1st date...go all the way? Have you? Would you?

Wildflower comments on Dec 16, 2018:

I had a first date today... the chemistry was electric! But no, we left it there. Only to build for the next date.

STEELERS WIN!!!!! Bwahahahaha!

Wildflower comments on Dec 16, 2018:

Oh boy... my mom is not happy. I can hear her from here!

METOO is profitable: "Dushku was paid $9.

Wildflower comments on Dec 16, 2018:

Do you really call yourself a feminist? Come on into this century.

METOO is profitable: "Dushku was paid $9.

Wildflower comments on Dec 16, 2018:

Putting the Male spin on things I see.

With holidays coming up, I feel a bit sad. Does anybody else feel this way?

Wildflower comments on Dec 16, 2018:

I definitely feel sad during the holidays. I miss my family and wish it could be different.

As an Introvert, I am careful and cautious. Can anyone else relate to this?

Wildflower comments on Dec 16, 2018:

Oh yes. Especially when it comes to a potential relationship. I'm learning to just be out there and be myself.

Let's have some fun ?☺

Wildflower comments on Dec 15, 2018:

The Graduate

For those who really like to "feel" their music on the go!

Wildflower comments on Dec 15, 2018:

Concealable!

Buzz buzz buzz

Wildflower comments on Dec 15, 2018:

Hmmmm? Wonder what that says...

Apes, Men, & Morons

Wildflower comments on Dec 15, 2018:

Hmmm, that's a classic. Still used today!

Name a fun fact about your home state.

Wildflower comments on Dec 15, 2018:

I don't think there's anything fun about Connecticut.

I smoke, I drink, I do drugs does that make me undesirable, unreliable, disloyal, unloving and ...

Wildflower comments on Dec 15, 2018:

Of course not. But you will attract those that also enjoy those things.

A while back I had a tantrum on line here where I posted that I don't use alcohol, tobacco or use ...

Wildflower comments on Dec 15, 2018:

I wonder if some just felt judgment from you. Usually those on the defensive feel attacked in some way. If you're looking for someone similar to you in that then you need to put that out there.

Anyone in need of glasses?

Wildflower comments on Dec 15, 2018:

Blurry? That's clear as a bell.

Guns: Give them to everyone as a government program.

Wildflower comments on Dec 15, 2018:

You are being sarcastic, right?

Name an Album You Can Play Without Skipping a Track.

Wildflower comments on Dec 15, 2018:

Every single Aerosmith album.

Women driving

Wildflower comments on Dec 15, 2018:

A Harley Davidson will do that! ;)

Well, hello Sat morning!

Wildflower comments on Dec 15, 2018:

Beautiful!

So, tell us, do you think in terms of race or ethnicity?

Wildflower comments on Dec 14, 2018:

What do you mean, think in terms of race and ethnicity? A race of people is a population that shares common physical traits and ethnicity is a population of people that share a culture. Some races, some ethnicities are discriminated against and marginalized. That is how I think in those terms.

When you take honest stock of your life, what are some simple changes you could personally make to ...

Wildflower comments on Dec 14, 2018:

I gave up watching the news. I don't take responsibility for what is not mine anymore. I leave my work at work every night. I learned how to say no. I don't take on guilt if it's not mine or I didn't do anything wrong. Learning to do these things has greatly reduced the stress in my life.

And....just about all the folks I chat with here...have gone to bed. I need a life...heh.

Wildflower comments on Dec 14, 2018:

Lol.You're not the only one!

OK ladies.

Wildflower comments on Dec 14, 2018:

Be vulnerable.

OK men.

Wildflower comments on Dec 14, 2018:

I know... Hook up with the girl next door!

FYI -Top 5 Dating Sites.

Wildflower comments on Dec 14, 2018:

This looks like a list for older daters. Match and EHarmony suck. I met a man on Zoosk and our relationship lasted 6 years. Zoosk is easy to use. The others I don't know.

Am I the only one that feels a better sense of self on Agnostic.

Wildflower comments on Dec 14, 2018:

Lately I've been thinking about the feeling I get from this site. I think it's a sense of connectedness and acceptance. There are so many people here that are so not judgmental and allow others to be themselves. I've seen the support given to each other and it warms my heart.

Happy Friday Everyone!

Wildflower comments on Dec 14, 2018:

I love Fridays! Enjoy your weekend!

Who can relate to this?

Wildflower comments on Dec 14, 2018:

Absolutely!

Reactions ..

Wildflower comments on Dec 13, 2018:

Lmfao! Look at her face... that poor girl!

Some people just like some space!

Wildflower comments on Dec 13, 2018:

Yes!

I am a Man and I Approve this Message.

Wildflower comments on Dec 13, 2018:

Yes. Why does it take so long for many of us to figure this out.

Anyone else a tennis fan?

Wildflower comments on Dec 13, 2018:

You just like that coochie shot!

Don't you just love a man who reads?

Wildflower comments on Dec 13, 2018:

It's ok guys, I checked... I don't think his penis is showing.

From the archives.

Wildflower comments on Dec 13, 2018:

And who is getting her for Christmas??

Oh summer...come back soon....

Wildflower comments on Dec 13, 2018:

Naughty and nice... It doesn't need to be summer here in Florida!

New here. Not sure about this, but what the hell? So what am I supposed to do now?

Wildflower comments on Dec 13, 2018:

Hey there. Welcome. Let the group know what you're into, invite someone to chat with you. Get to know us.

Beauty in natural habitat..

Wildflower comments on Dec 13, 2018:

A natural woman in a natural habitat.

Why is it so damn hard to meet likeminded people?

Wildflower comments on Dec 13, 2018:

I have always experienced the same thing. I rarely meet people who are on the same wavelength as me. I'm deep and emotional, and have a lot of self- and social awareness. Haven't found that...

Who believes that sex can ruin a friendship?

Wildflower comments on Dec 13, 2018:

Yes, I believe it can.

Well it's time for a drink . Happy Holiday everyone.

Wildflower comments on Dec 13, 2018:

Mmmm. A yummy martini!

Well it's time for a drink . Happy Holiday everyone.

Wildflower comments on Dec 13, 2018:

Cheers!

I put some cheese back at the store the other day because I noticed it said non-GMO; went back to ...

Wildflower comments on Dec 13, 2018:

Just love that GMO!

Feeling like a prize dickhead right now

Wildflower comments on Dec 13, 2018:

Hmmm? Care to share? It may not be so bad.

Soooooo.

Wildflower comments on Dec 13, 2018:

Yes! At 57 I've never stopped using it so I've never lost it!

Itty bitty, teeny weeny... you know.

Wildflower comments on Dec 12, 2018:

But... it's not a yellow polka dot bikini!

I am really liking the new Eyore aroma therapy piece I got earlier this week.

Wildflower comments on Dec 12, 2018:

Sounds nice.

NAME THAT FAMOUS PIN-UP, FOR 500 BOB.

Wildflower comments on Dec 12, 2018:

I love pinups, but I don't know this artist.

I think that's a sweet face. Your thoughts?

Wildflower comments on Dec 12, 2018:

Definitely a sweet face, as in like my daughters. Just sayin'. Love the freckles.

If you could only pick one thing, what would be the most important quality in a significant other?

Wildflower comments on Dec 12, 2018:

It would have to be empathy.

Some nice comic book cheesecake. [geekxgirls.com]

Wildflower comments on Dec 12, 2018:

One of my first experiences with the beautiful female form was Playboy magazine. And I absolutely loved the comic cheesecake! Boy was I young...

How do you begin to be comfortable in your own skin?

Wildflower comments on Dec 12, 2018:

Confidence comes with experience. Practice!

Ladies, of your man is performing for you in the wheat field, is it ever too much?

Wildflower comments on Dec 12, 2018:

Don't be performing in my wheat field!

This is how Floridians are.

Wildflower comments on Dec 12, 2018:

Sub-freezing? That happens when we get down to about 55!

How long did your longest relationship last? And why did it end?

Wildflower comments on Dec 12, 2018:

20 years. I grew and changed, he did not.

Two years ago on Christmas, singer George Michael died at the age of 53.

Wildflower comments on Dec 11, 2018:

This song came out at the time that I was discovering myself and my sexual freedom, at 38! This is one hot song, and George Michael was one hot man!

My wife scheduled a small social gathering at our home today.

Wildflower comments on Dec 11, 2018:

Yes, I think you earned it!

Model: Joseph Cannata

Wildflower comments on Dec 11, 2018:

He's beautiful.

Rubbers or diapers (nappies)?

Wildflower comments on Dec 11, 2018:

HaHaHa! Why don't people think!

The choices of cities in the profile set up are very limited.

Wildflower comments on Dec 11, 2018:

You can't just put in your zip? I thought I did that. And you can choose to write in your city or make one up.

Jinkies!!!

Wildflower comments on Dec 11, 2018:

Oh we know he loves it!

“I want to see you.

Wildflower comments on Dec 11, 2018:

That is beautiful. Touches my heart.

Not sure if shared here already but I howled at this one. So I had to share!

Wildflower comments on Dec 11, 2018:

Hmmm, Santa must be a bear.

Why does Denmark make such beautiful men? It's disturbing.

Wildflower comments on Dec 11, 2018:

Because they are Scandinavian. Good genes!

This is exactly what happened in my marriage.

Wildflower comments on Dec 11, 2018:

Yes. It's sad that relationships have to end over something that can be corrected so easily.

Advertisement from the 70's

Wildflower comments on Dec 11, 2018:

The 70's! This definitely follows the trend; streaking, Playgirl magazine, and Burt Reynolds nude in Cosmopolitan magazine! It's funny to look back at that era when I was a young teen.

Deep Conversations: The key to all things relationship building. Link:[youtu.be]

Wildflower comments on Dec 11, 2018:

Deep conversation is something I'm very good at. The trouble I find is that very few people reciprocate. Listening, especially, has become a lost skill. In our individualistic society we're losing the ability to care about others.

If your kid was gay. Yes or no and why?

Wildflower comments on Dec 11, 2018:

I have no problem with my daughter being bisexual. So is her mom.

I hear a lot of people talk about forgiveness making them feel better.

Wildflower comments on Dec 10, 2018:

I'm not saying it's easy. It is emotionally and psychologically healthy though.

I hear a lot of people talk about forgiveness making them feel better.

Wildflower comments on Dec 10, 2018:

A good explanation from https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/topic/forgiveness/definition What Is Forgiveness? Psychologists generally define forgiveness as a conscious, deliberate decision to release feelings of resentment or vengeance toward a person or group who has harmed you, regardless of whether they actually deserve your forgiveness. Just as important as defining what forgiveness is, though, is understanding what forgiveness is not. Experts who study or teach forgiveness make clear that when you forgive, you do not gloss over or deny the seriousness of an offense against you. Forgiveness does not mean forgetting, nor does it mean condoning or excusing offenses. Though forgiveness can help repair a damaged relationship, it doesn’t obligate you to reconcile with the person who harmed you, or release them from legal accountability. Instead, forgiveness brings the forgiver peace of mind and frees him or her from corrosive anger. While there is some debate over whether true forgiveness requires positive feelings toward the offender, experts agree that it at least involves letting go of deeply held negative feelings. In that way, it empowers you to recognize the pain you suffered without letting that pain define you, enabling you to heal and move on with your life.

I hear a lot of people talk about forgiveness making them feel better.

Wildflower comments on Dec 10, 2018:

Everything is forgivable. Forgiveness is not about condoning the behavior or giving the offender a free pass. Forgiveness is about letting go of the pain and relieving yourself of the burden of carrying resentment. Holding on to pain and resentment only hurts you and does not punish anyone or change any wrongful behavior.

In my best George Takei voice, “Oh myyyyy!” Like those sweat pants aren’t crusty enough.

Wildflower comments on Dec 10, 2018:

Yummy!

I smell the blood of a stupid pun...

Wildflower comments on Dec 10, 2018:

Yup

It started as another quiet Saturday night & ended like this..

Wildflower comments on Dec 10, 2018:

What ever happened to dollar bills??

I need some advice.

Wildflower comments on Dec 10, 2018:

This has been one of the hardest things about dating sites for me. What is the etiquette? How does one not come across as desperate? Do I just express how I'm feeling? And do I initiate the next conversation? It's a big old guessing game! And very frustrating.

Having an especially hard time right now.

Wildflower comments on Dec 10, 2018:

Use every resource you can, tackle one thing at a time, and know that you will manage it. That's a lot to be dealing with all at once. Most important, be good to yourself!! You would do that for others, wouldn't you? Why not yourself?

I think about going bi, but not sure if I could get into men specifically.

Wildflower comments on Dec 10, 2018:

If you're bi-curious then you just need to experience that in order to find out if you are really into men. I was curious... and now consider myself bi because I'm attracted to both men and women and enjoy both men and women. I have a preference for men however.

What are your thoughts on under-the-desk deals?

Wildflower comments on Dec 10, 2018:

That would be pretty hot! I have had fantasies about that in my office. Once this guy I was chatting with got me so worked up I had to lock my office door for awhile. Mmmhmm

Could an atheist be a valid witness in a court trial?

Wildflower comments on Dec 10, 2018:

I work with court appointed clients and go to court with them every week. When they're sworn in each time I always think about that and it bothers me.

If you'll excuse me, I think I need to find somebody.

Wildflower comments on Dec 10, 2018:

Have fun with your inner child!

Always check your flash drive for files before giving it to your religious and conservative ...

Wildflower comments on Dec 10, 2018:

One of the questions you can answer on OkCupid is "Would whoever goes through your things after you die be embarrassed or shocked?" Answer: YES!

An anthem song, here's mine for the last few years.

Wildflower comments on Dec 10, 2018:

I really like this. I can feel why it would be a anthem.

Peanuts In The Garden.

Wildflower comments on Dec 10, 2018:

Well done!

People here are average but was such a fun sexy show.

Wildflower comments on Dec 10, 2018:

I would have loved to see that show!

You can tell you have been on the dating sites too long when:

Wildflower comments on Dec 9, 2018:

Yes!

Do you enjoy a good gossip?

Wildflower comments on Dec 9, 2018:

I don't like to lower myself to other's standards. Gossip is childish, cruel, a character defect, and a lacking in one's integrity. Of course, that's only my opinion.

This time of year can be sad for mateless people.

Wildflower comments on Dec 9, 2018:

This time of year is a struggle for many of us for many reasons. It's very sad for me.

Wrong on so many levels!

Wildflower comments on Dec 9, 2018:

Pretty messed up. I'd say more... but no, I get myself in trouble.

I've been driving for 5 hours.... I could have driven to _blank_ instead of in a big circle.

Wildflower comments on Dec 9, 2018:

"I could have driven to see @Bobbyzen instead of in a big circle."

Yes, yes, and yes.

Wildflower comments on Dec 9, 2018:

and yes.

Tell me somethin', girl Are you happy in this modern world?

Wildflower comments on Dec 9, 2018:

Wow, this is beautiful. I haven't seen the movie. I guess I need to. Yes, I'm searching for something else.

Oops! I forgot this weeks scavenger hunt.

Wildflower comments on Dec 9, 2018:

A few of the male persuasion.

Dude from okc sent me a pic of his abs and undewear so I sent him a pic of George licking himself.

Wildflower comments on Dec 9, 2018:

I love that! I need to keep a pic of my Tyler licking herself for that purpose!

Elf on the Shelf - SNL - YouTube

Wildflower comments on Dec 9, 2018:

Spoil it? That was perfect!

Oops! I forgot this weeks scavenger hunt.

Wildflower comments on Dec 9, 2018:

The predecessor to the Twerk! https://youtu.be/_GPwKvd6qb0

Oops! I forgot this weeks scavenger hunt.

Wildflower comments on Dec 9, 2018:

I had to. https://youtu.be/VMnjF1O4eH0

Was anyone else a fan of Sleepy Hollow (the series)?

Wildflower comments on Dec 9, 2018:

Mmmm. My favorite look. Dark and mischievous.

Not super deviant but still fun

Wildflower comments on Dec 8, 2018:

I'm so good at that!

This is Travis Fimmel.

Wildflower comments on Dec 8, 2018:

Yes. Purely academic. A wonderful specimen. I'd love to study him.

Here is a 2nd pic for those of you interested in extra credit on the assignment.

Wildflower comments on Dec 8, 2018:

He's of age. And oh so beautiful. I'll take on that assignment.

Is anybody on this site going to post an intelligent comment, ?

Wildflower comments on Dec 8, 2018:

Do you get it yet?

Is anybody on this site going to post an intelligent comment, ?

Wildflower comments on Dec 8, 2018:

If you're above us all then might be best for you to seek your tribe elsewhere.