Did your mom let you? Mine did and I still do it.

seattlepanda comments on Aug 14, 2018:

yip...

Good morning ☀️☀️☀️ My answer...yes yes and yes!!

seattlepanda comments on Aug 14, 2018:

yes...a certain China girl...

'Have a blessed day'. How could my day be blessed?

seattlepanda comments on Aug 13, 2018:

Have an Average Day!! :D

This was so true when I was growing up.

seattlepanda comments on Aug 13, 2018:

no, it was sit at the table until you finish it...

I get that at 61 I am not making any fashion statements.

seattlepanda comments on Aug 13, 2018:

cheetah appropriation...

Which one are you in this picture?

seattlepanda comments on Aug 13, 2018:

I'm the empty picture frame...

Are you skeptical of someone in their late 30s, 40s who has never been married?

seattlepanda comments on Aug 13, 2018:

not skeptical, but a different experience set...must consider...

I haven’t intentionally “Hovered”...ever.

seattlepanda comments on Aug 13, 2018:

I have..

The other day I was having lunch at work and I was explaining to my supervisor all the current ...

seattlepanda comments on Aug 13, 2018:

No idea..

Would you make the statement that you will only vote for one party forever?

seattlepanda comments on Aug 13, 2018:

Never again will I vote anyone R...

just testing How tolerant or intolerant this site is. The picture is from Wikipedia: "labia"

seattlepanda comments on Aug 13, 2018:

Don't know about site, but I'm tolerant...

Where do your facts come from? How do you discuss politics if you can't trust sources?

seattlepanda comments on Aug 12, 2018:

Character, circumstances, plausibility

Polyamory: Poly Pockets To describe Poly Pockets, this is a term i use to describe a group of ...

seattlepanda comments on Aug 12, 2018:

Kind of hard to follow this...good luck...

Since joining this great group of people, I’ve had several men take a look at my profile.

seattlepanda comments on Aug 12, 2018:

Don't worry. For many of us proximity is a big issue.

I'm curious to understand: Do you hold grudges?

seattlepanda comments on Aug 12, 2018:

I don't hold grudges, but I do have a memory...

Do you like to dominate your partner or to be dominated?

seattlepanda comments on Aug 12, 2018:

I am dominant...not negotiable

Have you ever deliberately gone out in the rain and played as an adult?

seattlepanda comments on Aug 12, 2018:

Yes, warm rain...quite sensual

What does having a master's degree mean in USA today?

seattlepanda comments on Aug 12, 2018:

Generally, I equat master degree with overeducated...

The other day I was having lunch at work and I was explaining to my supervisor all the current ...

seattlepanda comments on Aug 12, 2018:

I don't know those terms...

Is it bad when even other poets tell you that you are too complicated?

seattlepanda comments on Aug 12, 2018:

I revel in my complicated-ness...

What is the SINGLE most sensitive part of your body when having sex. (One spot ONLY!)

seattlepanda comments on Aug 12, 2018:

mind...then underside of penis...

Communication isn’t always enough: specificity counts!

seattlepanda comments on Aug 12, 2018:

haha!...

Alright you crazy perverts.

seattlepanda comments on Aug 12, 2018:

hey Pep...

OK boys and girls, how many sexual partners have you had in your lifetime?

seattlepanda comments on Aug 12, 2018:

15 or 20...

Sailing into the sunset, Boulevard Park, Bellingham, Washington.

seattlepanda comments on Aug 11, 2018:

Interesting combination of places. The Boulevard Park I know is in south Seattle. Is there another up north?

Is it true that men who like tiny women have tiny peckers?

seattlepanda comments on Aug 10, 2018:

nope...

On this TGIF (Thank Gosh it's Friday) a small tribute in praise of everything women and of the ...

seattlepanda comments on Aug 10, 2018:

TFIG...

Any of you find as you've got older that your sex drive has diminished?

seattlepanda comments on Aug 10, 2018:

The drive itself I don't imagine is remarkably different. But more satisfying now that that I understand myself better.

Second chance?

seattlepanda comments on Aug 10, 2018:

Yes, but rare...

I just received a friend request on Facebook from a woman I went to high school with.

seattlepanda comments on Aug 9, 2018:

Go with it. My classmates('71) started making FB events and meeting up couple years ago. Turned out, a lot of fun :)

Currently I have every other day off and not enough time to get out for any big excursions.

seattlepanda comments on Aug 9, 2018:

Snoqualmie valley, memories...

Men - If you take sight and hearing out of the equation, what other ways can you determine if your ...

seattlepanda comments on Aug 9, 2018:

Frantic clinging...

Male or female, what do you think of this pick up line? How would you respond? LOL.

seattlepanda comments on Aug 9, 2018:

Dorky

Yes, please.

seattlepanda comments on Aug 9, 2018:

Men are visual. Body AND book.

Confession: I am feeling so embarrassed towards myself for having "adult feelings" towards a person ...

seattlepanda comments on Aug 8, 2018:

a therapist! OMGosh!...so normal...go with the urges...

This former posting was done in this group accidentally. I apologize for my fat fingered error.

seattlepanda comments on Aug 8, 2018:

Generally, "singles" groups are people unattached, that would like to be attached. In this society, attached meaning exclusive, long-term, probably married. It has only a passing interest in sex, sex being one of many suitability factors. Other groups(here) are not necessarily "single" but are much more inclined to more predominantly sexual relationships. My impression is that many of your postings in this "singles" group are rather edgy, but posted in the primarily sexual groups here would be pretty tame. My MO is to watch the group for awhile. See what seems to get the most attention. See what is most compatible to me. Post or comment on the commonality seems to be between my thoughts and the group. (btw...I do enjoy your posts)...

Relationship status: I went on a date.

seattlepanda comments on Aug 8, 2018:

Clearly you were...

How many of you have been on a hook-up site? Any success?

seattlepanda comments on Aug 7, 2018:

2 year FWB from good old CL.

Have you ever had sex in a vehicle?

seattlepanda comments on Aug 7, 2018:

Lots of times. Detroit, 1974-1976, my '68 Ford Ranch Wagon at Farwell Field.

I'm curious, not sure if this has been asked before, but what are everyone's thoughts about sex in ...

seattlepanda comments on Aug 7, 2018:

Never actual sex, but I enjoy getting in and washing my women.

A couple of the most damaging fallacies foisted upon the homo sapien: -equating sex with "making ...

seattlepanda comments on Aug 7, 2018:

so many so-called atheists/agnostics are so on-board with these old Christian values...think people!...

Hot and smoky. Sad to see all the fires again.

seattlepanda comments on Aug 6, 2018:

awful :((

Tell me about a time you had sex with someone unexpected.

seattlepanda comments on Aug 6, 2018:

My second passion. My love forever and for always. Dating-up to the max, was heaven...

Early in my relationship with my now ex-husband, I had a small crush on a fellow grad student who ...

seattlepanda comments on Aug 6, 2018:

Door #2

Guys has this ever happened to you?

seattlepanda comments on Aug 6, 2018:

never...

OK here's a question for the men: If you had a choice of watching the superbowl uninterrupted or ...

seattlepanda comments on Aug 6, 2018:

sex over all...

How many days do you wait for a message before accepting the fact that "their just not that into ...

seattlepanda comments on Aug 6, 2018:

no limit...

Are you an adventurous eater?

seattlepanda comments on Aug 6, 2018:

In China, I tasted(to be polite) duck tongue, snake, shark lips, crab(ALL but the shell). There's actually a lot of things I won't touch. But fortunately a lot lot lot more things I like. The most common food I won't eat is mushrooms.

What is something you are looking forward and really excited about.

seattlepanda comments on Aug 6, 2018:

Back in China, Oct-Dec...

I've always always been like this since my first time.

seattlepanda comments on Aug 5, 2018:

I like the woman's smell too.

I'm naked most of the time these days at home.

seattlepanda comments on Aug 5, 2018:

Not boring. :)

Treat Someone Right ...........

seattlepanda comments on Aug 5, 2018:

"You're gonna lose that girl...yes, yes, you're gonna lose that girl..."... ...

What type of music does everyone listen to?

seattlepanda comments on Aug 3, 2018:

classics...Schubert, Sibelious, Led Zepplin...

What are your plans for the rest of the summer?

seattlepanda comments on Aug 2, 2018:

August work...September-December, play...

What is your absolute favorite TV show of all time?

seattlepanda comments on Aug 2, 2018:

Night Court...Seinfeld...Get Smart...

looks at the post looks at the doorbell gleefully and repeatedly presses the doorbell

seattlepanda comments on Aug 1, 2018:

should be ok if you press the doorbell and run...

Just now leaving a sexless marriage where sex happened three times in four years. What now?

seattlepanda comments on Aug 1, 2018:

"Hi honey, did you enjoy sex with your boyfriend this afternoon? Good for you!" Can this be possible????? There's a string or two here regarding older-younger...I think this possibility you ask is something especially appropriate in a large-age-difference relationship...especially for the younger person... But I should think it possible for most people who can keep an open mind...

What’s your favorite kind of candy bar?

seattlepanda comments on Aug 1, 2018:

Dark Belgian chocolate (Trader Joe's)...

Has anyone else had an issue with the messenger today?

seattlepanda comments on Aug 1, 2018:

Messenger has never worked on my mobile, always on laptop.

Has anyone of you ever experienced chemistry with someone that was so strong you can't figure out ...

seattlepanda comments on Aug 1, 2018:

No. I could always figure out why.

How will you be unwinding tonight?

seattlepanda comments on Aug 1, 2018:

Usually read. Tonight went to a ball game.

Who was here for this one?

seattlepanda comments on Aug 1, 2018:

7th grade, in Burien

How many of you have gone through a tornado or earthquake?

seattlepanda comments on Aug 1, 2018:

Earthquakes here in Seattle and in Japan, but none too serious.

Talk about coming back to bite ya!

seattlepanda comments on Jul 31, 2018:

thought husband's statement may have been a compliment... :D 3///

Can men and women just be friends?

seattlepanda comments on Jul 31, 2018:

I guess roughly 75% of my true friends are women. Of those, 99% are "just" friends. My m.o. is to default to the woman controlling the relationship trajectory. This makes for very comfortable friendships.

If you and your girlfriend/boyfriend didn't live together, would you expect at LEAST a text message ...

seattlepanda comments on Jul 31, 2018:

live together or not...yes...EVERY day...

When that really cute guy waiting for the bus, sees you're getting off the bus, gives you a big ...

seattlepanda comments on Jul 30, 2018:

If you gesture for him to get off with you he may...(if he's smart)...

How do you feel about offering to pay on the second or third date as a woman?

seattlepanda comments on Jul 30, 2018:

always depends on relative circumstances and relationship...I am lucky...women I have been with are always very honest and forthright about this...

Have you ever talked to or discussed with a professional about the negative impact tRump is having ...

seattlepanda comments on Jul 30, 2018:

My depression level has ratcheted up considerably since Nov2016...basically my already estranged country has finally abandoned me entirely...truly, I no longer belong here...

The Best Sex Doesn't come From Hot-Blooded Passion

seattlepanda comments on Jul 30, 2018:

both have worked for me...

Hi, I'm new to this group, relatively new to agnostic.

seattlepanda comments on Jul 29, 2018:

I had originally marked hook-up, then backed out as apparently this is one-night-stand territory (not for me)...had thought hook-up might be opening for FWB relationship.

As a fellow human being - if you have a problem with people going from Single Status to Couple and ...

seattlepanda comments on Jul 29, 2018:

Just because you're seeing someone regular, doesn't mean you are not single. When seeing-someone becomes exclusive, then you are no longer "single"...

Here's my struggle I am trying to figure out.

seattlepanda comments on Jul 29, 2018:

Encourage kids, probably not...celebrate, no...but some objective teaching in prevailing "beliefs" are definitely in order regarding children...

Do you often use profanity?

seattlepanda comments on Jul 29, 2018:

Since 1974, only use profanity in their literal, non-profane sense...

Question for the ladies but it may pertain to the guys as well.

seattlepanda comments on Jul 29, 2018:

I vote for carpe diem, and come what may.

Not abject to this at all

seattlepanda comments on Jul 29, 2018:

I enjoy nibbling on toes..

How many of you are here hoping to find a relationship (im using that term loosely). Me! Js

seattlepanda comments on Jul 29, 2018:

Here and elsewhere

Another Saturday evening on my own for dinner. Not for lack of trying. Y'all have a great evening!

seattlepanda comments on Jul 28, 2018:

Likely many in this group eat alone much of the time.

Single isn't a status.

seattlepanda comments on Jul 28, 2018:

At an English Corner in China, we dissected the word "single". Pertinent question, if you have a bf are you single? We decided, not exactly. I guess single is being a free agent. No one cares what we do. (btw...I don't particularly enjoy singlehood...)

Do you have a rule when meeting someone online on how long you will talk/text before you meet.

seattlepanda comments on Jul 28, 2018:

no rule, but I always prefer face-to-face...

Are You Single? What Kind of Single?

seattlepanda comments on Jul 28, 2018:

single-ish...

Has anyone of you ever experienced chemistry with someone that was so strong you can't figure out ...

seattlepanda comments on Jul 28, 2018:

I always know why...

Men and women What's the oldest age limit and what's the youngest age limit of a relationship that ...

seattlepanda comments on Jul 28, 2018:

I never checked ID...

Have you ever noticed SOME religious people are some of the most unhappy?

seattlepanda comments on Jul 27, 2018:

happy/unhappy I usually relate to thier relationships to those outside of themselves...may be religious, may be not...people who are positive, supportive, encouraging are often "happy" people...people who are negative, critical, sarcastic(ridiculing)...not supportive...Those are usually "unhappy" people...

Anyone have any real luck with finding someone on this site?

seattlepanda comments on Jul 27, 2018:

no...but I don't try too hard...

It's Friday and 5 o'clock somewhere. What are we all drinking?

seattlepanda comments on Jul 27, 2018:

usual...quality IPA...(hey! I'm in W.WA)...

Confession is Good.

seattlepanda comments on Jul 27, 2018:

As a product of Irish/Italian Catholic culture, appreciate this old chestnut...will forward to Billy Morocco... ;D

Once the bra comes off, the day is done. I'm not strapping that thing back on.

seattlepanda comments on Jul 27, 2018:

bras are incomprehensible to many guys...

Just wondering, What type of a morning person are you?

seattlepanda comments on Jul 27, 2018:

me too...incommunicado for 1-2 hours after "waking"...2-3 cups...

Fans of r&b group Sly and The Family Stone riot at Grant Park in Chicago after learning their idol ...

seattlepanda comments on Jul 27, 2018:

yes, very unruly times... ;D

What are body parts you find sexy and feel are underappreciated?

seattlepanda comments on Jul 26, 2018:

not exactly a body part, but I like a woman's smell...often want to sniff before she showers...

If you choose to leave the United States, what country would you prefer to live in next?

seattlepanda comments on Jul 26, 2018:

return to China...

I have a question for the ladies about pubic hair.

seattlepanda comments on Jul 25, 2018:

A little off-topic, but I am reminded. A FWB a while back had suffered some sort of thyroid(?) condition. All of her pubic hair fell out. Never grew back. No stubble, perfectly smooth. I liked it.

I know you can.

seattlepanda comments on Jul 25, 2018:

The most widespread misconception I've found is in assuming love to be a zero-sum emotion. i.e. a finite emotion. We love someone, to love another must take away from the first. If people would think objectively, we would know this is not true. I like to recall the old Jay Leno Doritos commercial, "Crunch all you want. We'll make more".

Today while shopping at the Value Village, a man made eye contact then smiled at me.

seattlepanda comments on Jul 24, 2018:

Yep, missed connection

My morning song: Black Coffee: That's Steve Marriot and Humble Pie and the Blackberries.

seattlepanda comments on Jul 24, 2018:

30 days! 30 days! 30 days!

Re-introduction: I was in this group a little while back.

seattlepanda comments on Jul 24, 2018:

Good, hi Marcie...

Could you have sex with someone you're not attracted to?

seattlepanda comments on Jul 24, 2018:

"attracted to" is somewhat broad...there are sexual people, and asexual people...we all make this distinction(consciously or not)...we(men) can have sex with any sexual person...

Maybe this is where some of us are going wring in our quest ;-) WARNING picture has swear words and...

seattlepanda comments on Jul 24, 2018:

haha!...

I am not stalking you, I am not even looking at your profile.

seattlepanda comments on Jul 24, 2018:

No problem with hovering or visiting. Nice to get to know people better here... :)