Atheists men/women if your sister/brother/ wife/ husband/ daughter/ son/ any member of the family converted to Islam, will you respect their choice? and stay treating them the same? also, will you respect when they pray and wearing hijab etc...?
Following islam is no different than following christianity.. there are radical muslims, and radical christians.. each book has ridiculous elements of violence... i would be no more/less inclined to tell my christian friends that their religious beliefs are flawed, than i would my muslim friends...
I would find out the switch , as it is not a white Irish thing to do traditionally . Then I would tease ,discuss , make fun , same as I do with whatever they were previously practicing . In my heart I would be sad tho , Islam is punished by society here in Jer Z , I wouldn't want them in extra danger .