpet player. He had his own big band and a jazz combo. Later he toured with Doc Severinson's band. He is the one who convinced me to play drums.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 22, 2019:

@whispers That is funny you say that, because for a long time that was my life. It still is, but, the changes are less often and less drastic.

The music was better.

steveo270 comments on Feb 22, 2019:

Music was better when auto tune didn’t exist, and when singers wrote their own music and could play their own instruments...

Sticks48 replies on Feb 22, 2019:

@TomMcGiverin Taylor Swift and Shania Twain owe their entire careers to auto-tune. I hate auto-tune.

Gorgeous piece from one of Houston's own, Calvin Owens.

Sticks48 comments on Feb 22, 2019:

I live the hell out of this. My stepfather was a trumpet player. He had his own big band and a jazz combo. Later he toured with Doc Severinson's band. He is the one who convinced me to play drums.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 22, 2019:

@whispers If my mother had not married him, I would have never played drums. I have looked back at my life and realized how many times my life has changed directions because of someone else's decision or decisions. It is a pretty big number. I wasn't aware of who Calvin was. I am glad to know.

Let's see how this goes.

stinkeye_a comments on Feb 22, 2019:

Testes, testes, 1, 2, ....3?

Sticks48 replies on Feb 22, 2019:

I think it has happened. My ex has one of mine, one of her husband's before me, and another one that l'm not sure where it came from.

The music was better.

steveo270 comments on Feb 22, 2019:

Music was better when auto tune didn’t exist, and when singers wrote their own music and could play their own instruments...

Sticks48 replies on Feb 22, 2019:

You are right about auto tune. The other half is just silly. No Sinatra, Fitzgerald, Bennett, Elvis, Cocker, Joplin, Righteous Brothers, Charles, Franklin and the list goes on and on and....

Is the DNC really going to give Bernie a fair shot at being the nominee for POTUS?

CallMeDave comments on Feb 22, 2019:

Considering their utter lack of remorse when they got caught tipping the scale in '16, I see no reason to think they will be fair this time either.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 22, 2019:

@CallMeDave We would have still had trump and no argument he lost the popular vote. Trump won because Americans are not very smart.

Oh I hope so. I know I have friends that feel this way. Would love to find a partner who will, too.

Sticks48 comments on Feb 21, 2019:

I would never share all the shit that goes on in my head. No thanks.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 22, 2019:

@bleurowz The word "all" is the reason for my immediate response. I think l know what you mean, but because of the differences in the way men's and women's brains interpret some things "all" is not really plausible IMO. I have learned, especially on this site, there are a lot of women who are genuinely pissed off men don't think like they do, and genuinely feel there is something wrong with us because we don't. I have met a few of those women in my life, but until l came to this site, l had no idea how many there were. I have blocked mostly men on the site, because l felt like they were just stupid, and they might feel the same about me, and that is okay. The woman l have blocked has been because of their anger toward men in general. I don't blame women for my choices in partners. They were MY choices. No one forced me into those situations. I never judge people l meet with people l know or have known. Sorry, l seem to have rambled. ☺

Yet another from the right... If you would reply, what would you say?

Sticks48 comments on Feb 22, 2019:

I blocked you before. It is hard to believe anyone as stupid as you could survive to adulthood. Fucking amazing. Slime does tend to slip through the slightest crack. :)

Sticks48 replies on Feb 22, 2019:

@TheGreatShadow Sorry. I thought you did post it. Why would you post it?

Is "White Face" racist, like some claim "Black Face" is?

bmchizzle comments on Feb 21, 2019:

There is a long history of power/oppression between white folks and people of color. Black people, particularly (in a US cultural context), have never had power over white people. Their behavior can be *prejudiced*, but not *racist*. Highly suggest reading more about this: ...

Sticks48 replies on Feb 22, 2019:

@SwampBatman What a dick!

I hope he declares Nina Turner as VP (assuming she wants it). They’d be unstoppable

CaroleKay comments on Feb 22, 2019:

Yes!! Bernie's core team 2020. #TeamBernie #GoNina! I'm so excited, thanks for joining!

Sticks48 replies on Feb 22, 2019:

I'm really not stalking you. :)

Can I say "fuck" here?

Bierbasstard comments on Feb 21, 2019:

Coming out of "retirement" again?

Sticks48 replies on Feb 22, 2019:

@Bierbasstard A spinner is a sm...Never mind.

I find it disappointing that most atheists are far to the left, i am a libettrrian, i am quiet ...

Marz comments on Feb 20, 2019:

What is far to the left? All of Bernie’s policies are supported by the majority of the population, making him.. the center.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 21, 2019:

@Bones And if you don't like any of the three or four candidates? In a country as divided socially and racially as is the United State,s you could have ten parties and never find the person who would make most of the people happy. If a third party candidate did win, do you really think either party in the Congress would work with him? Do you think they would want him to succeed? The way to change things is turn over the Congress when they don't respond to the people. The voters can change it just like that, but they generally won't, especially when it comes to the Senate. They will and did do it to the house this time. Adding a third party a candidate usually puts the person in office whom that candidate likes the least and whom his followers like the least. There isn't a government on the planet that isn't corrupt. It is a matter of degree. A third party candidate will not fix that problem.

Oh I hope so. I know I have friends that feel this way. Would love to find a partner who will, too.

Sticks48 comments on Feb 21, 2019:

I would never share all the shit that goes on in my head. No thanks.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 21, 2019:

@WonderWartHog99 LOL...That is a good start.

What are your thoughts on transhumanism? Should we try to improve ourselves through technology?

Sticks48 comments on Feb 21, 2019:

Until they can fix the human brain, it really doesn't matter.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 21, 2019:

@Metahuman What's right with it?

Paying alimony is like feeding hay to a dead horse....Groucho Marx.

IamNobody comments on Feb 20, 2019:

Well in this case the "dead horse" could be children so....sorry Groucho but, no just no

Sticks48 replies on Feb 21, 2019:

@IamNobody I just did. Pay attention.

Paying alimony is like feeding hay to a dead horse....Groucho Marx.

IamNobody comments on Feb 20, 2019:

Well in this case the "dead horse" could be children so....sorry Groucho but, no just no

Sticks48 replies on Feb 21, 2019:

@IamNobody I wouldn't want or expect you to worry about what goes on here.

Paying alimony is like feeding hay to a dead horse....Groucho Marx.

IamNobody comments on Feb 20, 2019:

Well in this case the "dead horse" could be children so....sorry Groucho but, no just no

Sticks48 replies on Feb 21, 2019:

@IamNobody I'm not mad. I don't even know who you are. You are one of 50,000 strangers on here. I just abhor stupid.

Double Feature: there are many songs that I can’t decide between two versions on.

Sticks48 comments on Feb 21, 2019:

This country is obsessed with which one is better. As Duke Ellington said, "There are two kinds of music, good and bad". Both of these are good.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 21, 2019:

@Wurlitzer I am sure people will have their favorites, including me. I hope you keep it up. I hadn't heard the second version. I hope for more good surprises.

Paying alimony is like feeding hay to a dead horse....Groucho Marx.

IamNobody comments on Feb 20, 2019:

Well in this case the "dead horse" could be children so....sorry Groucho but, no just no

Sticks48 replies on Feb 21, 2019:

@IamNobody It is an OPEN FORUM. Do you not understand how this works? Are you a moron? Geez! No wonder you are ashamed to post your picture.

Paying alimony is like feeding hay to a dead horse....Groucho Marx.

IamNobody comments on Feb 20, 2019:

Well in this case the "dead horse" could be children so....sorry Groucho but, no just no

Sticks48 replies on Feb 21, 2019:

@IamNobody I guess you don't believe in equal rights. If that is your stand, I doubt we will be having anymore conversations.

Paying alimony is like feeding hay to a dead horse....Groucho Marx.

IamNobody comments on Feb 20, 2019:

Well in this case the "dead horse" could be children so....sorry Groucho but, no just no

Sticks48 replies on Feb 21, 2019:

@IamNobody I have never payed alimony. It is totally unfair whether a man or woman is getting it. When a marriage is over, you divide or the court divides your assets. If you have children, you or the courts decide on custody. The court decides the child support. You go your separate ways, and try not to fuck up your kids because of your feelings for each other. If one of the parties has no job skills, that is on them. This isn't the 50's when most women married young and had no job skills. It is the 21st century. If you haven't figured out how to take care of yourself, that is on you. You are not your ex's responsibility.

Apparently, men who marry plus-size women are happier. [homemaking.com]

Wildflower comments on Feb 20, 2019:

Skinny women are too high maintenance.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 21, 2019:

@Wildflower Some are more equal than others. :)

Bobby Darin - Light Blue [youtu.be]

Sticks48 comments on Feb 20, 2019:

When he was trying to make the transition to a folk/rock singer. Not bad. Too bad he died so young. It would have been interesting to see what he would have done career wise. He wasn't a bad actor either.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 20, 2019:

@whispers Yes he was. He was a really good big band singer. I have a love for big bands. Count Basie is my favorite, and Sinatra is my favorite big band singer.

Bobby Darin - Light Blue [youtu.be]

Sticks48 comments on Feb 20, 2019:

When he was trying to make the transition to a folk/rock singer. Not bad. Too bad he died so young. It would have been interesting to see what he would have done career wise. He wasn't a bad actor either.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 20, 2019:

@whispers I agree. I checked. He died at 37. I had been thinking 42. Too young.

Apparently, men who marry plus-size women are happier. [homemaking.com]

Wildflower comments on Feb 20, 2019:

Skinny women are too high maintenance.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 20, 2019:

Not true. Some women are high maintenance some aren't. Probably the same with men.

Apparently, men who marry plus-size women are happier. [homemaking.com]

CaroleKay comments on Feb 20, 2019:

They are probably just afraid to say otherwise, lest they get their asses kicked.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 20, 2019:

Truth.

Was i an old grouch?

GothRik comments on Feb 20, 2019:

The alternative is to be insincere? I sometimes can't stop myself from being honest, too.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 20, 2019:

@GothRik Some customers are never satisfied. They are not always right. I have known those people. As a manager or owner, you have to learn to spot those people. In principle l agree with you.☺

Was i an old grouch?

GothRik comments on Feb 20, 2019:

The alternative is to be insincere? I sometimes can't stop myself from being honest, too.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 20, 2019:

@GothRik Well then you know.

Was i an old grouch?

GothRik comments on Feb 20, 2019:

The alternative is to be insincere? I sometimes can't stop myself from being honest, too.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 20, 2019:

@GothRik Most service people are somewhat insincere. It is part of their job to be nice, even to assholes. If you don't know that , you should get out more.

Haven't heard of Trisha Paytas? My gawd, what's wrong with you? [youtu.be]

CaroleKay comments on Feb 20, 2019:

Yikes! WTF! Well one great thing about this I feel very beautiful right now. ???

Sticks48 replies on Feb 20, 2019:

You should feel that way always, because you are.

Was i an old grouch?

GothRik comments on Feb 20, 2019:

The alternative is to be insincere? I sometimes can't stop myself from being honest, too.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 20, 2019:

Give it a shot. If someone is being polite, it is not difficult to be polite in return. Otherwise you are just being a dick.

Paying alimony is like feeding hay to a dead horse....Groucho Marx.

IamNobody comments on Feb 20, 2019:

Well in this case the "dead horse" could be children so....sorry Groucho but, no just no

Sticks48 replies on Feb 20, 2019:

@IamNobody I wasn't talking about you. I am talking about people collecting alimony. LOL

Paying alimony is like feeding hay to a dead horse....Groucho Marx.

IamNobody comments on Feb 20, 2019:

Well in this case the "dead horse" could be children so....sorry Groucho but, no just no

Sticks48 replies on Feb 20, 2019:

@IamNobody Like I said it is an open forum. Go private if you don't want feedback. It is very simple.

Paying alimony is like feeding hay to a dead horse....Groucho Marx.

IamNobody comments on Feb 20, 2019:

Well in this case the "dead horse" could be children so....sorry Groucho but, no just no

Sticks48 replies on Feb 20, 2019:

@IamNobody It is an open forum. If you want private message or email. Where the fuck do you think you are? I can go any where I want here, unless you block me. Please feel free to do so.

Johnny Burnette & The Rock and Roll Trio - "Lonesome Train" ( the movie Rock, Rock, Rock ) ...

CaroleKay comments on Feb 20, 2019:

Good morning to me, thank you. ♥

Sticks48 replies on Feb 20, 2019:

Good morning to you, thank me.

Paying alimony is like feeding hay to a dead horse....Groucho Marx.

IamNobody comments on Feb 20, 2019:

Well in this case the "dead horse" could be children so....sorry Groucho but, no just no

Sticks48 replies on Feb 20, 2019:

@IamNobody You get a fucking job. It is not up to an ex, male or female to support an ex. That is just wrong and stupid. Child support and community property are the right thing. Alimony is robbery.

Liar spokeswoman

Sticks48 comments on Feb 13, 2019:

Do she not know how many steel shipping containers come in through our ports everyday? There are thousands of them. Does anyone believe they can possibly inspect all of those? Does anyone believe no one is smuggling drugs in those containers?

Sticks48 replies on Feb 20, 2019:

@ChrisGoldthorp What does that have to do with my reply? Walls are in place where needed. Show me where Obama ask for a wall all the way across the border.

I find it disappointing that most atheists are far to the left, i am a libettrrian, i am quiet ...

Marz comments on Feb 20, 2019:

What is far to the left? All of Bernie’s policies are supported by the majority of the population, making him.. the center.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 20, 2019:

@Biptu If you vote third party you might as well stay home or vote for your dog.

I have to say, given his film efforts at "comedy" with Cheech Marin, Chong does not strike me as the...

Sticks48 comments on Feb 18, 2019:

Don't get your point. Humor is generally more effective at getting peoples attention than pontification.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 20, 2019:

@chazwin It is all subjective.

Pete Townshend: Save It For Later [youtu.be]

Sticks48 comments on Feb 19, 2019:

I always like Townsend a lot more when he is away from the Who. I would much rather here him sing than Daltrey. Good choice, for me anyway. :)

Sticks48 replies on Feb 19, 2019:

@Anniemae Me too. :)

Dancing makes me happy. [psychology-spot.com]

graceylou comments on Feb 19, 2019:

I know it makes me happy or I wouldn’t be a dancer (when I’m not being a dog wrangler). I feel that it's something I need, like medicine. Not participating in the dance community for a year because I’m focusing on my business has been horrible for my mental state. Sometimes I just need to put ...

Sticks48 replies on Feb 19, 2019:

For people whom music touches in some way, whether it be playing, singing, or dancing, some sort of active participation in the music can have a very transformational effect in those moments. If you let yourself really embrace it, you will go to another place. I hope you get to dance again soon. I know it means a lot to you.

I'm gonna be a points slut folks.

graceylou comments on Feb 19, 2019:

I was a bigger slut getting on my hands and knees begging for 700 points.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 19, 2019:

I will bet you looked cute doing it though. :)

My new Brown Anole

Sticks48 comments on Feb 19, 2019:

What other colors were available?

Sticks48 replies on Feb 19, 2019:

@Leafhead Cool. l like reptiles. Actually I like all animals.

Todd Rundgren: Bang The Drum All Day [youtu.be]

Sticks48 comments on Feb 19, 2019:

We had a six piece band that did this song years ago. It was one of the few cover songs we did. In the middle it would break down and everyone in the band was banging on rattling some percussion instrument. It was a fun song to play. Thanks for the memory.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 19, 2019:

@Anniemae Thank you for the thought.

OK...here is the question...WHO do you all want to see on the 2020 Democratic Ticket?...President/VP

CaroleKay comments on Feb 19, 2019:

Lol! Stawp!

Sticks48 replies on Feb 19, 2019:

@CaroleKay Go get em' tiger.

So...quick question: Can anyone search or see accounts that are lacking photos?

Sticks48 comments on Feb 19, 2019:

I just tried it and had no problem. I don't know.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 19, 2019:

@SkotlandSkye I couldn't find one to test. I have to go set up for tonight's gig. I will try later. If you can tell me how to find one that isn't located in my alerts, l would be grateful. I am not computer savvy.

So...quick question: Can anyone search or see accounts that are lacking photos?

Sticks48 comments on Feb 19, 2019:

I just tried it and had no problem. I don't know.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 19, 2019:

@SkotlandSkye I didn't try that. I will try that. You are probably right.

Oh FFS! Bernie just announced he's running again.

ToolGuy comments on Feb 19, 2019:

Great! He is healthy and if he chooses a good running mate — Elizabeth Warren comes to mind — his age will not be an issue. Unfortunately, in your system, the Dems need to control at least one of the houses also or you get another Obama. I liked Obama’s grace but he was NOT a great president. ...

Sticks48 replies on Feb 19, 2019:

@KKGator Name a President who did everything you liked. I don't believe that would be possible for anyone.

Happy Birthday to me and to anyone else who shares my birthday! ?

Sticks48 comments on Feb 19, 2019:

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

Sticks48 replies on Feb 19, 2019:

@Kynlei You are welcome. I hope you enjoy this day.

...and what is everyone going to do post-Trump?

Sticks48 comments on Feb 18, 2019:

If we get the right person in the next election, it could be turned around fairly quickly. Obama turned things around pretty quickly as far as our standing on the world stage after President "I really did not want this job" Bush.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 19, 2019:

@Diogenes Not an excuse, a reason.

Cindy009 [agnostic.

CaroleKay comments on Feb 19, 2019:

Dat ass tho.

Sticks48 replies on Feb 19, 2019:

@CaroleKay I need a girlfriend! :)