I think my favorite gem is now the Ruby! Ruby Roxx is one hot redhead!

bobwjr comments on Jul 10, 2019:

Nice

Wildflower replies on Jul 10, 2019:

Would be more than nice cuddling with this luscious lady!

I think my favorite gem is now the Ruby! Ruby Roxx is one hot redhead!

ZantiMisfit comments on Jul 10, 2019:

Hot Hot Hot (L)

Wildflower replies on Jul 10, 2019:

I could get burned touching her all over!

Mmm so last night I put extra effort in and it was awesome with sprinkles! Made getting up at 5 am ...

bobwjr comments on Jul 10, 2019:

No shit not for the faint of heart getting old is tough

Wildflower replies on Jul 10, 2019:

When I get old.... just kill me!

Hi there @Dogsnotdogma! Welcome.

Bungaloebob comments on Jul 10, 2019:

WILDFLOWER...I'M NOT SURE what you are laughing about...i read her profile. i was congratulating her on the contents of her profile. GEE...maybe i'm wrong...but...

Wildflower replies on Jul 10, 2019:

I'm sorry. I didn't realize that.

We've got a couple new members! So great to see you @SnakeMaiden and @Prashant! Please feel free to ...

Prashant comments on Jul 10, 2019:

Thanks ! @wildflower 😊

Wildflower replies on Jul 10, 2019:

I hope you enjoy!

So, I've started going on dates.

zesty comments on Jul 8, 2019:

Does one really needs a spark to have sex? Or is it just a controlling tool invented by the church? How is a spark defined? Just from my memory - an electric field gradient strong enough to ionize a substance creating temperary free charge carriers, forming low resistance conducting channels. Lol...

Wildflower replies on Jul 8, 2019:

@zesty not so much fun. That's artificial arousal. Means nothing. But I guess that's ok for some. Arousal for me is in the brain, directly connected to the pleasure points.

So, I've started going on dates.

zesty comments on Jul 8, 2019:

Does one really needs a spark to have sex? Or is it just a controlling tool invented by the church? How is a spark defined? Just from my memory - an electric field gradient strong enough to ionize a substance creating temperary free charge carriers, forming low resistance conducting channels. Lol...

Wildflower replies on Jul 8, 2019:

@zesty how does one have sex without being aroused? I guess that takes a lot of lube!

So, I've started going on dates.

zesty comments on Jul 8, 2019:

Does one really needs a spark to have sex? Or is it just a controlling tool invented by the church? How is a spark defined? Just from my memory - an electric field gradient strong enough to ionize a substance creating temperary free charge carriers, forming low resistance conducting channels. Lol...

Wildflower replies on Jul 8, 2019:

Some of us want more than just sex. And that requires an emotional connection.

Pussy has finally come out of the closet.

Woltmanntim comments on Jul 7, 2019:

I think it’s a fine word in general in context (certainly better than the C word) but I find it more arousing to use correct clinical words when describing sex, like inserting my hard penis into a vagina or anus.

Wildflower replies on Jul 8, 2019:

I too love the proper terms! I do find intelligence sexy!

We have 156 members here in our group of ethical sluts.

Bungaloebob comments on Jul 8, 2019:

No special reason...i actually didn't know i needed one.

Wildflower replies on Jul 8, 2019:

You don't need a reason. Most of us have one... I was just curious. I'm glad you're here!

We have 156 members here in our group of ethical sluts.

Nukdookum comments on Jul 8, 2019:

I have been in poly relationships before and am not opposed to being in one in the future. I understand the dynamics of these relationships and can share my knowledge and experience with those who are interested.

Wildflower replies on Jul 8, 2019:

I appreciate your knowledge and insight!

We have 156 members here in our group of ethical sluts.

Looking4-Others comments on Jul 8, 2019:

I'm really just curious and wonder what makes people enjoy. I don't see myself getting into any type of relationship and being in my position it's not like one is going to happen anytime sooner or later. I try not to be a downer so I'll leave it at that.

Wildflower replies on Jul 8, 2019:

I appreciate your curiosity. There is nothing wrong with that!

We have 156 members here in our group of ethical sluts.

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jul 7, 2019:

I once was in an open marriage and because he was not ethical and honest our 34 year marriage ended. I am single now and really want to be in an open polly relationship, I just need to find the right ethical polly men. I am so happy for you that this new guy is working out for you, and them.

Wildflower replies on Jul 7, 2019:

@Mermaidfantasy I am absolutely enjoying it. And I'm hoping it lasts a very long time. I am impressed by this couple.

My sexual turn-ons seem to rise and fall depending on what is going on in my life.

thinktwice comments on Jul 7, 2019:

I prefer sensual,luxurious sex...the kind that starts slow and easy and builds...exploratory...I hate the word "kink"...anything that is enjoyable to both and fun as well can be a "kink"... Me, I want to sigh, laugh, moan, and even cry as I luxuriate in involving all of my senses...both giving ...

Wildflower replies on Jul 7, 2019:

@Science-guy I think if there is any "problem" with kink it is the judgment of those involved in it. Included in that is the judgment of others by those in the kink world.

We have 156 members here in our group of ethical sluts.

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jul 7, 2019:

I once was in an open marriage and because he was not ethical and honest our 34 year marriage ended. I am single now and really want to be in an open polly relationship, I just need to find the right ethical polly men. I am so happy for you that this new guy is working out for you, and them.

Wildflower replies on Jul 7, 2019:

Thank you. I am thrilled but cautious. I have to say that this man just appeared without expectation. I have been on the okc dating site for 2 years. My profile is open and honest about what I'm looking for. And I've just left my profile up... rarely meeting anyone. And then there he was. I have a hard time believing it will last, but I am taking it slow and realistic, hoping it will be long term.

We have 156 members here in our group of ethical sluts.

Marcie1974 comments on Jul 7, 2019:

I’m not sure what ethical sluts has to do with poly relationships. Certainly poly can be part of it. But I guess I think of ethical sluts more as people, specifically women, who are or want to be comfortable with their sexuality. Women who enjoy sex and are tired of being labeled as a slut for ...

Wildflower replies on Jul 7, 2019:

@Marcie1974 Thanks! but I'm pretty scared and feeling vulnerable going into this type of relationship.

We have 156 members here in our group of ethical sluts.

Dancing comments on Jul 7, 2019:

I'm not poly but would be open to joining in one. I joined because I've always considered myself a slut and an ethical slut sounds better. 😁

Wildflower replies on Jul 7, 2019:

That's a good reason to join us! I've always been a slut too, and have been ashamed of it. Not so much anymore!!

We have 156 members here in our group of ethical sluts.

Marcie1974 comments on Jul 7, 2019:

I’m not sure what ethical sluts has to do with poly relationships. Certainly poly can be part of it. But I guess I think of ethical sluts more as people, specifically women, who are or want to be comfortable with their sexuality. Women who enjoy sex and are tired of being labeled as a slut for ...

Wildflower replies on Jul 7, 2019:

@Marcie1974 If we lived close I can see us being friends! I will tell you that I am not sure if my confidence is up for a poly relationship. I decided to open myself up for it after the end of my last long term relationship. I realized that one man could not be all things for me. And I knew that I could love more than one person at once. Also, I did not believe that I should be shamed for enjoying and having sex with multiple partners. I am open to experience this relationship with a man in an open marriage. Especially since he is an amazingly kind and intelligent man. And his wife is pretty awesome too!

We have 156 members here in our group of ethical sluts.

Marcie1974 comments on Jul 7, 2019:

I’m not sure what ethical sluts has to do with poly relationships. Certainly poly can be part of it. But I guess I think of ethical sluts more as people, specifically women, who are or want to be comfortable with their sexuality. Women who enjoy sex and are tired of being labeled as a slut for ...

Wildflower replies on Jul 7, 2019:

Ethical Sluts originated with the book of the same name. It is about polyamorous relationships and loving multiple people at once. I also have taken it to another level, women being comfortable with their sexuality and being ok with being sexual with with multiple people. Yes... I am a woman who is tired of being labeled negatively for enjoying sex with multiple men. Thank you for sharing your personal thoughts on this.

We have 156 members here in our group of ethical sluts.

TheDoubter comments on Jul 7, 2019:

i'm a journalist so am curious about most things, causes, crusades, projects,etc

Wildflower replies on Jul 7, 2019:

@TheDoubter Thank you sweets!

Pussy has finally come out of the closet.

Cabsmom comments on Jul 7, 2019:

I don't have a problem with my parts being called pussy. I've been told I have a pretty pussy....lol.

Wildflower replies on Jul 7, 2019:

@mischl I think we all do! I know I appreciate mine! LOL

We have 156 members here in our group of ethical sluts.

TheDoubter comments on Jul 7, 2019:

i'm a journalist so am curious about most things, causes, crusades, projects,etc

Wildflower replies on Jul 7, 2019:

I love the open-minded curious nature of some people! And you have no judgment. I'm glad you're here!

Pussy has finally come out of the closet.

Wildflower comments on Jul 7, 2019:

https://youtu.be/ZGIkGbs1VEc

Wildflower replies on Jul 7, 2019:

@mischl I believe that would have been a goddess though!!

I would like to thank all of the members who have signed up so @wildflower @SaucyCheryl ...

Wildflower comments on Jul 7, 2019:

Roy, if I was in Canada, we'd be hanging out!

Wildflower replies on Jul 7, 2019:

@RoyMillar You just let me know when you're here. We will meet for sure!!

My sexual turn-ons seem to rise and fall depending on what is going on in my life.

thinktwice comments on Jul 7, 2019:

I prefer sensual,luxurious sex...the kind that starts slow and easy and builds...exploratory...I hate the word "kink"...anything that is enjoyable to both and fun as well can be a "kink"... Me, I want to sigh, laugh, moan, and even cry as I luxuriate in involving all of my senses...both giving ...

Wildflower replies on Jul 7, 2019:

@thinktwice That is me all the way!

My sexual turn-ons seem to rise and fall depending on what is going on in my life.

thinktwice comments on Jul 7, 2019:

I prefer sensual,luxurious sex...the kind that starts slow and easy and builds...exploratory...I hate the word "kink"...anything that is enjoyable to both and fun as well can be a "kink"... Me, I want to sigh, laugh, moan, and even cry as I luxuriate in involving all of my senses...both giving ...

Wildflower replies on Jul 7, 2019:

I love your kinky!

My sexual turn-ons seem to rise and fall depending on what is going on in my life.

Our_existence comments on Jul 7, 2019:

Sounds like you'd be enjoyable to play with. 😉😂😂

Wildflower replies on Jul 7, 2019:

I am great fun to play with! Depends of course on one's idea of fun.

another fun video: [vimeo.com]

Storm1752 comments on Jul 7, 2019:

That's annoying.

Wildflower replies on Jul 7, 2019:

The tune?

Pussy has finally come out of the closet.

Cabsmom comments on Jul 7, 2019:

I don't have a problem with my parts being called pussy. I've been told I have a pretty pussy....lol.

Wildflower replies on Jul 7, 2019:

Yes! Me too.

Pussy has finally come out of the closet.

bobwjr comments on Jul 7, 2019:

Yup

Wildflower replies on Jul 7, 2019:

@Cutiebeauty I'm sorry. I didn't mean to tag you in that reply. I meant to respond only to Bob. But I have no problem with what you like or don't like. I do love a purring pussy though.

Pussy has finally come out of the closet.

bobwjr comments on Jul 7, 2019:

Yup

Wildflower replies on Jul 7, 2019:

@bobwjr, @Cutiebeauty I have no problem using the word pussy when referring to a woman's genitalia. Pussies are soft and cuddly, and they purr when you pet them! Haha. I really like the word coochie though!

I like the concept of this group.

thinktwice comments on Jul 6, 2019:

Depending on when, you could hit Wilmington, NC, Hershey or Philly...I would meet you!!!

Wildflower replies on Jul 6, 2019:

I will let you know!

Give someone the best gift ever!

RoyMillar comments on Jul 6, 2019:

Yes so very true,that they are truely loved for the person that shares the mind in the body

Wildflower replies on Jul 6, 2019:

You are so wise Roy! and sweet!

I never thought that I was worthy of any of this... and then I found myself. And there was my worth.

Storm1752 comments on Jul 6, 2019:

Pretty face, big and beautiful. Say Wildflower, are we allowed to skirt the line between "real-life" and "fantasy?" I'm noticing some posts are pretty "fantastic!" How abour erotic? Just askin'...

Wildflower replies on Jul 6, 2019:

There are many erotic posts in this group. They just have more realistic features than some might be interested in.

I never thought that I was worthy of any of this... and then I found myself. And there was my worth.

Storm1752 comments on Jul 6, 2019:

Pretty face, big and beautiful. Say Wildflower, are we allowed to skirt the line between "real-life" and "fantasy?" I'm noticing some posts are pretty "fantastic!" How abour erotic? Just askin'...

Wildflower replies on Jul 6, 2019:

I'm not going to let this group become disgusting like that other one.

I never thought that I was worthy of any of this... and then I found myself. And there was my worth.

bobwjr comments on Jul 4, 2019:

No shit honey

Wildflower replies on Jul 4, 2019:

Thank you Bob.

Now she is real, and real sexy! What a beautiful figure.

Bungaloebob comments on Jul 4, 2019:

ah...she looks like my aunt...and i was never turned on to my aunt.

Wildflower replies on Jul 4, 2019:

LOL. Sorry about that!

My ancient TV finally blew its last bulb! I know.

PaulFarrell comments on Jul 3, 2019:

How about posting a photo of the old TV.

Wildflower replies on Jul 3, 2019:

It already went out in the trash.

Does anyone have slutty plans for the 4th of July, Independence Day here in the U.S.?

MojoDave comments on Jul 2, 2019:

Everyone needs some good cuddle time!

Wildflower replies on Jul 2, 2019:

Absolutely!

Found on Reddit...

Wildflower comments on Jun 30, 2019:

I posted that before you did. Hmmmm

Wildflower replies on Jun 30, 2019:

@Science-guy and you saw it.

A question for all you wonderful people.

Bigel comments on Jun 30, 2019:

What is intimate grooming? Asking for what you want sexually or a specific kind oral sex?

Wildflower replies on Jun 30, 2019:

I apologize for not being clear. I mean how does one like their partners pubic hair groomed... not at all, trimmed neatly, some hair, or no hair. Is it a deal breaker if they don't groom to your preference?

Hey guys. What's your preference when it comes to dirty talk?

rsb97080 comments on Jun 29, 2019:

In this day and age, I always let the woman decide when “dirty talk” will commence. I don’t want to be charged or sued.

Wildflower replies on Jun 29, 2019:

@rsb97080 but hey... hold back if you need to. There are plenty of guys who don't.

Hey guys. What's your preference when it comes to dirty talk?

rsb97080 comments on Jun 29, 2019:

In this day and age, I always let the woman decide when “dirty talk” will commence. I don’t want to be charged or sued.

Wildflower replies on Jun 29, 2019:

@rsb97080 me asking that question gives permission to be open. This isn't a group that requires cautiousness.

Hey guys. What's your preference when it comes to dirty talk?

rsb97080 comments on Jun 29, 2019:

In this day and age, I always let the woman decide when “dirty talk” will commence. I don’t want to be charged or sued.

Wildflower replies on Jun 29, 2019:

I wasn't talking about in the workplace or on the street. I was opening up conversation in a group designed for talking dirty and arousing the sexual senses.

Can someone who knows about BDSM private message me?

Marcie1974 comments on Jun 29, 2019:

This is a pretty safe group, any reason you can’t just ask here? It’s better to get information/opinions from multiple people

Wildflower replies on Jun 29, 2019:

Not only that but others may like the information also.

I asked the previous question because I have not yet gotten naked with my new man.

Bungaloebob comments on Jun 29, 2019:

So, you like your guys genitals and such...HAIRLESS?

Wildflower replies on Jun 29, 2019:

@Bungaloebob I do like a nice trim. Especially his balls. But hairless is not necessarily.

I asked the previous question because I have not yet gotten naked with my new man.

Dancing comments on Jun 28, 2019:

That sound like a wonderful start to a relationship. And aren't we all looking for someone that we can be ourselves with. ❤️

Wildflower replies on Jun 29, 2019:

Yes. I am very impressed by this man. I have not experienced such a non-judgmental man in a very long time.

WTF is wrong with this picture?

Bungaloebob comments on Jun 29, 2019:

I don't know...WHAT?

Wildflower replies on Jun 29, 2019:

She is NOT a BBW!

A little curvy goes a long way!

Bungaloebob comments on Jun 29, 2019:

OH YEAH...NOW THAT IS SEXY.

Wildflower replies on Jun 29, 2019:

Yes, she is beautifully sexy!

How do you combat loneliness?

Haemish1 comments on Jun 28, 2019:

As an introvert, I don’t often feel alone. I work enough, that when I get time alone, i enjoy it.

Wildflower replies on Jun 29, 2019:

@Haemish1 Many days I don't know how I do it either. But I really do love my profession, and giving back.

How do you combat loneliness?

azzow2 comments on Jun 28, 2019:

There could be a pill for that, I have not located it as of yet.

Wildflower replies on Jun 29, 2019:

Isn't there a pill for everything wrong with us?

How do you combat loneliness?

Cast1es comments on Jun 28, 2019:

Being married , proved to be a lot more lonely , than being single ever has . Lot less work to being single . Lot more time for things that interest me . Higher level of intelligence . A library full of books . Courses , if I care to take them . International festivals , when I feel up to going . No...

Wildflower replies on Jun 29, 2019:

@Deiter Only the right relationship will relieve loneliness.

How do you combat loneliness?

Wildflower comments on Jun 28, 2019:

I feel lonely quite often. I live alone and am ok with that. But I have a high need for physical touch and connection. If I had people in my life I would not feel so lonely. But I don't. I get through loneliness by myself the best I can. I stay patient and open for what might come my way.

Wildflower replies on Jun 29, 2019:

@Marcie1974 I believe it is a need to be healthy. Humans have emotional needs and if they are not met we are not emotionally healthy. I know that I'm not healthy without physical touch.

A little curvy goes a long way!

bobwjr comments on Jun 29, 2019:

Yup cute and curvy

Wildflower replies on Jun 29, 2019:

She sure is.

How do you combat loneliness?

Haemish1 comments on Jun 28, 2019:

As an introvert, I don’t often feel alone. I work enough, that when I get time alone, i enjoy it.

Wildflower replies on Jun 29, 2019:

@Haemish1 I work as a therapist 40 hours a week. I listen all day long. I get my fill of people, especially listening to people. It is draining. Without a source of connection to fill me up... I am empty.

How do you combat loneliness?

Haemish1 comments on Jun 28, 2019:

As an introvert, I don’t often feel alone. I work enough, that when I get time alone, i enjoy it.

Wildflower replies on Jun 28, 2019:

I'm an introvert and spend a great deal of time alone. But I am human and need physical and social connection. Being an introvert doesn't mean being ok alone, or not feeling lonely.

WTF is wrong with this picture?

RoyMillar comments on Jun 28, 2019:

she is having a casual day wearing baggy clothes that are her sisters> how does that sound for an explanation lol???

Wildflower replies on Jun 28, 2019:

@RoyMillar False advertising!

WTF is wrong with this picture?

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jun 28, 2019:

Nothing, maybe she is being supportive of all body types.

Wildflower replies on Jun 28, 2019:

@Mermaidfantasy It's just wrong for an "average" model to advertise clothing for a plus size woman. This is a model selling a T-shirt with BBW proclaimed on the front. She is not a Big Beautiful Woman.

I asked the previous question because I have not yet gotten naked with my new man.

bobwjr comments on Jun 28, 2019:

Sounds good honey wish you the best

Wildflower replies on Jun 28, 2019:

Thanks Bob.

I asked the previous question because I have not yet gotten naked with my new man.

RoyMillar comments on Jun 28, 2019:

no pressure start out in your relationship for sure ,but if he is in a poly relationship than he has two to please in that department,,so not asking for any thing ,that the other party may want him to do also but would maybe displease the other,,sounds like a wise approach

Wildflower replies on Jun 28, 2019:

@RoyMillar Thanks Roy!

WTF is wrong with this picture?

St-Sinner comments on Jun 28, 2019:

She does not sync with the concept?

Wildflower replies on Jun 28, 2019:

Correct!

WTF is wrong with this picture?

RoyMillar comments on Jun 28, 2019:

she is having a casual day wearing baggy clothes that are her sisters> how does that sound for an explanation lol???

Wildflower replies on Jun 28, 2019:

Nope, doesn't work for me.

WTF is wrong with this picture?

ZantiMisfit comments on Jun 28, 2019:

I wouldn't call that BBW. But that's just me.

Wildflower replies on Jun 28, 2019:

And you're pretty smart.

WTF is wrong with this picture?

thinktwice comments on Jun 28, 2019:

Bad color for her skin tone...jk I hate it when they show plus sized clothes on obviously not plus sized models...it is infuriating not to see how the clothes really fall, fit, etc. UGH!

Wildflower replies on Jun 28, 2019:

Yes, I agree.

WTF is wrong with this picture?

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jun 28, 2019:

Nothing, maybe she is being supportive of all body types.

Wildflower replies on Jun 28, 2019:

Ummm, nope.

WTF is wrong with this picture?

hippydog comments on Jun 28, 2019:

Maybe she is 7 ft tall?

Wildflower replies on Jun 28, 2019:

LOL. 7 feet tall is not the definition of BBW.

I asked the previous question because I have not yet gotten naked with my new man.

St-Sinner comments on Jun 28, 2019:

Be your best and hope for the best. If it is meant to work work out and if he is the right man, it will work out. You do not have to do anything more.

Wildflower replies on Jun 28, 2019:

It looks to be amazing!

I asked the previous question because I have not yet gotten naked with my new man.

RoyMillar comments on Jun 28, 2019:

no pressure start out in your relationship for sure ,but if he is in a poly relationship than he has two to please in that department,,so not asking for any thing ,that the other party may want him to do also but would maybe displease the other,,sounds like a wise approach

Wildflower replies on Jun 28, 2019:

He isn't in a poly relationship... but an open marriage. He and I are experiencing something new. His wife has another man, but he has not been with another woman yet, until me. He has not found anyone he connected with, until now. We are both learning to negotiate the boundaries.

A question for all you wonderful people.

mischl comments on Jun 28, 2019:

I have no set agenda about a lady's grooming--and we're talking about genital hair, right? I can take what comes along, but I'm not especially fond of sex with a woman who's shaved. I had a little too much of that overseas. Mostly, I just like natural.

Wildflower replies on Jun 28, 2019:

Yes, we're talking about genital hair. LOL. Some express such a loud preference that I was just curious.

A question for all you wonderful people.

Marcie1974 comments on Jun 28, 2019:

Trimmed is nice but I generally don’t voice my preference....unless they ask me to groom a certain way

Wildflower replies on Jun 28, 2019:

I don't usually voice my preference either, unless I'm asked. I am ok with how my man is.

A question for all you wonderful people.

CarolinaGirl60 comments on Jun 28, 2019:

I don’t mind what others do, I’m fine with whatever they do, make or female. I trim but don’t shave, it’s too irritating. If a partner offered to help trim, I’d accept. A partner so rigid as to insist on my doing otherwise , THAT is a dealbreaker!

Wildflower replies on Jun 28, 2019:

Yes. I would not be ok with someone insisting I groom a certain way. I would be more apt to please if I was asked. And I am fine with a partner being themselves. If they say they are open to my preference, I would want him to be trimmed.

A question for all you wonderful people.

LEPeff comments on Jun 28, 2019:

I'm fairly open with grooming. I prefer a nice trim, but it isn't a deal breaker by any stretch of the imagination. It's been a while since I've had a trim but I'm more than happy to do it. Please give me a reason, lol.

Wildflower replies on Jun 28, 2019:

Maybe if you trim you will be ready for her when she comes along.

A question for all you wonderful people.

bobwjr comments on Jun 28, 2019:

First lets get naked then work on it have shaved partner for bathing suit and legs always happy to help

Wildflower replies on Jun 28, 2019:

@bobwjr I'm just curious because so many people, men and women, say they want their partner groomed in a certain way... completely shaven, trimmed, or even just natural. But if one meets someone who prefers their intimate bits different than you do... is one accepting of that or do you move on.

A question for all you wonderful people.

Mermaidfantasy comments on Jun 28, 2019:

I state what I prefer but it is their body and they must do what is right for them.

Wildflower replies on Jun 28, 2019:

But if you prefer something different is that a deal breaker?

A question for all you wonderful people.

St-Sinner comments on Jun 28, 2019:

1. First, I want to understand what her preferences and dislikes are 2. I will accept and respect the limits 3. As the relationship progresses, I will let her know what I like but will never insist on it 4. But I will not want her her to change for me 5. I will be open to changing where I can...

Wildflower replies on Jun 28, 2019:

Women are often trained to please, so they do have a hard time opening up.

A question for all you wonderful people.

bobwjr comments on Jun 28, 2019:

First lets get naked then work on it have shaved partner for bathing suit and legs always happy to help

Wildflower replies on Jun 28, 2019:

What if she does not prefer to shave? Do you dump her?

A question for all you wonderful people.

ScienceBill72 comments on Jun 28, 2019:

I would do it if they requested it

Wildflower replies on Jun 28, 2019:

Would you demand that she groom as you would like?

I think I might have just figured something out.

Wildflower comments on Jun 28, 2019:

As a very sexual woman myself, and one that has had body image issues all my life, I believe we need to be empowered to be who we are. I can absolutely relate to how you feel and what you have experienced. I have recently been through some learning experiences with men and the key for me has been to...

Wildflower replies on Jun 28, 2019:

@Marcie1974 I'd love that! I have no friends that I can talk to about such things.

I think I might have just figured something out.

Lop-Eared-Mule comments on Jun 28, 2019:

Most women are not that sexual, it's shocking to find one that is.

Wildflower replies on Jun 28, 2019:

Shocking? Seriously?

Welcome @antman and @Dallasdave! I hope you enjoy our group.

Charlene comments on Jun 27, 2019:

Valkommen!

Wildflower replies on Jun 28, 2019:

@Charlene cool! I am swedish but I don't speak it.

Welcome @antman and @Dallasdave! I hope you enjoy our group.

Charlene comments on Jun 27, 2019:

Valkommen!

Wildflower replies on Jun 27, 2019:

Are you Swedish?

On Ethical Sluts, I posted a very misleading, confusing, and frankly, when read a certain way, ...

JacarC comments on Mar 17, 2019:

although i think all words should be spoken without admonition, i do not like any words used in ways to demean women who have lots of fun. Nice long paragraph though.

Wildflower replies on Jun 26, 2019:

@Jacar I responded to your comment about words that demean women. I don't know where the sticks and stones came from. Why did you say sticks and stones?

I decided to take a break from online dating.

Wildflower comments on Jun 26, 2019:

You and I are so very similar! I've read many of your posts and I can relate so much.

Wildflower replies on Jun 26, 2019:

@Wendiw I have chatted with a few guys here that I would love to meet and see what happens. But they live too far away for their liking. I have kept my profile up on okc.

I decided to take a break from online dating.

Wildflower comments on Jun 26, 2019:

You and I are so very similar! I've read many of your posts and I can relate so much.

Wildflower replies on Jun 26, 2019:

@Cabsmom Since my last relationship ended 2 years ago I've been out there on dating sights. Mostly I've hooked up with men, wanting some closeness and someone to desire me. I have become very cynical and very choosy. But I left my profile up. I may have recently met a true gem... I'm looking forward to finding out.

On Ethical Sluts, I posted a very misleading, confusing, and frankly, when read a certain way, ...

JacarC comments on Mar 17, 2019:

although i think all words should be spoken without admonition, i do not like any words used in ways to demean women who have lots of fun. Nice long paragraph though.

Wildflower replies on Jun 26, 2019:

@Jacar You don't like words that demean women? What word in this post demeans women? Who's throwing sticks or stones?

What are your surefire best cold remedies?

mischl comments on Jun 26, 2019:

Answer: Move to SW Florida. Which I did 15 months ago. I have not had the slightest sniffle since then. But that's not as simple as it sounds. Because I'm living in a city with 75+ miles of paved bike paths, I bike (and walk) a LOT...much more than I ever did living in colder climates. I'm also ...

Wildflower replies on Jun 26, 2019:

I like the stay naked part!

On Ethical Sluts, I posted a very misleading, confusing, and frankly, when read a certain way, ...

JacarC comments on Mar 17, 2019:

although i think all words should be spoken without admonition, i do not like any words used in ways to demean women who have lots of fun. Nice long paragraph though.

Wildflower replies on Jun 25, 2019:

It's only demeaning if you make it so.

Summer is here! I hope everyone is enjoying some summer fun, maybe a vacation! I need to be heading ...

Charlene comments on Jun 23, 2019:

Welcome newbies!..head to Conn?

Wildflower replies on Jun 25, 2019:

Yes, I do need to come up for a visit!

It seems that I am beginning a relationship adventure! An adventure because this type of ...

GwenBFree comments on Jun 24, 2019:

That’s fantastic, enjoy!

Wildflower replies on Jun 25, 2019:

Thank you Gwen!

Summer is here! I hope everyone is enjoying some summer fun, maybe a vacation! I need to be heading ...

GwenBFree comments on Jun 24, 2019:

Take a trip up to Vermont, I arrived today and the weather is beautiful and the scenery breathtaking

Wildflower replies on Jun 25, 2019:

Vermont is beautiful! It's been a long time since I've been there.

It seems that I am beginning a relationship adventure! An adventure because this type of ...

RoyMillar comments on Jun 24, 2019:

@wildflower. I am so very happy you have found an ideal relationship that suits your lifestyle. Enjoy it to the fullest and at the same time you still have freedom to explore big warm hugs to you

Wildflower replies on Jun 24, 2019:

Thank you Roy. We'll see how it goes. I'm hoping.

Bathing beauty!

Bungaloebob comments on Jun 24, 2019:

OH YEAH...and that tub...OMG...LIKE AN indoor personal pool!!!

Wildflower replies on Jun 24, 2019:

Would be pretty awesome to have a tub like that!

It seems that I am beginning a relationship adventure! An adventure because this type of ...

Normanbites comments on Jun 24, 2019:

I'm glad you are enjoying yourself and your new relationship. Beyond that, it is hard for me to relate. I'd want you all for myself. Sorry, I'm kind of selfish that way.

Wildflower replies on Jun 24, 2019:

This type of relationship is definitely different. One has to have a certain kind of mindset to be ok with it.

Summer is here! I hope everyone is enjoying some summer fun, maybe a vacation! I need to be heading ...

davers comments on Jun 24, 2019:

It's bleeding winter here

Wildflower replies on Jun 24, 2019:

Yes, of course it is! I should come visit!

It seems that I am beginning a relationship adventure! An adventure because this type of ...

Dancing comments on Jun 23, 2019:

Wonderful and exciting! ❤️

Wildflower replies on Jun 23, 2019:

I am excited! Thanks.

It seems that I am beginning a relationship adventure! An adventure because this type of ...

Sticks48 comments on Jun 23, 2019:

Good for you. Enjoy. :)

Wildflower replies on Jun 23, 2019:

Thanks!

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St-Sinner comments on Jun 23, 2019:

Seems like a great potential of a good relationship. Good luck.

Wildflower replies on Jun 23, 2019:

Thank you!

Bathing beauty!

Science-guy comments on Jun 23, 2019:

Party tub that is. 😎

Wildflower replies on Jun 23, 2019:

There is room for 2!

Summer is here! I hope everyone is enjoying some summer fun, maybe a vacation! I need to be heading ...

FlippantLlama comments on Jun 23, 2019:

*welcome dance, complete with coconut bra and snorkel*

Wildflower replies on Jun 23, 2019:

I want to see that!

Summer is here! I hope everyone is enjoying some summer fun, maybe a vacation! I need to be heading ...

RoyMillar comments on Jun 23, 2019:

@wildflower,,You can always come up to Ontario ,we are a little cooler ,but if still not cool enough we can do a raod trip to east coast

Wildflower replies on Jun 23, 2019:

I need to get my passport so I can take a trip through Canada!