I'm currently parenting a teen in the age of social media and instant gratification.

VAL3941 comments on Apr 14, 2018:

Give her a roof over her head, let her do her own washing, ironing, preparing her own food and no pocket money. See how she fares. She will soon tire and understand what you are trying to teach her. Don't be soft.

Is a married human being happier than unmarried one?

VAL3941 comments on Apr 14, 2018:

Leave the word married out and use having a bond with someone would be more appropiate I should think

Pet Peeve It seems everyday is "National (fill in the blank) Day.

VAL3941 comments on Apr 14, 2018:

We are all just trying to get more public holudays, my friends !

I'm currently parenting a teen in the age of social media and instant gratification.

VAL3941 comments on Apr 14, 2018:

Welcome to the club. Drown the little brats as we should have done at birth.

The definition of atheist is so weak.

VAL3941 comments on Apr 14, 2018:

What else would we call ourselves ?

How do you get tasks accomplished?

VAL3941 comments on Apr 14, 2018:

Ask my partner to do it, it is called delegation.

Positive/negative, give/take, yin/yang.... Any opinions?

VAL3941 comments on Apr 14, 2018:

Depends on the mood you wake up too, I would imagin.

Let me try this again.

VAL3941 comments on Apr 14, 2018:

I am here just for the laughs. Some comments are hilarious.

Feeling a bit nostalgic flipping through my high school yearbook remembering my years in the bands ...

VAL3941 comments on Apr 14, 2018:

Yip, it was in high school that I had my first sexual experience, hiw can I forget ?

How long to wait before going on dates?

VAL3941 comments on Apr 14, 2018:

I started dating the moment my ex wife told me she was divoring me. Never got involved though as I am still single after 35 years. Many have tried but I am not going to put myself in that position again.

So.

VAL3941 comments on Apr 13, 2018:

Because you are married to her, she has no one else to blame.

Faith is a measurable property.

VAL3941 comments on Apr 13, 2018:

Are you living on this planet.?

Do you suffer from triskaidekaphobia?

VAL3941 comments on Apr 13, 2018:

Hell No. Would love to have 13 girlfriends, rest on the 14th day.

Who cares? It's just stuff!

VAL3941 comments on Apr 13, 2018:

When my parents died I gave all thier stuff, except what I needed, to charity. It was most welcome by them.

Over Spring Break, I took a road trip by myself.

VAL3941 comments on Apr 13, 2018:

A travel buddy, as long as she brings the beer ?

According to reports a few weeks ago, there was an accusation the rebels were bringing in chemical ...

VAL3941 comments on Apr 13, 2018:

Why can't they use LSD in chemical weapons ? An occassional whiff won't do the any harm, and they will be able ti enjoy the war.

Chronic Pain.

VAL3941 comments on Apr 12, 2018:

Grab 100's of cases of alcohol and banish yourself to a deserted island with them !

Do you believe there are aliens walking among us?

VAL3941 comments on Apr 12, 2018:

As in outer space or as in another country ?

Whats your dream date
?

VAL3941 comments on Apr 12, 2018:

With a nyphomanic who owns a brewery !

Does love exist? (As in, the "romantic" sort)

VAL3941 comments on Apr 12, 2018:

Thats not Love, thats Lust !

What do you do - from a social perspective - when you discover that someone you know is ...

VAL3941 comments on Apr 12, 2018:

Tell them what idiots they are, does not endear me to them though.

Famous person?

VAL3941 comments on Apr 12, 2018:

No one that I can think of, but then I am not inclined or interested. They might be Famous or infamous depending on your outlook, not so ?

I think honesty is a virtue.

VAL3941 comments on Apr 12, 2018:

You are so right. You just have to go on to dating sights to find out how many liars/dishonest people are out there, yet they all claim honesty is one of the traits they are looking for in a relationship. I do not think our kuds have been brought up in a honesty culture.

Love or to be loved

VAL3941 comments on Apr 11, 2018:

Itbis a matter of perspective, depending where you are in your life. Some times one, sometimes the other. Pick your choose. Hee hee

What is your knowledge of religion?

VAL3941 comments on Apr 11, 2018:

Enough to know itbis not needed in my life or anyone elses for that matter.

Whats everyone's favourite animal and what pets do you keep or would like to keep?

VAL3941 comments on Apr 11, 2018:

A Pig. As Winston Churchill stated " It is the only animal that treats you as an equal."

Being single

VAL3941 comments on Apr 11, 2018:

Not me !! I am 74 years old and been single for almost 35 years. No thank you,nI don't like reporting my movements to anyone, shopping with them ? Aaargh !! Time keeping ? I am a stickler for it. Really, I enjoy my own company too much.

What is the one creature, snake, spider, rodent, bat, etc, that creeps you out the most?

VAL3941 comments on Apr 9, 2018:

Women !!! The most devious creatures on earth, frighten the hell out of me. ( just joking ). Nothing actually, just very careful of some.

Fellow agnostics, how do you feel about believers joining?

VAL3941 comments on Apr 9, 2018:

Keep them away, we have enough from them in everyday life, don't need them here. Ban them if necessary.

Anyone also incorporating IF (Intermittent Fasting)?

VAL3941 comments on Apr 8, 2018:

I started off wit Dr. Atkins, now with Dr Tim Noaks and his Banting lifestyle. And yes ! I fast for 24 hours once a week and feel very good for it.

Dating after 50

VAL3941 comments on Apr 8, 2018:

Maybe you are trying to hard ? Just say f..k em all and see what happens ?

God hates porn?

VAL3941 comments on Apr 8, 2018:

He akso has his own porn site, " goforthandprocreate.com "

are you afraid of death?

VAL3941 comments on Apr 4, 2018:

Not at all. We all get there at some stage or other and seeing there is no heaven or hell, just nothing afterwards whats there to be afraid of ? Go in peace my love !

Can good kissing be taught?

VAL3941 comments on Apr 2, 2018:

Hello, thinds like kissing cannot be taught. Whatever you do, relax, put your heart and soul into it and be willing to follow someone elses lead if necessary. All will be OK! We can't always like what we are doing. I suppose it also depends on which parts you are kissing ! Good luck.

I’m a lovely young lady in my 60’s.

VAL3941 comments on Apr 2, 2018:

I am surprised you lasted 60years withoug getting married. It is not a train smash and is overated anyway. As long as you have friends, maybe some with benefits, you don't need more. Cultivate friends,they are always there for you.

I have a bit of an embarrassing confession to make.

VAL3941 comments on Apr 2, 2018:

Hello, I have been on dating sites for years and have met some very interesting people, including some very nasty ones. Put yourself out there but be very vigilant. Don't be embarrest, we all go through this sometime. Regards Valdin