So what is the main reason most of you are on here? General conversations or attempting to find like minds nearby to date?
Dating motivates everything, its a carrot on a stick...
Would like to find a like minded person for something more but interesting conversation is always welcome
In addition to online discussions, I would love to make some new irl, local friends for coffee and conversation.
Honestly this site really helps me just for communication with other folks as I've said numerous times I'm in a cast and trapped in this chair so this is pretty much one of my few contacts with the outside world not really concerned that much about
Dating
I decided to be a crazy cat person. Give up on a gf long ago
I think I found this as a dating site, but to me it's more of a atheist/agnostic community. I initially signed up hoping to find women close by that might be a match date-wise, but now have given up on that and actually more pleased with the conversations I have found. There are some bone heads on here, so I've learned that freedom from religious b.s. doesn't mean you are intelligent or insightful, but overall, there are a LOT of good people on here. I am honored to be here and being challenged in my views. Thanks to all for helping me to be a better person! Although, not sure that was a high bar to start with! LOL
Both actually. It's rare to find our kind of people just locally. I think that there are more of us but they stay quiet because of being judged. I have signed up for a few dating sites but just could not push that last "go" button. I could imagine meeting women and then finding out that we were far apart thinking wise. Just did not want to wade through all of them.
Anyone here hailing from Sunny San Diego besides me. Both