What is the most valuable lesson you have learned in life?

MustardSeed comments on Apr 15, 2018:

Shut your eyes when you know there will be a bang. Keep you fingers away from the moving parts. Hold your breath when something vents. Put ice on most injuries, even if heat feels great. Don't hide an injury.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 15, 2018:

Thats not one, thats 5 valueable things learnt.

Thank You Denny Taylor for this piece.

ashley44 comments on Apr 15, 2018:

I'm very careful about opening links, since I had to have my computer completely restored last year because I opened a link. So, I don't open links on this site. Cannot afford another trip to the "computer doctor."

VAL3941 replies on Apr 15, 2018:

I agree. I never ooen links..

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Jenster comments on Apr 15, 2018:

Thank you for trying, but you do not have all your facts straight. How do you know what "most" women prefer? Just how much sex and with how many women have you had it to know what most prefer? Saying what "most" of anybody wants is akin to saying that most cats like to be petted because your cat ...

VAL3941 replies on Apr 15, 2018:

My origibal pist did invite replies. Persobs should answer for them selves and not for others. That is the poing of the discussion.

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Kimba comments on Apr 15, 2018:

Over 50 and by preference still a cock jockey. Doesn't mean I don't enjoy the other games but we all have our preferences. Generally women have at least a vague idea how their bodies work but often work on the basis if I have to give detailed instructions they may as well do it themself. As for ...

VAL3941 replies on Apr 15, 2018:

I agree whole heartedly. Talk openly and honestely with each other.

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AncientNight comments on Apr 15, 2018:

I think you are confusing ejaculation with orgasm. Ejaculation feels good, but orgasm is much more closely related to a Spiritual Event. Even though I've had tens of thousands of ejaculations in my life, I can only claim to have had only two orgasms in the same time period. The first was when my ...

VAL3941 replies on Apr 15, 2018:

I think you are confusing a weak orgasm and a strong orgasm. Ejaculation occures at the time of orgasm in men and women. Never the less, oral sex to me is better than full penetration. The feeling is more intense.

Something here caught my eye recently and thisvis why this post.

AnneWimsey comments on Apr 15, 2018:

Thank you for your post! I keep telling guys my age, it's no big deal! On the other hand, I like a 50-50 Or 100-100 outcome...what do guys with ED like women to do?

VAL3941 replies on Apr 15, 2018:

Glad to help. Most women dob't know that and are afraid to ask. ED and libido problems are 2 different things.

Something here caught my eye recently and thisvis why this post.

VictoriaNotes comments on Apr 15, 2018:

*"and women generaly just do not know how thier bodies work !*" Wrong! Why do you think the vibrator business is thriving? ;)

VAL3941 replies on Apr 15, 2018:

I agree, men are mostely to blame. But not all wondn know how thier bodies work, and have no idea where thier g-spot is. Why must men figure it out when wonen could just telk them!

Pet Peeve It seems everyday is "National (fill in the blank) Day.

Lani comments on Apr 14, 2018:

I want a National Throat Kick Day where you can't get in trouble if you do it.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 15, 2018:

Please don't do that. Teenagers are cute, until they reach the age of 13.

Something here caught my eye recently and thisvis why this post.

Doc-ZsuZsu comments on Apr 15, 2018:

Did you ever hear of poor man's Viagra? it's a popsicle stick and duct tape! lol

VAL3941 replies on Apr 15, 2018:

Don't want it, doing OK without all those meds and aids. (Smile)

Anyone else longing to see another planetary cityscape?

VAL3941 comments on Apr 15, 2018:

Join Elon Musk at space X and go build your own cityscape on Mars !

VAL3941 replies on Apr 15, 2018:

If you put your heart into it you wil, succeed.

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pepperjones comments on Apr 15, 2018:

While I'm 2 years from 50 I'm still going to chime in... I think you're wrong on a few points. While I love oral, I still LOVE penetration. Also, I know my body and how everything works very well. Somehow, women seem to be able to get themselves off every time they try, compared with men who ...

VAL3941 replies on Apr 15, 2018:

Yes, I think you have and be grateful.

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AdorkableMe comments on Apr 15, 2018:

I would not necessarily agree with oral sex being preferential. I know women that works for and some that it really doesn't. I think it's a journey. Finding what and how works for your partner...on both sides of the equation. :-)

VAL3941 replies on Apr 15, 2018:

Please don't give up on me ?

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AdorkableMe comments on Apr 15, 2018:

I would not necessarily agree with oral sex being preferential. I know women that works for and some that it really doesn't. I think it's a journey. Finding what and how works for your partner...on both sides of the equation. :-)

VAL3941 replies on Apr 15, 2018:

Point taken but if you are 45 did you ask yourself this question when you were born? I woukd imagine your sex life started at about 16, so your have had 29 years to find out what works for you. We will talk again in 10 years time.

Something here caught my eye recently and thisvis why this post.

pepperjones comments on Apr 15, 2018:

While I'm 2 years from 50 I'm still going to chime in... I think you're wrong on a few points. While I love oral, I still LOVE penetration. Also, I know my body and how everything works very well. Somehow, women seem to be able to get themselves off every time they try, compared with men who ...

VAL3941 replies on Apr 15, 2018:

I just did and stand by it.

Is money sweeter than honey?

cava comments on Apr 14, 2018:

Is money sweeter than honey? My honey is sweeter than money

VAL3941 replies on Apr 15, 2018:

Don't know. I have never put money on my bread.

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Kimba comments on Apr 15, 2018:

Over 50 and by preference still a cock jockey. Doesn't mean I don't enjoy the other games but we all have our preferences. Generally women have at least a vague idea how their bodies work but often work on the basis if I have to give detailed instructions they may as well do it themself. As for ...

VAL3941 replies on Apr 15, 2018:

Fake it till you make it ??? Bob helps ( Battery operated Boyfriend. )

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sassygirl3869 comments on Apr 15, 2018:

Personal preference. Wouldn't choose one over an other. Both pleasurable.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 15, 2018:

Thank you for your respnse.

Something here caught my eye recently and thisvis why this post.

AdorkableMe comments on Apr 15, 2018:

I would not necessarily agree with oral sex being preferential. I know women that works for and some that it really doesn't. I think it's a journey. Finding what and how works for your partner...on both sides of the equation. :-)

VAL3941 replies on Apr 15, 2018:

Again, don't answer for others. Answer for yourself to your oreference.

Something here caught my eye recently and thisvis why this post.

AnneWimsey comments on Apr 15, 2018:

Thank you for your post! I keep telling guys my age, it's no big deal! On the other hand, I like a 50-50 Or 100-100 outcome...what do guys with ED like women to do?

VAL3941 replies on Apr 15, 2018:

Oral sex is good, does not mean that because I can't get an erection that I can't orgasm

Something here caught my eye recently and thisvis why this post.

VictoriaNotes comments on Apr 15, 2018:

*"and women generaly just do not know how thier bodies work !*" Wrong! Why do you think the vibrator business is thriving? ;)

VAL3941 replies on Apr 15, 2018:

The easy way out.

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Jenster comments on Apr 15, 2018:

Thank you for trying, but you do not have all your facts straight. How do you know what "most" women prefer? Just how much sex and with how many women have you had it to know what most prefer? Saying what "most" of anybody wants is akin to saying that most cats like to be petted because your cat ...

VAL3941 replies on Apr 15, 2018:

Most in jy experience, not yours. And pkease answer for yourself and not othe women. You still did answer the question ?

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pepperjones comments on Apr 15, 2018:

While I'm 2 years from 50 I'm still going to chime in... I think you're wrong on a few points. While I love oral, I still LOVE penetration. Also, I know my body and how everything works very well. Somehow, women seem to be able to get themselves off every time they try, compared with men who ...

VAL3941 replies on Apr 15, 2018:

Men are just selfish, that I know.

After being married 4 times for various reasons and loving my own time and space Kids all older ...

NikMan comments on Apr 15, 2018:

History at this stage of the ascent of man should be more important than religion or as religion is a form of history as god is the background of life and trying to make sense of it..

VAL3941 replies on Apr 15, 2018:

Why don't you leave god out of it, he/she/it has no pkace here.

A question before a wedding.

Donotbelieve comments on Apr 15, 2018:

I do not find marriage to be a beneficial institute.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 15, 2018:

You are right, it is not.

A question before a wedding.

Sarahroo29 comments on Apr 15, 2018:

I don't want to get married.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 15, 2018:

Then don't. Marriage is the pits.

A question before a wedding.

VAL3941 comments on Apr 15, 2018:

Don't get married, then you can run away when you need too.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 15, 2018:

Of course it is true, and then run as fast as your littke legs can carry you !

Everything is nothing.

VAL3941 comments on Apr 14, 2018:

My only complaint is that I did not get laid enough. But who cares, I wont be here anyway.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 15, 2018:

Aren't you oan sexual ??? ( from previous post. )

Driving. What is it to you?

Remi comments on Apr 14, 2018:

I just spent a week driving all over rural Southeastern Oregon. It was a lot of fun, lots of wide-open empty space out there. We saw shoe trees, old abandoned buildings, and lots of wildlife. Love exploring like that.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 15, 2018:

My Grandma's slippers must have came from that tree ?

Everything is nothing.

VAL3941 comments on Apr 14, 2018:

My only complaint is that I did not get laid enough. But who cares, I wont be here anyway.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 15, 2018:

No ! Pots and pans. ( Smile )

So, actually met a local guy FROM THIS WEBSITE for coffee and dinner last night.

VAL3941 comments on Apr 14, 2018:

Only for coffee ??? Damn you are slow. Just joking.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 15, 2018:

No, but carry on, you are getting there !

Your dream career if money wasn't an issue.

VAL3941 comments on Apr 14, 2018:

Owner/manager of whorehouse next to a brewery (which is also mine) and is right hext door to a religious establishment. That will learn them.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 14, 2018:

Did I really write this ?

Pet Peeve It seems everyday is "National (fill in the blank) Day.

Lani comments on Apr 14, 2018:

I want a National Throat Kick Day where you can't get in trouble if you do it.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 14, 2018:

Going to use it on your teenage daughter ???

Reflecting on my family life since I came out of the closet as being an Atheist almost 15 years ago ...

freedom41 comments on Apr 14, 2018:

I'll be an for nearly 2 months and I believe that things that happened to you. Will happen to me. However, I'm cosidering coming out of closet on 2 fronts, but I don't think I have courage right now.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 14, 2018:

I fight religion when ever and where ever I can. Have luved with it ever since I can remember. There have been bad times but also goid times but if people cannot accept me for who and what I am, to hell with them. I will always be my own person.

Would you like to live simply?

phxbillcee comments on Apr 14, 2018:

Is it inappropriate to say I just want to get laid?

VAL3941 replies on Apr 14, 2018:

I repeat, just have a few beers first, makes it easier to say the words.

So, actually met a local guy FROM THIS WEBSITE for coffee and dinner last night.

VAL3941 comments on Apr 14, 2018:

Only for coffee ??? Damn you are slow. Just joking.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 14, 2018:

Yip, talking is good. Precautios are good. But when are you getting to the juicy bits ?

Would you like to live simply?

VictoriaNotes comments on Apr 14, 2018:

For the most part, I've lived this way for several years.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 14, 2018:

Was only kidding my dear. Simple is best.

I recently fell on hard times and needed to move back home.

jamrock876 comments on Apr 14, 2018:

I'm sorry you have to go though that, I know it must pain you for your mom to shun you like that. I hope you get back on your feet soon. Jehovah's witness is like a cult and they have poisoned your mother's mind.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 14, 2018:

Sorry, don't spell so well.

Would you like to live simply?

VictoriaNotes comments on Apr 14, 2018:

For the most part, I've lived this way for several years.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 14, 2018:

You akso don't have enough money ???

Would you like to live simply?

phxbillcee comments on Apr 14, 2018:

Is it inappropriate to say I just want to get laid?

VAL3941 replies on Apr 14, 2018:

Not at all. Jyst have a few beers first.

I recently fell on hard times and needed to move back home.

jamrock876 comments on Apr 14, 2018:

I'm sorry you have to go though that, I know it must pain you for your mom to shun you like that. I hope you get back on your feet soon. Jehovah's witness is like a cult and they have poisoned your mother's mind.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 14, 2018:

All religions poison peoples minds. Shame on you for picking out Jehova's witness,

Was There a Civilization On Earth Before Humans? - The Atlantic.

AncientNight comments on Apr 14, 2018:

This is interesting, but there's other evidence that the article didn't mention. I'll just give one example. Things like ornate gold cups, jewelry and mundane household items like flatware have been found embedded in veins of coal. That means that those items were dropped, placed or lost in the ...

VAL3941 replies on Apr 14, 2018:

Gods put them there. See, I said it.

I'm currently parenting a teen in the age of social media and instant gratification.

VAL3941 comments on Apr 14, 2018:

Welcome to the club. Drown the little brats as we should have done at birth.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 14, 2018:

Bless them, we myst blame ourselves for thier attitudes.

One thing I hve noticed with low carb high fat lifestyle is that my stools are smaller and less ...

J3sse comments on Apr 14, 2018:

Also because you're eating less fiber, Val. If your issue is troubling, you can add a fiber supplement to your diet. Good luck with your diet - I'm doing a modified Paeo diet myself, after starting out with no carbs, have included gluten free toast w/ my eggs to improve endurance a bit.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 14, 2018:

I also include 28gms of mixed selected seeds daily, also adds fiber.. Raw green leafy vegetabkes too.

How long to wait before going on dates?

VAL3941 comments on Apr 14, 2018:

I started dating the moment my ex wife told me she was divoring me. Never got involved though as I am still single after 35 years. Many have tried but I am not going to put myself in that position again.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 14, 2018:

Yipeee. I got 3 likes !

Over Spring Break, I took a road trip by myself.

VAL3941 comments on Apr 13, 2018:

A travel buddy, as long as she brings the beer ?

VAL3941 replies on Apr 14, 2018:

And leaves the underwear at home !

Feeling a bit nostalgic flipping through my high school yearbook remembering my years in the bands ...

VAL3941 comments on Apr 14, 2018:

Yip, it was in high school that I had my first sexual experience, hiw can I forget ?

VAL3941 replies on Apr 14, 2018:

Aaaah ! Such memories, sigh !

I'm currently parenting a teen in the age of social media and instant gratification.

VAL3941 comments on Apr 14, 2018:

Welcome to the club. Drown the little brats as we should have done at birth.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 14, 2018:

As babies we love them to death, as the reach thier teens we wish we never had them.

Is a married human being happier than unmarried one?

VAL3941 comments on Apr 14, 2018:

Leave the word married out and use having a bond with someone would be more appropiate I should think

VAL3941 replies on Apr 14, 2018:

Marriage is religous invention during the dark ages so that men could control the inheritance of women. There is not basis for tieing 2 humans together by means of a piece of paper.

Driving. What is it to you?

RavenCT comments on Apr 14, 2018:

My parents did this with us "kids" growing up - we stopped everywhere. We all carry snippers in cars in case of pussywilow sitings or a huge bunch of flowers. Been in so many old cemetaries - love them! There's a cool one that was relocated in Massachusetts when the Quabbin Resevoir was built - ...

VAL3941 replies on Apr 14, 2018:

I have never seen a bald eagle having binoculars.

Driving. What is it to you?

Remi comments on Apr 14, 2018:

I just spent a week driving all over rural Southeastern Oregon. It was a lot of fun, lots of wide-open empty space out there. We saw shoe trees, old abandoned buildings, and lots of wildlife. Love exploring like that.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 14, 2018:

Always wondered where my shoes came from ?

Does love exist? (As in, the "romantic" sort)

VAL3941 comments on Apr 12, 2018:

Thats not Love, thats Lust !

VAL3941 replies on Apr 14, 2018:

Reapeat, Love is a substitute word for bonding, lust is a one off kick start to bonding. Two different things.

Faith is a measurable property.

VAL3941 comments on Apr 13, 2018:

Are you living on this planet.?

VAL3941 replies on Apr 14, 2018:

Don't whisper, stand on the moutain top and shout out loud.

Does love exist? (As in, the "romantic" sort)

VAL3941 comments on Apr 12, 2018:

Thats not Love, thats Lust !

VAL3941 replies on Apr 13, 2018:

Lust is a shortened version of " I want sex with you now." Afterwards it turns into some sort of bonding, or not

Whats your dream date
?

Tomfoolery33 comments on Apr 12, 2018:

Not having been on a date since 1981, any date would be a dream date.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 13, 2018:

Sorry, thought you were a profesional singleton. Lol.

Do you believe there are aliens walking among us?

VAL3941 comments on Apr 12, 2018:

As in outer space or as in another country ?

VAL3941 replies on Apr 12, 2018:

So which ones are you refering to ?

Life and Death decision This may seem silly, but trust me, I'm going somewhere with this! If ...

AncientNight comments on Apr 12, 2018:

Since I wouldn't be there, it wouldn't bother me.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 12, 2018:

Live another 100 years ? No thanks. They can eat my body anyway, if they don't the worms will.

Meet the Indian devotee of the Flying Spaghetti Monster | pastafarianism | flying spaghetti monster...

Captain_Feelgood comments on Apr 12, 2018:

lt's a lot of carbs, but l do love my noodles and beer. :-)

VAL3941 replies on Apr 12, 2018:

Especially the beer.

Whats your dream date
?

Tomfoolery33 comments on Apr 12, 2018:

Not having been on a date since 1981, any date would be a dream date.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 12, 2018:

Maybe you should shave your beard ?

Whats your dream date
?

VAL3941 comments on Apr 12, 2018:

With a nyphomanic who owns a brewery !

VAL3941 replies on Apr 12, 2018:

If you joined her you wouldn't know anyway.

Whats your dream date
?

lbusche comments on Apr 12, 2018:

Where there is great sexual chemistry

VAL3941 replies on Apr 12, 2018:

You dirty old man !

Whats your dream date
?

LadyAlyxandrea comments on Apr 12, 2018:

Museum date with coffee after

VAL3941 replies on Apr 12, 2018:

With a relic ???

Whats your dream date
?

VAL3941 comments on Apr 12, 2018:

With a nyphomanic who owns a brewery !

VAL3941 replies on Apr 12, 2018:

Sorry, I don't share.

Does love exist? (As in, the "romantic" sort)

VAL3941 comments on Apr 12, 2018:

Thats not Love, thats Lust !

VAL3941 replies on Apr 12, 2018:

As for being confuse, the word love tends to make you that way.

Does love exist? (As in, the "romantic" sort)

LiterateHiker comments on Apr 12, 2018:

Of course love is real. I will always love my daughter, no matter what. And I will always love Dan, my former boyfriend and hiking partner. My feelings for Dan have evolved from romantic love to loving him as a friend. This took a year of self-examination with a counselor. Loving others ...

VAL3941 replies on Apr 12, 2018:

Love is just a word coined to explain a bond you have with other enterties (friends, family, pets etc etc.)

Does love exist? (As in, the "romantic" sort)

VAL3941 comments on Apr 12, 2018:

Thats not Love, thats Lust !

VAL3941 replies on Apr 12, 2018:

People tend to lust after each other, but when describing it someone else refer to it as love. Also the bond that exists between entities ( family, pets, friends etc etc ) is all lump under the word love. Just makes it easier to describe.

I think honesty is a virtue.

TaraMarshall comments on Apr 12, 2018:

I can't tell a believable lie to save my life. I can't even dissemble well. My friends know not to ask me to even try. And yes, I'm Autistic. You want a load of honesty? Read my profile.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 12, 2018:

Thanjsvfor the like.

Anyone also incorporating IF (Intermittent Fasting)?

MrLizard comments on Apr 7, 2018:

Nope. I eat, just eat healthier. I should exercise, though.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 12, 2018:

Aren't we a little bit off the subject here ?

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kensmile4u comments on Apr 12, 2018:

I'm not going down without a fight! I feel 29 inside and I will live a fitness lifestyle until my last day regardless of the health issues that may confront me. Age is only a number. It is my state of mind that ultimately determines my abilities. I will do whatever I must to live a full and happy ...

VAL3941 replies on Apr 12, 2018:

I agree wholr heartedly. I still ride my bicycle daily, greet friends along the way, old and young. Come home feeling accompishment and beside also getting a good workout.

Anyone also incorporating IF (Intermittent Fasting)?

MrLizard comments on Apr 7, 2018:

Nope. I eat, just eat healthier. I should exercise, though.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 12, 2018:

Lets just say that you are abnormally normal.

Being single

cvccosplay comments on Apr 11, 2018:

Yep, me. I hate being single only slightly more than I hate being in a relationship. I've been single for about 5 years after a 3-year relationship that I broke off during my chemo because she was being a bitch. I'm ready for my next bad decision.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 12, 2018:

Thats for lazy people and those that can't write. And I live in Africa..( smiles)

Being single

cvccosplay comments on Apr 11, 2018:

Yep, me. I hate being single only slightly more than I hate being in a relationship. I've been single for about 5 years after a 3-year relationship that I broke off during my chemo because she was being a bitch. I'm ready for my next bad decision.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 11, 2018:

Grammer problems are caused by finger problems. Does that make any sense ?

Being single

cvccosplay comments on Apr 11, 2018:

Yep, me. I hate being single only slightly more than I hate being in a relationship. I've been single for about 5 years after a 3-year relationship that I broke off during my chemo because she was being a bitch. I'm ready for my next bad decision.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 11, 2018:

Do you hate yourself with all your negevity ? Things always improve, you must just have patience !

Being single

cvccosplay comments on Apr 11, 2018:

Yep, me. I hate being single only slightly more than I hate being in a relationship. I've been single for about 5 years after a 3-year relationship that I broke off during my chemo because she was being a bitch. I'm ready for my next bad decision.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 11, 2018:

Only bad decision is not making a decision !

Anyone also incorporating IF (Intermittent Fasting)?

MrLizard comments on Apr 7, 2018:

Nope. I eat, just eat healthier. I should exercise, though.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 11, 2018:

So pleased to hear that you are normal, whatever that may be ?

Being single

Ciravolostone comments on Apr 11, 2018:

We now love on a world where selfishness and self interest is considered essential and is marketed as such. Intimacy seems to be a lost art as we bury ourselves in our cell phones and tablets . It is not that any of us want to be single necessarily its just that moat people don't know how to be ...

VAL3941 replies on Apr 11, 2018:

It takes 2 to Tango and a lot of hard work. Maybe you are setting your standards too high ?

Being single

EricJones comments on Apr 11, 2018:

It has it's ups and downs. There are some things that are ok to do by yourself, but other things you just don't want to do alone.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 11, 2018:

Thats what friends are for.

Whats everyone's favourite animal and what pets do you keep or would like to keep?

Rugglesby comments on Apr 11, 2018:

I love most animals, humans and snakes are 2 I don't want as pets, snakes here are deadly and humans destroy and befoul their pen.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 11, 2018:

As well as other peoples !

Whats everyone's favourite animal and what pets do you keep or would like to keep?

VAL3941 comments on Apr 11, 2018:

A Pig. As Winston Churchill stated " It is the only animal that treats you as an equal."

VAL3941 replies on Apr 11, 2018:

Don't know about that. Sone Pigs I have met ( humans ) certainly lack a lot of intellegence.

Alcoholics

Spinliesel comments on Apr 10, 2018:

I had a 24 year marriage with an alcoholic. In the ned, I was so exhausted that I was hoping he would kill himself. Those were desperate times. Alcoholism is a disease that has various ways to be handled, but there is a malfunction in the brain chemicals. Your son-in-law will die eventually, but...

VAL3941 replies on Apr 11, 2018:

I dont. If he wants to kill himself let him go ahead. My daughter must make up her own mind to, so I don't interfer. It is what it is !

Anyone also incorporating IF (Intermittent Fasting)?

MrLizard comments on Apr 7, 2018:

Nope. I eat, just eat healthier. I should exercise, though.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 11, 2018:

Is there anything thatvis not wrong with you ?

Dating: what's your ideal age range? How important is age?

SpikeTalon comments on Apr 10, 2018:

I don't care about age much, just so it's over legal age limit. I've dated women both younger and older than me.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 10, 2018:

Yip, me too. Presdnt gf is 20 years youger than me and we are both happy.

Anyone also incorporating IF (Intermittent Fasting)?

MrLizard comments on Apr 7, 2018:

Nope. I eat, just eat healthier. I should exercise, though.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 10, 2018:

And do it with a fan, especially if SHE is cool.

Anyone also incorporating IF (Intermittent Fasting)?

MrLizard comments on Apr 7, 2018:

Nope. I eat, just eat healthier. I should exercise, though.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 10, 2018:

OK ! Better still, run up and down your stairs 10X every day.

What is the one creature, snake, spider, rodent, bat, etc, that creeps you out the most?

VAL3941 comments on Apr 9, 2018:

Women !!! The most devious creatures on earth, frighten the hell out of me. ( just joking ). Nothing actually, just very careful of some.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 10, 2018:

Yeah, but I love them anyway. Hee hee

Alcoholics

Simon1 comments on Apr 9, 2018:

Help him out s also an option .why is he unhappy? Why does he feel the need to drink ?

VAL3941 replies on Apr 10, 2018:

Because he is an idiot, bottom line.

Alcoholics

Wolfbat comments on Apr 9, 2018:

Killing him would work,however that would give you an even bigger problem for you. Ignore him at your daughters peril,I can only recomend seek professionall advice . Alcoholics in denial work extra hard to try to hide their problems so that no one else can see them, but it seldom works. Also when ...

VAL3941 replies on Apr 10, 2018:

Sorry, that was a tongue in cheek question. He is beyond help and I just must accept him the way he is till the tine he wakes up to reality. Thanks anyway.

What is the one creature, snake, spider, rodent, bat, etc, that creeps you out the most?

VAL3941 comments on Apr 9, 2018:

Women !!! The most devious creatures on earth, frighten the hell out of me. ( just joking ). Nothing actually, just very careful of some.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 9, 2018:

Wouldn't know, age and wisdom speaking

What is the one creature, snake, spider, rodent, bat, etc, that creeps you out the most?

TimothyDeHoff comments on Apr 9, 2018:

Slugs...huge nasty slugs. I don't know why but these little buggards creep me out.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 9, 2018:

Put salt on them, but don't eat them.

What is the one creature, snake, spider, rodent, bat, etc, that creeps you out the most?

AmiSue comments on Apr 9, 2018:

The creature that writes emails starting with - 'Hi Gorgeous!'

VAL3941 replies on Apr 9, 2018:

See my post above. Ha Ha Ha

Anyone also incorporating IF (Intermittent Fasting)?

evestrat comments on Apr 7, 2018:

I do about 15-20 hours of IF a day. I've been thinking about trying a 30 hour fast once a week to see how I do -- has anyone gone past 24 hours on here??

VAL3941 replies on Apr 8, 2018:

I feel 24hrs us enough but more than tyat will not do much harm. The body goes into starvation mode after 48 hrs. I am told. Not sure whether this is true or not. Drink plenty of water though.

Anyone also incorporating IF (Intermittent Fasting)?

MrLizard comments on Apr 7, 2018:

Nope. I eat, just eat healthier. I should exercise, though.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 8, 2018:

Buy a bicycle. Gives you enough exercise, but only if you use it.

I’m a lovely young lady in my 60’s.

Dawgismygawd comments on Apr 2, 2018:

Good luck in your pursuit...

VAL3941 replies on Apr 2, 2018:

Been there, done that.