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Atheists men/women if your sister/brother/ wife/ husband/ daughter/ son/ any member of the family converted to Islam, will you respect their choice? and stay treating them the same? also, will you respect when they pray and wearing hijab etc...?

Greenheart 7 June 12
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Yes, of course. I respect the right to believe what you want. Especially family- you don’t stop loving someone because they differ from you. However if a member of my family voted Trump, I would have a huge issue with it. Double standards, I know. But Trumpism is far more dangerous than Islam, imo.

Livia Level 6 June 12, 2018

Lol...never thought that, until you brought it up! Agreed.

@Beach_slim if you are calling @Livia a psychopath, please remember that rules are based on morals.

As a New Zealander, I can't believe Americans voted Trump in, which has caused a loss of respect for America in countries around the world. Considering the racism that Trump inspires, I wouldn't be surprised if some Americans think that lynching is OK again.

@Kohelath You are very misinformed about Islam. Most Muslims live day to day doing stuff like we do. Watch TV, chat and argue with family, are glued to smartphones and like going to the mall. Not all Arabs are Muslim - you can find Arab Jews and Arab Christians. Not all majority Islamic countries chop off women’s heads - that is Saudi Arabia and does not represent Muslim views in general. Many white Muslims live in Europe, like in Serbia or Kosovo. They aren’t wondering around with ISIS flags - they are doing degrees, washing cars and going to nightclubs. Morocco has great nightlife. In fact most of the most liberal Islamic majority countries have been bombed to shit by America. Libya- women wore what they wanted and had top jobs in industry and government. Syria has a tyrant, but most people spent their time in bikinis on the beach, flicking through fashion magazines and drinking coffee. Iraq was SECULAR. Look it up! America has allowed Saudi fundamentalists to control their foreign policy and even define what Islam is. Why do I know this? I have been to these countries before they were bombed by the UK and USA!

@Kohelath, @Beach_slim New Zealanders are the least racist nation I know. They treat Māori with far more respect than America treats its FIRST peoples. Go and travel. Pick up a book. I live in America and see racism daily, it’s everywhere from whites calling up the police because blacks are enjoying a BBQ to police brutality. Where I live redlining in cities ensured backs lived in different neighborhoods to whites. America was built by whites using slaves, so please stop defending what’s real with BS!

@Beach_slim wow that was impressive defense of that moron Trump with a lot of stupid crap.

America is shown to be mostly racist and misogynistic. By virtue of having not Lynched that moron Trump yet.

Amercan HAS become a total joke to the world with that clown as your leader.

@Beach_slim I didn't see anyone comparing people who behead women to Trump. But I'd have to agree that the kind of uninformed and uneducated, blindly-following factionist voters who I think of when I see the word "Trumpism" is a more dangerous person to the peace and order of the world than are 99.9 percent of the world's Muslim population.

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I have a very good friend that believes aliens are demons here to corrupt us. I don't give a Damn what people choose to believe. If they are genuinely good people, they can worship deflated bicycle tires for all I care.

Really? So if someone is a good person but believes the Holocaust never happened, that's cool with you?

Not that he is anti-Semitic. Just that's what he believes.

Strange... people's beliefs are the most important thing to me.

That's pretty much how I determine if someone is good.

How do you do it???

@QuintKnickers
Where did the holocaust come into the discussion?

You have advanced passed the point of taking people apart...when they make a bicycle tire, their god! Lol

@QuintKnickers To be fair, I think he was referring to religious beliefs, as in worshiping deities. I don’t think he was saying he would have no issue with far right revisionist ideologies. I think most of us would have an issue with a member of our family donning the swastiker and being a sexist, racist, anti-Semitic, islamaphobic, transphobic misogynistic fuck wit. That’s being a shitty human being. They are instantly kicked out of the family- with their bicycle tire!

@Livia stupid is stupid, religion is an abdication of your personal responsibility to think for yourself.

It a response to fear of mortality.

It's always a strike against someone in my estimation.

@Livia, @Holysocks it didn't it was merely a point of comparison believing in the Bible is as ridiculous as believing the Holocaust never occurred

@QuintKnickers without judging you at all, just discussing the commment that you made about fear of mortality - I think it’s pretty normal to be scared of mortality. My mother is dying and is a staunch atheist, and I can see her fear, and it’s an intense fear. I don’t think religion is an abdication to think for oneself- C.S. Lewis was deeply religious but definitely had free thought, that wasn’t limited by his belief in god. There is a world of difference between nutters and idiots who take the Bible as the actual word of god, and those who analyze, question, and think about it, but they have a faith. I don’t think religious people are necessarily stupid, but they are rationalizing something irrational and holding on to a delusion. If it helps them get through their day, I have no problem with that. Everyone has their crutches- they have Jesus, I have prescription drugs!

@Livia how do you not see the contradiction in you statements?

You're basically being an apologist for stupidity and fear. I don't excuse that.

Fear of death might be normal but our acceptance of this stupidity has to stop.
The damage religion does is an abomination.

Please note I say religion NOT a belief in an afterllife or a "god" I have no problem with existential thought or beliefs.

So long as they're based in some sound reasoning. I've heard a few of those that make sense. I've yet to find a religion that does.

" those who analyze, question, and think about it"

if you do that and STILL believe it? you have to be an idiot.

"C.S. Lewis was deeply religious but definitely had free thought, that wasn’t limited by his belief in god"

Being clear headed about some things doesn't excuse stupidity in others... What a strange idea....

I'm sure people believing some people should be slaves didn't limit their thinking in other areas as well.
What's you point?

"If it helps them get through their day, I have no problem with that"

And intolerance, stupidity and bigotry is silently validate.

Sigh..... We need more anti-theists

@QuintKnickers My atheists beliefs don’t make me hate religious people. That would be bigoted. I just am tolerant to an extent to people’s faiths. I certainly want secularism, and dislike religion in public spaces. I don’t want to bulldoze churches etc. atheists are capable of dogma intolerance and bigotry too.

@Livia indeed atheists can be human but at least it's not institutionalized and they have to come up with such idiotic ideas on their own.

Tolerance of these ridiculous ideas has wrecked the world long enough I think it's time to stop being tolerant of them

I truly do find a baffling that we allow and are tolerant of this particular Insanity

I hate religion and the damage it's done. I dislike people that are stupid enough to believe in it.

I feel much the same way about any institution that preach hatred.

So I guess you find it bigoted to vehemently disagree with white nationalists agendas?

I feel the same way about them as I do religion for the exact same reasons.

And by your same logic you would have no problems disregarding that sort of thinking within an individual if they were otherwise a good person?

@Livia
This guy is bonkers.

@QuintKnickers
Misanthropy appears to play a large role in your discussion as do numerous false equivalencies.

@Holysocks He is also Now blocked from my view. Huzzah! He was carrying on during another thread being awful the other day too. Completely oblivious that his intolerance to tolerance makes him a bigot.
As for telling me I love white supremacy because I tolerate Christian individuals...that just went too far!

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I would have some very choice words if it came to that. I have no respect for Islam and would make it well known. Islam does not teach kindness towards atheists, which I would bring up first.

Hel71 Level 4 June 13, 2018
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I have a niece who has converted to Islam, I still love her and she still loves me; it makes no difference.

JayTea Level 6 June 13, 2018
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Sure. I have plenty of Muslim friends here in Thailand, as well as Hindus and Buddhists. The only people who hassle me are the Christians, who seem to think they should "convert" me. The moment they get religious on me, I distance myself from them and no longer hang with them or their friends.

Isn’t it crazy? I have been all over the world and have never been harassed by any other religious group.

So true!

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It would depend entirely on how they conducted themselves in relations to others, same as with christian or any organization.

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Its there life. They respect me and I will respect them. The only time we will have a issue is if they try to force me to join them.

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I would respect their choice and still may not like it! I cannot choose for even my own children, even when i prefer something differently! I would be calling out abuse or hurtful behavior, not their religious choice.

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I've never judge someone for what they believe, however I do reserve the right to judge people for how they practice their beliefs. Sometimes when people bring up Islam specifically there is that veiled sentiment of the culture of violence that some associate with it. That sentiment is not Universal to Islam by any means nor is it restricted to it. In short if my loved one finds satisfaction from practicing a faith and Me Faith more power to them, however if my love one find satisfaction and blowing up buildings beat abortion clinics or American embassies well then we have a problem.

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Yes, I would respect their choices and demonstrate this with my behavior.

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Of course, it's possible to respect the person without respecting the ideology.

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No. But you could ask the same question while changing the word Islam to Scientology, Mormonism, etc. and my answer would be the same.

Deb57 Level 8 June 13, 2018
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Of course I would. The same way I would respect someone in my family if they were gay or were a conservative or name any other thing that some people love to be at odds with or refuse to respect on it's face. As long as they don't give me reason to not respect them, but it would have less to do with them being Muslim or Christian or gay or whatever. It would have to do with how they treat other people. If they converted to Islam and then started talking about how they wanted to join Isis.........I might kill them myself lol

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It would be fine with me. However, the moment they started expecting me to change my life to accommodate or be like them, that's where I take issue. For example, if it was someone I lived with, I'm still going to have pork products in my home and cook and eat them.

Also, if it was someone other than my son, I would also expect them to not try and convert him either. He's only 6 and is too young to think critically about religion.

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I would respect them but I'd probably have a few interesting discussions with them about their choice. I suspect that religion, like depression or addiction, usually has some other things hiding behind it when it suddenly makes an appearance.

Denker Level 7 June 13, 2018
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yup. i can respectfully disagree with a person's beliefs about the supernatural.

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Would respect their choice but not treat them the same !

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As an atheist, it wouldn't matter what label you put on...I would respect their choice the same as if they put on a nun's habit...I don't agree, but, nothing would change the fundamental respect I would have for my family and friends...

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I wouldn't specifically enter into a dating relationship with someone new who is a religionist, but I could easily fall for the right person even if that person is a religionist. To me, I guess, it's all about the person.

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I have as many friends who are religious as those who aren't. I like them for who they are and I suppose, to some degree, their beliefs (or lack there of) have influenced their character. If a friend suddenly changed what they believed; found or switched religions, and it didn't change who they were, I may questions the change, but wouldn't automatically drop them.
If it changed them, if they started to act in an new way, or started to tout their new found religion, that might be a different story.
When an old friend of mine, who used to be a party girl, found religion, I supported her choice, even went to church with her, but when she started to act like she knew what was best for me, and it was to find Jesus, and said that she would pray for me... we drifted apart pretty quick. I can imagine that if it was Islam instead of Christianity, the situation might have been similar.
People make choices and it's not for me to tell them what's right for them.
But I also have the right to no longer spend time with someone with whom I no longer see eye to eye.

scurry Level 9 June 13, 2018
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Well of course in many ways the person you describe would be a very different person from the one I know. It follows that there are many ways it would be entirely appropriate to treat them differently. For example when speaking to a Muslim friend the other day I checked myself from mentioning my lunch plans as I knew he was fasting. One thing that remains the same is that they would always have my respect so long as they respected others. I would be interested in their choice and hope to discuss it but it's their choice.

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I'd think less of them like all other religious people in my life but I'd treat them the same until they started the spiel of all the recently converted to any religion.

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I would respect them less for a while. Islam is pretty easy to see through.

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It would be a bad example to treat theists the way they treat us.

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Ya I would, I have no trouble mocking the ones I love if they're being stupid.

Have done and will continue to do so.

It's how they know I care. ?

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