I really try to promote an alternative view of sexy from the typical media image.

ZantiMisfit comments on Jul 20, 2019:

What really catches my eye is a big toothy smile with gums showing. I love that.

Wildflower replies on Jul 20, 2019:

@Hastur Right! LOL I appreciate teeth!

I really try to promote an alternative view of sexy from the typical media image.

Science-guy comments on Jul 20, 2019:

A well dressed, educated conversationalist. I am not talking Harvard or well to do either. Both qualities can be self taught, which makes it even better. 😎

Wildflower replies on Jul 20, 2019:

I like that. Intelligence is very sexy!

I really try to promote an alternative view of sexy from the typical media image.

ZantiMisfit comments on Jul 20, 2019:

What really catches my eye is a big toothy smile with gums showing. I love that.

Wildflower replies on Jul 20, 2019:

@Hastur Oh you changed your reply!

I really try to promote an alternative view of sexy from the typical media image.

ZantiMisfit comments on Jul 20, 2019:

What really catches my eye is a big toothy smile with gums showing. I love that.

Wildflower replies on Jul 20, 2019:

Hot and intelligent women?

Does anyone have experience attending retreats?

bleurowz comments on Jul 20, 2019:

Take a look at Esalen, Farm Sanctuary, Kripalu, Omega Institute, Insight Meditation; they're either Buddhist or non-faith based. I personally had a stay at Kripalu and I loved it.

Wildflower replies on Jul 20, 2019:

Thank you. I will take a look. I have heard of Kripalu.

Any of you Ethical Sluts doing something fun this weekend?

FlippantLlama comments on Jul 20, 2019:

I have lots of family stuff this weekend, with a couple of dates mixed in. Can't say that there will be anything sexy, as one is a first date, and the other is a second date ... and I def didn't feel any chemistry with 2nd date guy. I'm still going to go, because he is a great guy - upon the ...

Wildflower replies on Jul 20, 2019:

Enjoy the dates!

Any of you Ethical Sluts doing something fun this weekend?

Dancing comments on Jul 20, 2019:

Just working the weekend but I have plans to meet this guy I've been talking to on Monday 😁. I'm excited about this one. (that's about normal for me)

Wildflower replies on Jul 20, 2019:

@Doraz Yes. Stay with the excitement. You never know when something special will work out and that excitement will continue to grow!

Does anyone have experience attending retreats?

RavenCT comments on Jul 20, 2019:

They do have adult Summer camps now. https://www.10best.com/interests/explore/10-of-the-best-summer-camps-for-adults/

Wildflower replies on Jul 20, 2019:

There are some pretty good choices there!

Does anyone have experience attending retreats?

RavenCT comments on Jul 20, 2019:

I know we have local ones but many are religious. (So be aware of that.). Find out the flavor of the retreat! The Barre Center has courses (residential). Pretty sure those are retreats? I used to get mailing from them about yoga retreats. https://www.buddhistinquiry.org

Wildflower replies on Jul 20, 2019:

Thanks! I do not want a religious retreat! I wouldn't object to Buddhist. I'll check the link.

Hey everyone.

RavenCT comments on Jul 20, 2019:

Not something I ever have gotten to do - I hope we hear from folks who have!

Wildflower replies on Jul 20, 2019:

Many years ago I attended a healing retreat shared through a 12 step program. It was so good! It was in Norwich CT I believe. But it was so long ago I don't remember exactly.

Does anyone have experience attending retreats?

Transition1 comments on Jul 20, 2019:

There’s few here ny upstate

Wildflower replies on Jul 20, 2019:

Thank you. I will take a look!

Full disclosure: I’m just points mongering here.

Wildflower comments on Jul 20, 2019:

Nearing level 8 are you? I'll send kisses! 😘

Wildflower replies on Jul 20, 2019:

@Bobbyzen hugs too 🤗🤗🤗

Any of you Ethical Sluts doing something fun this weekend?

Dancing comments on Jul 20, 2019:

Just working the weekend but I have plans to meet this guy I've been talking to on Monday 😁. I'm excited about this one. (that's about normal for me)

Wildflower replies on Jul 20, 2019:

Is always nice to be excited! Once the excitement of meeting goes away.... might as well use a video or some such other media to excite..

Any of you Ethical Sluts doing something fun this weekend?

bobwjr comments on Jul 19, 2019:

Nothing

Wildflower replies on Jul 20, 2019:

@bobwjr Thank Bob. That's very sweet!

Some dangerous curves going on there!

Bungaloebob comments on Jul 19, 2019:

WOW...THERE ya go...get it out there!

Wildflower replies on Jul 20, 2019:

@Bungaloebob Yes, be sure to let me know. For what reason I'm not sure... but let me know.

Any of you Ethical Sluts doing something fun this weekend?

bobwjr comments on Jul 19, 2019:

Nothing

Wildflower replies on Jul 20, 2019:

@bobwjr I'm right there with you Bob. You might think I'm a hussy... but I spend most of my time alone.

Any of you Ethical Sluts doing something fun this weekend?

bobwjr comments on Jul 19, 2019:

Nothing

Wildflower replies on Jul 20, 2019:

That just sucks doesn't it?

Hey sexies! Anything fun going on?

RoyMillar comments on Jul 20, 2019:

Just got back from Holidays,going to a pool party tomorrow,,maybe some play and nakedness mmmm

Wildflower replies on Jul 20, 2019:

Oh! I love play and nakedness!!

How is everyone?

RoyMillar comments on Jul 20, 2019:

No hump day for me either,was away on vacation just got back this evening ,catch up time,but i know a few whom i would like to hump and or provide pleasure to

Wildflower replies on Jul 20, 2019:

A few, huh Roy? Mmmm. I kinda hope I'm included in that.

Some dangerous curves going on there!

Science-guy comments on Jul 19, 2019:

So many dots! So little time! 😎

Wildflower replies on Jul 20, 2019:

@Science-guy Yeah! dot to dot! I can just see where that is going.... Mmmmm

Some dangerous curves going on there!

Science-guy comments on Jul 19, 2019:

So many dots! So little time! 😎

Wildflower replies on Jul 19, 2019:

I just love the polka dots!

Any of you Ethical Sluts doing something fun this weekend?

ToolGuy comments on Jul 19, 2019:

Nada, as usual.

Wildflower replies on Jul 19, 2019:

We all need to find each other right?

Any of you Ethical Sluts doing something fun this weekend?

LEPeff comments on Jul 19, 2019:

I'm there with you sister. My weekends going to be a snooze fest.

Wildflower replies on Jul 19, 2019:

Right!? I just don't understand... so many of us vibrant sexual mature human beings, and no one is doing anything this weekend! What is up with that?

Some dangerous curves going on there!

Bungaloebob comments on Jul 19, 2019:

WOW...THERE ya go...get it out there!

Wildflower replies on Jul 19, 2019:

Sweet tush she's got!

I started out liking this guy.

Wildflower comments on Jul 18, 2019:

I know who you're talking about and I've met him personally. I will say first that when I met him I liked him. He is very open minded in some aspects. Since he's been touting trump I can say that I have changed my thinking. He's not a troll, I think just a rich man with a rich man's idea of the ...

Wildflower replies on Jul 19, 2019:

@thinktwice I know not all rich people are assholes. I apologize for generalizing. I don't know were he gets his world view. Yes, he is married... separated and emotionally unattached to her but vowed to take care of her.

Some dangerous curves going on there!

St-Sinner comments on Jul 19, 2019:

Oh wow, wow. Irrestible. She is so attractive, well figured and beautiful. I would fall for her in 30 seconds or less. She is all curves.

Wildflower replies on Jul 19, 2019:

All curves is right!

Some dangerous curves going on there!

ZantiMisfit comments on Jul 19, 2019:

(L) Dangerous is right!!

Wildflower replies on Jul 19, 2019:

Dangerously amazing!

Do you watch porn?

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jul 19, 2019:

depends on mood, anything that is real sex, can't stand all that fake moaning. I have seen a few really good armature ones of public sex.

Wildflower replies on Jul 19, 2019:

I'm not into the fake shit either. I enjoy the realness of amateur porn.

Do you watch porn?

FlippantLlama comments on Jul 19, 2019:

I do, and I like lots of stuff. I tend to gravitate toward curvy women always, but what matters is passion, and intensity. When it comes to predictably pushing my buttons, the actresses are more likely to have black nails than French manicures ... if you understand me.

Wildflower replies on Jul 19, 2019:

I also enjoy sexy curvy women being pleasured! You've got good taste!

Do you watch porn?

CapriKious comments on Jul 19, 2019:

Most things Amateur. Money ruins everything.

Wildflower replies on Jul 19, 2019:

I agree! I like the sexy amateur men!

Do you watch porn?

Storm1752 comments on Jul 19, 2019:

I like two (or more) women, but I agree it's HARD to find a lot which is inspired, decent scenario, good dialogue, etc. That's all-important because so much of the arousal depends on being able to involve yourself mentally and emotionally, and relatively little on the sex itself. Unfortunately ...

Wildflower replies on Jul 19, 2019:

Maybe try a little amateur lesbian porn?

Do you watch porn?

djs64 comments on Jul 19, 2019:

Yup, amateur, full-figured women in all sorts of scenarios.

Wildflower replies on Jul 19, 2019:

Hmmm. Perhaps I need to try my hand, or body, at some amateur video...

Do you watch porn?

ToolGuy comments on Jul 18, 2019:

Tried watching it but it was too predictable and boring. And a lot of it was distasteful. Too many women are forced into performing.

Wildflower replies on Jul 19, 2019:

@ToolGuy Amateur porn isn't all that predictable. A lot of it is disgusting to me too. I get what you're saying.

Do you watch porn?

bobwjr comments on Jul 18, 2019:

Nope

Wildflower replies on Jul 19, 2019:

@bobwjr Amateur porn doesn't have all that. It's like being a voyeur in someone's bedroom.

Do you watch porn?

Charlene comments on Jul 18, 2019:

It depends on what I'm hungry for...😈😈😈😈

Wildflower replies on Jul 19, 2019:

Oh baby!

Do you watch porn?

ToolGuy comments on Jul 18, 2019:

Tried watching it but it was too predictable and boring. And a lot of it was distasteful. Too many women are forced into performing.

Wildflower replies on Jul 19, 2019:

All of it is boring?

Do you watch porn?

rsb97080 comments on Jul 18, 2019:

I’m the same way but watching women, and they don’t even have to be using toys (though I wouldn’t object.) Just watching her pleasure herself with her fingers can really get me going! 😍👍

Wildflower replies on Jul 18, 2019:

Yes, I don't think a toy would have to be used. I just have a thing watching the pleasure of another.

Do you watch porn?

bobwjr comments on Jul 18, 2019:

Nope

Wildflower replies on Jul 18, 2019:

No porn at all Bob?

Have you ever hurt someone without intention... just by being you?

rsb97080 comments on Jul 18, 2019:

Agreed. It has happened and it is frustrating because I didn’t mean to hurt them at all! I’m *extremely* far from being perfect, but I try hard not to be an asshole jerkoff. I guess I unintentionally fail sometimes.

Wildflower replies on Jul 18, 2019:

Thanks. Yes, an unintentional fail.

How is everyone?

Storm1752 comments on Jul 18, 2019:

My 'hump' is finding out I may need a (very expensive) new sewage system. What a load of sh*t has been dumped on me! Hahaha.. get it?😂

Wildflower replies on Jul 18, 2019:

@Storm1752 you are one down to earth, take the bull by the horns kind of guy!

I started out liking this guy.

Cutiebeauty comments on Jul 18, 2019:

Stsinner... Spot on although I didn't block... I backed you up but it seems like you had already blocked him..

Wildflower replies on Jul 18, 2019:

@t1nick no, not at all. But we didn't talk politics. He does have strong opinions, and honestly I think he sees things with a very narrow-minded view.

I started out liking this guy.

Wildflower comments on Jul 18, 2019:

I know who you're talking about and I've met him personally. I will say first that when I met him I liked him. He is very open minded in some aspects. Since he's been touting trump I can say that I have changed my thinking. He's not a troll, I think just a rich man with a rich man's idea of the ...

Wildflower replies on Jul 18, 2019:

@altschmerz I don't know how rich.

I started out liking this guy.

Cutiebeauty comments on Jul 18, 2019:

Stsinner... Spot on although I didn't block... I backed you up but it seems like you had already blocked him..

Wildflower replies on Jul 18, 2019:

@t1nick I've met him. He is in Texas.

Question: Sexual positions are for practical purposes endless (at least 700 variations).

Sticks48 comments on Jul 18, 2019:

No pictures of my choices. Left hand or right hand.

Wildflower replies on Jul 18, 2019:

My favorite porn lately is the Fleshlight! A new position? Give right and left a break.

I started out liking this guy.

Cutiebeauty comments on Jul 18, 2019:

Stsinner... Spot on although I didn't block... I backed you up but it seems like you had already blocked him..

Wildflower replies on Jul 18, 2019:

@glennlab no, he is in Texas.

I started out liking this guy.

Cutiebeauty comments on Jul 18, 2019:

Stsinner... Spot on although I didn't block... I backed you up but it seems like you had already blocked him..

Wildflower replies on Jul 18, 2019:

@thinktwice he is an immigrant from India.

How is everyone?

Storm1752 comments on Jul 18, 2019:

My 'hump' is finding out I may need a (very expensive) new sewage system. What a load of sh*t has been dumped on me! Hahaha.. get it?😂

Wildflower replies on Jul 18, 2019:

Oh that's pretty shitty!

Hey sexies! Anything fun going on?

MB2000 comments on Jul 17, 2019:

You better believe it! From Saturday night until Tuesday night I did. Not everyone can say their best friend is their greatest kink and loving sweetheart. I can. ❤😈🦄

Wildflower replies on Jul 18, 2019:

@MB2000 you never know when something wonderful like that will happen. It's amazing when it does. I've recently met a wonderful man who is in an open marriage. We have a great connection. I'm looking forward to the journey!

Hey sexies! Anything fun going on?

MB2000 comments on Jul 17, 2019:

You better believe it! From Saturday night until Tuesday night I did. Not everyone can say their best friend is their greatest kink and loving sweetheart. I can. ❤😈🦄

Wildflower replies on Jul 18, 2019:

That is so wonderful! You really are someone I admire and respect. Enjoy!

How is everyone?

FlippantLlama comments on Jul 17, 2019:

I'm just straightening out my head, as usual!

Wildflower replies on Jul 17, 2019:

Oh geeze.... I'm always doing that!

How is everyone?

Looking4-Others comments on Jul 17, 2019:

As usual no hump day for me but hey when he gets back you two can play catch up and make it double on your next hump day!

Wildflower replies on Jul 17, 2019:

Hugs. 🤗

Hey sexies! Anything fun going on?

Sticks48 comments on Jul 17, 2019:

i'm thinking about repairing a pair of jeans and a shirt. i am so excited i can't stand it.

Wildflower replies on Jul 17, 2019:

@Sticks48 that sounds like a better deal!

Hey sexies! Anything fun going on?

Sticks48 comments on Jul 17, 2019:

i'm thinking about repairing a pair of jeans and a shirt. i am so excited i can't stand it.

Wildflower replies on Jul 17, 2019:

Sounds like a great project!

How is everyone?

CarolinaGirl60 comments on Jul 17, 2019:

Hoping to have some fun tomorrow. Fingers crossed!

Wildflower replies on Jul 17, 2019:

Yes! I hope so for you!

Hey sexies! Anything fun going on?

ZantiMisfit comments on Jul 17, 2019:

Listening to thunder and rain. Taking a break from reading (Sorry Nothing Erotic). And now checking on posts :)

Wildflower replies on Jul 17, 2019:

@Hastur just a Wednesday night.

How is everyone?

bobwjr comments on Jul 17, 2019:

Have fun

Wildflower replies on Jul 17, 2019:

No fun been going on for a bit.

Hey sexies! Anything fun going on?

ZantiMisfit comments on Jul 17, 2019:

Listening to thunder and rain. Taking a break from reading (Sorry Nothing Erotic). And now checking on posts :)

Wildflower replies on Jul 17, 2019:

Nothing sexy or erotic here either, sadly.

Hey sexies! Anything fun going on?

bobwjr comments on Jul 17, 2019:

Nope

Wildflower replies on Jul 17, 2019:

Oh. Sorry to hear that Bob. Nothing fun going on here either.

How is everyone?

Dancing comments on Jul 17, 2019:

Sexting can be fun too 😉

Wildflower replies on Jul 17, 2019:

I love sexting! But he is with his family on vacation. Lol. Flirting is the best we can do. When he gets back he's going to be in trouble!!

Have you ever hurt someone without intention... just by being you?

Charlene comments on Jul 14, 2019:

I piss off many people just for existing...and living in public.

Wildflower replies on Jul 15, 2019:

That just sucks! And is a terrible thing to have to live through. 🤗

I've started a new group g:1021.

RoyMillar comments on Jul 15, 2019:

good luck with your group

Wildflower replies on Jul 15, 2019:

Thank you Roy.

“An ethical slut is a person of any gender who celebrates sexuality with more than one partner and...

ErikK comments on Jul 13, 2019:

Yes indeed it's easier to open up and relax when being truthful. For many folks, shedding all the stuff that society has beaten into us about "monogamy is normal" and "wanting sex is bad" is the hard part. I've been polyamorous for more than 40 years, and I still find myself falling into ...

Wildflower replies on Jul 13, 2019:

Thanks for sharing your experience!

My little mini poll tells me that we are mostly a group of voyeurs!

ErikK comments on Jul 13, 2019:

What?? Did I miss something?

Wildflower replies on Jul 13, 2019:

I just posted a poll asking why people are in this group. Not many responded, but the majority says they are voyeurs checking things out from a distance! Lol

What a wonderful time I am having with my ethically slutty man! Our date was wonderful, and we ...

ErikK comments on Jul 13, 2019:

Wonderful! That falling for someone feeling ... NRE ... it's great. Enjoy!

Wildflower replies on Jul 13, 2019:

Thanks Erik!

Hey all you wonderful sluts and slut lovers! We're over the hump and headed to the weekend! I love ...

RoyMillar comments on Jul 13, 2019:

I am on holidays for the next 2 weeks left last Tuesday and I am touring the maritine provinces in Canada as well as the gaspe pennisula of Quebec,,I am in Prince edward Island now and leaving first thing monday morning for Cape breton doing the trail..Enjo your week end everyone

Wildflower replies on Jul 13, 2019:

Sounds like fun Roy!

Hey all you wonderful sluts and slut lovers! We're over the hump and headed to the weekend! I love ...

ErikK comments on Jul 13, 2019:

Weekend plans? My main partner is at a workshop this weekend, she'll be nude with 40 or so other people, some of whom are very close friends and some are new. I'm staying home and catching up on chores, working on the RV and the classic car, etc. We're both happy with this plan. Introducing ...

Wildflower replies on Jul 13, 2019:

Welcome Erik. Thank you for introducing yourself. I'm new to polyamory and I'm doing a lot of learning. I've recently begun a relationship with a man in an open marriage. I'm learning to negotiate all that goes with that. I'm glad you're here with us. Please feel free to share.

Hello beautimous ones! What makes you feel sexually confident?

Wildflower comments on Jun 22, 2019:

I am definitely confident in my sexual abilities. But... it's my body image insecurities that will prevent me from completely letting go. I have to hear from my partner that he is attracted to and turned on by me, and my body. Then my confidence in my ability to please my partner soars!

Wildflower replies on Jul 13, 2019:

@ErikK I would need to hear him tell me that he desires me and how much he is into my body. I'd also like to see it in his eyes and feel it in his touch. An erection alone doesn't tell me much at all.

I've started a new group g:1021.

Storm1752 comments on Jul 12, 2019:

Spreading ourselves a little thin, aren't we? Where do you find the time?!?

Wildflower replies on Jul 12, 2019:

Haha, I have no life, don't ya know! What's one more group?

I've started a new group g:1021.

St-Sinner comments on Jul 12, 2019:

I joined it. I love your love for life and enthusiasm. Any man would be happy in life with that kind of attitude in a woman by his side.

Wildflower replies on Jul 12, 2019:

Thank you! I want women and men who appreciate the experience of life to join us!

I would love to meet an ethical slut near me!

bobwjr comments on Jul 12, 2019:

No shit guess I'm just not lucky enough

Wildflower replies on Jul 12, 2019:

Oh Bob. There are probably lots of sluts up your way.

There's a new group that you guys might be interested in g:897.

TheDoubter comments on Jul 12, 2019:

i'll check it out

Wildflower replies on Jul 12, 2019:

@TheDoubter that's ok.

There's a new group that you guys might be interested in g:897.

TheDoubter comments on Jul 12, 2019:

i'll check it out

Wildflower replies on Jul 12, 2019:

Be sure to let them know you heard about them from "Ethical Sluts Group".

There's a new group that you guys might be interested in g:897.

St-Sinner comments on Jul 12, 2019:

Just joined. The kinkier, the better.

Wildflower replies on Jul 12, 2019:

Yes sir!

Is sexual incompatibility a deal breaker for you?

NoPlanetB comments on Jul 11, 2019:

My question is... when you said you need lot of lube and he said you didn't, why go further than, "no"? You are not mouse, I've see you handle your own here several times so why didn't you kick him to the curb when he object to your needs? You didn't state "like" or "prefer" you stated "need". ...

Wildflower replies on Jul 12, 2019:

@NoPlanetB WOW! How you can possibly take my comments as advocating rape and victim loving is truly bizarre.

Hey all you wonderful sluts and slut lovers! We're over the hump and headed to the weekend! I love ...

Bungaloebob comments on Jul 12, 2019:

Yes...I will be.

Wildflower replies on Jul 12, 2019:

That's great!

Hey all you wonderful sluts and slut lovers! We're over the hump and headed to the weekend! I love ...

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jul 11, 2019:

I will be having a date with my favorite lover on Friday night, he is in an open marriage and we have been lovers for 8 years.

Wildflower replies on Jul 11, 2019:

@Mermaidfantasy That is wonderful! I just love real and open-minded people!

Is sexual incompatibility a deal breaker for you?

JeffMesser comments on Jul 11, 2019:

Most guys take pleasure in making a woman feel aroused and achieve an orgasm. It's not all selfless ... we get off on them getting off. I know it excites me. So some guy that uses a woman as little more than a sex toy should just focus on masturbating himself to sleep at night.

Wildflower replies on Jul 11, 2019:

@JeffMesser You are speaking for yourself and generalizing about "most men". Try fucking a hundred guys and then tell me that most are all about pleasing a woman. You are so off base and hardly understanding from a woman's point of view. And yes, this post is about a woman's point of view. A man's perspective doesn't really matter. And I'm sorry that that hurts your feelings. But it's real life.

Hey all you wonderful sluts and slut lovers! We're over the hump and headed to the weekend! I love ...

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jul 11, 2019:

I will be having a date with my favorite lover on Friday night, he is in an open marriage and we have been lovers for 8 years.

Wildflower replies on Jul 11, 2019:

That is awesome!

Is sexual incompatibility a deal breaker for you?

JeffMesser comments on Jul 11, 2019:

Most guys take pleasure in making a woman feel aroused and achieve an orgasm. It's not all selfless ... we get off on them getting off. I know it excites me. So some guy that uses a woman as little more than a sex toy should just focus on masturbating himself to sleep at night.

Wildflower replies on Jul 11, 2019:

Are you a woman? Have you experienced sex with a man as a woman? Don't even try to tell me how women experience men or sex. Take a poll... you will the understand. But of course you won't. You are absolutely proving my point. Thanks!

Is sexual incompatibility a deal breaker for you?

NoPlanetB comments on Jul 11, 2019:

My question is... when you said you need lot of lube and he said you didn't, why go further than, "no"? You are not mouse, I've see you handle your own here several times so why didn't you kick him to the curb when he object to your needs? You didn't state "like" or "prefer" you stated "need". ...

Wildflower replies on Jul 11, 2019:

@NoPlanetB Yup... you don't get it. Try to look a little deeper into a person's history and experiences. "NO" isn't always easy or comfortable. You don't need to respond. Your mind is quite closed and I don't have the time nor inclination to open it.

Is sexual incompatibility a deal breaker for you?

JeffMesser comments on Jul 11, 2019:

Most guys take pleasure in making a woman feel aroused and achieve an orgasm. It's not all selfless ... we get off on them getting off. I know it excites me. So some guy that uses a woman as little more than a sex toy should just focus on masturbating himself to sleep at night.

Wildflower replies on Jul 11, 2019:

@JeffMesser So glad you are well informed. Men hate to be contradicted, especially by a woman. I read a study on that recently.

Hey all you wonderful sluts and slut lovers! We're over the hump and headed to the weekend! I love ...

CarolinaGirl60 comments on Jul 11, 2019:

Last weekend was great, much fun. Looking forward to at least one night with that special man this weekend. Ya’ll have fun!

Wildflower replies on Jul 11, 2019:

Oh, I hope so for you! I had one night this week with my wonderful new man. And I won't see him for 2 weeks now. He's away on vacation. Ohhhh...

Is sexual incompatibility a deal breaker for you?

NoPlanetB comments on Jul 11, 2019:

My question is... when you said you need lot of lube and he said you didn't, why go further than, "no"? You are not mouse, I've see you handle your own here several times so why didn't you kick him to the curb when he object to your needs? You didn't state "like" or "prefer" you stated "need". ...

Wildflower replies on Jul 11, 2019:

I don't know if you are a male of female... your profile doesn't give that information. If you're a male you wouldn't get it... if you're a female you don't get it.

Is sexual incompatibility a deal breaker for you?

Merseyman1 comments on Jul 11, 2019:

I'm so terribly sorry about your experience 😥 He behaved like a careless teenager. A brute. I can't believe a man his age can still believe that women like it rough, hard and for hours, all the contrary of what you were telling him. Sexual incompatibility is definitely a deal breaker.

Wildflower replies on Jul 11, 2019:

I can assure you that many men his age are brutes!

Is sexual incompatibility a deal breaker for you?

JeffMesser comments on Jul 11, 2019:

Most guys take pleasure in making a woman feel aroused and achieve an orgasm. It's not all selfless ... we get off on them getting off. I know it excites me. So some guy that uses a woman as little more than a sex toy should just focus on masturbating himself to sleep at night.

Wildflower replies on Jul 11, 2019:

How can you possibly say "most guys" when you haven't experienced any guys? Not as a woman anyway. You can only speak for yourself, or you can speak after experiencing sex with "most guys".

So I've been blocked from a group.

Cutiebeauty comments on Jul 11, 2019:

Being banned from a group is different from having your profile blocked... I'm not sure which one you're talking about here...

Wildflower replies on Jul 11, 2019:

Ok, I understand that. But if I'm banned from a group it is no longer "my group" because I'm not in that group anymore. .... oh nevermind, it doesn't matter anyway. I was just wondering something that is probably just a glitch.

Ok, I think I just need a wig... well, maybe a time machine too. lol

ZantiMisfit comments on Jul 10, 2019:

I just need a tank of gas and a good ice breaker :)

Wildflower replies on Jul 10, 2019:

@Hastur I'm thinking we get each other, lol

Ok, I think I just need a wig... well, maybe a time machine too. lol

ZantiMisfit comments on Jul 10, 2019:

I just need a tank of gas and a good ice breaker :)

Wildflower replies on Jul 10, 2019:

@Hastur I bet you have a good idea! And it's probably pretty accurate. lol

I think my favorite gem is now the Ruby! Ruby Roxx is one hot redhead!

bobwjr comments on Jul 10, 2019:

Nice

Wildflower replies on Jul 10, 2019:

@RoyMillar You're a sweetheart Roy!

I think my favorite gem is now the Ruby! Ruby Roxx is one hot redhead!

RoyMillar comments on Jul 10, 2019:

very sexy,,lots of lovng and cuddling

Wildflower replies on Jul 10, 2019:

I can just imagine cuddling with her! She is just so beautiful to me.

Post your favorite Monty Python sketch. [youtu.be]

Wildflower comments on Jul 10, 2019:

https://youtu.be/FshU58nI0Ts

Wildflower replies on Jul 10, 2019:

@Haemish1 There are so many to choose from!

Post your favorite Monty Python sketch. [youtu.be]

Haemish1 comments on Jul 10, 2019:

The ministry of silly walks https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=KCrQu0VTUBs

Wildflower replies on Jul 10, 2019:

Yes! A favorite!

Ok, I think I just need a wig... well, maybe a time machine too. lol

ZantiMisfit comments on Jul 10, 2019:

I just need a tank of gas and a good ice breaker :)

Wildflower replies on Jul 10, 2019:

@Hastur I;m sure I know just what is good for you!

Ok, I think I just need a wig... well, maybe a time machine too. lol

ZantiMisfit comments on Jul 10, 2019:

I just need a tank of gas and a good ice breaker :)

Wildflower replies on Jul 10, 2019:

@Hastur If you know what's good for you!

I think my favorite gem is now the Ruby! Ruby Roxx is one hot redhead!

Marcie1974 comments on Jul 10, 2019:

SEXY

Wildflower replies on Jul 10, 2019:

You and I have a body like that!

Ok, I think I just need a wig... well, maybe a time machine too. lol

ZantiMisfit comments on Jul 10, 2019:

I just need a tank of gas and a good ice breaker :)

Wildflower replies on Jul 10, 2019:

@Hastur Well, that's no fun!

Ok, I think I just need a wig... well, maybe a time machine too. lol

ZantiMisfit comments on Jul 10, 2019:

I just need a tank of gas and a good ice breaker :)

Wildflower replies on Jul 10, 2019:

If I had the wig you wouldn't need a full tank of gas. Just saying

I think my favorite gem is now the Ruby! Ruby Roxx is one hot redhead!

bobwjr comments on Jul 10, 2019:

Nice

Wildflower replies on Jul 10, 2019:

@bobwjr I get you Bob. I sleep alone too!

I think my favorite gem is now the Ruby! Ruby Roxx is one hot redhead!

ZantiMisfit comments on Jul 10, 2019:

Hot Hot Hot (L)

Wildflower replies on Jul 10, 2019:

@Hastur She is a fantasy for sure.

I think my favorite gem is now the Ruby! Ruby Roxx is one hot redhead!

ZantiMisfit comments on Jul 10, 2019:

Hot Hot Hot (L)

Wildflower replies on Jul 10, 2019:

@Hastur You got that right!