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Major Study Finds the US Is An Oligarchy

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 24, 2019:

Why the hell would it change when both of the major parties are controlled by the oligarchs, the media is as well, and the masses about all believe that third parties are a waste of time to vote for while about half the eligible voters have given up on elections as a way of changing anything about the govt.?

Giving homes to the homeless is cheaper than leaving them on the streets - Vox

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 24, 2019:

Allowing homelessness to exist at its present level serves a purpose in capitalism of making sure that wages stay low or at least stagnant as workers realize they may face this if they don't stay obedient enough to employers as well as providing a class of wage slaves-the actual homeless- who are desperate enough to accept dangerous, unhealthy, shit jobs that people with homes would refuse to do.

I firmly believe the world has everything needed to end poverty.

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 24, 2019:

It's called capitalism. Unless you are willing to embrace socialism, you are wasting your time deploring this situation.

What kind of "hidden agenda" do people have when they're searching for somebody to date?

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 24, 2019:

For me the really tough one to express is concerning how I don't want someone who is really family-oriented, which to me means that if we dated they would want to be visiting their family or grandkids very regularly with me coming along. I am just not interested in doing that with anyone more than occaisionally, like maybe once a month at most. This is by far my most common dealbreaker issue that I run into with women, most likely because I live in the Midwest, where independent-minded women are by far the minority when it comes to family, even the ones without kids, and being family-oriented seems to be a religion unto itself among women my age in my area. After struggling with this issue for almost a year and a half, I have dropped all reference to this issue in my profile essay, following the advice of a member of this group, and will see if I do better on the paid site by simply leaving the issue for the coffee meeting if I get that far with a woman as well as continuing my practice of avoiding women who seem to identify themselves as family-oriented in their profile essays. There just seems to be no way to address this issue in a profile essay without being misinterpreted by women and being seen as a red flag type of guy who might be an isolating abuser type instead of someone who is simply seeking a woman who has balance in her life of family, friends, and her partner. The reason is that women appear to be just too defensive and prone to assume the worst, at least in the Midwest, if you seem to be bucking this accepted norm of being very family-focused rather than balanced.

i have some religious friends.

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 23, 2019:

She sounds like a flake and too obsessed with religion, but she's your friend, not mine. I would have dropped her after she got on the religion kick, but that's me...

I'm starting the count down to 100 members.

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 23, 2019:

I wish the paid sites had something like this for the members, but they would never want to bother with policing it and also figure that it would lead to more members dropping their subscriptions once they became aware of all the negative stuff being said and happening with the site.

Hows the singles doing this weekend?

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 23, 2019:

In the words of David Byrne of Talking Heads, " Same as it ever was."

These are really good.

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 22, 2019:

Dwelling on mistakes and shortcomings has been a problem for me, not very much with the other ones.

I believe most people on this site are liberal and probably democrats, not that it matters.

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 22, 2019:

I voted liberal-Democrat, but that party really doesn't represent my views very well as they are so corrupt and concerned only with the rich and corporations. I am more of a socialist in my political views and the only political party that really represents my views is the Green Party.

Oy.

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 22, 2019:

What is it with men from online dating being so damn aggressive with grabbiness and immediate tongue-kissing. How can people be that desperate and clueless?

I've allowed this to happen to me.

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 22, 2019:

Have never ended up there. I may not have a ton of confidence with women, but I've always had enough self esteem to not accept being this. I also would never knowingly get involved with someone who was married or in a committed relationship.

Bwahahahaha!

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 22, 2019:

Now if only she had a way of knowing if his personality was real or fake. Some guys are so good at acting charming, nice, honest, when they are really players. That's a tougher one to spot.

(What’s So Funny ’Bout) Peace, Love & Understanding -- Nick Lowe's own version.

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 22, 2019:

I actually sang this song once at a Unitarian church service.

Good Morning!

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 22, 2019:

Grumpy rocks!

Perhaps single is a personal choice. Some people do single better than married.

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 21, 2019:

I like being with a partner better. Everyone's mileage may vary...

Okay today has been a really strange day.

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 21, 2019:

Well, good luck with the woman you just met. Personally, I would never open with a long message to a woman on a dating site. Even if it's written with genuine enthusiasm, a long message to start will come off as desperate... But in this case, it appears to have worked anyway....

[alternet.org] PARADOX; Here's the bizarre reason why white evangelical women love Donald Trump.

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 21, 2019:

Reinforces what I already suspected about evangelicals, both male and female, and Trump. When you boil it all down, they are hypocrites when it comes to all the doctrine and rhetoric about living by the Bible, following the commandments, etc. They will support Trump no matter how much he lives against the dogma, so to me it means all the rules and beliefs of Christianity that they say is so important is all meaningless crap and that they won't act in a way that shows respect for those principles. They are hypocrites and so are their Christian leaders who support Trump. If white identity has replaced their religion, then they ought to drop out of Christianity and join the Klan, where they would belong and be welcome.

So fucking true!

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 21, 2019:

I volunteered for Bernie and have him money last time, but I won't get fooled again. He caved and supported Clinton instead of taking Stein's offer to head the Green Party ticket, which was on the ballot for either every state or almost every one. If he were really true to his principles and policies, he would have accepted and with that would also have polled high enough to get into the prez debates. I won't waste my time or money again on him. Should he get the nomination, sure I'll vote for him, even tho if he somehow beat the electronic rigging of general election voting, he would surely be assassinated or suffer a convenient fatal heart attack.

Are you ready for the democratic primaries?

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 21, 2019:

I'm already getting depressed about the inevitable repeat of 2016 with Bernie getting screwed again by the Dem Party and the Dem leaders sticking us again with a nominee that is either an establishment sellout like Biden or another Trojan Horse like Obama who is presented as liberal or progressive, but in reality is just another corporate sellout. For the latter role, Harris or O' Rourke, come to mind......

Do you prefer to be in a large group - are you happiest with a few close friends - or are you most ...

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 21, 2019:

It's almost always been a life with a few close friends, four to six.

I live in a city where there are nine women to every man.

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 21, 2019:

I have also heard that there are some cities in Florida, where the pop. is mostly older people from the Northeast part of the US, where women greatly outnumber men. Also, I have heard that Iowa City, Iowa, a very liberal university town about two hours east of where I live, has a lopsided pop. of more women than men in my age group. But I won't move there just for that because I need my longtime friends too much for support.

I live in a city where there are nine women to every man.

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 21, 2019:

Maybe in your area, Back, but not that way in mine.

Upcoming dates.

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 20, 2019:

I would not see the antique thing as a red flag. The late hubby of a widow friend of mine did just that for a long time before he died and made some decent money doing it. More importantly, she said, he really enjoyed it and had many friends in that industry that he enjoyed seeing on a regular basis. So at least in this one case, it was the profession of a really great guy.

I’ve experienced this: “But you’re ethical, so how can you not believe in God?”

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 20, 2019:

I attribute that attitude to cynicism and/or ignorance. As the character played by Jane Fonda said in the film version of Agnes Of God, " There are many good people who have never believed in God"...

Why Would Anyone Fall In Love With You?

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 20, 2019:

I am nurturing and supportive with a partner. I am funny and affectionate. I am honest, don't play games and am as loyal as the family dog. I am intelligent. I am willing to try new things, like dancing or biking, or other interests, if a partner wants to share those with me. I am financially secure and glad to pay my own way on everything we share together. I enjoy being romantic once I get comfortable with someone and know they feel that way about me. I get along well with dogs and cats. I sing well and love all music except country and classical.

So what makes someone block you (he disappeared, so I'm assuming) after having a great conversation,...

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 20, 2019:

It's called ghosting and it happens on here, as well as on paid dating sites.

Almost stepped on the cat.

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 20, 2019:

I would have stepped on it too. What a chameleon...

So.

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 19, 2019:

I side with the rest of the jury. When you add up all the info you've shared, it spells scammer. You said it yourself, seems incredible..... as in too good to be true.

This showed up on my Facebook feed and everyone seems to think it's a scream.

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 19, 2019:

I understand why it is funny to most divorced people and their perspective is their right and probably usually justified. However, widowed people like me have a different experience and miss their spouses. Thus, it's not surprising that in my experience with online dating, women prefer men who were divorced, like them, as well as men who have kids, like them, because they want someone with as much shared or similar experience as possible. Which may in many cases be a mistake because even tho the type of person they are interested in may share their experience, it doesn't mean that they are good at doing relationships or any bit more emotionally healthier or a better or more compatible person than their ex. Seems to be a phenomena of choosing familiar and comfortable rather than trying to improve on their last experience. There's something to be said for being more open-minded.... Besides not having shared their experience of being divorced, I can imagine another reason divorced women don't want to date a widowed man is the insecure assumption that all widowed men are either not ready to date after their loss or that the man will always see other women in comparison to their dead spouse and not in an equal or positive way. If that is their viewpoint, then the problem is theirs and I don't want someone that cynical or insecure. Knowing all of this, there's a reason I am more interested in dating women who are widowed like me, tho I am always willing to give divorced women a chance, partly because they make up the vast majority of the dating pool of women my age on Match and I need to include them to have any real chance of meeting women to date. The reason I am more interested in widowed women is that they are less likely to have bitterness and animosity in general towards men as expressed in this meme due to their last relationship. I'll take a woman with grief issues anytime over someone with lots of baggage and a negative attitude towards men.

We’re back!!!! And this time the superdelegates aren’t already paid for ?

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 19, 2019:

It'll be rigged again with the Dems. Bernie won't stand a chance, even tho if he had been nominated last time or was this time, I think he would win the general...

What do republicans have against Social Security ?

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 19, 2019:

Because many of them are rich enough they will never need it and the rest are wannabees (as in wanna be rich and expect to be someday) who don't think they'll need it.

Munchie is a box boy! No, he's not mad at me, I caught his meow. ?

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 19, 2019:

My neighbor's cat loves boxes. She gets new boxes every couple weeks so her cat has something new to play in...

What does "Blocked" look like?

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 19, 2019:

It appears that I've been blocked by a couple people and I don't know why they did it. But at this time, I no longer give a shit..

Snacks? Already?

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 18, 2019:

Are they twins or at least siblings?

Our Weird World I've been visiting the local Unitarian Universalist fellowship on occasion, and ...

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 18, 2019:

UU churches get targeted often by those kind of nuts, because they have the rep of being very lefty and LGBT supportive. The threat of violence is very real as a few of them have been shot up. From what I've heard, most of them now have security plans in place for that kind of problem, but none of them would ever actually have armed guards, which I think is kind of naive these days, but the churches are too hard core pacifist to take that step. The other posters are right, calling the cops is going to be too late to save everybody if the nut has weapons or a bomb. There comes a time when a group needs to protect themselves, tho that can be hard to decide.

In H.

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 18, 2019:

I guess that's why they say the more you get to know people, the more you like dogs.....

I posted a couple weeks ago about a guy I had a date with, and a second date planned.

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 18, 2019:

As the Soup Nazi on Seinfeld would say, "No dessert (sex) for you!".

I can't make up my bed because Stella is sleeping on the clean sheets fresh out of the dryer.

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 18, 2019:

Cats love the warmth of things fresh from the dryer. They think those items are a like a spa for them to lay in...Reminds me of how much my parent's cats loved warmth. They would run to curl up against the vents in our living room as soon as they heard the furnace go on. Then they'd lay there against the vent as long as it stayed warm....

places to meet people?

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 17, 2019:

I'll make this simple. Most people, quite ignorantly but with good intentions, will tell you to get out and join a bunch of groups, hang out at a bunch of places, take a bunch of classes, volunteer, etc. I have already tried those things and in reality the chances of you meeting someone to date is pretty unlikely, at least if you are my age. In the old days, bars were a good place because that was where pretty much all the single folks who were looking for dates were at. Nowadays it's different. Getting out and doing all the stuff I mentioned at the start is pretty much a waste of time because it involves a relatively small pool of people, many of which are not looking for someone new to date. And if you don't already have a reason or interest that motivates you to be out at that group or activity regardless of whether it helps you meet someone, it will only add to your experience of frustration and disappointment, which is bad for your mental health. Online dating is a cesspool, yes, but it does involve a rather large pool of people who are actually looking for someone to date. It also doesn't really involve investing that much time either. Way less time than, say showing up every week or month for anywhere from an hour to a few hours and never meeting anyone compatible to date. I guess the involvement approach where you spend lots of time offline hoping to meet someone gives you something to do and might pay off over a long period of time, but if you don't want to invest that much time in meeting someone and are already 60 and knowing that your years left are way less than what you've already lived, online dating seems a better bet of meeting someone in the next few years. I have also discovered, both by checking out some of these groups and activities, both in person and thru online browsing of their member lists, that many or most of the people at these offline groups and activities are already on Match. So going to the groups, etc., is just a waste of time and a duplication of effort as far as expanding your pool of people to meet for dating. Even if you are willing to invest all the time and effort of getting involved in these offline things to meet people, the only advantage they have over online dating is that you get to meet them in person to start, without all the competition, vs. meeting only thru them seeing a photo, and then maybe later a profile on a screen, but only if your photo meets their standards for looks.

Do you like having long term friends of the opposite sex?

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 17, 2019:

I have no problem with it and have had several of these in my life. One was with a woman I met from a personal ad that was the only 9 I have ever got to know in my life. She was honest and kind enough to tell me at the beginning of the first meeting that he had no physical attraction for me, but we had a good 2 year friendship that we both valued before she moved away. She was a minister and I think she just really wanted a friend outside her church that she could hang with and confide to. Having said that, I also realize that it would be difficult if not impossible to have friendships with women like that while dating someone seriously due to possible jealousy. All of my friendships with women have begun while I was single, one of them has continued after I became involved and then married. It helps that she is married. I also have a fairly new friendship for the last year with a fellow widowed woman.

Cute boots

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 17, 2019:

I love GrumpyCat!

So many snuggles

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 17, 2019:

Such fluffy fur...

Kity... that's not how new cat beds work... you're supposed to get INSIDE the $35 kitty house... ?

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 17, 2019:

Maybe he's just proud of it and showing it off by posing in front of it for pics like this...Like hooman homeowners....

OK, this is the most adorable cat-dog fight I've ever seen. [facebook.com]

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 17, 2019:

At least they are both being playful and gentle about it.

Zoe has not said that she is sorry for scratching my arms .

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 16, 2019:

The hooman is supposed to wear protective padding....

Adventures in Job Seeking: Yesterday I drove deep into the suburban Eastside for an interview ...

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 16, 2019:

I once interviewed for a job where basically the guy talked for an hour and a half and barely asked me anything. By the end I was uncomfortable about how it seemed like it was never going to end. I didn't get the job and I have no ideas what was going on with him. I suspect what happened that caused him to reject me was that the wife of a asshole co-worker from the current job I was in then worked at that place and that my co-worker had talked to him either before or after the interview and badmouthed me with a backdoor reference against me. I had not listed this co-worker as a reference, of course, and during the interview the guy did ask me about this co-worker and I gave a diplomatic positive answer. Didn't matter, I'm sure the co-worker cost me the job and during the interview the manager may well have just been going thru the motions. I so do not miss all the mindfuck that I endured over the years of employment and job-seeking. I am surprised there are not more shootings at workplaces by not only employees, but frustrated job-seekers.

Me & My little man Buddy

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 15, 2019:

That is a cute cat. Looks like a badass too...based in the facial expression.

No truer words have ever been spoken. ????

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 15, 2019:

To all the naysayers who claim there were no conspiracies behind the assassinations of JFK, RFK, MLK, Malcom X and Paul Wellstone, among others, just see what would happen if this man had ever gotten anywhere near being president. The major parties and corporations are so terrified of him that they had him arrested for even being near where the prez debate was being held.

No truer words have ever been spoken. ????

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 15, 2019:

Word...as the rappers say.

This should make for a spirited conversation: The following is but one dude’s experience and ...

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 15, 2019:

Well, Deiter, as we both expected, looks like you got your spirited conversation. I like people who stir the pot or shit once in a while.....

sigh.

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 15, 2019:

You're part of a very large club, we all feel that way when someone else gets what we have been wanting. It's just that some people won't admit to it.

Is there any particular favorite activity listed in someone's profile that is a deal breaker for ...

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 15, 2019:

Several activities on a profile are dealbreakers for me if they seem to be the main or fav activity of the woman: Smoking. Listening to country music. Attending college football or basketball. Camping or fishing. And in my area, this eliminates a lot of women who want a guy that shares these things with them.

This should make for a spirited conversation: The following is but one dude’s experience and ...

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 15, 2019:

I think there is generally a lot of truth to these points as far as the diffs between men and women in arguments. My late wife would get mad very quickly and then need a while to cool off before we could discuss the problem. After she cooled off, she could be calm and rational about it and stick to the point without any long explanation or getting sidetracked.

What scents do you like on a man? Opinions welcome regardless of gender or orientation.

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 15, 2019:

This ? reminds me of the immortal Ken Shabby, from Monty Python fame. "I use Essence Of Polecat.... Makes my skin nice and scaly....".

Author Explains Women's Anger Today In A Way Men Can Truly Understand

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 15, 2019:

It's sad that for most men this sort of exercise is needed for them to understand. For the rest of us men who are more sensitive and civilized, it is not necessary because we are able to understand, as well as any male can, by simply using a wonderful thought process called empathy....

[hightimes.com] Iowa?

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 15, 2019:

I live in Iowa, and, for the most part, the authorities are not that concerned about people who get high in the privacy of their homes, esp. if they live out in the rural areas. Unless you give them something else to be interested in you for......

Seniors are a happy group! They no longer care what people think.

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 15, 2019:

Ani is a hip, cool, wise woman....

So, I was half way to Wheeling when I got the text.

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 14, 2019:

If he doesn't call tonight and seem truly, deeply apologetic, you will know his earlier text was BS and that he is a bum. Hope things work out soon with someone, even if it's not him...Glad you still ended up having some nice food on V-Day.

Zoe gave me another scratch. I bust my butt to support her. Some thanks I get. But I love her.

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 14, 2019:

As Sticks would say, all relationships have their rough patches, lol. My neighbor down the hall, whose cat I scam off of, said she once had something like that with her cat. Rascal had scratched her bad for the umpteenth time and Joan lost it and threw her TV remote at the cat and hit her in the head. They both sulked for several hours and then made up.

A very cute pair

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 14, 2019:

I can't believe it's a bird and a cat playing. The cat must not think it's a cat....I've met some that I swear think they are humans rather than cats....

More than familial love. More than romantic love. Beer love.

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 14, 2019:

It's more of a guy humor thing. Well done as always Deiter...I can't speak for other guys, but I know damn well that even if I were 30 years younger and still had all my hair, I still wouldn't have a gorgeous babe like that wanting me after an oaf card like that.........Makes me think of Homer Simpson contemplating "Hmmm beer and baaacconnn....". Homer and Al Bundy are such every woman's dream guys.....

For those who may be sad and lonely today...

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 14, 2019:

I had a female friend who is also widowed like me call me late this afternoon saying she didn't want to eat dinner alone tonight so we met up at a HyVee store deli that was having a steak dinner buffet tonight-that I usually eat at every Thur.- for $9. Had a nice meal and conversation. Was a great surprise treat to do this. Maybe we'll do it regularly at either the store in my area or hers, say once a month.

Ain’t it the truth

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 14, 2019:

I like the other one better where the cat is flipping off the hooman.

Not looking for sympathy or pity, but just sharing a fact that this is my 3rd Valentine's Day ...

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 14, 2019:

This is my second after being widowed, join the club.....

If you're my Valentine, I won't be miserable now.

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 14, 2019:

I still choose to be miserable, lol. Since I sang it at karaoke on Tue., I'll quote it for my fellow Moz lover DeStijl, "And heaven knows I'm miserable now".

A poem for Valentine's Day.

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 14, 2019:

You got it sweety! I love GrumpyCat.....

I just love imperfect people. Perfect people can be so boring!

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 14, 2019:

My late wife and I looked like an odd couple together, but I wouldn't have had it any other way....

Music has the power to make us smile.

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 14, 2019:

Going to karaoke to be with my karaoke pals who are fellow music lovers, and singing there, does this for me.

So, I was half way to Wheeling when I got the text.

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 14, 2019:

Merrie- I am really sorry that happened. I know that today's lunch date was very important to you. It's better than being stood up, but I don't blame you either way for whether you decide to give this guy another chance or just flush. Good luck with the former jock.

If there were an award for laziness..

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 13, 2019:

I call them cats of leisure.......

Attention Wal-Mart shoppers, Feb. 15th is 50% of Chocolate day.

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 13, 2019:

Walmart is fucking evil. I hate them too much to go out of my way to buy chocolate there, no matter what the price.

After almost 3 weeks on a dating site I have removed my profile because I just can’t take anymore ...

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 13, 2019:

The paid site I'm on seems to pretty well stay on top of the scammers and I think that's because they are the largest site out there and realize it's in their best interests to have staff police the scammers and help them maintain a good rep. They also have a free 6 month extension of your membership that they will give you if you pay for 6 months or more and don't end up meeting anyone to date steady. All you need to do during the six paid months to qualify for the free extension is to have kept your profile visible, have a profile pic, and message at least 5 different new members each month. I've already had one free extension and am now on the last month of my second paid 6 month membership. I have only met 5 women in person over 16 months. But that's common for average-looking men, at least my age in my area. I have no idea what's common for women my age in my area, but I bet there are way more men than women on that site in those categories. Ironically, I may soon be meeting two women at the same time in the next week or so. If so it will be the first time I've ever been able to try parallel dating, so to speak. We'll see. It's pure dumb luck that I came across two women at the same time that were both interested in me. One is new and the other I've been trading messages with for about a month but haven't met yet due to weather and illness so far. Doubt I will be seeing both for very long at the same time. @Gwendolyn2018

11 Literary Pick Up Lines for the Chronically Dateless | Literary Hub

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 13, 2019:

This stuff is way too highbrow for me to be familiar with it, much less work it well. It's also too highbrow to work on women in my area.

When I was 5 years old my mother always told me happiness was the key to life.

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 12, 2019:

That man was so intelligent and wise, even he wasn't exactly a saint. He was always a hero to me and I still get so sad and angry that he was murdered. He was always a role model to me and others about how to never conform to the system or be misled by authority. He stayed true to his conscience and principles as much as any celeb except maybe Muhammad Ali. " A working class hero is something to be...."

Every time I get on plenty of catfish, I immediately get messages from random women looking to ...

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 12, 2019:

I'm glad you enjoy screwing with their heads. Me, I've never felt like bothering with it.

Every time I get on plenty of catfish, I immediately get messages from random women looking to ...

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 12, 2019:

See Deiter's two posts about an alleged Russian beauty that is after him, lol. I personally don't have any experience with that on this site. Had a lot of it on Our Time and only a bit of it so far on Match. Match seems to do pretty well at keeping them off their site because the staff appears to be actively patrolling the site for scammers. I think another reason Our Time has more scammers is that the site is more geared for older people, who scammers think are easier marks than younger people.

Oh no... not wine....

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 12, 2019:

Poor scared kitty. Those crazy unreliable hoomans....

Another missive from Irinushoka Woman today! She's moved from reaching out to campaigning.

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 12, 2019:

Deiter- How is it you track down where the pic is really from anyway?

Another missive from Irinushoka Woman today! She's moved from reaching out to campaigning.

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 12, 2019:

Once again Deiter, aka Mr. Catfish, you are so generous to share some of "her" so abundant love with us, lol! She might be more successful with pics that had full body shots and more skin... but who cares, how can we resist anyway???? What's the rules anyway about dating site profile pics, are 15 yo pics too outdated, as long as they aren't your own to begin with???????

I want to believe

TomMcGiverin comments on Feb 12, 2019:

Like Mulder on The X-Files, "I Want To Believe".

I swear if my cat poops one more time.... I'll just clean out her litter box as usual ?