Something to think about.

Wildflower comments on Mar 4, 2019:

"Some people come into your life for a reason, some a season, and some a lifetime."

A Cherokee Parable: The Tale of Two Wolves.

Wildflower comments on Mar 4, 2019:

Absolutely true.

Hi everyone! I'm new to your group and I've been wanting to ask a question.

Wildflower comments on Mar 4, 2019:

Welcome Dave, I think you're pretty normal!

Goodnight Kitties....

Wildflower comments on Mar 4, 2019:

Kitty snuggles!

It's cookies!

Wildflower comments on Mar 3, 2019:

A sad reality!

Well I learned something new tonight whilst reading a story on stories online.

Wildflower comments on Mar 3, 2019:

Only with a guarantee.

Well I learned something new tonight whilst reading a story on stories online.

Wildflower comments on Mar 3, 2019:

Oh great... another "spot" to reach.

For the person who has everything! The perfect gift.

Wildflower comments on Mar 3, 2019:

@Kattywampus69

Somehow, I don't think these kittens are going to get any sleep

Wildflower comments on Mar 3, 2019:

Beware the deceiver!

Am leaving this group, am ashamed to be a member.

Wildflower comments on Mar 3, 2019:

I was very uncomfortable when I saw that meme. I'm glad you said something.

Do you agree or not agree?

Wildflower comments on Mar 3, 2019:

I understand exactly what you're trying to say. I work with people on a daily basis that are seriously sick because of the beliefs, biases, and rules that were instilled in them as children. Beliefs can be so internalized that we don't even understand that they are beliefs and that we can change them.

My sincere apologies! I compared two economic systems previously, to some extent as a joke.

Wildflower comments on Mar 3, 2019:

I'm proud to be a socialist!

What do you find attractive at first sight? I find tattoos and piercings very attractive.

Wildflower comments on Mar 3, 2019:

I do find tattoos and piercings very attractive, but not necessary. Mostly I find attractive a smile and eyes. I love the deepness of brown eyes.

Do you agree or not agree?

Wildflower comments on Mar 3, 2019:

All of that is decided for us. However, as an adult we can change our beliefs, values, biases, and rules. We can change our name, religion, and denomination. Authorities and society do not have to control who we are anymore.

I had the privilege to have a woman when I was 17 and still a virgin to teach me all the right and ...

Wildflower comments on Mar 3, 2019:

How wonderful! It really isn't that hard to understand what another person needs (even a woman). All you need to do is be open-minded and aware, and listen! Seems you were open to that when you were a teen. I love your story!

Reduce your stress... Cuddle! ???

Wildflower comments on Mar 3, 2019:

I believe it.

Does this apply to you ladies (or gents if you identify) ? lol

Wildflower comments on Mar 2, 2019:

Yes. That would be me. My coworkers would be shocked to know the real me.

I don't know if we're getting a "Goodnight Kitty" or not, so I thought that I would wish my fellow ...

Wildflower comments on Mar 2, 2019:

No good night kitty? I'll share my old girl Tyler... found herself a sweet spot on the couch.

Thank you to whoever turned me on to POF.

Wildflower comments on Mar 2, 2019:

And you just had to share!! lol Love it!

I JUST GOT LAID! And gave my first orgasm with oral sex.

Wildflower comments on Mar 2, 2019:

Hahaha. Go get 'em tiger! I'm happy for you!!

Password security is getting intense.

Wildflower comments on Mar 2, 2019:

Feels like that sometimes! And then we have to change it every 30 days!

Not to be the “post police” but please read the group description before posting.

Wildflower comments on Mar 2, 2019:

I agree with you. And thanks for your support on my post yesterday. I am a lover of female beauty... my bedroom and master bath are adorned with beautiful pinups. I have a collection of pinup items. I don't think this group is the place to post such pics, or I would have been posting them a long time ago.

On the topic of mixed race beauty, I always though the French Vietnamese I met were incredibly ...

Wildflower comments on Mar 1, 2019:

Deviant? Seems a bit mundane, regular, boring.

Ahhhhhh, childhood

Wildflower comments on Mar 1, 2019:

That was my gateway to real cigarettes! Well, that and both my parents smoking... and all 5 of my older siblings...

Have you ever thought that your "imperfections" might just make you perfect in someone else's eyes

Wildflower comments on Mar 1, 2019:

My "imperfections" have and will make me "perfect" for someone else. I believe that.

Have you ever thought that your "imperfections" might just make you perfect in someone else's eyes?

Wildflower comments on Mar 1, 2019:

What is an imperfection in a human being? I have thought, and hoped, that my uniqueness would be just perfect in someone else's eyes.

Dilemma!! He said "pack light" but most of mine are purple...??

Wildflower comments on Mar 1, 2019:

Hahaha. Mine too!

My cousin had this posted on her Facebook page. Thought it might be appreciated in this forum.

Wildflower comments on Mar 1, 2019:

I need that crystal for my clients!

had me fooled.

Wildflower comments on Mar 1, 2019:

That is perfect!

What words of wisdom have you picked up throughout your life that you think is important enough to ...

Wildflower comments on Mar 1, 2019:

The platinum rule... Treat others not how I wish to be treated, but how they wish to be treated.

I am ready to start thinking forward again instead of looking backward.

Wildflower comments on Mar 1, 2019:

That's right. We need to make room for the awesome possibilities by getting rid of any pain that holds us back.

I approve of all this shit right here.

Wildflower comments on Mar 1, 2019:

Hmmmm, Hot young Abraham Lincoln.

If you're single, are you lonely?

Wildflower comments on Mar 1, 2019:

Well, I'd have great times too if I had the company of Keanu! But seriously, yes I get lonely.

“Letting there be room for not knowing is the most important thing of all.

Wildflower comments on Mar 1, 2019:

Excitement and anxiety produce similar arousal symptoms in our bodies. Change often brings about a fear of the unknown.We can have anxiety about the unknown or change our perspective and feel excitement about the adventure of the unknown. I've learned to look at change as an adventure.

Love The Onion

Wildflower comments on Mar 1, 2019:

Truly the most accurate fake news... before it was even a thing.

Guys, this is getting under my skin and I need input.

Wildflower comments on Mar 1, 2019:

Deep breath... let it go, along with him. You may not get the book back, but sometimes we have to cut our loses.

I know I posted this quite a while back.

Wildflower comments on Mar 1, 2019:

I see why this would lift you up.

Have you had a look at "brownburger01"?

Wildflower comments on Feb 28, 2019:

Interesting... he just sent me a "hi" emoji.

Have you had a look at "brownburger01"?

Wildflower comments on Feb 28, 2019:

Must check it out...

I think I’ll pass this meat up!

Wildflower comments on Feb 28, 2019:

What's a piss flap? Might be good buttered. Butter makes everything better!

Just heard this for the first time on the radio today.. kinda fit my crappy mood . [youtu.be]

Wildflower comments on Feb 28, 2019:

Ohhh, sweet dog. If you were here...

To all the point whores I have helped in the last year, I am reaching out to you as I am within ...

Wildflower comments on Feb 28, 2019:

So when I become a point whore nearing level 8 you're going to help me out?

Some assistance needed

Wildflower comments on Feb 28, 2019:

Hopefully they know what they're doing!

In my world, you’d only qualify as a beautiful woman if you have the urge to punch men like this ...

Wildflower comments on Feb 28, 2019:

He must be a media mogul. They make their billions off this shit.

Get in line, people!! ?

Wildflower comments on Feb 28, 2019:

I'm on a highway to hell!

Ordered a ball washer off a golf site. Was horribly disappointed with what arrived.

Wildflower comments on Feb 28, 2019:

What? She wasn't wearing a bikini?

Trigger warning for anyone who has ever experienced sexual abuse [cnn.

Wildflower comments on Feb 28, 2019:

Sometimes the best place to be.

I don't want to get a "New Puppy" to make me forget my "Old Puppy".

Wildflower comments on Feb 28, 2019:

I've been fostering a few "puppies." Knowing that as a foster parent I can't get too attached, I can still enjoy "puppy" playtime. That might not be right for everyone who is letting go of an "old puppy", but it's right for me right now.

With the silhouette of moonlight,under the dim light??

Wildflower comments on Feb 28, 2019:

Oh my! I actually had that for breakfast this morning! Left me starving.

To all the point whores I have helped in the last year, I am reaching out to you as I am within ...

Wildflower comments on Feb 28, 2019:

I have no doubt you will make it!

Neighbor asked to borrow my phone to take a selfie...

Wildflower comments on Feb 28, 2019:

What the hell does he have on his head?

Kiltin' It

Wildflower comments on Feb 28, 2019:

Hey there. What you got under that skirt? Wow, is he beautiful!

My dream place. Would you like to visit or live here?

Wildflower comments on Feb 28, 2019:

That would be my dream place as well!

Does this song resonate with anyone else as much as it does me? [youtu.be]

Wildflower comments on Feb 28, 2019:

Yes. It absolutely does.

Is anything else really acceptable?

Wildflower comments on Feb 27, 2019:

Yes.

Got stood up again for the second time in four months, each time a different woman from a site that ...

Wildflower comments on Feb 27, 2019:

I always like a confirmation from my date. I've been stood up, so if he doesn't message me I don't believe it is happening.

????...

Wildflower comments on Feb 27, 2019:

maybe because... https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/fallacy

Goodnight Kitty:

Wildflower comments on Feb 27, 2019:

I want to be a cat!

What is your favorite regret?

Wildflower comments on Feb 27, 2019:

My favorite regret... the man who came into my life unexpectedly at a time of personal transition. I loved him, a married man. Taught me more than I ever imagined, about my self-worth, my value... and my beauty! Fuck him! lol

Lots of miles between Taos, NM and Scottsdale, AZ for the past two days.

Wildflower comments on Feb 27, 2019:

That's cool. Traveling through a little town of great fame.

Just looked and realized I just cracked the 10K threshold of points needed to make Level 8.

Wildflower comments on Feb 27, 2019:

I'm right there with you!

The Louder the Monkey, the Smaller Its Balls, Study Finds - Motherboard

Wildflower comments on Feb 27, 2019:

Is that something like the bigger the truck the smaller the penis?

i join 3 dating sizes and I message meny girls however didn't message me back i think it's because I...

Wildflower comments on Feb 27, 2019:

It really sucks that you have to experience that. I think too many are shallow and can't see past their own selfish wants and see you not as a disability but as the great guy you are. I wouldn't give up though, you never know when or where you might find the right woman!

Kismet! The good news: I’ve been invited to go to a dance Saturday night, something I’ve been ...

Wildflower comments on Feb 27, 2019:

That sounds great! Things have a way of working out.

For those who've missed the HSP test, here is the direct link: [hsperson.

Wildflower comments on Feb 27, 2019:

I got a 22 on the test. Thank you for the information. Makes sense why I always thought I was different or crazy. I wonder if HSPs tend to overcompensate in some areas.

I mean, sometimes doing domestic things is hot! Happy Hump Day ;-)

Wildflower comments on Feb 27, 2019:

Such a horny boy!

In one of the HSP groups on Facebook, a member asked, "What is the best way to respond when someone ...

Wildflower comments on Feb 27, 2019:

That is a great reply. Of course, I would never think to say it.

Opinion Rhapsody.

Wildflower comments on Feb 27, 2019:

That was great. And so right on.

Good morning, everyone! When I was 24, I left my family, friends, home, stability, beautiful city ...

Wildflower comments on Feb 27, 2019:

Of course I thought it was love at the time... when i was 15 I ran away from home with my 19 yo boyfriend. We decided to go to California, from Connecticut. We hitchhiked on the highways, sometimes sleeping in the woods, sometimes at someone's place if they offered. A couple of nights we spent in a hotel thanks to a drunk old man who needed someone to drive for him. We got as far as Kansas and we were picked up on the highway. They knew I was a runaway and I spent that night in a juvenile detention facility. My mother flew me home. My boyfriend hitchhiked back to CT and we decided that when I turned 16 we would move in with each other. That time came... I packed up my things and left home. We lived in a crummy motel, I got a job at the local fast food place. He quit working and spent his days at the strip club and his nights controlling everything about me. One day he beat me for something he didn't like... I called the police and moved out. I went back, and again he beat me. That was the last time. I left and swore that would never happen again. Maybe that's why I'm so tough.

In honor of hump day. Norweigan sex shop ad. [m.facebook.com]

Wildflower comments on Feb 27, 2019:

The Norse know how to celebrate!

Would you like to have good swinger sites posted here?

Wildflower comments on Feb 26, 2019:

Of course. Share the info.

A Question for Men . . .

Wildflower comments on Feb 26, 2019:

Wow. It's amazing to me that this topic even has to be brought up. But it is relevant. Whether it is conscious or not, the way someone dresses, man or woman, plays a big part in the respect factor. Anyone who says they don't judge a woman in high heels is full of shit. You look at a woman in high heels and what do you think?... wow, she's powerful? hey, she's got it together, or omg, I'd like to fuck her? There is always a thought when someone is seen in whatever attire they wear. Conscious or not, people, especially women, are judged.

What kind of "hidden agenda" do people have when they're searching for somebody to date?

Wildflower comments on Feb 26, 2019:

I don't want to hide anything from a potential date/mate. I think there are many things that can only be found out by getting to know someone. But putting out there the "must haves" should hopefully filter out those that don't primarily fit. I don't think your 3 requirements are any part of a "hidden agenda." What is your "hidden agenda" really?

I posted about a guy I met for coffee a week ago tonight who wasn’t feeling it after meeting.

Wildflower comments on Feb 26, 2019:

Sounds like he's a bit wishy-washy... not sure what he wants.

Bon Nuit Minou

Wildflower comments on Feb 26, 2019:

Sleep sweet!

True love is being monitored. :)

Wildflower comments on Feb 26, 2019:

They could be my clients. I have no judgment.

I don't know if anyone else has experienced this?

Wildflower comments on Feb 26, 2019:

Oh my goodness. Not me. But it might be that women get older and give up on giving like they have they're whole lives. Women are nurturers but when they don't get their needs met they do tend to give up on giving.

A question I saw elsewhere online today.

Wildflower comments on Feb 26, 2019:

Yes.

Company Gives Nonsmokers Extra Vacation Days

Wildflower comments on Feb 26, 2019:

Hmmmm. Would be nice, I'm almost 3 months quit!

What if the problem of poverty is that it’s profitable to other people? | Books | The Guardian

Wildflower comments on Feb 26, 2019:

Of course poverty is profitable. And keeps power in the hands of the greedy.

Good morning! Is it Friday yet?

Wildflower comments on Feb 26, 2019:

Be careful what you wish for? Yeah, that. I'd rather live in the real world.

Feel free to start with “My” if you have one of your own.

Wildflower comments on Feb 26, 2019:

His penis is so intimate that his wife has been sick.

I'm into offensive cross-stitch. :D

Wildflower comments on Feb 25, 2019:

I love these!!!

Good Monday morning! Let's be off to a good start this week.

Wildflower comments on Feb 25, 2019:

I have finally come to the conclusion that I will always be a big girl. I'm not going to fight it anymore. I'm liking myself the way I am.

Good morning! My favorite color has always been blue, many shades of blue.

Wildflower comments on Feb 25, 2019:

Red is my favorite color but I hardly ever wear it. My car is red and the accent wall in my bedroom is red.

Dangerous curves ahead....

Wildflower comments on Feb 24, 2019:

Is this deviant? Just curious. This might belong better in the sexy, classy pic group.

I test out as an ENFP/ENTP but I have always had hypersensitivity, particularly to the emotions of ...

Wildflower comments on Feb 24, 2019:

As a therapist I have had to build strong boundaries against taking on other's emotions. I am still highly sensitive to what is going on with others and empathic to how they are feeling, I just don't allow myself to take it on. It's been a very interesting process learning how to do this and beneficial to my sense of inner peace. I can help others but maintain my serenity when I leave work.

Anyone care to join me for some chat this fine evening?

Wildflower comments on Feb 23, 2019:

Wow. So many visitors... but no takers. What's that all about? Me or you?

Question for you all. If you had money and no one to will it to, how would you bequeath it.

Wildflower comments on Feb 23, 2019:

I would probably establish a foundation or scholarship for women. Maybe give to help develop a program for homeless.

Perfect day. Perfect man. Life is good.

Wildflower comments on Feb 23, 2019:

That is sounding pretty wonderful!

Just sayin' ?

Wildflower comments on Feb 22, 2019:

No. My body is a temple. You won't convince me otherwise. LOL

Ladies, what are your thoughts on this?

Wildflower comments on Feb 22, 2019:

That right there is a wonderful dream! I bet you woke up feeling pretty good!

Take a good look around you.

Wildflower comments on Feb 22, 2019:

What the f... (fuck) are you talking about?

Who said Buddhist's didn't have good ideas!

Wildflower comments on Feb 22, 2019:

That's just fucked up.

Goodnight Kitty

Wildflower comments on Feb 22, 2019:

Look at those feet! What a sweet baby!

Well.

Wildflower comments on Feb 22, 2019:

How far will you travel? Asking for a friend. ;)

I do prefer to keep the company of ladies, depending on how you define the term! I just want to ...

Wildflower comments on Feb 21, 2019:

What kind of ideas would you like to share?

I'll play good cop. Pretty please show me yours!

Wildflower comments on Feb 21, 2019:

Shared to me from a knowing friend!

Took a huge step today! Sent a resume out for a position as a peer counselor at a children's home.

Wildflower comments on Feb 21, 2019:

Life experience is worth a great deal in the mental health field. I wish for you the best!

Who says cats and birds don't get along!!!

Wildflower comments on Feb 21, 2019:

Which one is the Dom tho?