Well...after 9 years, my husband just broke up with me via text - the first day i was off on my annual mother-son road trip. Why would someone end a marriage via text?
That's extra pathetic. No matter what either of you have done, that's so sad, and lacks any type of backbone or character. If you did something he doesn't like, he should have sat you down and tried to work it out, and if you couldn't he should have sat down again and spoken with you. Text is just cowardly.
thank you for the reassurance/validation.
Sorry to hear, cowardly way to do it. I will share a story, will not make you feel better but shows some have no backbone. Back years ago my father would take my mother and her father and drop off at a mall. He shows up at my work one day with his boat in tow and tells me I have to go pick up my mother and grandfather. Tells me he is leaving and moving back to his home town. So I have to go and pick them up and tell my mother dad has left her. What a dick move.
that's terrible Mark! what a horrible position he put you in. that must have really harmed your relationship with him for some time. i hope your mom made it through that shock okay.
@Moominmama My mother weathered the ordeal well and you will too. Just hang in there and keep your head held high.
Afraid of confrontation. Still unexceptable. Should be face to face or at least over the phone.
thank you - yes, phone would have been so much better - nothing could make it a great chat but i would have really appreciated the consideration.
At least you know you are not the only one who got bad news via some other way then face to face. You are not alone. Take care of your self and son.