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Boris Kodjoe. Yes, please!!!

demifeministgal comments on Apr 26, 2019:

sexy as fck. Yum ;)

What is something you don't talk about until you feel intimately connected with someone?

demifeministgal comments on Apr 25, 2019:

specific family related issues (there's a huge difference between making the generic my moms crazy comment vs going into details), health related issues and a health issue I have had since childhood. It took many months with my counsellor before I told her about specific depression symptoms.

Can anyone better versed in neuropsychology verify for me if this is true?

demifeministgal comments on Apr 24, 2019:

@ToolGuy

Why do people cheat in monogamous relationships?

demifeministgal comments on Apr 24, 2019:

It is easier to cheat and fulfill some sexual or emotional needs from another person than to breakup with one's partner and start fresh? So combination of fear and selfishness? They want to have their cake and eat it too. Have also never cheated.

What type of lover do you want?

demifeministgal comments on Apr 24, 2019:

What is a sensualist exactly? :S I don't think it is necessarily one or the other. I think a person can be both a giver and a sensualist.

I feel I may be in a minority group, as I was never religious, I have often thought about how I ...

demifeministgal comments on Apr 24, 2019:

I did not feel betrayed or angry for being lied to. I attribute it to a long line of brainwashed family members continuing the cycle of brainwashing with each generation. Nobody knows they are being brainwashed and sincerely believe they are doing what's best for their kids. I don't think I ever wasted too much money as I am/was frugal and would rarely give money into the collection plate. Interestingly, I actually felt jealous of the religious as they didn't lose their sense of community, were not shamed for their mindset (aka leaving the church/abandoning the beliefs) and they have a comforting story to tell themselves when loved ones die. I lost that and am still shamed and lost "friends" once I came out with anti-theist rhetoric on my facebook. But also, my family did much more fckd up shit than indoctrinate me soo the indoctrination is the most minor thing I'd be angry and betrayed about. :$

Hi, I'm looking for a pen pal.

demifeministgal comments on Apr 24, 2019:

social sciences FTW! I am a social science nerd myself :D <3

A few months ago I posted that my daughter who lives with me she is a good student she's 16 almost ...

demifeministgal comments on Apr 24, 2019:

wow you are very trusting of a teenager and the decisions they make with a brain that is not equipped to deal with long term consequences. On the other hand, my authoritarian parents would not let a bf come over now as a grown adult if I lived with either of them. So there has to be a happy medium somewhere.

Rant: As a society, we have socialized women to be in constant competition with other women.

demifeministgal comments on Apr 23, 2019:

By the way, media depictions are a part of our socialization, since people keep referencing media depictions. It is why there is an urge for better representation and more representation because research has demonstrated how beneficial representation and detrimental lack of representation, can be on developing minds/kids.

What was your funniest experience on a dating site?

demifeministgal comments on Apr 23, 2019:

not in online dating but in online chat site: I pretended to be into foot fetishes just to see what kind of dirty talk that would produce. Well, never before have I heard feet described in such ways, it was making me laugh. In case you didn't know, there is such a thing as "foot cleavage" that foot fetishists just love. XD A creepy one was the first guy I started chatting to and so I was not comfy meeting him until we chatted for awhile. And somewhere in our chats he admitted to meeting an estranged cousin in Mexico and fckng her. And he just kept justifying it by saying society is too prudish to accept what he, REPEATEDLY, did with his cousin. ummm NO. There are damn GOOD reasons incest is taboo and avoided these days. We know better. He made me nauseous.

Rant: As a society, we have socialized women to be in constant competition with other women.

demifeministgal comments on Apr 23, 2019:

Thanks for your replies everyone. Just a reminder although your experiences may vary or deviate from the norm or trends, they do not equal evidence. just because y'all have never seen it or experienced it, does not mean it does not happen. I think we need to separate anecdotes from statistical trends, personally.

If the person you were dating told the friends who were helping you out with expenses that they were...

demifeministgal comments on Apr 23, 2019:

What does she mean by forgive him? As in take him back? Because you can forgive someone AND never see them again. So I am confused by what she meant.

Knarly bruises this time.

demifeministgal comments on Apr 19, 2019:

ouch! looks painful. :( Get well soon!

My daughter Julie’s going for another Gold.

demifeministgal comments on Apr 19, 2019:

It's nice seeing parents that are proud and supportive of their kids' achievements rather than shitting on and criticizing every damn thing their kid does. :/

I'm officially having my worst sleep in months.

demifeministgal comments on Apr 19, 2019:

Is it cuz of a new job? Or the search for the job keeping you up? :s

I responded to some suggestive posts from friends on FB. DAMN! I'm hoping my family won't see...lol

demifeministgal comments on Apr 19, 2019:

You can add your family to the restricted friends list on facebook. That way they only see posts you personally make public and nothing else.

Anyone can be had (sexually) given the right time and circumstance. True or not true??

demifeministgal comments on Apr 19, 2019:

Even asexuals? doubt it. So my answer is false. Plus others with standards they set who are unwilling to settle.

Just checking in to say hello.

demifeministgal comments on Apr 18, 2019:

yay... good for you... enjoy the happiness. :)

I don't know about you but I find it an atrocity and sickening that some jack ass turned Day ...

demifeministgal comments on Apr 18, 2019:

what diagnosis falls under wanting ones life in precise order though? :s

My pal Erin Rose teaches pole dancing in Austin TX and does stuff like this!

demifeministgal comments on Apr 17, 2019:

How does one get into pole dance teaching? do they start off as strippers themselves? Or is it just a love of pole dancing for its own sake that they teach others? :S

Hey all! Happy Monday, glad it's over! Not only is Adele mega talented, she is absolutely gorgeous!

demifeministgal comments on Apr 17, 2019:

Her singing has given me goosebumps in the past. Great choice :D

If you have not had sex in 14 years with you partner and you discover (through their DRs) that the ...

demifeministgal comments on Apr 17, 2019:

I don't know if that diagnosis is one where the person can never overcome their phobia with desensitization or trauma based therapies, but it is only okay if you discuss it with them and it becomes an open arrangement. Cheating behind someone's back is the cowardly way and not okay imo.

Has anyone experienced a big family secret after family members have died?

demifeministgal comments on Apr 17, 2019:

Not a big family secret, per se. But family members began opening up and revealing more fckd up shit about my mother as she was dying and after she died. Nothing quite as big as having secret long lost family members though.

White Supremacist Gets Life in Prison for Running Down Black Teen

demifeministgal comments on Apr 17, 2019:

Holy shit about goddam time a racist in the US gets convicted for his hate crime or hate violence against a minority. This is so bloody rare that it is worth posting.

My new puppy Gigi, a miniature Chijuajua.

demifeministgal comments on Apr 16, 2019:

OMG its sooo cute I could die! <3 :D :D :D

WTF did I do wrong? We have been chatting for only a few days.

demifeministgal comments on Apr 16, 2019:

It seems like *she made a joke and you took it the wrong way cuz she didn't put any emojis or say haha joking or something. And y'all brought all of your baggage into that exchange. Like both of your issues came out in that exchange. I'd say you both gotta work through some things and be patient with each other. That's my two cents

I don't understand women....

demifeministgal comments on Apr 15, 2019:

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A STAR IS BORN I have been closely following Pete Buttegieg and the more I watch his interviews, ...

demifeministgal comments on Apr 15, 2019:

What is his platform like? What does he believe about income inequality? About the gun violence in the USA? About the prison industrial complex? About environmental damage? About offering socialized healthcare or affordable pharmaceuticals for Americans? About raising the minimum wage to a livable wage nationwide? That's what I would like to know. I have no beef in this race since I am Canadian btw.

How was your weekend?

demifeministgal comments on Apr 15, 2019:

My weekend consisted of going to an all you can eat sushi buffet for my sister's birthday. Followed by spending the weekend with my FWBs watching uplifting inspirational videos (it was raining all weekend here) and snuggling with him and getting to sleep in on Sunday without being mocked for it by a grumpy fam member. heh. It ended a bit on a sour note since I broke his keyboard by accident :$ and we discovered a leak in his wall, due to the curtain falling on us heh. You are more active and popular and outgoing than me. hehe And you are much older than me. I am doing life bad. :p Glad to read you had such a great weekend though. Good for you

Do you consider the Flip to be worth the time ivestment over the more basic return to heel?

demifeministgal comments on Apr 15, 2019:

I have no idea what you are talking about when you say flip. Perhaps an american phrase? Or phrase specific to your subcultural group :S

Here is something I thought about just today.

demifeministgal comments on Apr 15, 2019:

Also, as someone that has never rushed into sex with a guy, these guys don't act differently around us either. They see us as some challenge to be won, like a difficult level of a video game. Do not blame yourself, it is their issue and their problem, not yours. But, if you feel you need to change your style in HOPES of attracting the right kind of man, more power to you. I am just letting you know, this strategy will not entirely work unfortunately. So be forever vigilant.

Here is something I thought about just today.

demifeministgal comments on Apr 15, 2019:

I agree with you. And some men are being more upfront about it in my generation. OR they include casual sex in their preferences, among casual dating and long-term, so you know what they are ACTUALLY looking for. But for real these grown boys that play games and cannot be honest need to F*&% OFF already.

You're the last one to message and they never reply back. Is there a next step?

demifeministgal comments on Apr 15, 2019:

I have found that as soon as I message hey nice chatting with ya take care all of a sudden they start reading my messages and get back into the convo. And then it repeats with them not replying for awhile. So I would block these chronic disappear types because I didn't get what games they were playing. :s And I do not like games in my dating life.

"Pretend" to be dominant/Submissive is stupid.

demifeministgal comments on Apr 15, 2019:

Basically these images sum it all up for me:

Meet the Game of Thrones Night King without his make up. Hot or not?

demifeministgal comments on Apr 15, 2019:

meh too skinny for my preferences.

Doing a shoot with my actor friend Skye.

demifeministgal comments on Apr 15, 2019:

Needs more toning on the butt. lol

Ontario is open for business an a 9 am shot an a beer......what could go wrong?

demifeministgal comments on Apr 14, 2019:

The states have alcohol served after hours beyond 2am and some of those states are doing alright. I think as Canadians we will fare far better than our Murican friends. :)

So I’ve been super excited because I finally got a really good job in a city I wanted to move to 2...

demifeministgal comments on Apr 14, 2019:

yaaay. :D I knew you would find an amazing job soon and would actually be surprised if it took you very long to find a new job. You are clearly a talented and experienced and valuable employee, never forget that. Congrats. As for the party, QUALITY OVER QUANTITY ANY DAY. Better to have a few quality close friends show up than be in a house full of acquaintances or strangers just there to eat your food. Numbers are meaningless if they are empty shallow numbers, imo.

I overdid it 😬 I pulled a muscle in the back of my thigh.

demifeministgal comments on Apr 13, 2019:

I have thankfully yet to get injured. There has been overdoing it which has lead to soreness in various body parts/regions but never an injury. yikes! :o

Cancer and heart dieses, tripled deaths since 1900s.

demifeministgal comments on Apr 13, 2019:

So does that mean there is a cure somewhere in the world and that all the doctors and researchers involved just let their loved ones die from cancer and avoid garnering fame and high esteem in the scientific community because the FDA and Big Pharma is crap in the USA?? Can you step out of your US-centrism for 1 moment and see how absurd you are being? Also, homeopathic is pseudoscientific garbage and mark my words, if you rely on "natural methods" to try and overcome cancer you will die. Don't believe me? Just ask my mother. Oh no wait you can't she's dead from cancer from doing it her stupid way. Also Big Nature is a multi billion dollar industry as well. They are just as greedy and lucrative as your Big pharma, yet somehow that is okay? why? Is greed just okay if your team/side is doing it??

Last day as a teenager.

demifeministgal comments on Apr 12, 2019:

You most likely won't be as successful as you envisioned yourself being upon graduation. The labour market is tricky. NETWORK NETWORK NETWORK! Also, use a free credit reporting system (ie creditkarma) to check your credit and work to improving it or disputing any fraudulent charges/inquiries.

Next time save a stick for the dog

demifeministgal comments on Apr 12, 2019:

shared on facebook... kirby also likes sticks, the bigger the stick, the better, as far as he is concerned. :)

It just ain't right!!!?

demifeministgal comments on Apr 11, 2019:

W.T.F?! heh

Somebody hold me back!

demifeministgal comments on Apr 11, 2019:

nice... but I hate beards... shave it and he's good ;)

Can a man be friends with a woman without it being sexual?

demifeministgal comments on Apr 10, 2019:

Literally yes. Think gay guys and straight or lesbian women for starters. Beyond that anyone that does not see the opposite sex as just a means to sex and/or dating can achieve platonic friendship as well.

Has anyone else had or is anyone else having a “short” distance relationship, say 2-4 hours ...

demifeministgal comments on Apr 10, 2019:

My city and surrounding area are large and travelling from one end to the next by public transit could take almost 2 hours. My long term ex lived an hour and a half away and we made it work.

Just a little tease for the ladies. Enjoy!???? [m.facebook.com]

demifeministgal comments on Apr 9, 2019:

yughh NO. His shitty personality ruins any chance of lookin good

My Jack enjoying the warm AZ sun 14yrs old he has earn his time in the sun,our 1st day of 90's for ...

demifeministgal comments on Apr 9, 2019:

what a cutie. what breed is he? he reminds me of my sister's 2nd doggie; she's a white cockapoo

Men are afraid women will laugh at them.

demifeministgal comments on Apr 9, 2019:

That is one thing I do that people constantly advise me against, namely walk around at nighttime. But, am I supposed to not work and not go to school and have no social life when the sun sets?! Especially since it sets around 5pm here which would severely limit employment choices (I take public transit to get home, no way I could do so within the sun setting and finishing at 5pm). I am hypervigilant though and always watching and careful not to engage with or encourage anyone to engage with me. Although I live my life, I still do so cautiously. lol

Please help me pass level.

demifeministgal comments on Apr 9, 2019:

It is too damn bloody cold in Canada. Stay in Brazil if you can! Enjoy the gorgeous weather! But in all honesty yes atheists are not discriminated here as they are in Brazil. However, our immigration point system means you have to be highly educated, speak english or french, have lots of money to live off of, have a job waiting for you and a slew of other requirements to be granted entry. Very rarely do people get in as refugees for religious persecution reasons. That, or marry a Canadian. heh

Belated preface: I am not going to reply to everyone posting a response here, I do not have the ...

demifeministgal comments on Apr 9, 2019:

For starters learn the difference between race and ethnicity. Second look up the definitions of racism and ethnicism. Your logic fails and falls flat because you are conflating and equating race and ethnicity. Failed premises leads to failed conclusions. Try again.

Monday night date with TVYM™️ and I don’t know how to prep for this date. It’s 3 (?

demifeministgal comments on Apr 9, 2019:

Shave whatever you want or not. Keeping things trimmed if your skin is prone to irritation works too.

One QUARTER of Americans (25%)have not had sex in past year.

demifeministgal comments on Apr 8, 2019:

There's alot of mental health problems in the US and many people are medicated or self medicate which lowers the libido. Also, allegedly young people are having sex less than in previous generations, whether religious or atheist, so that may factor in as well.

I can't tell you how many chains were shattered for me doing this photo.

demifeministgal comments on Apr 8, 2019:

thick women are what is sexy now... the days of skinny women are past us... now society celebrates kim K and beyonce type bodies :)

Whole lotta lovin'!

demifeministgal comments on Apr 8, 2019:

this pic is hot and illicits nice thoughts ;)

I'm looking for a place to open up about sexual and mental missuse that seemed to begin when I was ...

demifeministgal comments on Apr 8, 2019:

It was NOT your fault. There are many cases of rape victims orgasming. IT IS A PHYSIOLOGICAL RESPONSE to stimulation. If there is a lack of consent and you did not want it or like it, then it is rape. Here is an article addressing others in your situation: https://www.popsci.com/science/article/2013-05/science-arousal-during-rape

Does anyone live near Windsor Ontario?

demifeministgal comments on Apr 7, 2019:

No. But in the same province at least. heh

The grammatical error bugs the heck out of me, but the sentiment is solid.

demifeministgal comments on Apr 7, 2019:

Can I just say, we are women too. If it is not okay to call old women girls, it should not be okay to call young women girls. Unless you were talking about underage girls in which case EW. fck pedophiles

Now she is sexy and classy!

demifeministgal comments on Apr 6, 2019:

I agree. Not pornified or objectified to the max and in a classy looking bathing suit. :)

Student Vs. Teacher - YouTube

demifeministgal comments on Apr 6, 2019:

Adding to Josh's point, in a labour market with limited job opportunities only the best and most creative will be sought out and hired based on their skills and knowledge. But, in actuality, many people will get jobs due to their social capital, that is their NETWORKS people they know or people of people they know. A few get lucky and find a job on their own by chance, but most of the jobs are in the HIDDEN job market and you need to know people. It sucks but it is true. :|

I have a theory... What if Trump's erratic behavior is the cause of untreated syphilis??

demifeministgal comments on Apr 6, 2019:

Nah. But he does fit narcissistic personality disorder very well though and many psychiatrists agree.

We all seem to be irritated all the time by the world around us.

demifeministgal comments on Apr 6, 2019:

Willful ignorance and pride in stupidity and US-centrism. Making every topic, every discussion, everything relate back to how things are or what is happening in the USA. blah

For those who have a long distance friendship.

demifeministgal comments on Apr 6, 2019:

One of my best friends is in the USA. Sometimes we argue due to the miscommunication text chatting causes. It can be frustrating. And when we NEED to see the other for a shoulder to cry on, we cannot be in each others' presence. Having said that, I am grateful he is in my life and he has finally shown me what genuine friendship is. :)

Bump stocks are now officially illegal in the entire United States

demifeministgal comments on Apr 6, 2019:

that's one very slow tiny step America. One day y'all will maybe join the rest of us in the developed world though ;)

My online experience has been underwhelming, lots of scammers , propositioned by both sex's which ...

demifeministgal comments on Apr 5, 2019:

when you say nail stuff do you mean you expected her to be manicured and nail polished? By hair stuff do you mean did not run a brush through her hair or it was windy and it got messy or frizzy? :s

As usual I agree with Sassygirl, Joe Biden is a kind man, he lost his wife and baby girl(years ago) ...

demifeministgal comments on Apr 5, 2019:

At the same time do not force touching and kissing and hugging on those not comfortable with it. Learn to read body language and body cues and step back when making others' uncomfy. One's need to touch others does NOT nor should not trump another person's need not to be touched intimately.

Will the JWR ANC-Lavalin affair affect Trudeau’s re-election?

demifeministgal comments on Apr 5, 2019:

He was supposed to implement proportional representation voting and be more about helping the environment and against oil sands in canada and he was an alleged feminist--- but how he treated women in his cabinet shows that was just a ruse. :/ I think it's long overdue we had an NDP leader.... cons and liberals have fckd over the country for too damn long.

Had the police show up yesterday.

demifeministgal comments on Apr 5, 2019:

Can you file a restraining order or protection order against him? Also I would not drop the charges no matter how cumbersome the process may end up being. Come to us to vent and get support every step of this arduous journey.

Feeling down today. If you could just share some cute or funny pictures, I'd appreciate it. Thanks.

demifeministgal comments on Apr 5, 2019:

A fbook friend posted this on her timeline and I found it super cute and wanted to pet the belly of the sleeping lil guy :) https://www.facebook.com/DailyAnimalVideo/videos/389417605179341/?__tn__=kCH-R=ARB71dw17BpQcCTCXV7AG90v-EptRkG_93THueGrwb6B7DgPA86ixR1U0Rp9tclkRXreL_bo7zeTNPH5=ARQ55NrgOFyvyx7yqfkmx8ebiK3TBx3keXu2hKhrtZC89eAdodQV2TtzZsO5MunNRbU=nf[0]=68.ARDPhKfbg-Th7fsTRJDuIy8LXDolD3EcxWCygG8Hf-vQFF5skkeLMNE-DVqudBUYsvyHiSc-LzlefXIusaIJ_IqXnmOJOqnqd4Khn-X8XrY66UL-O4bL_F6XNN2xjZUesPzVfVpFfC3FVca7-w70fe5YZA7_jcHc8S4pPzo3O2lvkIPQtxwtS87DeiQPjF_2oWyMxw_Oav3KEljODhG2QP1lgZ2Gjh-6soDuJbsGcRfDHi6bur9SXILQMvXI9iaUyNswWDISoLzu7Mn-rPjFBMSbVdIr3Yh6YF-O-u51k14r6aCor86SruDuaMKwWeSlf_FDmtKQQnNJxWQw0MwyWQBx-9Zyj9hZCIY

Scammers are online EVERYWHERE! Even on THIS website! READ THIS! 6 red flags for online dating ...

demifeministgal comments on Apr 5, 2019:

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Would you date/marry a Muslim?