I became a born again Christian in 87 and subsequently missed out on ten years of stuff other people in their 20s and early s did, so after abandoning Christianity in 97 and being married from 2003-2010, I've spent the last ten years of my life catching up on having fun. I was immersed in the BDSM and sex club underground, an environment I now find toxic and uninviting. I focused a bit too much on hedonistic pleasures and in doing so may have neglected things of greater importance. I'm seeking someone to continue to have fun with but also entertain reasonable intellectual pursuits. Poetry, music, art and film are fun pursuits. Philosophy is entertaining and politics challenging. I just seek someone who is a good person because they just are a good person because that's pretty much why I am too!