Only a woman is capable of saying something like this with a straight face.

SukiSue comments on Jul 13, 2018:

You have to start somewhere. Like at a Valvoline oil changing franchise. After they give you that little sticker thing on your window and you know when to come back things fall into place. But yeah it's hard and somebody has to teach you. I'm glad she had you. Road trips are great! And yeah, helping...

VAL3941 replies on Jul 14, 2018:

You were just after the sticker, admitt it ?

I don't mind people giving me life advice as long as it's not about anything that I say or do or ...

VAL3941 comments on Jul 13, 2018:

Any other buttons you don't want touched ?

VAL3941 replies on Jul 14, 2018:

@MrLizard Oh ! We can work that one out by ourselves.

A guy named @useless512 just joined. I gotta know... WHY are you useless?

UselessBastard comments on Jul 13, 2018:

The answer is as obvious as it is bleak. Existential nihilism.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 14, 2018:

@SukiSue Yeah, I like legs too, frogs legs, chicken legs, legs of lamb etc etc.

The struggle is real...

Stacey48 comments on Jul 13, 2018:

It really is. I'd like some support without wires as well.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 14, 2018:

@Carin I am just happy men could help out with this shit to make our women look good. Lol

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GuyKeith comments on Jul 13, 2018:

Won’t open in my tablet

VAL3941 replies on Jul 14, 2018:

Better get a new tablet then don't you think ?

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Stacey48 comments on Jul 13, 2018:

This is a very good read. Thank you.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 14, 2018:

I can be serious at times.

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Nukdookum comments on Jul 13, 2018:

Very informative. I loved it.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 14, 2018:

Thought it was worth posting.

It has been scientifically proven that if you send a man to a store to get 5 items he comes back ...

sweetcharlotte comments on Jul 13, 2018:

Depends on the store you shop in rather than the gender of the shopper.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

Bull, women love to shop. Full stop. Lol

I wonder if Superman gets morning steel?

Stacey48 comments on Jul 13, 2018:

Judging by this photo, the rest of his steeliness may be overcompensating.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

@Stacey48 Don't act so damn innocent. LOL

I wonder if Superman gets morning steel?

Stacey48 comments on Jul 13, 2018:

Judging by this photo, the rest of his steeliness may be overcompensating.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

@Stacey48 At his crotch. A very tiny steel nail.

I wonder if Superman gets morning steel?

Stacey48 comments on Jul 13, 2018:

Judging by this photo, the rest of his steeliness may be overcompensating.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

@Stacey48 There !!!! Maybe it is a blow up doll and needs more air ?

I wonder if Superman gets morning steel?

Stacey48 comments on Jul 13, 2018:

Judging by this photo, the rest of his steeliness may be overcompensating.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

You are not suppised to be looking there.

Takes a man to sort out womens clothing problems. The bra strap clasp was invented by Mark Twain!

Stacey48 comments on Jul 13, 2018:

Holy crap. I googled.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

@Stacey48 Will I be able to wear it to the beach ?

After my g/f visited me these last 2 days, I got to thinking.

m16566 comments on Jul 12, 2018:

For women the horniness is different desire to be desired especially young women are trained to believe that men are insatiable horndogs at care only for their dicks in reality we have all the drives and emotions that women have we just a little different analogy is that men are like microwaves and ...

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

@16566 My experience is horny is horny, male of female and has nothing to do with close relationships.

The struggle is real...

Stacey48 comments on Jul 13, 2018:

It really is. I'd like some support without wires as well.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

@ProudMary But they make your boobs look nice !

The struggle is real...

pepperjones comments on Jul 13, 2018:

But they're so pretty!!!

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

@ProudMary You women are so vain.

The struggle is real...

Carin comments on Jul 13, 2018:

If you wear an odd size it's even worse. I can't get a 34DDD for under $65--sixty five dollars for ONE bra! That's if the store even carries that size. Many don't. But if you look at them, they are pretty complicated garments that would be hard to sew. It would take more time to make one than ...

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

My Daughter has patterns fof bras, but is wary of making any.

Takes a man to sort out womens clothing problems. The bra strap clasp was invented by Mark Twain!

Stacey48 comments on Jul 13, 2018:

Holy crap. I googled.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

@Stacey48 Why are you taking so long. LOL

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ugly comments on Jul 13, 2018:

Interesting

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

Very !

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Duke comments on Jul 13, 2018:

That was a good read! Thanks for posting it.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

I thought so too.

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SukiSue comments on Jul 13, 2018:

Somehow... I'm afraid to even click on the link! Will my eyes burn?

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

@SukiSue See, nof all my postings are tongue in cheek. LOL

Takes a man to sort out womens clothing problems. The bra strap clasp was invented by Mark Twain!

Stacey48 comments on Jul 13, 2018:

Holy crap. I googled.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

@Stacey48 We try my dear, we keep on trying to improve the world for women.

Takes a man to sort out womens clothing problems. The bra strap clasp was invented by Mark Twain!

Stacey48 comments on Jul 13, 2018:

Interesting to know. Now who the hell invented the underwire? I hope they died a slow painful death, after years of torture.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

@Stacey48 Touchê, now go back to chatting to yourself.

I just ate so much Chinese food that now I'm able to use algorithms based on linear algebra to solve...

Stacey48 comments on Jul 13, 2018:

Wow!!! I have never seen that much stereotype in two sentences. Do you practice that skill?

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

@SukiSue Never heard it called that before ?

Takes a man to sort out womens clothing problems. The bra strap clasp was invented by Mark Twain!

Stacey48 comments on Jul 13, 2018:

Holy crap. I googled.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

See ! Again a man.

I wonder if Superman gets morning steel?

VAL3941 comments on Jul 13, 2018:

If he does, wonder how long it lasts or does it start rusting ?

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

@Duke Wonder if she had super wet dreams too ?

Takes a man to sort out womens clothing problems. The bra strap clasp was invented by Mark Twain!

Stacey48 comments on Jul 13, 2018:

Interesting to know. Now who the hell invented the underwire? I hope they died a slow painful death, after years of torture.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

@Stacey48 I see you like talking to yourself.

I wonder if Superman gets morning steel?

VAL3941 comments on Jul 13, 2018:

If he does, wonder how long it lasts or does it start rusting ?

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

@Duke The only thing that gets stained are the sheets, his Mum complained about that all the time.

Takes a man to sort out womens clothing problems. The bra strap clasp was invented by Mark Twain!

SukiSue comments on Jul 13, 2018:

We just know you guys love a challenge.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

@SukiSue I am not lots of guys ! Choose your partners better.

Takes a man to sort out womens clothing problems. The bra strap clasp was invented by Mark Twain!

MsDemeanour comments on Jul 13, 2018:

Must've been invented by a man because bras are the worst invention ever. First thing to get ripped off as I walk thro the front door. Just remember that at sometime a man found female nipples offensive.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

@SukiSue We wanted to give you time to rethink your position !

Takes a man to sort out womens clothing problems. The bra strap clasp was invented by Mark Twain!

Bierbasstard comments on Jul 13, 2018:

Usually I can snap one open with one hand. Even ones with 5 or 6 clasps. The first time I encountered a front closure was a bit of a conundrum. ;-)

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

Only if you have 5 fingers ? At that stage it usually feels like you got 15.

My kind of therapy right here.

LadyAlyxandrea comments on Jul 13, 2018:

When I do that I just get even more stressed about how much this reprieve costs, how much stuff I'm not doing while being there, and how my problems are all still there, waiting for me

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

@PickledRick Not so sure, ever heard of tsunamis.

I am appalled! I woke up this morning without one bad thing to say about anybody! What the heck?

SukiSue comments on Jul 13, 2018:

I'll just go back to reading @val3941's comments that will get me going...

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

Damn I am lucky. Don't need to see your legs no more.

Takes a man to sort out womens clothing problems. The bra strap clasp was invented by Mark Twain!

SukiSue comments on Jul 13, 2018:

We just know you guys love a challenge.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

What challenge ? Mark T sorted that out for us.

NASA X-Files

VAL3941 comments on Jul 13, 2018:

Then believe, who cares ?

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

@LibrePenseur I know, so is mine. Lol

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SukiSue comments on Jul 13, 2018:

Somehow... I'm afraid to even click on the link! Will my eyes burn?

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

All above board, promise. Please read and let me know what you think .

Takes a man to sort out womens clothing problems. The bra strap clasp was invented by Mark Twain!

ugly comments on Jul 13, 2018:

He also invented the hockey puck and tuna salad.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

Never seen a hockey puck in a Tuna salad served in a bra before ?

People always tell me when I'm trying to meet someone " don't be weird just act natural be ...

LadyAlyxandrea comments on Jul 13, 2018:

My mom always tells me "be your amazing wonderful charming self...but...tone it down and hide your crazy" Do you want me to be myself or not, woman?

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

Everyone is weird on a first meeting.

Takes a man to sort out womens clothing problems. The bra strap clasp was invented by Mark Twain!

Simon1 comments on Jul 13, 2018:

Someone had to find a way to get them off quicker !!

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

Was thinking that when I read it !

My kind of therapy right here.

LadyAlyxandrea comments on Jul 13, 2018:

When I do that I just get even more stressed about how much this reprieve costs, how much stuff I'm not doing while being there, and how my problems are all still there, waiting for me

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

Like going on a drinking binge.

I have had three different men pm me on POF the past two weeks.

novoxguy comments on Jul 13, 2018:

Excuse my ignorance. What is POF?

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

Was wondering the same thing.

After my g/f visited me these last 2 days, I got to thinking.

SukiSue comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Yup. When you want sex you have to initiate no matter Who You Are. No one else is a mind reader.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

@SukiSue Screwing is screwing and at the time culture, upbringing and everything else goes out the window and you concentrate only on the moment. So forget all the " Beautiful " posts and just get on with it !

After my g/f visited me these last 2 days, I got to thinking.

MissKathleen comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Social scripting.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 13, 2018:

Hello MissK. Not surprised you are here as well !

After my g/f visited me these last 2 days, I got to thinking.

ProudMary comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Some of us do. I'm a dirty old woman and I wear it like a badge of honor.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@ProudMary Snap !

After my g/f visited me these last 2 days, I got to thinking.

ProudMary comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Some of us do. I'm a dirty old woman and I wear it like a badge of honor.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@SukiSue All of us. You included. And you are a women so should be confused.

After my g/f visited me these last 2 days, I got to thinking.

SukiSue comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Yup. When you want sex you have to initiate no matter Who You Are. No one else is a mind reader.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@SukiSue We have never kissed, so nothing to tell. LOL

After my g/f visited me these last 2 days, I got to thinking.

ProudMary comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Some of us do. I'm a dirty old woman and I wear it like a badge of honor.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@ProudMary Yipeeeee, I won, I won !

After my g/f visited me these last 2 days, I got to thinking.

ProudMary comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Some of us do. I'm a dirty old woman and I wear it like a badge of honor.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@germangirl90439, @ProudMary Yes too much for both you ladies even if I say so myself.

After my g/f visited me these last 2 days, I got to thinking.

ProudMary comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Some of us do. I'm a dirty old woman and I wear it like a badge of honor.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@ProudMary We ard not fighting over you, so get smug look off your face.

After my g/f visited me these last 2 days, I got to thinking.

ProudMary comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Some of us do. I'm a dirty old woman and I wear it like a badge of honor.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@germangirl90439 Thats what I said !

After my g/f visited me these last 2 days, I got to thinking.

ProudMary comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Some of us do. I'm a dirty old woman and I wear it like a badge of honor.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@germangirl90439 We are not ! How dare you make such an accusation .

After my g/f visited me these last 2 days, I got to thinking.

SukiSue comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Yup. When you want sex you have to initiate no matter Who You Are. No one else is a mind reader.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@germangirl90439 No, just got something in my eye. Sob, sob .

After my g/f visited me these last 2 days, I got to thinking.

ProudMary comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Some of us do. I'm a dirty old woman and I wear it like a badge of honor.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@ProudMary Thanks for the English lesson you loose school Marm !

After my g/f visited me these last 2 days, I got to thinking.

SukiSue comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Yup. When you want sex you have to initiate no matter Who You Are. No one else is a mind reader.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@germangirl90439 ???

As I was raising my children, I used guilt as a tool to help them understand that some behaviors ...

germangirl90439 comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Great, now I know where I have all these guilt feelings from!

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@germangirl90439 Now you sound like a sheep. Lol

After my g/f visited me these last 2 days, I got to thinking.

LenHazell53 comments on Jul 12, 2018:

It's been my experience that they do, but god (or whatever) help you if you say no.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@LenHazell53 But when is enough, enough ?

After my g/f visited me these last 2 days, I got to thinking.

Anonbene comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Here as another thought (tactic) that you might find useful and want to consider. During a first meeting and date never look at her chest. Women's minds are always working and they all are always about a hairs width between "I've got him" and "what's wrong with me"? By paying absolutely no ...

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@Stacey48 OK ! I get the message .

As I was raising my children, I used guilt as a tool to help them understand that some behaviors ...

germangirl90439 comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Great, now I know where I have all these guilt feelings from!

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@germangirl90439 Damn, and here I am thinking my life is a closed book ?

After my g/f visited me these last 2 days, I got to thinking.

SukiSue comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Yup. When you want sex you have to initiate no matter Who You Are. No one else is a mind reader.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@germangirl90439 Secrets are for children and politicians, you are neither !

After my g/f visited me these last 2 days, I got to thinking.

SukiSue comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Yup. When you want sex you have to initiate no matter Who You Are. No one else is a mind reader.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@Surfpirate We are refering to spidermans cousins !

After my g/f visited me these last 2 days, I got to thinking.

ugly comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Fear of rejection.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

Fear of ejaculation, more like it ?

After my g/f visited me these last 2 days, I got to thinking.

m16566 comments on Jul 12, 2018:

For women the horniness is different desire to be desired especially young women are trained to believe that men are insatiable horndogs at care only for their dicks in reality we have all the drives and emotions that women have we just a little different analogy is that men are like microwaves and ...

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

You sound like Doctor Spock. What makes you the expert ?

Just following up on some recent posts.

Sticks48 comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Drama! What drama? Men don't have drama! What the fuck are you talking about? We hate fucking drama! Keep your Goddamn drama to yourself, thank you very fucking much! ?

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@Stacey48 No, sounds like he needs to get laid ?

After my g/f visited me these last 2 days, I got to thinking.

Anonbene comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Here as another thought (tactic) that you might find useful and want to consider. During a first meeting and date never look at her chest. Women's minds are always working and they all are always about a hairs width between "I've got him" and "what's wrong with me"? By paying absolutely no ...

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@Stacey48 Sticks just wants you to initiate with him, gef into his boxers ?

After my g/f visited me these last 2 days, I got to thinking.

LenHazell53 comments on Jul 12, 2018:

It's been my experience that they do, but god (or whatever) help you if you say no.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

What ??? You think I am stupid enough to say no ? Sorry, don't answer that !

After my g/f visited me these last 2 days, I got to thinking.

SukiSue comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Yup. When you want sex you have to initiate no matter Who You Are. No one else is a mind reader.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@germangirl90439 Glad no hear, whats your secret ?

After my g/f visited me these last 2 days, I got to thinking.

SukiSue comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Yup. When you want sex you have to initiate no matter Who You Are. No one else is a mind reader.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@SukiSue, @Anonbene She likes the legs on a spider ?

After my g/f visited me these last 2 days, I got to thinking.

SukiSue comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Yup. When you want sex you have to initiate no matter Who You Are. No one else is a mind reader.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@SukiSue Even a spider with 8 of thd damn things ? Do you think a female spider has 4 vaginas ? Or a male spuder witn 4 dicks ?

As I was raising my children, I used guilt as a tool to help them understand that some behaviors ...

germangirl90439 comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Great, now I know where I have all these guilt feelings from!

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@germangirl90439 How did you guess ?

As I was raising my children, I used guilt as a tool to help them understand that some behaviors ...

germangirl90439 comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Great, now I know where I have all these guilt feelings from!

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@germangirl90439 Ok ! I am not nosey !

As I was raising my children, I used guilt as a tool to help them understand that some behaviors ...

Surfpirate comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Some parents think that the best way for their kids to develop is through free expression and there is a term for those sorts of children, spoiled rotten brats. They do whatever they want without the slightest concern for the consequences of their actions, until they meet the other kids at recess ...

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@Surfpirate In more ways than one, for sure !

As I was raising my children, I used guilt as a tool to help them understand that some behaviors ...

Surfpirate comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Some parents think that the best way for their kids to develop is through free expression and there is a term for those sorts of children, spoiled rotten brats. They do whatever they want without the slightest concern for the consequences of their actions, until they meet the other kids at recess ...

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@Surfpirate Oh ! I use womens make-up base for that ! Makes me look very hansome too !

As I was raising my children, I used guilt as a tool to help them understand that some behaviors ...

escapetypist comments on Jul 12, 2018:

I have no problem with this. Personally I think parents just need to make sure the kids live to adulthood and get educated. After about 21 the kid has to make his own way and grow up on his own. Guilt trips, corporal punishment, little lies to make them behave don't mean squat. If a kid is still...

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@minhmeister Top from bottom ! It is known as cranial Defusion, whatever that is ?

As I was raising my children, I used guilt as a tool to help them understand that some behaviors ...

Surfpirate comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Some parents think that the best way for their kids to develop is through free expression and there is a term for those sorts of children, spoiled rotten brats. They do whatever they want without the slightest concern for the consequences of their actions, until they meet the other kids at recess ...

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@Surfpirate Will that save me from getting black eyes ?

After my g/f visited me these last 2 days, I got to thinking.

Anonbene comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Here as another thought (tactic) that you might find useful and want to consider. During a first meeting and date never look at her chest. Women's minds are always working and they all are always about a hairs width between "I've got him" and "what's wrong with me"? By paying absolutely no ...

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

I am not addicted, I just like a lot and want it to come to me without working for it ! Your advise is too much like hard work ?

After my g/f visited me these last 2 days, I got to thinking.

ProudMary comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Some of us do. I'm a dirty old woman and I wear it like a badge of honor.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@ProudMary So everyone keeps telling me ? LOLOLOLOL

As I was raising my children, I used guilt as a tool to help them understand that some behaviors ...

germangirl90439 comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Great, now I know where I have all these guilt feelings from!

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@germangirl90439 You mean different as in ???

As I was raising my children, I used guilt as a tool to help them understand that some behaviors ...

escapetypist comments on Jul 12, 2018:

I have no problem with this. Personally I think parents just need to make sure the kids live to adulthood and get educated. After about 21 the kid has to make his own way and grow up on his own. Guilt trips, corporal punishment, little lies to make them behave don't mean squat. If a kid is still...

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@SukiSue, @minhmeister She has ! It is called " The art of bisecting kids brains " .

As I was raising my children, I used guilt as a tool to help them understand that some behaviors ...

escapetypist comments on Jul 12, 2018:

I have no problem with this. Personally I think parents just need to make sure the kids live to adulthood and get educated. After about 21 the kid has to make his own way and grow up on his own. Guilt trips, corporal punishment, little lies to make them behave don't mean squat. If a kid is still...

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@SukiSue At least they were not inbyour bed ! Ever tried sleeping with Doritos between the sheets ?

After my g/f visited me these last 2 days, I got to thinking.

SukiSue comments on Jul 12, 2018:

By the way, nice pictures! Just seeing these would make me be the initiator!

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@SukiSue But I can only see your knees ?

As I was raising my children, I used guilt as a tool to help them understand that some behaviors ...

germangirl90439 comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Great, now I know where I have all these guilt feelings from!

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@germangirl90439 Where do you keep them ? I wang to steal a pair ?

As I was raising my children, I used guilt as a tool to help them understand that some behaviors ...

germangirl90439 comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Great, now I know where I have all these guilt feelings from!

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@germangirl90439 The ones your neck is resting on, how many pairs of shoulders do you have ?

As I was raising my children, I used guilt as a tool to help them understand that some behaviors ...

escapetypist comments on Jul 12, 2018:

I have no problem with this. Personally I think parents just need to make sure the kids live to adulthood and get educated. After about 21 the kid has to make his own way and grow up on his own. Guilt trips, corporal punishment, little lies to make them behave don't mean squat. If a kid is still...

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@SukiSue There they are NOT like their Pa ,

After my g/f visited me these last 2 days, I got to thinking.

SukiSue comments on Jul 12, 2018:

By the way, nice pictures! Just seeing these would make me be the initiator!

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@SukiSue But I still havenot seen your legs after all this pleeding ? How do you expect me to make informed choices ?

As I was raising my children, I used guilt as a tool to help them understand that some behaviors ...

escapetypist comments on Jul 12, 2018:

I have no problem with this. Personally I think parents just need to make sure the kids live to adulthood and get educated. After about 21 the kid has to make his own way and grow up on his own. Guilt trips, corporal punishment, little lies to make them behave don't mean squat. If a kid is still...

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@SukiSue Tried that too, unteachable like their Pa too ?

As I was raising my children, I used guilt as a tool to help them understand that some behaviors ...

germangirl90439 comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Great, now I know where I have all these guilt feelings from!

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@germangirl90439 Is that dollars or decades ? That is a lot of guilt for your tiny shoulders ?

After my g/f visited me these last 2 days, I got to thinking.

SukiSue comments on Jul 12, 2018:

By the way, nice pictures! Just seeing these would make me be the initiator!

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@minhmeister It IS her persona ! @SukiSue is fast on the draw !

After my g/f visited me these last 2 days, I got to thinking.

SukiSue comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Yup. When you want sex you have to initiate no matter Who You Are. No one else is a mind reader.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@germangirl90439 Aren't you passed that stage yet ?

As I was raising my children, I used guilt as a tool to help them understand that some behaviors ...

Anonbene comments on Jul 12, 2018:

I hear that works on most men in general too. Some women are quite good at it.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@SukiSue I know, I was brought up by a woman like that ?

After my g/f visited me these last 2 days, I got to thinking.

GuyKeith comments on Jul 12, 2018:

If you are irresistible enough, they can’t help themselves. I just show them my legs ?

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@germangirl90439 No trouble, plenty of women out there !

As I was raising my children, I used guilt as a tool to help them understand that some behaviors ...

escapetypist comments on Jul 12, 2018:

I have no problem with this. Personally I think parents just need to make sure the kids live to adulthood and get educated. After about 21 the kid has to make his own way and grow up on his own. Guilt trips, corporal punishment, little lies to make them behave don't mean squat. If a kid is still...

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@minhmeister Tried it all, they have thick skins like their Pa. I find it better to just say No.

As I was raising my children, I used guilt as a tool to help them understand that some behaviors ...

germangirl90439 comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Great, now I know where I have all these guilt feelings from!

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

Right, give @SukiSue hell for making you feel guilty all these years or is it decades ?? LOL

As I was raising my children, I used guilt as a tool to help them understand that some behaviors ...

Surfpirate comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Some parents think that the best way for their kids to develop is through free expression and there is a term for those sorts of children, spoiled rotten brats. They do whatever they want without the slightest concern for the consequences of their actions, until they meet the other kids at recess ...

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@Surfpirate It is not taking me anywhere. At 74 I have arrived at where I want to be and I love this site but I wish people would stop crapping on my parade ! As for you, any response is appropriate !

So really we're just a bunch of thought provokers.

VAL3941 comments on Jul 12, 2018:

If we weren't we would still be living in the dark ages !

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@SACatWalker At least you call me sir ! That means your opnion means nothing to anyone, especially me !

As I was raising my children, I used guilt as a tool to help them understand that some behaviors ...

Surfpirate comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Some parents think that the best way for their kids to develop is through free expression and there is a term for those sorts of children, spoiled rotten brats. They do whatever they want without the slightest concern for the consequences of their actions, until they meet the other kids at recess ...

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@Surfpirate I am not a spoilt brat but am very obnoxious at times. Is that a reason to give me black eyes ? No I say, those that met out black eyes are just plain bullies ! LOL

After my g/f visited me these last 2 days, I got to thinking.

Anonbene comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Like in any negotiation the person that has the thing the other person wants always has the upper hand whether it's a first addition comic book or a used vagina. Females are taught this tactic from the age of about 4 or 5. Your only defense against this is to remind yourself and her that there are 3...

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

Yes I know ! They are taught by their mothers, but not all vaginas as pretty or are as active ?

As I was raising my children, I used guilt as a tool to help them understand that some behaviors ...

Anonbene comments on Jul 12, 2018:

I hear that works on most men in general too. Some women are quite good at it.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

@SukiSue Told you I don't have sexy legs, but I must agree with @Anonbene !

As I was raising my children, I used guilt as a tool to help them understand that some behaviors ...

Surfpirate comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Some parents think that the best way for their kids to develop is through free expression and there is a term for those sorts of children, spoiled rotten brats. They do whatever they want without the slightest concern for the consequences of their actions, until they meet the other kids at recess ...

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

Nothing wrong with a black eye ? I still sport them regularly.

As I was raising my children, I used guilt as a tool to help them understand that some behaviors ...

escapetypist comments on Jul 12, 2018:

I have no problem with this. Personally I think parents just need to make sure the kids live to adulthood and get educated. After about 21 the kid has to make his own way and grow up on his own. Guilt trips, corporal punishment, little lies to make them behave don't mean squat. If a kid is still...

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

And beyond ? My kids are in their 50's and still thinkI am their personal ATM ? They need to grow up, so how can I make them feel guilty ??

After my g/f visited me these last 2 days, I got to thinking.

SukiSue comments on Jul 12, 2018:

Yup. When you want sex you have to initiate no matter Who You Are. No one else is a mind reader.

VAL3941 replies on Jul 12, 2018:

But they expect you to be ???